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I Need help. I‘m 12 f, my Brother is 14 m, my mom is 55 f, my Dad is 61 m. My Dad is really aggressive, constantly yelling and has Hit me and my Brother Before. Even tho my parents Are Married, my Dad who has MS bought an Apartment in a different and far Away Continent and now lives there a Bit more that half of the Time. The biggest Problem is my Brother. He has been physicaly abusive towards my mom since spring or so, I don‘t remember exactly. He‘s very aggressive when he plays brawlstars to the Point where he has festendes a wall, three desks and a bed with his phone and yelling a lot wich is very loud. Every Time my mom Heart that She takes Away his phone wich makes the Situation Even Worse. Then he pinches her Arms and hands to the Point that she‘s Bled and been sevearly brused. He‘s also punshed her twice, allthough he missed her Face Beatles on the second try. I didn‘t See that but my mom (a doctor) days of he had Hit her Face he prob. Would have broken her jaw. I‘ve Heard him threatening her with pushing her down the stairs and death multiple times aswell. The only ones who know Are me, my Brother and my mom as he dosen‘t abuse her when my Dad isn‘t here. My mom Barely punishes him and I don’t know What to do anymore. It‘s been making my Depression I‘ve already had for over a year Even worse to the Point where I’ve cut myself and considerd ending it. Luckly, I‘m scared of Taking my life and I know I wont, but I still wish I was dead almost every day. Can anybody give me tips on What do do please? Also, I don‘t want anyone to post about this, I just want a tip and to keep it private. Sorry for any spelling mystakes, english isn‘t my First language.

You abuse me YOUR OUT OF MY HOUSE. No mercy

Awww Hannah you poor thing no parent should have to endure this let’s hope other parents can finely have the courage to speak out Xxxx

I've been dealing with so much hurt and pain from my son. I always believed him when he apologized and said he would change because I loved him. I wouldn't think twice. Over and over, when he would apologize for calling me fat bitches, whores, saying he would hit me, etc. I would never question it I would believe it was a new start only to be abused again. I was always worried about his well being because he didn't make good choices and he refused to treat his mental illness. I was deathly afraid that if I died he would be left here with no family and homeless living like people who roam around unclean talking to themselves. I kept offering help, giving him money, etc. I always believed he would get better stop treating me like shit but it got worst to the point where I was afraid of him. I was always scared he would kill me and his siblings. Nothing I did to motivate him worked. I would sit and dream with him talking about starting his clothing business only to be disappointed and caught off guard when he lashed out because he couldn't get his way. Last week my son was murdered and I believe that God is giving him rest. It's been a life of constant drama and worry being his mom. He's my 1st born, my best friend and I saw him respect his girlfriend(s) and actually turn her against me and she was even disrespecting me. I believe God is just and I'm remaining patient and asking Him to forgive my son and continue to give me ease. My mind is at rest and as crazy as it sounds I feel relief because I don't worry 24/7 that somethings going to happen to him terrible. It was tiring, he's 28. Would've been 29 on October 30. If you happen to read this forgive yourself and put yourself 1st because they will definitely put you last and in the gutter.

Why didn’t her midwife raise a safeguarding concern? Yes he was a minor but the mum and baby have to be prioritised. He can go into a facility for juvenile delinquency

And I thought Cartman was a sick bastard!

I am scared to be around my son and daughter. They continuously blamed me for everything curse me threatens me etc.

I am going thru this! So sad.

I haven’t really gotten context on our own story yet, but I do relate so much to what this lady said. Just want to say your not a bad mom for seeing your kid only a few times a year after that. I am in the same situation where my daughter now stays with her dad. I relate, and I hope this gets better

My daughter has been beating me for four years. Last night she knocked me out and sexually assaulted me.

My cousin hit his mother badly yesterday. His mom is shook and very sad she has many scars but she didn’t call the police yet. She should right :(?

Narcissism is a maladaptive personality temperament. Meaning it destroys others and themselves. It does not benefit. They Inherit it or it's a CPTSD response from child neglect, overt abuse, coddling, or religiosity. Children need to self sooth. The babies that can't stop crying that's them. It's not even a disorder the system is building them. We have a system built on an attention economy and a gr33d for resources. Narcissism is a parasitic desire for resources and attention, its about constant supply, not about mommy or even the tit it's about mommy's milk the attention f33dback loop/fix; nothing else. That process was disturbed. So they cant be individuals and destroy to feel whole. They have psychotic breaks as babies and their hearts collapse Into black holes. Since they never get satiated they become nothjng. Its a black hole without empathy.A narcissit needs to devalu3 ppl around them to be an Individual. They have to drain to become whole. Check out richard grannon and the dual mothership model. We are birthing and building more narcissts because of the neglect lack or resources broken families et. That's why the revolution isn't happening. It's the grandiose trumps of the world and your poor children. Whoever are the maglo narcs with no empathy. I'm so sorry. Sometimes it is not the parents fault. Notice how stealing money and attention to material things a part of the system. The system the matrix is breeding monster ppl. My mom was a narcissist, and I became an empath cause she beat me to serve her you guys are having the opposite experience. I'm so so sorry. That's why I'm on a procreation strike like the 4b movement in korea I'm not taking the chance. Ther3s a high likelihood if I have a kid in this climate they'll probably be psychopaths. Stay strong and leave if you must. I'm so sorry

This topic is something that we need to be speaking about more - so many parents we work with feel ashamed, embarrassed, unsupported and completely lost when they're subjected to this. Our online webinar on the 11th of June could be so helpful for anyone in this awful situation. Lots of gentle hugs to anyone reading this who is struggling. 💛

so what is the option for families in this situation?

grateful for this report. it's wildly difficult to find anything about this.

There needs to be more parents coming out about this because it’s more common than anyone realises

I'm here after having my nose broken and orbital socket fractured .. it's hard .

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No, no, we have been trying for YEARS and NO ONE WILL LISTEN! Our son is now 15 almost 16, and starting in drugs, alcohol and we just got him back from running away for 4 days missing. Had a missing childs report out state wide and everything. Seized his phone, had everything on there about how he was selling drugs, in a gang, threating to murder people etc. All the police said was it was all talk because when they were called to pick him up he had nothing in his possession. He verbally abuses all of us in the home constantly. He has yet to get physically abusive, that is because of my husband by me and our 8 year old daughter. We were told there is nothing we can do but deal w it. He just accused us of being into child pornagraphy the other day, because we placed a camera at the door in his bedroom to be sure he doesn't try to sneak out anymore. We desperately need help, but no one will help us. I just hope one day he doesn't murder all of us. I wish I being dramatic here, but I no longer feel safe in my home.

my brother slap me mom twice becase she slap him as he was shouting at her and asking for money.... i..i ..dont know what to do my mother is soo broken and i can see her like that.. 😢

You are simply a bad parent, if this happens to you. You were probably too lazy at the beginning of raising your child.

My sister and her husband sleep with their doors locked because of their daughter’s threats! Those police officers who refused to help this lady should be fired!

This is so messed up

This is exactly what my 42 year old son did to me he put his hands around my throat

I have a 17yo son who has been doing this. My family blames me for not being able to control him.

A record? When a guy gets big and starts hurting people, something needs to be done. Not all moms can defend themselves against their own kids or spouses or even parents. My mother in law once broke my glasses when I tried to get her to take a shower after six days of no bathing. My mother couldn't do much but was much heavier so even getting her off the floor was a challenge and she was known for biting at some point. I'm just glad I didn't end up caring for my much heavier Dad. My daughter was always smaller than me but she once kicked me in the stomach when we were sitting down and nearly broke my ribs and once pummeled me with her fists when it was time to leave a friend's house and she was only four at the time. My used to scratch and bite people too and since he was always a big guy, he was able to do a lot of damage if he really wanted to.

Wow. You know, this is sad. Children who are entitled put their parents through hell. This woman is literally living in despair. Kids like this do not care. They do not want to see their parents happy. They will do whatever it takes to stop their parents from evolving. They feel as if you owe them. They will be determined to crush their parents heart. Ridiculous.

Unfortunately the liberal extreme ideas, social services, public school system, etc., is UNDERMINING the authority of parents which is causing problems with raising children.

These people are absolutely contemptible and pathetic. Cowardly to blame a child for your choices.

Heartbreaking but i would have put his little butt in jail

Children needed protection from some parents, it's gone the other way now too far where a parent's hands are tied.

This is rarely addressed, but almost all adoptive families struggle with this. There is almost NO help for parents. And the parents are usually blamed for children’s bad behavior. But what can you actually do to defend yourself from an abuser who is a minor?? Especially when police will usually release them back into the parents’ custody, even if they arrest the kid/teen.

How can I report parent abuse.

I'm in this situation for years now and don't have a sister to take him

No point reporting or trying to get help. I've had the police on both my 14yr old and 12 year old multiple times. Twice they didn't turn up and my house was being smashed up by them because I'd said no to something, they've threatened violence and to stab each other while the other sleeps..... 3 times the police attended and not once did they arrest any of them. The government has put everything a parent does into catagories... Psychological, emotional, physical and sexual abuse. If you say no to a kid and they cry, you can be reported by schools to social services, I've had it and it's hard. Both my sons are over 6ft even as young as they are. My 14yr old is 17st and my 12yr old is 13st.. Me I'm 5,4 and 8.6st. Ps... I'm also a survivor of serious child abuse by my mum and stepfather but also domestic violence from an ex partner... To me this is terrifying.

It's not bad parenting, it's a factor of other kids influencing each other to "stand up" to their parents when in fact, they are plain disobeying and doing things they shouldn't. I hear so many people saying, "Where are the parents to make these unruly kids behave and be accountable?" The parents were standing at the door, telling their son or daughter to stop misbehaving and stay home while being shoved away or swung at by the fist of their own child. It's the young people that are teaching other kids that they don't have to listen and they can do what they want. If the parent calls emergency services, they are accused of doing something wrong to the son or daughter. So, we don't want to hear where are the parents because making sons and daughters behave these days, would get the attention of first responders who cater to the children. I was at a loss as what to do. I pray that she takes steps to keep herself safe. I don't know everything that happened to her because she would take off and not tell us where she was but I pray that it has stopped. When things go this way, all parents can do is pray for their childrens' lives. Emergency services should open their eyes and help.

How???? How does it get to that???,

I was so surprise to hear you are a lgbt correspondant.. especially when you clearly said you wanted nothing to do with pride, lgbt associations etc.. knowing though that it’s pride which started as a riot that gave us the rights we have to day. I mean I call it hypocrisie but maybe you changed your mind and if that’s the case it’s great

Cond*m ads are evolving I see.

You people are pathetic. Cope harder or take responsibility for putting someone into this world.

This is why I don’t want kids this is why I hate children

This is not talked about. Kids literally are not obeying simple rules and parents are trying different things out of desperation

I would beat that kid that could never be me as a 14 years old

I'm a parent who is dealing with an out of control child. I feel completely alone and broken inside. He has destroyed me . I worry about his future.

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I'm going through this myself, Just today my son attempted to strangle me, suffocate me. Pull my hair out, Kick me everywhere and in my private parts. Hitting me with a broom stick, Punch me, Bite me. I did nothing but just take it. Normally when he kicks off and giving problem we tend to shout at each other but tonight nope! Whilst he was trying to suffocate or strangle me i said, "It's ok and I forgive you" Said "The lords prayer" because you never know and plus my depression makes me not want to live anyway! And kind of hoped it would work as a reverse psychology because you never know and it's odd for me or anyone to say that in that situation. However understanding that this is actually pretty common and because social services are involved for like the billionth time! I can only hope he gets the help to control his behaviour - It's definitely not ADHD for sure. All i know I have tried everything to teach him right from wrong! Nothing has worked, Kept on believing i was a failure but I know im not. I like you all commenting with similar experiences, Were all warriors carrying the scars from an enemy within loved and cared for kids that keeps on defeating us.

This is because cause of very bad parenting and letting the children get away with things like this!! So it's not heartbreaking it's just what the parents get. At times there are points were you have to hurt your child to teach them.

1 in 5 adults were maltreated in childhood. emotional abuse is the most common for of abuse suffered by kids 9 times out of 10 perpetrators of emotional abuse are the victims parents (mothers more often than fathers) . What is society doing to protect these half a million kids or so from bully parents who give ultimately damage their brains

To be honest, I was always curious if this actually happened. Now I know it does.