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Lost me at Duck Pate'.....

Sooo… woman dates a guy, has sex with him regularly, then married him, keeps having sex, they have some kids from having more sex, to suddenly just deciding after several years of unsatisfactory sex she decided you suck…? Nah lol it’s biology. Women lose desire for their men in long term cohabitation. Her body is telling her to move on to another man. It’s genetic diversity. Nothing else. People aren’t designed to mate for life. 3 million years of human evolution and we’ve done this marriage thing for a few thousand years because some book some cult leaders wrote..it’s a failed experiment

Brilliant

Stop being a b1tch. Start being your Best version of your self. You must to suffer.

Interesting

You are 100% a beta!! Who would know someone better? Those who live with her or you that doesn't? Where the hell did you get your degree? From Dr. Suds?

Wife claims I had "emotional affair"... I did not realize I was. My 22 yr old daughter had a severe breakdown and had to enter a facility for addiction. During that time my mom also passed so I sunk my not dark depression. I think any loving father/son would get depressed like I did. During that time I ended up naturally talking to my ex (daughter's mom). It was 100% exclusively about daughters condition or mom's death but current wife hated that I spoke to ex. There was never talk of being unfaithful, etc. The discussion was always about my mom passing or daughter in rehab. Nonetheless, my current wife never forgave me for it. I've apologized countless times, reset boundaries with my ex and attended couples therapy almost weekly for over a yr. To this day she throws it in my face weekly and threatens divorce. She can't seem to forgive or get past it no matter what I do or how many times I apologize. I honestly never knew what an emotional affair was and had no idea I was doing anything wrong.

Im blocked now 9 months and no contact at all from my wife she lives in another country and wont talk or meet me at all. How can i save this marriage?

This gold for me right now.

jesus i feel bad for his clients

Narcissism is a clinically definable condition. It has nothing to do with domestic disputes. You’re attempting, unsuccessfully to blend these two subjects. Your the professional people should avoid. Worst of all you believe the nonsense coming out of your mouth. Disturbing and unqualified.

Give me a break

This guy is a simp

Sounds like you're blaming the man.

Ex of 9 years used to stonewall me throughout the relationship over silly arguments. The final stonewall she did for about a week, I got sick of it and I matched her behavior. 7 days in I mentioned that it is not friendly and she said that she is "Not responsible for how I feel" . That led to a heated argument and she kicked me out from our apartment. She never let me back in. She packed up all my stuff in garbage bags, said that I am abusive and that I have anger problema. Very cruel of her!

Please turn off the music

You are full of shit! Im my case it was due to in-law's bigotry and prejudice. My ex eas mega influenced by her parents who hated my guts from day one. Im Canadian, British Canadian and her parents were eccentric french Canadian. They also encouraged and supported all her affairs!

It’s incredible to see this sort of content in an echo chamber of voices that are advocating for “walk away… she’s toxic… you deserve better…” bullshit. It’s people like you that are going to change the narrative around marriage and I believe the marriage statistics will eventually follow suit. Keep fighting the good fight!

so this person is telling us to be more clever then the bitch we married from the beginning ,correct or not

And what if you did the work over 12 months. Reconciled, was met with walls and tests, stonewalling, false hope, bread crumbing then she served divorce paperwork. She wouldn’t check back in after some small old behaviours come back up

I am looking for your help in my marriage dear Lord. Amen

I came for the comments

This is why men think women are crazy. In that scenario what does trash have to do with feeling like an equal? Why wouldn’t she just have an adult conversation and say I don’t feel treated like an equal? Women divert emotional responsibility by using the object or task as a scape goat for their uncomfortable feelings or emotions that they don’t want to admit come so easily at the drop of a dime or spilled milk, instead of just saying what they really mean, and then expect men to just figure it out without explaining it while also blaming them

I may be the only comment on this video and that is fine because God wanted me to hear this message. Out of all of the marriage help videos I watch for help and restoration in my current marriage, this one was the deepest and most resonating one for me today. I am a Christian and my name is Joshua. My parents named me after Joshua from the Old Testament so I believe that this was meant to be heard by me. I also will add that my church I am apart of had this same sermon last Sunday on Joshua. Good video, and thank you! God Bless!

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash

Divorce is never the way out, My husband and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I wasn't going to let my marriage of 9years crash

How do I do these steps

Thanks for your good and honest advice. it is very useful.

This is helpful thank you!

Marriage may go through toxic. That is why. I am watching your youtube.

Thanks Cody, 11mths into your programme and I have learnt so much about myself and where I was going wrong, keep the content up

I watched your youtube a lot. It is very helpful. My wife left home. It has been for a while. And she refuse to come back home. She wanted me to pay her parent`s debt for her. It made our problem started. It is not a small amout. What should I do to make my wife to come back for me?

Brad’s awesome - appreciate the insight

I see it!! Come on over, let’s hang out. 👍🏽🤣

So let me get this straight according to you it’s the man’s fault that the woman’s deciding to act like a child and not regulate her emotions. That’s just great advice.

Why don't you let her go? Who doesn't want you, you don't want him Let the one who does not love you and does not want you go to hell

revolting little man

Good advice!

This video made me constipated

Jesus loves u all repent and turn to god believe in the gospel

I don’t understand when tf she takes accountability and responsibility for her negative and toxic ways in the relationship. Why do these videos only to make the woman feel better? When tf do the issues the man has in the relationship get addressed? So the man has to struggle and silence with none of his needs being met or addressed until…she feels better?

What if she should feel bad about herself for her actions

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Sounds like you want men to take the abuse? I have done this change of mindset, and her behavior continues. What about our emotional safety and security?

Man I need to hear stuff like this from time to time to keep my self looking at the positive aspects. Thanks for all you do.

You stated the result, bud, not the solution.

There’s a reason there are only 13 comments to this video being up one year. This is bullshit. Why is it always on us men to change the situation? Her actual realization of what contributions she makes to the situation is non existent. Often times her unhappiness is rooted within HERSELF and there is NOTHING YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE. This is the same advice I’ve been hearing my entire long life and could not figure out WHY IT NEVER WORKS. Of course, she will tell you where you fall short, but rectifying that will only lead to the next thing she doesn’t like. These are NOT THE ROOT PROBLEM. You will continue trying to hit a moving target, and if you do get close, that’s when the goalposts move. Most women are unable to be satisfied with a normal predictable good life, and are unhappy. Find one who isn’t like this, gents, or just be satisfied with letting the unhappy one go and learn the fulfilling aspect of going it alone. There are plenty out there you can have short term flings with to keep your hormones satisfied!

I gave it look just to get a perspective from a different person. The moment when you said logic attacks emotions I lost all respect and interest and you lost all credibility. When a person steals something which is not necessary for their life-saving situation, takes an item/money that’s not theirs, without asking, without permission: THE FACT is they are in the wrong. EMOTIONS of the thief don’t matter here. Steer clear, useless “advice”

i just find another girl