This is the best practical sermon on the character and personality of the person you should be pursuing in a relationship. Listen to "Uncle Allie" and don't waste your time on a guy or girl who is not mature in Christ. Before pursuing a relationship you should watch this. Alistair Begg provides the much needed wisdom on what to be looking for in a godly man or woman. This was a sermon given by Alistair Begg to the students at Cedarville University.
The audio has been cleaned, to remove the static feedback that is on other uploads of this sermon. Hope that helps with listening through headphones in particular.
Further Resources/Reading:
Https://TruthForLife.org/Relationships
Https://TruthForLife.org/spouse
00:00 - Intro Copyright
00:15 - Intro of Sermon
00:45 - Bible Reading: 1 Peter 3:1-7
01:55 - Why you need to listen to this
3:30 - God Must Come First
4:25 - Friendship with the Opposite Sex
5:22 - God’s Sovereign Over Your Relationships
5:51 - Pursuing a Relationship
6:38 - Listen to the Wise on Who You Should Date
8:49 - Elder Siblings Should Look Out for Younger Siblings
10:10 - Relationship’s that Isolate
11:03 - Dating, Situation’s to See Them In
12:57 - Is the Attraction Purely Physical
16:05 - Story of Alistair & Susan
20:50 - What to Look for in a Husband
21:18 - 1. Committed to Jesus
22:25 - 2. A Man of Integrity
23:40 - 3. Good Leadership
25:41 - 4. Self-Sacrificial
27:40 - 5. Sense of Humour
31:03 - 6. Genuine Humility
33:33 - What to Look for in a Wife
33:58 - 1. Committed to Jesus
36:03 - 2. Beautiful Inner-self
37:55 - 3. Initiative Taker with Attitude of Submission
41:23 - 4. Intrinsic Qualities & Builds Husbands Confidence
42:47 - 5. Displays Compassionate Kindness
44:43 - 6. Sense of Humour
49:04 - What about Singleness
50:20 - Conclusion
51:03 - Prayer
52:42 - Copyright Outro