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Excuse me, you wanna do WHAT?

I'd just go and stay silent

Jesus tap dancing Christ what kind of virtue signaling Tom fuckery is this

You need to take my wife with you as your plus one she's completely deaf but doesn't know sign language lol

Tell the fiancee what your sister is doing. I doubt he knows and will think it's just as stupid as you think it is.

OP would only be ableist if he went to a deaf wedding and said all this. What sense does it make to have a silent wedding and for everyone to learn ASL if neither you nor anyone else is deaf? Also... who wants to bet money that she won't learn ASL for real and just learn the "I do's" and how to copy the officiant?

I would bring pen and paper

Good for you. Fuck her bullshit. Or you could just go as a deaf mute. Lol. 🤷🏻‍♂️

As a deaf person, this is stupid 😂

If your fiance or his family, or your family has the condition, be all colusive as you want. Otherwise don't do it

ur not ableist if anything ur sister is bc she faking being inclusive i bet she wouldn't do this if there actually was a deaf person there

I would understand if a large portion of either family was deaf, or the officiant was deaf or something, but no one is deaf? Who is she being inclusive for???? Should you also bring a blindfold and learn braille for the blind community, even though no one attending is blind????

Just learn only curse words and say you did your best to learn it

A silent wedding is actually exclusive to blind people who have no f****** clue what's going on. Not very inclusive after all I guess

Cool idea tho