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The Truth: Will They Change? Can You Fix Them? Are They Worth It? Relationship Advice
Will they actually change? Is it possible to convince them to change or to be able to fix someone? Is it all worth fighting for? Most of the time, no. Most of the time when you try to fix other people and their problems and beg them to change, the problem lies within ourselves. The truth is, it is ultimately only our own decisions if we want to change or not. Someone can't be forced to change unless they genuinely want to. There are some cases where people can improve of course but it is all up to them. If you are wondering even slightly if it is worth your time to try and put your effort into changing them, it is not. You cannot miss out on the person you are truly meant to be with, perhaps unless you are refusing to leave the wrong person that you forever beg to change. If someone you care about does not change a behavior that is bothering someone they love immediately, then there is a huge problem. Most of the time these people are just lessons. So make sure not to cling onto your lessons for dear life because it will not get you far. The right person will find you, and if it is them, then they will come back a new person after extensive healing. Don't wait on people to come back and put your life on pause. You deserve more then that.
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Stay Unbothered By Setbacks With This Mindset: How Realigning and Making The Process Fun Can Help
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Stay Unbothered By Setbacks With This Mindset: How Realigning and Making The Process Fun Can Help. Setbacks and obstacles popping up on our way to our manifestations and goals can be annoying and even scary sometimes. Rather than continuing on the same path, or giving up all together, see things like this. People who are successful and love their jobs and lives get things faster by adding joy a...
5 Positive Signs You Inner Work is Working: What You Will Notice On A Successful Healing Journey
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5 Positive Signs You Inner Work is Working: What You Will Notice On A Successful Healing Journey. If you are on your healing journey, you know it can be a challenge at times. Here is a video letting you know the positive things you will notice if you are on the right path (from my experience and observations of others💕). Whether it is healing trauma, childhood self, current self, learned belief...
Failure Is Only What You Make It - Would You Rather It Didn’t Exist? Try Out This Perspective
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Failure Is Only What You Make It - Would You Rather It Didn’t Exist? Try Out This Perspective. In this video, I talk about how to eliminate the fear of failure by shifting your entire perspective on what failure really means. What if failure isn’t even possible? Instead of seeing setbacks as failures, learn how to view them as opportunities for growth and learning. Whether you're working on per...
Keep Your Goals Private or Speak Them Into Existence: What’s Best For Your Manifestation Technique?
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In this video, I dive into the debate: is it better to move in silence or speak your goals with confidence? Should you keep your dreams and manifestations to yourself or share them with others to bring them to life? I'll explore both sides-whether staying quiet helps protect your energy or if sharing your goals will create a solid foundation for them to form. By the end, you’ll know which appro...
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Turn Jealousy Into Hope and Keep Your Faith: Other People’s Success Will Never Take Away From Yours, or your ability to achieve it. When you see other people have what you want, it is a sign it is coming in for your too. Your outer reality will change to reflect your inner reality, and sometimes the first thing you will see is other people having what you want. It means it’s coming closer to yo...
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Fixing Their Problems Won’t Fix Your’s: Don’t Waste Your Time: Prioritize Your Own Healing Instead
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Forgive Yourself: You Deserve It | The Importance of Self Respect and Self Forgiveness
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How to Actually Stop People Pleasing: Break Free, Set Boundaries, and Start Living For Yourself
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How To Feel Prettier: Tips on Improving Self Love and Confidence
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How To Feel Prettier: Tips on Improving Self Love and Confidence
Here's How to Be Confident: Why is Confidence So Important?
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Here's How to Be Confident: Why is Confidence So Important?

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  • @chakibtouya8991
    @chakibtouya8991 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    hey do you have a bf ?

  • @ChespiritoVergara
    @ChespiritoVergara 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love your hair 😊

  • @gabriellehopemusic
    @gabriellehopemusic 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i needed to hear this thank you 💕🧚

  • @jakeschannel1066
    @jakeschannel1066 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    so many amazing tips in this video! what do you think about fake it till you make it in terms of confidence. e.g acting like an extrovert if you are an introvert? thanks

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think that’s actually the best approach! Acting as if, will train your mind to believe it’s normal to act that way. So I absolutely suggest that approach. Maybe I will make a whole video on that

    • @jakeschannel1066
      @jakeschannel1066 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@reviserefineandrealign a video about that would be so helpful! thanks :)

  • @jakeschannel1066
    @jakeschannel1066 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've just discovered your channel and watched a few of your videos and they have been so helpful! You are very wise beyond your years. You would make a great psychologist! Keep up the great work, you are definitely making a difference in peoples lives. subbed!

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you! Things like this always mean a lot to hear!

  • @fredyyfredfreddy
    @fredyyfredfreddy 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    intersting

  • @slimbroski5335
    @slimbroski5335 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    And this is a huge problem within the educational system and how public education is taught. Teaching children they either pass or fail is just teaching people what to think not how to think.

  • @Alaminbro83
    @Alaminbro83 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

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  • @frosty9631
    @frosty9631 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    GOLD ✨️ I especially love the part about successful people thinking I can do it too 😅

  • @victormerritt5302
    @victormerritt5302 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But the problem with that is when something negative happens to you you don't know what to do but the people have thought about what could happen can get on with their life

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Waiting for something negative to happen only makes life miserable. Spending 99% of your time worrying about everything so when it goes wrong 1% of the time is a waste of the enjoyment of life. Then when something bad happens if you have practiced thinking positively, you will be able to see the positive aspects around you better to get yourself through it. Instead of letting the bad thing consume you.

  • @fredyyfredfreddy
    @fredyyfredfreddy 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cool video. Are you some type of therapist/ psychologist?

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you! And no, everything I know and share on here is what I’ve learned in my own journey of healing throughout the years.

  • @soundmanpt
    @soundmanpt 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh wow! Your wearing glasses now. You weren't wearing glasses in your first two videos. You look really cute wearing glasses, they really suite you. Did you just get glasses or have you had glasses for a while and you just weren't wearing them in those videos? When you talk about confidence do you remember when you got your glasses how you felt wearing them for the first time in front of your friends and family? Wasn't that very scary for you. But once you did it for that first time that fear quickly went away. I'm sure it helped that you probably got quite few really nice complements on how nice you looked wearing glasses didn't you? Funny thing, after that first day or so your wearing glasses was old news and your glasses were no longer a topic. Hopefully when you got your glasses you had several girlfriends that were glasses wearers and that may have been helpful to you as well. You should talk about that first day of wearing glasses in a video. Anyone that has gotten glasses or expecting to be getting glasses would really appreciate hearing how you felt and your emotions. By the way i subscribed to you.

  • @soundmanpt
    @soundmanpt 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I get what your saying about looking nice as part of building up self confidence in yourself, but at the same time you should want to be the "real" yo and not someone your not. Am I right? I do agree that you wouldn't fit in as well wearing a warmup or jogging outfit to church on a Sunday morning. But at the same time going little casual I think would be okay as opposed to wearing a dress suit.

  • @frosty9631
    @frosty9631 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your videos have helped me everyday this week

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That makes me so happy to hear, I’m glad I could help🫶

  • @frosty9631
    @frosty9631 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This give me hope thanks

  • @honestempath4222
    @honestempath4222 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    @damone712

  • @elizabethharris4893
    @elizabethharris4893 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wish more for yourself, not less for other people.

  • @miamccorkle5930
    @miamccorkle5930 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Holy Spirit

  • @janayabrooking4405
    @janayabrooking4405 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love the message and the username ❤

  • @SaunDaugherty
    @SaunDaugherty 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I do not agree. We should help as beings, and put yourself last. Reason being is that this is your contribution to life. It wont work well, but it is meaningful.

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Of course it’s ok to offer help in some cases. But everyone should have boundaries. We have to learn our own lessons. I do not agree that you should ever put yourself last. You can’t truly help others when you ignore all your needs. You can still care for others without neglecting yourself. You felt drawn to this video for a reason, maybe it was a sign. But ultimately it’s your decision of course, sending you love and light 🫶✨

    • @SaunDaugherty
      @SaunDaugherty 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @reviserefineandrealign our regard is to help if we can. Anything else is self preservation.

    • @SaunDaugherty
      @SaunDaugherty 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@reviserefineandrealign we are made to face those things, and we are responsible for them. Whether or not others will acknowledge this is irrelevant.

  • @Katharina1111
    @Katharina1111 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so true!! I tell myself that my confidence makes others feel more comfortable around me! And it has helped me so much

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That’s so true! Being around a confident person always brings out my confidence more, I love that perspective!

  • @Katharina1111
    @Katharina1111 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello glow girl ❤ Im so glad you shared your channel in the gold vault, Thank you.

  • @rainydays166
    @rainydays166 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you for your words. you may have just changed my life and i appreciate you.

  • @WheredMyPiggyGo
    @WheredMyPiggyGo หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some people can only pick themselves up by pulling others down.

  • @marlaadamson1633
    @marlaadamson1633 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well done! The same thought jumped into my mind last week. Excellent results ❤

  • @frosty9631
    @frosty9631 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mind is legit blown

  • @greggkunkel6622
    @greggkunkel6622 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Finding meaning and fulfillment in life doesn’t come from how we think of ourselves and interact with ourselves. Nor does it come from how everyone else treats us or how much they respect us - that is irrelevant, and focusing on that is a waste of my life. Meaning and fulfillment always comes from what we contribute to the lives of others. At the end of the day, the only two things that matter are to love God with all our hearts, minds, strength, and souls and to love others as we do ourselves.

  • @Corakken
    @Corakken หลายเดือนก่อน

    Here's a third one: treat yourself how you'd treat a good friend ❤️

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s a great one! Especially for those who struggle with self love 💓

  • @orionsam699
    @orionsam699 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl this is one of the most real REELs I’ve eva seen, love n light to you ❤

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you❤️ Light and love to you too❤️❤️

  • @RaLunara
    @RaLunara หลายเดือนก่อน

    From all my experience, this won't work at all.

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s all about perspective. It took me a long time to get right. I still don’t 100% of the time but I saw the change. But with or without the love or respect of others, we always deserve to love ourselves🫶

  • @jclyntoledo
    @jclyntoledo หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not necessarily true but I understand what you're saying. Personally I think it's a bit too simplistic and ppl are different. For example someone might think saying hi and hugging me is the right thing bc that's what they want but I might not want to be touched.

  • @fornow-hf4hy
    @fornow-hf4hy หลายเดือนก่อน

    Others dont treat u how u treat them. They just evil.

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign หลายเดือนก่อน

      The point of this video was me saying treat Yourself how you want others to treat you. But to your point, some people are miserable and try to tear you down but that’s just good practice to learn to not be affected by it. Also if someone believes everyone is bad or most people are, that’s a limiting belief and that’s 100% what you will see. It’s up to each of us to change our negative perspective or the alternative is a life of much more suffering. The fact that more people are more rude when we are having a bad day is proof of this. It’s all about perspective.

  • @itsOZone
    @itsOZone หลายเดือนก่อน

    My inner self doesnt know how to treat me right. He just keeps calling me worthless and cringe.

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign หลายเดือนก่อน

      Remember that mean voice is not your own, it’s other peoples thoughts and opinions you picked up throughout life. It seems like ourself saying it but if we had no influence of other mean people, we wouldn’t think negatively about ourselves. This thought probably doesn’t take the problem away though. So, I suggest you try out inner work. And also whenever you have a negative thought like that, stop it, don’t just agree with it, say no and affirm the opposite. Something positive instead. Agreeing with or giving into that voice in your head is what starts making other people in your life reflect it too. You’d be suprised to see how much your life will change if you work through your negative beliefs of yourself🫶

    • @jclyntoledo
      @jclyntoledo หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmm maybe CBT or another type of therapy could help. Otherwise look into inner child work or get a CBT workbook or something on self esteem.

  • @Bdiamondz
    @Bdiamondz หลายเดือนก่อน

    So when your upset, dont talk to others 🤔

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign หลายเดือนก่อน

      Give yourself grace when you are feeling emotional and others will reflect that back to you. Not at all implying you self isolate, just be nice to yourself. We can’t all be perfectly happy and joyful all the time, and that’s ok💗

  • @anitalamapachita
    @anitalamapachita หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is something you don’t hear a lot and it is a big piece of advice!!

  • @kevinsutton7752
    @kevinsutton7752 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Could the same thing be said about failed talking stages I keep going through them and I am getting tired of all the bs

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kevinsutton7752 yes 100%! I just filmed a video on how to start working through this problem. I will post it tomorrow

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign หลายเดือนก่อน

      Posted if you'd like to watch 😌

  • @endezeichengrimm
    @endezeichengrimm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The mic level is too low. Or you might need to get a dedicated mic.

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    @RiyadhMehboobB-r5g86 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @bbygrlkay
    @bbygrlkay 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is such a great video, I find myself often overcompensating with laughing even at unfunny jokes, saying sorry unnecessarily, etc. I’d love to see a video from you on social awkwardness, how to stop overthinking interactions and being nervous, but that’s just a suggestion 🩷

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it! Those can be hard habits to kick especially when we get used to doing them for so long. But luckily, it is 100% possible to kick that habit!! And absolutely, I will add that video suggestion to the list 💕

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Just Uploaded this requested video! I held off because I needed to learn more for myself on it first💕

  • @p.nathanial8314
    @p.nathanial8314 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    'promo sm'

  • @bbygrlkay
    @bbygrlkay 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🩷 Thank you!

  • @bbygrlkay
    @bbygrlkay 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just stumbled on your video and I want to say thank you for speaking on this. It’s so important to have self-confidence especially when looking for a person to date 🩷

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome! Thank you for watching, let me know if you have any other topics you would be interested in me making a video on :)

    • @bbygrlkay
      @bbygrlkay 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@reviserefineandrealignabsolutely! I also started on the self-improvement journey so very excited for new videos :) I guess if you’d be interested maybe you can make one on how to feel beautiful when you don’t really feel like it? That’s what I personally struggle with 😂

    • @reviserefineandrealign
      @reviserefineandrealign 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's so exciting! I'm glad I can play a part in your self-improvement journey! I can absolutely make a video on that, I will do that for my next one :)

    • @bbygrlkay
      @bbygrlkay 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@reviserefineandrealign can't wait! 💞