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Does Your Childhood Affect And Influence Your Relationships?
Mike Murphy Interview | Full Interview | Discussing how our childhood shapes the way we view relationships.
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Mike speaks about his childhood and how destructive it could have been. Being raised by parents that were alcoholics lead Mike down a path of destruction. He was spiraling out of control but was able to turn it around. He was able to find love and started a company helping those with a similar upbringing. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes. #behindtheshades #dating #podcast
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How You Can Overcome And Recover After A Death
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Hope Reger Interview | Part Two | A lot of confusion happens when there is a loss of a child and it can be hard to continue forward. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Hope discusses the pain of losing her son and how it impact her family. She shares the struggles her and husband experienced once their son passed away. Trying to rebuild relationships after feeling isolated fro...
How To Overcome Self Doubt And Unhappiness In Relationships
มุมมอง 114 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Terraine discusses how to identify misery and the role self doubt plays in making us feel unworthy. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Many relationships become filled with misery and it goes unnoticed for a long time. These are feelings that can lead to negative outcomes and perspective of our partner. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes. #behind...
The Struggles And Difficulties Of Being A Parent And A Spouse
มุมมอง 207 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Olena Pshenychna Interview | Full Interview | Discusses the difficulties of finding a balance between being a parent and a partner. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Olena joins us to share her insights of raising a family and how to handle its demands. She shows us why many people struggle in their marriages when they become parents. Remember to share and follow to keep up-t...
How To Heal And Rebuild Your Relationship After A Death
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Hope Reger Interview | Part One | Life after your child passes away can be difficult to understand and even more difficult to rebuild. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Hope discusses the pain of losing her son and how it impact her family. She shares the struggles her and husband experienced once their son passed away. Trying to rebuild relationships after feeling isolated f...
Why Do I Have Anxiety About Relationships?
มุมมอง 1612 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Kelly Watts Interview | Full Interview | So many suffer desperation and loneliness in silence as they search for happiness. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Kelly discusses her experiences with dating apps as a single parent and the challenges she faced. With dating apps becoming more popular, many parents find themselves using it for connection. Some single parents fall int...
Understanding Why You Feel Abandoned And Alone
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Donna Anderson Interview | Full Interview | Discussing the feelings of abandonment and how to overcome loneliness in your relationship. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Donna discusses growing up feeling abandoned as a child. She later learns that her parents were involved in crimes that made national news. We discussed how her childhood trauma affected her relationships. Do...
How To Find Happiness And Success In Modern Dating
มุมมอง 1116 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Terraine shares how to find happiness when dating and why asking for help isn't a weakness. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Being vulnerable enough to seek out guidance is a strength and it's courageous to acknowledge where you are coming up short. Terraine discusses the obstacles that is preventing us from finding love. Many of these obstacles are our own doing. Remember t...
Finding Love And Happiness As A Single Mother
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Kelly Watts Interview | Part Two | Many single parents believe they won't be able to find love again and struggle with dating. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Kelly discusses her experiences with dating apps as a single parent and the challenges she faced. With dating apps becoming more popular, many parents find themselves using it for connection. Some single parents fall ...
What We Can Learn From Modern Dating And Relationship
มุมมอง 321 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Terraine discusses how dating has changed drastically and shares what the stats have to say about it. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Online dating highlights how relationships will look in the future and what we can do to find love. Terraine speaks about how time consuming dating apps are and why caution is required. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all...
I Am Feeling Inadequate And Unhappy In My Relationship
มุมมอง 12วันที่ผ่านมา
Donna Anderson Interview | Part Two | Overcoming unhappiness is difficult for many people and it creates despair and depression in many lives. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Donna discusses growing up feeling abandoned as a child. She later learns that her parents were involved in crimes that made national news. We discussed how her childhood trauma affected her relationsh...
How To Stop Avoiding And Ignoring Your Emotions
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Terraine shares the struggle of feeling invisible when trying to share your emotions with others. This leads us to hide from our own pain and trauma. Book A Coaching Session Today www.behindtheshades.ca Discussing how we can stop hiding from our pain and working to understand our trauma. We may feel invisible to others when we are suffering but ignoring the pain shouldn't be the solution. Remem...
How To Find Love And Happiness As A Single Parent
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How To Find Love And Happiness As A Single Parent
Feeling Alone And Ignored In Your Relationship
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Feeling Alone And Ignored In Your Relationship
I Am Sabotaging My Relationships.
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I Am Sabotaging My Relationships.
Remy Ma & Papoose Continue To Fight Online
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Remy Ma & Papoose Continue To Fight Online
I Don't Want To Be Hurt By Others Anymore
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I Don't Want To Be Hurt By Others Anymore
I Don't Feel Heard In My Relationship
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I Don't Feel Heard In My Relationship
Another Diddy Lawsuit Strikes Again
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Another Diddy Lawsuit Strikes Again
My Job Is Like A Toxic Marriage.
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My Job Is Like A Toxic Marriage.
I Feel Neglected In My Relationship.
มุมมอง 1114 วันที่ผ่านมา
I Feel Neglected In My Relationship.
How To Avoid Self Sabotaging
มุมมอง 1321 วันที่ผ่านมา
How To Avoid Self Sabotaging
You Can Still Find Love After Trauma
มุมมอง 521 วันที่ผ่านมา
You Can Still Find Love After Trauma
Is Your Partner Aware Of Your Emotions?
มุมมอง 421 วันที่ผ่านมา
Is Your Partner Aware Of Your Emotions?
My Marriage To A Narcissist.
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My Marriage To A Narcissist.
Don't Stay With Him. How You Can Escape A Narcissist
มุมมอง 521 วันที่ผ่านมา
Don't Stay With Him. How You Can Escape A Narcissist
Why Doesn't Anyone See My Pain? How To Stop Feeling Alone
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Why Doesn't Anyone See My Pain? How To Stop Feeling Alone
Trauma Changed Me For The Worst.
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Trauma Changed Me For The Worst.
Understand Why You Feel Stuck In Your Relationships
มุมมอง 928 วันที่ผ่านมา
Understand Why You Feel Stuck In Your Relationships
Do You Want To Find Love? Understanding What Women Want From You
มุมมอง 11928 วันที่ผ่านมา
Do You Want To Find Love? Understanding What Women Want From You

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  • @Marah-o1d
    @Marah-o1d 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Amazing channel deserves more viewers 🙏🏻

  • @AmyTaylorNYC
    @AmyTaylorNYC 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

  • @donnahilton471
    @donnahilton471 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When my daughter died, she left me with a desire to be useful. My son just died and I feel like there's nothing.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      the passing of a child is always difficult and life afterwards can take on different forms.

  • @nchistorydiggers8808
    @nchistorydiggers8808 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I always thought Diddy seemed like a buttrucker. Crazy that you got a billion and for fun you bang doodoo. Sicko

  • @GeorgeDominic-u7x
    @GeorgeDominic-u7x 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey everyone, I want to take a moment to share my personal experience with a scam that many might find relatable. A few months ago, I fell victim to a binary options trading scam that cost me a staggering $120,000. It’s a story of deception, vulnerability, and ultimately, hope. As a computer technician, I’m usually pretty savvy when it comes to online activities. However, I was looking for investment opportunities and came across a slick website that promised quick returns through binary options trading. The site looked professional, and the testimonials seemed genuine. Encouraged by the potential profits, I started investing small amounts, gradually increasing my investment as I thought I was seeing success. However, things took a turn for the worse. My initial profits began to dwindle, and soon I was facing losses. Despite my instincts warning me, I kept pouring in more money, convinced that I could turn things around. The brokers were persuasive, often promising me that a big win was just around the corner. It felt like I was on the brink of success, but in reality, I was sinking deeper into a financial abyss. When I finally realized I was being scammed, it hit me hard. I felt a mix of anger, shame, and desperation. I had lost not just money but also my sense of security and trust in online investments. It was one of the darkest periods of my life, as I struggled to comprehend how I could have been so easily fooled. In my search for solutions, I confided in a friend who works in the police force. He encouraged me to seek professional help and recommended a recovery service called E-COIN RECLAIMERS COMPANY . Initially skeptical, I decided to reach out to them, hoping they could assist in reclaiming some of my lost funds. To my surprise, the team at E-COIN RECLAIMERS COMPANY was incredibly supportive and knowledgeable. They guided me through the recovery process step by step, helping me gather necessary documentation and communicating with the banks and financial institutions involved. Within a few weeks, I was relieved to find out that they had successfully recovered about 70% of my lost funds. This experience has taught me a valuable lesson about the importance of vigilance and skepticism in online investments. I’m sharing my story not only as a cautionary tale but also to remind others that there is help available. If you’ve lost money to a scam, don’t hesitate to seek professional assistance. Recovery is possible, and you don’t have to navigate this difficult journey alone. Stay safe, and trust your instincts! CONTACT THEM VIA BELOW INFO . WhatsApp; +1(786)941-9068 Email: e-coinreclaimerscompany@contractor.net

  • @Momiji-e8k
    @Momiji-e8k 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Frog and hot water. Of course do your own homework on this one. Put a cold frog in a cold water heat them up he will cook. Put a cold frog in boiling hot water he will try to hop out. It has to do with our getting used to something that is not familiar. Do your homework!

  • @piotrekmajkowski5422
    @piotrekmajkowski5422 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No I don't. After marriage I am NOT looking. It cost too much. You can love women OR understand them. Regards PS When you understand you cannot love them.

  • @davidpitchford6510
    @davidpitchford6510 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tom Leykis answered this in 8 words: Long hair, stay thin, sex anytime, shut up.

  • @matthewdenty8470
    @matthewdenty8470 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You had men pouring their heart and soul out but cheated ... beauty's only a lightswitch away and we prefer reliable over stuck up ... any port in a storm

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These are very good questions

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Also family should be the first consideration for a situation with children

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think a second opinion is definitely called for

  • @NorthernShewolf
    @NorthernShewolf หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cps takes children from low income families and gives them to rich families even when the rich are the true abusers.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good point and there is evidence to support that.

    • @NorthernShewolf
      @NorthernShewolf หลายเดือนก่อน

      @behindtheshades They have increased the cost of everything that it's making it harder and harder for low income families to keep food on their table and in some cases a roof over their heads. So families that used to be middle class are now among the low income and government agencies are pouncing on that as an excuse to take children from their parents siting them unfit. A total tragedy 😢

  • @NorthernShewolf
    @NorthernShewolf หลายเดือนก่อน

    CPS IS DESTROYING THE FAMILY UNIT.

  • @DavidJackson-y4d
    @DavidJackson-y4d หลายเดือนก่อน

    For the same reason women think every wants them.

  • @ashleybeach4109
    @ashleybeach4109 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Melody, I am so impressed that you are able to share your story to help others. I hope you are able to continue to help those through their own trauma.

  • @Joel_284
    @Joel_284 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In the old days, I mean, cave man days, every man was a John and every woman a prostitute. Any friendly woman would let a man exchange raw meat for sex and cooking. When religion was invented and marriage imposed, things were considerably cleaned up for most women.

  • @tonyryan43
    @tonyryan43 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why complicate what is simple? So many men have found their wife has ceased to be the woman they married and is now an entitled and myopic feminist. The best way to deal with this is to create distance and she will leave by herself. This is why so many men are moving to south Asia, to meet real women who appreciate a real man. Curiously, I note that quite a number of young women are seeing this and shouting out a waring to their sisters. Candace Owens was the first I witnessed. This guy knows shit.

  • @scolexuk
    @scolexuk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Next up, how men can help women control their emotions.

  • @LauraSnow-in3nx
    @LauraSnow-in3nx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is a reason fathers didn’t give their daughter in marriage unless the man could provide. This man is capable. All men are capable. They just need the right motivation.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, motivation is key.

  • @jermainedonaldson6871
    @jermainedonaldson6871 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very inspiring. I've also learnt (from Denzel Washington) that we shouldn't really look for love, we should just work hard to become the right person. The right person will gravitate towards us, once we’ve worked hard to fix ourselves. 😊

  • @mohamedould8671
    @mohamedould8671 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i liked the vid but the presentation doesnt make people to stay especaly at the begining

  • @Maryam-bt7kg
    @Maryam-bt7kg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @ruthtirado2750
    @ruthtirado2750 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Victims give off pheramones that attract victimizers to them. Begin to see yourself as victorious instead of as a victim, and you will begin to attract different people to yourself. Just FYI, having God in your life will help you to see who you really are!!! 🙏🏻

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There will be a point in all of our lives that we will become victorious from our trauma. Each day is a step towards that.

  • @charmed-anna
    @charmed-anna 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well done Cristina x

  • @ChangingParenting
    @ChangingParenting 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for having me on your show Terraine 🙂 It was really fun!

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It was an absolute pleasure speaking with you and sharing your wisdom.

  • @Stillpril
    @Stillpril 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't know. In my 20s I was working 2 jobs and barely making rent and I didn't always have enough to eat plus no family support and no time to see friends and I was so depressed...

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Life can be so hard at times especially when the support we need isn't around.

  • @christianbarrientos8267
    @christianbarrientos8267 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great talk..I agree with a lot of your points..

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm thankful that you enjoyed it.

  • @jillmatsushita7275
    @jillmatsushita7275 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Uk

  • @heartsentwined7777
    @heartsentwined7777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much Terraine - really enjoyed our conversation x

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's always a pleasure sharing your insights.

  • @sunnyadams5842
    @sunnyadams5842 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Progrssive Republican??

  • @janm9610
    @janm9610 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've lived narcissistic rage. Last time I was in his presence, he's sick.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists will negatively impact our life in so many ways.

  • @janm9610
    @janm9610 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💯 spot on. Good riddance, his new wife's problem 😂

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so glad to know this, it sounds like you did everything you needed to get it right. This is outrageous

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why would they not go with family this I hope you can make this public

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I sooo heart broken for your pain

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear lady 😢😢😢😢❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️

  • @jennifertallbear4480
    @jennifertallbear4480 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG this is heart ripping, this really needs to be delved into much more public and investigated

  • @SaraLovesUbb
    @SaraLovesUbb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Idk how i found this video. This has happened to me. My son has not recovered. I have not recovered. No one believed me when it happened & consequently i have this weird phobia that anything i say is met with doubt or criticism. I try really hard to change the way i see the world, which is that i am less than, other people are above me & as such they will laugh at whatever i say, not believe me, or steal my fucking kid somehow. Fuck man.

  • @xenafaegolden3019
    @xenafaegolden3019 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ive been through this

  • @norasmission7394
    @norasmission7394 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happened to my daughter. Vanderbilt Hospital in Nashville TN took her son . He was nursing 5 months old. Caused the whole family so much distress. We did not have enough money for attorneys. The children were taken . They live with the father’s parents to this day . If the grandparents weren’t able to take them, CPS was going to put them up for adoption. The are 12 and 10 years old now. He has adhd and the little girl is now overweight. It’s heartbreaking . My daughter never recovered .

  • @sunnyadams5842
    @sunnyadams5842 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my God- meee toooo!!

  • @ChangingParenting
    @ChangingParenting 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It was a lot of fun! Thanks for having me!

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It was an absolute pleasure sharing your experiences and insights.

  • @NancyParadis
    @NancyParadis 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a great summit. Thank you Behind the Shades show!

  • @thinkingallowed1st
    @thinkingallowed1st 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They try to unalive you so you take yourself down. Imo psychological coercieve abuse is the hardest to spot and overcome

  • @RS-ov2st
    @RS-ov2st 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is a big misconception that narcissists do not have friends. I was born into a narcissistic family and married to a covert narcissist and they all had friends who adored them, spoke highly of them. They protect their friendships in order to cement their public image and discredit their targets if needed. There are many different types of narcissists with different and similar behaviors.

    • @thinkingallowed1st
      @thinkingallowed1st 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with your statement. They leave you friendless and isolated. The narcissist has friends to prove they are decent when they actually arent. I say friends loosely because they are really lying to the people who has their backs

  • @fidelmashelton9491
    @fidelmashelton9491 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    100% correct and your never going to be enough for people like this. It's a game to them, that they have to be the winners at all costs. That's the way they see relationships. Self-centered and self-absorb in their own little fantasy...

  • @anitajohnson381
    @anitajohnson381 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not completely true! Narcissistic people often marry a Malignant Narcissistic person. ..not always an empath! This has been researched.

  • @sleepmagnolia
    @sleepmagnolia 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have 942 videos but under 300 subscribers. That is insane!! Underrated channel.

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the support as it is appreciated.

  • @sharonvaldez9059
    @sharonvaldez9059 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Married 20 years, have autoimmune, PTSD, chronic anxiety and depression, autism, ADHD, degenerative disc disease, and degenerative faucet disease. Appealing LTD and back pay from March 2023, as well as pending SSDI decision. He commented, “if you leave…I’m never gonna see any of that money”. Is he entitled to my disability money if I file for divorce once approved? It will be direct deposit to bank account that is mine alone. Counting on this $ as a way to support myself…

    • @behindtheshades
      @behindtheshades 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is unfortunate and a difficult situation assistance can be provided to you.

    • @anitajohnson381
      @anitajohnson381 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sharonvaldez9059 it's your body that is disabled for disabled payments..not his body. It's all your money.

    • @tammyfitzgerald5336
      @tammyfitzgerald5336 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Auto immune they try to kill us should be illegal ❤worst that any other problem in USA 🇺🇸 mental health crisis 😮