Shaq Reflects
Shaq Reflects
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The Dark Side of Chasing Views
Embark on a personal journey with me as I navigate the highs and lows of TH-cam creation. From my addiction to analytics to the struggle for balance in life, join a reflective space where aspirations meet reality.
life journey, self-acceptance, shadow work, self-reflection, conscious living, healing trauma, emotional growth, authentic connections, video therapy, talk therapy, reflection, personal development, mindfulness, self-improvement, mental health, self-awareness, healing, mindfulness journey, emotional health, consciousness, spiritual growth, personal growth, video journal, self-discovery, authenticity, meditation, motivation, wellness, life coaching, life lessons
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The REAL reason you've been ghosted
มุมมอง 202 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
We've all been there-feeling hurt after someone leaves us without explanation. In this reflective video, I dive deep into my journey of handling emotional pain and the steps toward healing and self-acceptance. Discover how to maintain self-worth and peace in the face of abandonment, and why communication is key in relationships. Join me as I share my thoughts on ghosting, practical insights, an...
Why you can't be your true self
มุมมอง 434 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Are you tired of feeling like you can't be your true self around your friends? In this video, we explore the fear of being different and how it impacts our relationships and personal growth. It's time to break free from conformity and embrace authenticity. Discover how to accept yourself and build deeper, more meaningful connections with others. Don’t let fear hold you back from showing the wor...
why your relationships suck
มุมมอง 699 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Why do we cling to traditional views on relationships when love clearly knows no boundaries? In this video, we delve into the evolving paradigms of relationships-exploring polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and monogamy. Discover why building a strong foundation on trust, communication, and honesty is more crucial than ever. Find out how personal growth impacts your partnerships, and why acknowle...
why you keep choosing the wrong partners
มุมมอง 12112 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle of unfulfilling relationships and friendships? It's not just about making conscious choices; it's about understanding the unconscious patterns guiding you. In this illuminating video, we delve into the concept of 'ego mating,' revealing why our subconscious often leads us back to familiar, yet unhealthy relationships. Learn the importance of 'shadow work' t...
I wasted my teen years, here's the honest truth
มุมมอง 7612 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Why do we label certain years of our lives as wasted? Dive into my personal journey of solitude, gaming, and anime watching in a world that told me I was doing nothing. While some might view my teen years as unproductive, I found happiness and valuable life lessons that led me to success and inner peace. Join me as I share how flipping the narrative of wasted time reveals insights about persona...
Why your degree doesn't matter
มุมมอง 7214 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
In this candid and reflective video, I share my struggles with traditional education and how I carved my own path to success. Growing up in a world where academic achievement was equated with personal worth, I reveal the pressures and realisations that led me to reject conventional schooling-and why I believe true value isn't measured by diplomas. Join me as I discuss overcoming societal expect...
Why I Can't Connect with My Mother: A Journey of Healing
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Why I Can't Connect with My Mother: A Journey of Healing
Emotions Matter: How Stillness Can Heal Your Inner Chaos
มุมมอง 14019 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Emotions Matter: How Stillness Can Heal Your Inner Chaos
Turning 30: Embracing Growth and Dealing with Hidden Trauma
มุมมอง 73วันที่ผ่านมา
Turning 30: Embracing Growth and Dealing with Hidden Trauma
Rambling Test Video
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Rambling Test Video
Evolve With Active Mimicry
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Evolve With Active Mimicry
Testing & Letting Go of Connections
มุมมอง 1914 วันที่ผ่านมา
Testing & Letting Go of Connections

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  • @Youreinternetbestie
    @Youreinternetbestie 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    everything is always bringing you to your highest path! <3 even people who went through so much trauma , like me use it to empower people

  • @Youreinternetbestie
    @Youreinternetbestie 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    whose your favourite league of legends champion :3? i feel like as long as your doing what makes you happy it does not matter who you don't impact if you don't make yourself happy then you can't fill other peoples cup! I am glad this video came up. I am beating myself up i feel like i did so much but I feel like i am not enough and I am 25, I feel stuck but i won't give up <3 this is good to hear

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Honestly hard to pick a favorite but I like Nautilus, Garen, Vayne, Warwick, Rakan and Urgot.

    • @Youreinternetbestie
      @Youreinternetbestie 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@ShaqReflects support and top main i see , did you watch arcane!

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      25 is very young and self worth is something inherent that we need to cultivate because no matter how much we do in the external world, our sense of worth won’t change. The fact that you were born into this world means you are inherently worthy

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      lol yup, top, supp and jungle. I only watched the first season of Arcane, not sure if the second season is out yet

    • @Youreinternetbestie
      @Youreinternetbestie 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@ShaqReflects i agree and thanks for saying that again!!!!!! 100%

  • @ShaqReflects
    @ShaqReflects วันที่ผ่านมา

    Also I have ghosted in the past as well. The process of not running away when being ghosted is also the process of not running away when I feel uncomfortable. The end goal is to not ghost anyone or react to ghosting with avoidance.

  • @rroxanna
    @rroxanna 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dayum you are underratedddddd. I def see this channel blowing up soon.

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects วันที่ผ่านมา

      Aww thank you for the kind words!

  • @ellasimone4074
    @ellasimone4074 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    brilliant words, thank you

  • @laurasantos8672
    @laurasantos8672 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    amazing video, thank you so much!

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching 🫶🏾

  • @hhighnessjamie
    @hhighnessjamie 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Such a good reminder to come back to self . i love this

  • @hhighnessjamie
    @hhighnessjamie 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    yasssss Preach ! Once i love me the perfect company will follow

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly! Thanks for watching Jay!

  • @Thatguyni
    @Thatguyni 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Funny how my algorithm recommended this to me 🫣 lol. As a 22 year old who relates to not having a close relationship with either of my parents, I’ve learned to allow my parents to be themselves and let go of all expectations of my own self limiting beliefs that’s kind of fueled some of the resentment I’ve had towards them because of the lack of relationship we have. Your mom reaching out to you shows that she’s interested in making amends which could be a good thing if you choose to see it that way so try not to overthink it too much but I definitely understand being cautious and wanting to protect your feelings. Give yourself grace and time to open up to her if that’s what your heart desires. Ask yourself what you would like to get out of this if that’s something you want to pursue. Now that you’re an adult you guys could have more of a friendship type relationship and hopefully have a better understanding of one another, tho it may take time. Maybe start with short phone calls as things tend to get lost in translation or miscommunicated via text message. I hope this helps 👊🏽 Thank you for sharing

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I really appreciate this comment and you're absolutely correct! I've never held any conscious resentment towards her, just sadness towards our situation. She says she's going to visit this month and I'm open to seeing where this goes 🤞🏾

    • @Thatguyni
      @Thatguyni 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No problem at all, I definitely understand the sadness of it. It’s a good sign that you guys are both making an effort. I’m wishing you guys all the best and much love in this new chapter 🤍

  • @nigelvd2508
    @nigelvd2508 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you.. your words and voice are very comforting

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m glad I was able to provide some comfort 🙏🏾 thank you for watching

  • @JM-m4d
    @JM-m4d 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We take our suffering for granted...

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We most certainly do

  • @CireNyar
    @CireNyar 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nothing is ever truly wasted 🙏🏾

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely nothing!

  • @oceanviewyogaretreat2293
    @oceanviewyogaretreat2293 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a powerful message - thank you 💚🙏🏽💚

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for watching!

  • @RudolphManor
    @RudolphManor 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy 30th Birthday. 🎂 Turning 30 Is A Blessing, Our 30's Represents The Last Stage Of Our Young Adulthood As We Are Transitioning To Midlife In Our 40's. 💯 Welcome To Your 30's & They Will Pass By Even Faster. Lol! 😂 I'm 35 Speaking From EXPERIENCE. 💯

    • @ShaqReflects
      @ShaqReflects 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you lol I hope my 30s don't move that fast