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Dr David Hooper
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 2 พ.ค. 2016
I’m not your typical coach-and I bet you’re not either.
For years, I struggled to grow my business. Not because I lacked skill or passion, but because, like many introverts, I was told I had to show up in draining ways-constant self-promotion, relentless networking, and chasing leads. It all felt fake and exhausting.
If you're an introverted coach, you’ve probably felt this too-dreading social media, wondering if success is only for those who constantly “sell themselves.” I was there too. My introversion felt like a barrier, but it wasn’t me; it was the system.
When I embraced AI automation, everything changed.
Now, I help introverted coaches thrive by automating AI lead generation-without exhausting outreach. Let’s build a business that aligns with who you are.
Contact me @DrDavidHooper or email: enquiries@lunarla.co.uk.
Disclaimer: Views expressed by guests on this podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host. Listener discretion is advised.
For years, I struggled to grow my business. Not because I lacked skill or passion, but because, like many introverts, I was told I had to show up in draining ways-constant self-promotion, relentless networking, and chasing leads. It all felt fake and exhausting.
If you're an introverted coach, you’ve probably felt this too-dreading social media, wondering if success is only for those who constantly “sell themselves.” I was there too. My introversion felt like a barrier, but it wasn’t me; it was the system.
When I embraced AI automation, everything changed.
Now, I help introverted coaches thrive by automating AI lead generation-without exhausting outreach. Let’s build a business that aligns with who you are.
Contact me @DrDavidHooper or email: enquiries@lunarla.co.uk.
Disclaimer: Views expressed by guests on this podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host. Listener discretion is advised.
EP52 An Introverts Guide to Thriving with Sarah Manley
In this episode, I sit down with Sarah Manley, a seasoned professional and coach who runs The Quiet Catalyst.
Sarah is a seasoned professional with two decades of international experience in prominent corporate organisations across the UK and the Netherlands, brings a wealth of expertise to her role as a life and career coach, consultant, and Amazon #1 best-selling author. We delve into what it means to be unstoppable as an introvert and how introverts can thrive in the workplace.
Sarah highlights the importance of passion, expertise, confidence, and good energy in unleashing the unstoppable force within introverts. She shares practical tips for navigating the corporate world, such as starting with strengths, finding allies, and creating space to contribute in meetings.
Sarah also offers insights on networking as an introvert, including relaxation and breathing techniques to manage anxiety. She discusses the power of curiosity and choice in both in-person and online networking.
Sarah emphasises recognising and amplifying introverted strengths rather than conforming to extroverted norms.
Follow Sarah:
Instagram: @thequietcatalyst
Linked In: @sarahmanleytqc
www.thequietcatalyst.com
Takeaways
• Passion and expertise are key in unleashing the unstoppable force within introverts.
• Confidence and good energy are important for introverts to thrive in the workplace.
• Introverts should start with their strengths, find allies, and create space to contribute in meetings.
• Physical cues, such as sitting in a relaxed position and focusing on breathing, can help introverts feel more comfortable and confident in social situations. Relaxation and breathing techniques can help introverts manage anxiety in networking situations.
• Approach networking with curiosity and view it as a conversation with a purpose.
• Introverts can thrive in networking by recognizing and amplifying their strengths.
• Online networking can be easier for introverts, but it's important to be choiceful about where you choose to engage.
Chapters
01:07 - What Does Being Unstoppable Look Like for Introverts?
04:10- Passion and Expertise: Unlocking the Unstoppable Force
07:00 - Confidence and Good Energy: The Basis of Everything
16:19 - Embracing Introversion in the Workplace
21:52 - Practical Tips for Introverts in the Corporate World
28:29 - Managing Networking Anxiety as an Introvert
29:39 - Approaching Networking with Curiosity and Purpose
32:58 - Navigating Online Networking as an Introvert
38:07 - Amplifying Introverts' Strengths in Networking
48:07 - The Power of 'Quietly Visible': A Guide for Introverts in Business
Sarah is a seasoned professional with two decades of international experience in prominent corporate organisations across the UK and the Netherlands, brings a wealth of expertise to her role as a life and career coach, consultant, and Amazon #1 best-selling author. We delve into what it means to be unstoppable as an introvert and how introverts can thrive in the workplace.
Sarah highlights the importance of passion, expertise, confidence, and good energy in unleashing the unstoppable force within introverts. She shares practical tips for navigating the corporate world, such as starting with strengths, finding allies, and creating space to contribute in meetings.
Sarah also offers insights on networking as an introvert, including relaxation and breathing techniques to manage anxiety. She discusses the power of curiosity and choice in both in-person and online networking.
Sarah emphasises recognising and amplifying introverted strengths rather than conforming to extroverted norms.
Follow Sarah:
Instagram: @thequietcatalyst
Linked In: @sarahmanleytqc
www.thequietcatalyst.com
Takeaways
• Passion and expertise are key in unleashing the unstoppable force within introverts.
• Confidence and good energy are important for introverts to thrive in the workplace.
• Introverts should start with their strengths, find allies, and create space to contribute in meetings.
• Physical cues, such as sitting in a relaxed position and focusing on breathing, can help introverts feel more comfortable and confident in social situations. Relaxation and breathing techniques can help introverts manage anxiety in networking situations.
• Approach networking with curiosity and view it as a conversation with a purpose.
• Introverts can thrive in networking by recognizing and amplifying their strengths.
• Online networking can be easier for introverts, but it's important to be choiceful about where you choose to engage.
Chapters
01:07 - What Does Being Unstoppable Look Like for Introverts?
04:10- Passion and Expertise: Unlocking the Unstoppable Force
07:00 - Confidence and Good Energy: The Basis of Everything
16:19 - Embracing Introversion in the Workplace
21:52 - Practical Tips for Introverts in the Corporate World
28:29 - Managing Networking Anxiety as an Introvert
29:39 - Approaching Networking with Curiosity and Purpose
32:58 - Navigating Online Networking as an Introvert
38:07 - Amplifying Introverts' Strengths in Networking
48:07 - The Power of 'Quietly Visible': A Guide for Introverts in Business
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When's the next episode dropping bro?
So important to have your own boundaries in place. Early on in my business journey I said yes too much and ended up burnt out. But now priorities my own well being
Another great conversation. Thanks for sharing your journey James
Thanks for listening, Ollie!
So inspiring. Thanks for sharing your journey Laura
I am so glad you enjoyed it, Ollie! Really means alot
Great points mate. Do what works for you and your life
Couldn't agree more, Ollie!
I’ve followed James for a while and it’s been great to hear more about his journey. What a episode 🙌🏼
So glad you enjoyed it mate!
Does it help with anxiety?
Hey. I have found that cold therapy can induce feelings of calmness, happiness, and general well-being, which can help reduce symptoms associated with mental health conditions such as depression and anxiety. So far so good from what I can tell.
The legend that is Rob Sanders. Great to hear Robs story in depth 👍
I suppose he is alright!!!
@@drdavidhooper 😂
I lost 80 pounds too! Last time I bet on England to win.
Haha! Love this comment!!
Wise words as always mate. I always say have people in your life who bring you up not people who bring you down
So important mate and such a waste of energy on those who bring you down!
Congratulations, David. But I felt while listening that your advice is aimed at young and, apart from being overweight, essentially fit (and male) people, It's not quite so easy for a seventy year old who has been steadily gaining weight for 20 years since the menopause to do all the things you describe. BUt I am very pleased for you..
Thanks for the comment. Firstly, this isn’t advice as I don’t work in health and fitness any more. It’s simply my story. Secondly, anyone can do this no matter the age or gender. Simply be in a calorie deficit (use a calorie calculator online to figure this out), eat around 0.8-1g of protein per lb of your ideal body weight per day and lastly move more. If 10,000 steps a day is too much aim for 5000. If you can’t walk well go to a gym and use the stationary bike. It’s never too late to make a change!
@@drdavidhooper Thank you for answering. Yes, advice was definitely the wrong word. I do my best (I have arthritis) to keep moving and to eat well, and, like you, have a dog to help by demanding walks every day. I hope yours got hers😆
@@catgladwell5684 That sounds good, Cat! Thats the key - eating well (but not too much!) and to be as active as you can (without being uncomfortable or risking injury). Haha that is definitely the case! What type of dog do you have?
@@drdavidhooper a German wirehaired pointer, and he's an overbred headcase by and large, but very lovable. We are lucky enough to live in North Wales and he loves the sea and the hills. He gets plenty of exercise, but it's not always me who takes him out. Yours sounded like a smaller dog - a terrier perhaps?
@@catgladwell5684 Your dog sounds gorgeous! And North Wales is such a beautiful spot. My wife and I had a holiday in central Wales in March and absolutely loved the beautiful countryside. I actually have a German Shepherd. She is a big girl but very cuddly!
Love this mate. Thanks for sharing
My pleasure! Keep smashing it Ollie!
@@drdavidhooper will do Dave. Thanks mate
Doesnt matter balance is still achiveable its just you all let the world bend you over and kick you about we control our own free will open your mind
The point is balance isn't achievable. It is ever changing and messy. Instead of searching for balance, simply integrate all areas of your life and success becomes a lot more achievable.
Dr. David, your breakdown of the STAR method and its impact on concise communication was enlightening! Your tips on non-verbal cues and emotional intelligence are truly valuable for introverts. I've sent you a DM on Instagram to connect further. Keep up the great work!
So glad you found it useful! Have a great day!
Vegeta
Wow another powerful solo episode mate. Wise words as always my man
Thank you Ollie! Keep crushing it!!
@@drdavidhooper thanks matey
Interesting topic, been using AI for the past 5 months and it surprises me a lot. Be mindful of where the data is stored and accessible by, since it is learning...
Great to hear you are using AI! What are you currently using it for?
@@drdavidhoopertrending and analysis of large data, meeting transcript summaries and action taking with owners mostly, can probably use it for much more
@@Chr_1329 ah that's superb mate. Love that. I hope it is making your life easier!
Wise words as always mate
Always appreciate you, Ollie!
looking internally is necessary for growth, but external factors are just as important, like what you said-- the people we surround ourselves with.
Couldn't agree more!
This is a wonderful explanation of how that feels. How you guys manage it?
So glad you found it useful! It certainly is hard, but you can achieve anything you want too!
Taking a step back and taking a break is so important. Schedule time in your diary to do things for yourself can really help too
100% agree, Ollie!
We don't have a purpose...
Great to hear from someone young who is so self aware. Thanks for sharing your journey Leila
Couldn't agree more mate
This helped me, thank you!
I'm so glad! Thank you!
Another inspiring episode. Thanks for sharing your journey Jb
Glad you enjoyed it!
So refreshing to hear such honesty from someone young and who isn’t afraid to be vulnerable
Couldn't agree more, Ollie!
How she editing it
Wow what a journey. Thanks for sharing Jo
So glad you enjoyed it, Ollie!
What a journey and so inspiring. What a guy Adam and thanks for sharing
Glad you enjoyed it Ollie!
Wise words as always mate
Yes sir!!
Wow another inspiring episode. Thanks for sharing your journey Kieran
Really appreciate that, Ollie!
Another powerful episode mate. My breakthrough moment was when I was treated badly in my old job. That gave me the push to start my own business
And what a great move that was!
@@drdavidhooper thanks mate
Very informative and will be taking some of these tips on board! X
So glad it was helpful!
This is a Great message. I personally am working on my acceptance of others not being or thinking the same as me
I really appreciate the comment!
Im introvert and a misanthrope Its a win win for me
I'm glad this was helpful!
I appreciate your content
Thank you!
Thanks for having me on mate
It was my pleasure, Ollie!
Loved this. So powerful mate
Lets go mate!
@@drdavidhooper yes sir!
Best way to improve public speaking is to do them often. Imagining people clapping and everything is cool, but once the speaking starts and everyone has an uninterested face then you start panicking. You just have to have enough prior experience dealing with various situations.
Thanks for sharing your perspective. It's true, public speaking can be daunting, especially when faced with an uninterested audience. While practice is essential, it's also crucial to adapt and engage effectively. Remember, each critique is an opportunity for growth.
@@drdavidhooper True :)
Great episode. Keep doing what you’re doing Happie
Great comment, Ollie! Lets go!
Blah, Blah, Blah... give me some money for more of the same....
I’m not selling anything… 🥸
@@drdavidhooper Of course you're not... Self improvement is an enormous market, particularly in the States. It's the same type of rubbish religions sell.... “you are special” “God has chosen you” “He loves you” “you are unique” “you have talent or god created you with talent”... The worlds oldest scam my friend! By collecting fans or subscribers one makes money.... true???
Pumped! So motivating mate
Awesome! Thank you!
Woo hoo!
You were such an amazing guest!
Powerful episode mate
Glad you enjoyed it, Ollie!
Where is the evidence to support the correlation between morbid obesity and neglecting one’s environment? I also understand what you’re saying about little changes in your daily routine, e.g. making your bed, tidying your desk can change your mind set but that is easier said than done particularly with depression. It’s far more complex than that so it would be helpful to understand how a person finds the motivation to make those little changes, rather than advising to just do it.
Hey! It’s completely from experience. I was morbidly obese and clinically depressed and started with changing my environment which then led to a complete transformation in my values and beliefs. I used DILTs 6 levels of neurological changes, which is the framework. It’s not easy but once you start to make small changes (like your environment), that will lead to bigger changes such as losing weight or overcoming depression.
Your video is truly amazing.
You are so kind to say!
Thanks, but not helpful for me. If it's training or public speaking, visit the venue prior to the day of your presentation. Know where every light switch is, and the remote controls for the airconditioning. Learn how to work the sound system. - How do you turn the elevator music off? Is there a lecturn? Where is it? What does it look like? - Who has the keys to the storage area where it's kept? Where do you put your laptop for the powerpoint presentation? Where are the powerpoints? The projector? Pull the screen down. - Prior to your lecture, study your material over, and over, and over - until you know your stuff inside out, upside down, and right way up. The information is the reason people are coming - not to see you. - If you truly know your stuff, the battle is half over before you even show up. As your guests arrive, go and talk to them in small groups - before the room becomes one large group. Welcome them. Have a laugh. - That way, before you even begin to speak, you've formed a rapport with your audience. - Get the message across. Change your pitch, volume and tempo. - You'll be fine! - Most other challenges in life are a variation on this, however the principles remain. - Job interviews are relatively similar.
Hi Keith. When looking to make long lasting change one of the ways is through the 6 level of neurological change (Dilts). What you are describing is certainly useful when it comes to getting a handle on fear in the first instance. The first level of Dilt's model is changing environment - which is what a lot of your questions/suggestions relate too. However, this change is not long lasting but may help nerves in the short term. My comments and questions relate to the higher levels of change found when you begin to examine your beliefs, value, identity, purpose and vision for your life. When you start to make changes at these higher levels then change is more lasting, and sometime permanent with constant focus. Have a great day!
@@drdavidhooper - We'll agree to disagree. - As I said, thanks, but not helpful for me. I have overcome my fear of heights by climbing a 200 foot tree, and becoming a glider pilot. I overcame my fear of bullying and assault by becoming a martial artist. - I overcame my fear of public speaking by becoming a trainer of pilots and flight attendants in the airline industry. - I know what I' m talking about. Have a nice day.
@@KeithHays-ek4vrhave a great day, Keith! The things you’re doing sound great!
Powerful pointers right there
I appreciate you, Ollie!
🎉❤❤
Thanks!
Love this mate 💪🏼
Thank you 🙌