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Why, thank u for subscribing Emilyyyy💕. I appreciate u watching gorgeous🥰💋🫂x

I’m always blessed mama🥰, thank u for checking in!!💖. You’d been on my mind often, I’d just hope you’re okay. I assumed you were busy with work or something, aha xx Thank u for coming back to watch! (& you’re the wise one sweetie🥰♥️.) It’s such a blessing having u here. You always give such great insight in the comments. I LURVE UUU💋👩🏾‍🤝‍👩🏽. I pray you’ve been good too!! You know I always wish u well❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️xox

@ I love you, too, sister! Your words are powerful and anointed. You continue on this journey and continue to do God’s work because you have an extraordinary life ahead of you. And I am just so thankful to know you because even though we have never met, face to face, your heart tells me everything that I need to know. And I love who you are! ❤️ And girl, I need to do some Bible studying with you. Maybe a zoom call in the near future if you are up for it? I’m so glad to know you are well! I have been working and just trying to figure out how to pivot out of one job field and into another. But God is keeping his hands on me.

Wow, my sister you’re too kind!😭❤️❤️❤️. I appreciate u so soo much💕👯‍♀️🌍🫂x 8,000!!! Hallelujah, you’re BLESSEDD👏🤩. Here, take this..👑 Don’t mind any unsupportive family members, even the bible warns “a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.” - *Matthew 10:36* just pray for them🙏. (I’ll also pray for u, that God will protect ur beautiful gift from all adversaries.) In scripture, we see that Christ was also rejected by his own people (siblings + many of the Jews.) & if they did that to God Himself, then who are we, you know?🤷🏾‍♀️🤍 I feel you on strangers giving u their time, it really is the highest honour🥹. Ouf yes! That’s why I’ve told myself, when I finally do reach my TH-cam success, (because I know how financially lucrative it can be.) I’ll have to be VERY vigilant in how I move/operate. You know they say, ‘never tell people (especially family) how much money you make’ for a reason - you’ll end up the designated ATM. & because of the close proximity to you, some may even end up feeling ENTITLED to your God-given blessings🥴. Like you, I too don’t mind sharing my blessings, (I actually LOVE giving - it’s how I show my love.) But where the problem arises, is when I sense I’m being taken advantage of/used. You could give to people 1,000X & the ONE time you say “no,” suddenly you’re the bad guy and they catch amnesia from all the previous times you’ve helped. I’m really bad at setting boundaries, so God will need to help me with it😅.

@ Thank you, Queen 😊 It has taking time and dedication to achieve an audience of that amount. I’ve be writing online since January 2022. So, I am so thankful for people seeing the value in my content. And boundaries are so important-especially with family. And I’m the same way; I love to give, but I didn’t really know that some people were taking my kindness for a weakness until someone else called it out. I want to be able to bless people, but know the difference between when someone is appreciative and when someone feels that I’m obligated to do something for them. Ironically, I usually wait for God to tell me what I need to do for someone else now. That way I know that I’m not taken for granted.

Yes!!! I agree on letting God move me, when it comes to giving to people now. Giving to the wrong person can also be risky. There’s been times I’ve felt conviction to hold back, when I wanted to bless certain individuals. Like they’d do something faulty, with what I give them. It’s crazy out here😅.

Hey sis! In the vid, when I mentioned people with the gift of writing, I was actually thinking of u. As, I remember u mentioning you have a blog, a while back. I fully considered putting “I see you Nichol🥰” in small text, somewhere in the video. As an inside reference only you’d get, regarding the writing talent. Now I wish I did, loool xxx Would u be able to link ur blog as a reply here? So the people who may come across this video in the future, can easily check it out 💟. You’re doing the right thing, holding us ALL accountable! As oftentimes, it can turn into a gender war. When in actuality, we’re all guilty x Ahh yess, I totally get what u mean! People that try police ur gift as if they’re God are the worst. They really believe they’re Jesus’ ambassadors. It’s amusing how people can convince themselves you’re using your gifts in the ‘wrong’ way. Whole time, little do they know, God had called u to do it exactly the way you’ve been doing it🤷🏾‍♀️. Church ‘tradition’ kills dreams. People are too religious & will try shame u. Even in the bible, the Pharisees (our modern day religious folk,) didn’t like how Jesus Himself did things. E.g. healing on the sabbath ( *Luke 13:10-17* ) So u really can’t win with some people. Just remember, salvation is about relationship > religion. So, if u know God has personally called u to something, GO FOR IT❣️💓 YES! Our gifts are NOT for everyone!! There’s specific souls, God would have aligned, to be touched by our gifts. They’re all who matter. So, forget all the outside noise.. they need to seek inner healing & peace🕊️✨.

@ Awww you are too sweet! 😊 Girl, you are just a blessing to me because I know God is speaking through you. And I’m so thankful he uses you as a vessel because your heart really shows when you speak. ❤️ Thank you so much for using your platform to bless others. I will link my blog as a separate message from this one. I appreciate this, Maria! You are too kind! And thank you for your encouraging words! You are definitely right! Our connection with God is a personal one and if people start to realize that church doesn’t define who we are or what God calls us to do, more people would love more happier and more peaceful lives because they would be focus on their purpose and not worried about how others live their lives.

Omdssss… NICHOLLLL?!? Is it really u, my sisterr😭😭😭🫂🫂🫂🫂. I’ve MISSED UUUU!💕❤️❤️❤️❤️ (was tempted to even comment on ur channel & ask when you’ll start uploading on TH-cam again, hehehe xxx) You know what, you’re right! I do think we’ve all, to an extent, been conditioned to be somewhat materialistic. Like it’s really money above all else now. Sameeeee! Knowing the so called ‘friends’ around you, really ain’t it but would settle for the sake of having someone there, instead of being alone.. Wow, are we the same person?!🤣🧍🏾‍♀️. Cause I’ve had the EXACT same thought!!! I used to desire having a big friendship group, but as I’ve matured, only really want that ONE close friend/bestie/sister now.. Friendships are WORK, just like being in a romantic relationship. & I’d honestly be drained, trying to pour into too many people x

@ yes ma’am! It’s me! 😊 How’s my beautiful sister doing in this new year?! And girl, I have only recorded like 4 videos. I’m not sure what direction I want to take the channel. I don’t feel like my life has much going on because I work a lot and just feel somewhat drained after completing my daily obligations. But I’m so happy to know that you are still going strong! I am going to make sure I catch up on your videos! You have some great and thought-provoking insight about life and I love that you are staying true to yourself on this journey. And yes! We live in a capitalistic society where people are used and money is the ultimate goal of life. We should be loving each other instead of allowing the system to make us feel less than money. I know we need money to survive, but it’s not just money that makes us overlook people and human interactions, it’s also how technology has become more of a friend to us than any human.

I’m doing great, my loveee💕. Still can’t believe we’re in 2025 tho, lol🧍🏾‍♀️. Like, where did the last year go?!😭. Nah, I feel u sis. I really do. I believe the beginning stages of TH-cam (before u properly ‘blow up’) are all about trial & error really. Just experiment with different content: story-times, life advice, mukbangs, challenges, skits etc... and see what sticks. You feeling drained after work, immediately reminded me of a video. “never going back to a 9-5 job i hate it” by ‘Dough Dash’ on TH-cam: th-cam.com/video/3ABYOHMU1Ys/w-d-xo.htmlsi=719MSRCYGwoy3J-n ^You should watch it, if you haven’t already. She literally just sat in her car, talking about all the things she’s been through, working various jobs. The video blew up, exploding her channel. I say this to say, *many more people will be able to relate to your story, than you realise.* Shortly after that video, she monetised her channel. (& she’s very transparent about how much she makes: th-cam.com/video/1lICrU0Meng/w-d-xo.htmlfeature=shared) I suggest, one day after work, just set up a camera (could even be your phone) and pour your heart out. Everything you’ve shared here, put in the video. - How u feel ur life doesn’t have much going on, due to excessive work. Consequently, being left drained etc... Vulnerability is beautiful and people are seeking such authenticity online. It’ll move hearts and you’ll draw many who understand your plight. You posting as consistently as u can on TH-cam, will eventually afford you the blessing of cutting back some hours from work (because you’ll be monetised.) & u can focus more on your blog. Until, it becomes your full-time living - doing what you love. As, ✨ *Best-Selling Author T. Nichol* ✨ Here’s another video I recommend u watch (& read the comments) : th-cam.com/video/YQLVWficcwc/w-d-xo.htmlfeature=shared & yup ur right! I do believe that’s the systems ultimate goal, for technology to take over. Everything’s digital now. For instance, I don’t remember the last time I used cash to pay for something. Especially, after what happened in 2020. We’re being gr00med for the beast system.

Ahhh, love u boo🥰😘💋💖. (Ty! Xxx)

HEY PORTIA (missed u❤️) & yh, ur totally right! These bills need to be paid somehow, loool xx

Wait, really? I’ve never been told that before hehehe❤️. I’m Ugandan but would LOVE to tour Southern Africa, one day🤩🫂x

I’ve never dated & even I feel exhausted, just from the stories I’ve heard😩. But all hope is not lost x

Ahhh, I’m glad u noticed it boo!💕 Hehehe. THANK U!💋😘😍🫶🏾xo

Hello love, thank you so much for your kind words❤️❤️❤️. & yes, she is. God bless u too x

Thank u Lyndon, I appreciate u🥹❤️xo

@MariaMulokole your,welcome

Why, thank u, honey!🥰😘💋x

Hope you’ve been well, lovely!💕❤️x

@@MariaMulokole same to you sweetheart!!

Why, thank u, bestie!🥰❤️. (I really do appreciate all ur support, ur the BEST💕x)

Hey Keiro!❤️ You’re more than welcome, my friend🫂. Thank you for watching & may God bless you too xxx

& thank you for watching!!🥰❤️💕

There’s always gonna be the bunch, that make it bad for everybody else😭. Thank u for watching n commenting mamas x

Hey beauty💖. I completely agree. I still have a lot of things internally, that need to be dealt with, before I even entertain the thought of a relationship. & YUP, nooo apps!🙅🏾‍♀️ - Ahaha, I just personally, prefer real life encounters:) Thank u for this comment sis, God bless u💋x

Hey Mary🥰❤️. No, I TOTALLY agree!! It’s the deception indeed..🤦🏾‍♀️ & I feel u on the regrets, but hey, we live and we learn. Experience is the best teacher:) Mini story-time (lol) : I remember, a random guy added me on Snapchat once, and after minor small talk, abruptly tried calling me on the app.. (I didn’t pick ofc.) Then he just left a voice note like “I just wanna f u badly” like WHAT?!??? That was/is sooo wild & disrespectful to me. I’ve never heard anyone speak so loosely🥴. But in hindsight, I respect that he revealed his true hearts intentions🤷🏾‍♀️. (I immediately blocked him.) I get u, it’s either I end up with a set apart, Godly man, or I remain single my whole life. I’m not willing to lower my standards anymore, just to have a man there. Thank u for interacting in the comments & even opening up about ur own experiences. Vulnerability is beautiful🥹. Whether you do or don’t end up dating again, just know God’s got u & you’ll be blessed regardless hun💋🫂x

I agree completely i was lied to and deceived. So thats why I remain celibate and single. Trust is important in any relationship. I don't want to be in a relationship anymore. But I will of course support those that do and its healthy.

Hey lovely! I’m sorry to hear, u were deceived.. I know the feeling & it SUCKS!☹️. As much as I advocate for marriage. I also believe, there’s blessing for those who choose a lifestyle of celibacy/remaining single = ✨no distractions + undisturbed peace.✨ Not sure of ur beliefs, but there are scriptures in The Bible, that speak actively FOR remaining single🌺. (Given, u have the self-control, not to indulge in sexual temptations e.g. fornication.) - *1 Corinthians 7* Those that can remain single in that regard, are seen as having a gift. The gift of singleness that is, aha. But of course, God gifts everybody differently xx Be blessed mama, I pray for the best outcome for u💕🫂

What’s funny?

HEYY SISTERS❤️, thank u for watching:). I’m so glad others get what I mean, about seeing spirits on people. I remember once making eye contact with a man & immediately seeing a demon all over his face😬. Worst thing is, soul ties are very easy to form but a real battle to break!! As always, God bless u both 🫂xx

@@MariaMulokole Demons are amongst us. My mom had a similar story as well. My mom said Good morning to a woman and her face contorted. I pray that a lot of young people will see this video. God bless you as well. 🙏🏽❤️❤️

Wow, tysmm loveee😭❤️❤️. & honestly, u don’t know just how much ur comment encourages me, that I’m on the right path!! Especially, regarding keeping my virginity. As, I occasionally feel the pressure to be a ‘freak.’ Then I could ‘fit in,’ but that’d only be casting pearls before swine - *Matthew 7:6* & yup ur totally right! As much as God gave us free-will, choosing to go against His word, doesn’t absolve the consequences.

God bless you both. Do not give in to pressure. You will Be rewarded by God.

& God bless u too!! Amen, I won’t🙏. Thank u for this x

Seriously don't have sex unless you yourself feel your ready for it.

Exactly, lest you’re filled with regrets later🙏💯❕

You’re welcome, my love🫂❤️x

Heavy on the he knows where to find me!!😫❤️. Nonetheless, singleness is a blessing too. (Not to mention ✨peaceful✨) hehehe🤍x

It’s crazy, how ppl will say ur “stuck in the 1950’s.” Like it shouldn’t be considered ‘old fashioned’ but SENSE!!! Looool xxx

Thank you for watching beautiful🫂💖x

Heyy honey, I’ve missed u too🫂 & awhh, thank you soo much!!🤩💞xxx

You’re right, many things will happen in our lives, that’ll leave us questioning “why/why me” but someday, in God’s timing, it’ll all make sense - *John 13:7* 🙏🕊️. Thank you so much for the encouragement, my sister🫂. Such comments mean more than you know🥹💋❤️xx

Amen❤️💙

Yess, I get uuu! I just sometimes wonder, where the line is drawn, with being open and transparent on TH-cam, vs spilling our guts, like u said. Like I believe vulnerability is beautiful & can really help ppl connect with their audience, but I’ve also seen it be flipped/used against individuals, once they’ve developed a following (overfamiliarity)😫❤️x

Right, I’m still trying to figure that out. Sometimes I watch my own videos to just double check😅. I’m currently going through a tough season and I think it would be so weird if I didn’t mention that at all

You mentioning it is a good thing, as it’ll be a testimony rewatching it, once you’ve finally overcame. You’ll look back it one day like “huh, what a season of my life, that was.” Your future viewers, will also be able to backtrack to it & see where u came from. (People often see the glory, but not the story.) Everything will work out for you, just how God intended to, in the end👑🙌💕xx

Yes exactly!! It’s the safest & smartest choice tbh❣️❤️x

Hello lovely, thank you so much for opening up about your own experience, in caring for your little sister❤️‍🩹🫂. & no, you’re completely right, it IS trauma!!!! My mental health has completely deteriorated. My childhood (and even now, years of my adulthood,) has been “stolen.” Whilst, I do love my mother of course, I’d be lying if I said this whole situation hasn’t built up resentment in me. As, like u mentioned, no kid should’ve had to be doing all of that. We grew up way too fast and took on the burden of responsibilities, that should’ve never been ours to begin with. Oh yeah ew, it’s disgusting how some able men, expect a woman to do virtually EVERYTHING. It’s too much. My brothers are all now building their own families n living their lives. It makes me wonder when I’ll ever be able to do the same myself… whilst I do get support here and there like maybe dropping off certain food or lifts, I’m really all alone in this. I wanna move on to live my own life too, you know? Me being the only girl only makes it worse, as that by default made me the primary care giver. My heart goes out to u too sis💘💖. I really do hope, we can both heal from this, one day 🙏xxx

Amen, I just read it again now. I needed this scriptural reminder🥹. Thank you & God bless u💕❤️❤️x

Thank u so much sis, it really does mean A LOT!! I love & appreciate u always. God bless u🫂💋❤️x