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Eren Elsewhere
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I make videos about self-improvement, health and writing. Create a balanced and successful life through ancient parables and modern stories.
why do you stress when life is really not that deep?
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you're not going to make it if you don't like it
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Unfair Advantage Questionnaire: erenmailer.gumroad.com/l/qmovyg Have you ever considered that your “flaws” might be your untapped unfair advantage? If you enjoy what you do, it’s not as hard to do it . Like, comment and subscribe...please! Subscribe to the weekly newsletter! erenelsewhere.substack.com
Why do you criticise and resist your natural self?
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Unfair Advantage Questionnaire: erenmailer.gumroad.com/l/qmovyg Have you ever considered that your “flaws” might be your untapped unfair advantage? You might hate being a people-pleaser, but your friends love your compassion. You might hate that you talk a lot, but other people love your confidence. You might hate being shy, but others love how peaceful time with you is. Just because you’re sel...
Don't let the little things get to you
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Keep your spirit the way it is, don't let them get to you! Like, comment and subscribe...please! Subscribe to the weekly newsletter! erenelsewhere.substack.com
Perfectionism is Stealing Your Joy
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How Being Gentle Makes You Strong
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You Should Fear an Average Life (Become a Rare Individual)
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Don't Settle For the Old You (Become The Greatest Version of Yourself)
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How to become a happy person
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My life's purpose is to share with you the philosophy and mindset lessons that have helped me live a more enjoyable and peaceful life. Subscribe for more :)
The Secret to Improving Your Life
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Your Unconscious Complaining is Ruining Your Life (Without You Realising It)
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On complaining, and how it is silently destroying your life. I'm Eren. I write about the intersection of mindset, philosophy, sport and career to foster a calmer and more successful life. I'm a 27yo Engineer from Australia creating books and workshops to help people like me become the best version of themselves.
Don't Waste Your Precious Time and Energy on the Wrong Path For YOU
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The Trait That Ruins Intelligent People's Lives
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You can't find your purpose because you're too focused on yourself
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Love the video brother, keep going 🙏
Thank you Waldo!
Life is deeper than you could ever possibly imagine. Until you traverse into the realm of psychedelics, you know less than nothing.
Yeah it's deep but our brain shouldn't be so anxious/stressed all the time. The mind should be able to see it simpler instead of making it so complex. It would be nice to do what you can and do it with peace, consciousness which will result in content for a long period of time.
Dude, thank you so much for this...I needed to hear this exact thing, at this exact moment 💚
same here! thanks man, life is an ant! better enjoy it
Thanks for this. I sometimes think of all the oceans in the world, all the creatures there right now. Zooms me out of my issues and my life.
Needed to hear this. Thank you
Great video, this helped me thank you. Keep making videos!🙂
I'm so happy to hear that. Thank you so much - I will.
Every single video seems to align with my current predicament knowingly or unknowingly this helps a lot man ! Thank you
I'm really glad you like them man. I'm so glad they help, and I appreciate you commenting and letting me know! Thanks again
Very interesting video
@@jonascesar1 thanks very much :)
Absolutely! Embracing our natural traits is key to unlocking real success. I used to think being a loud talker was a flaw, but over time, I realized it's what allows me to lead and connect with people. The Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x helped me see how my quirky communication style actually creates moments of laughter and builds rapport with others. Humor isn't about being perfect-it's about being genuine and embracing who you are. Keep leaning into your strengths-they're your true superpower!
Great video! This definitely would have been helpful when I was younger. I ended up learning this later on in life through trial and error.
@edgarcarr6346 I'm glad you liked it! haha same for me. gotta go through it to figure it out :)
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This video had a huge impact on my self esteem and perfectionism. Really appreciate these profound words at this moment in my life. Being a cracked pot is a fine thing.
I'm so glad it helped you Laura. Absolutely. More than fine. Being a cracked pot is your strength :) Thank you for watching and commenting.
This is awesome, this is a really good philosophy for staying true to yourself while choosing self improvement
I'm so glad you liked it. Thanks so much for watching and commenting. It means a lot to me.
Holy shit, thank you. I’ve spent all my life doubting, not anymore
No, thank you! I started making these videos thinking nobody was watching - to hear it's going to help you stop doubting yourself is a dream come true for me. Don't doubt who you are. I did that and it just made me feel terrible. Embrace yourself. Some people won't like you, some will. That's how it should be! I don't trust anyone who is liked by everyone :) Thanks again for your amazing comment x
Some of the best most needed wisdom. You are very well spoken. Great video dude…Earned my sub and respect.
Thanks so much man. I really appreciate that. I'm still working on being a better speaker so thanks again. Glad to have you in the team - keen to keep hearing from you!
Good video bro
Thanks bro. Thanks for watching and commenting - means a lot
These words are wise. The real answer: my "natural self" is *awful* at being employed and being a good worker. My survival is reliant on this. It is difficult.
Thanks for the kind words. I would argue you just haven't completely unlocked your natural self. There is a career that exists out there that you'll thrive in. Even if you have to create it. Keep searching man, it's there.
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Woah that's crazy man I never thought of it like that very cool🤝
I'm glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching and commenting :)
There’s a pacifying feeling while watching these videos … keep it going mate !
Thank you so much for your support mate. It really means a lot to see you in the comments each time.
Great video man. I needed this.
I'm glad it resonated with you man. Thank for the kind words. Whatever you're going through, stay YOU. Thanks again.
This, after a 4 years relo hits different. Thanks, eren. Really valuable video.
I'm so glad to hear it helped. Best of luck navigating this tough time. Remember to stay true to yourself, especially in these difficult positions. Thanks for watching. Wish you the best.
The cat and mice anecdote was profound , loving the regular uploads !
Thanks man! Another week, another comment from you. Much appreciated mate. It's people like you who keep me inspired to keep going :) Thanks again.
Love the setup Eren!
Thanks Stefano! Great to see you here brother :)
Another banger !
thank you brother! I really appreciate your support
I’m not sure how I found this channel but the wording and message is profound … thank you
I'm not sure either but I'm glad you did. Thank you for watching. Many more to come :)
@@erenelsewhere can’t wait !
great speech, you explained this topic perfectly!
Thank you so much :)
The otherworldly joy of change, there are times when we can either be afraid of change or eagerly desire it, as if it’s out of our control. This video is a reminder that we can control our change! Very good words here, thank you
Thank you so much. I genuinely believe that everything in our future is up to us. Be willing to change and you'll start to love yourself more!
Great video
Thanks so much brother.
great video! i realized recently that i have a really negative mindset. don't know where it came from, but i've been trying to change my way of thinking. and the best way, in my opinion, is to just be consistent. it doesn't happen with the flip of a switch, but if you work over every mean or negative thought in your mind, you can change the way you respond to things.
Thank you! Well to be honest, the most important part is realising. I can tell you for sure you'll overcome your negative mindset because of your self-awareness. The key for me is to notice when I'm being negative, and try to explain WHY that is. What is it that's making me negative? Over time you'll see that simply noticing it and digging into the reason will be enough for your subconscious to slowly make a change. Thank you for commenting and I'm really glad this could add value! Don't hesitate to reach out if you need anything :)
nice one
Thanks man!
Great reflection man. Keep it up.
Thank you so much. Means a lot :)
Another great video. Lots of helpful analogies and metaphors! Love the Alan Watts quote brother, keep it up
thanks Isak. Much appreciated brother
Your dad is a wise man for sure. "vidayi zorlama! Don't force the screw!" Brilliant Mate!
thank you Serdar!!
I think you are misinterpreting smart for intelligent. I would say there are 4 things, as opposed to your 3: Dumb, Smart, Intelligent and Wise. A dumb man can be smart and wise. Wiseness comes from experience. Being smart is knowing how to navigate difficult paths and get away from situations, this can include social skills that can take you high in any market without necessarily deeply understanding every aspect of it. There are countless examples of people that are not the brightest in terms of problem solving and logical thinking, but are extremely good at managing people and navigating their way through society. Intelligence is what you would call IQ, that's what you are born with, that indicates how easy you will undertands topics. Any knowledge can be acquired, and a dumb man can be mistaken by an intelligent one by his hard worked knowledge, but those are different things. At the same time, an intelligent man can be extremely naive for thinking he already knows everything and end up stopping to seek further knowledge. Being smart is a skillset separate from these categories. A smart man without knowledge can also fool you to think he is intelligent or wise. Lets put it this way: There is a path of rocks. The smart man can go around the rocks to get to the other side, gracefully dodging them by being quick to respond to adversity. The intelligent man will get those rocks out of the way because he understands the problem and can rationalize it. The dumb man will look and the rocks and cry, not knowing what to do. The wise man will have come across that path many times, and knows how to dodge it, but will choose to remove the stones so that he or anyone else after him doesn't have to suffer to that anymore.
Interesting take man. I see what you mean with replacing smart with intelligence, it makes sense to me. Maybe dumb and intelligent are on the same scale, and then smart and wise are two completely different concepts. Because I agree, smarts is applicable intelligence, and wisdom is experience and caution. Thanks for the thoughtful comment. I appreciate the challenge and you definitely got me thinking.
Subbed and liked mate. Good to see you on TH-cam now! :)
Thanks mate! Really appreciate your support.
I am fascinated but far from surprised that the only person I know other than myself who’s thinking about this exact thing is you Eren. Love the diagram. Rumi is beyond awesome. Thank you for helping me to further crystallise this my friend. This goes to the absolute core of rationality. The whole concept is the opposite of myopic mate, great vid
Thank you so much bro. Love to hear you're also thinking of this. Yeah agreed, need to be rational and slow to avoid any unecessary risk.
“And I beseech you to treasure up in your hearts these my parting words: Be ashamed to die until you have won some victory for humanity.” - Horace Mann Great video from a genuinely great lad🙏🏽
Lovely quote. And thanks for commenting brother!
I love this way of thinking about it, because it simplifies the idea of "finding a meaningful job". At the end of the day, what we truly desire is nothing but to find a way to contribute to the world and help others, that's what a meaningful job is. Also, great video my man! You've already got the great ideas, and with some practice, you're soon gonna be crushing it here on TH-cam!
That's exactly right man. I struggled with that vague advice for so long until I figured out to just help others. Thanks so much Nihad. Thanks for the kind words and for taking the time to comment.