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I lost my wife 5 years ago and I am still struggling

Thanks God, some straight answers. I've been trying to find HOW LONG do the stages of grief USUALLY take on average (1 day? 1 month? 1 year?) and all I could find is "it depends, it's very personal". No shit, Sherlock!

Had to put 2 of my dogs down in the last 4 years. Just put my dog down in Oct. It's been hell losing him, as I have no children and he was like my kid as well as family, and companion.

How do i do that

My wife passed away on August 11th 2024, if you feel like crying please do, emotional tears are for healing. I am shattered in a million different ways.We were married for 50 years.

Grief cant be Coached!! Thats a oxymoron!!

my partner my bestfriend my love, loss his father very recently and he turns from the most thoughtful man to cold and isolate himself. he suddenly send me a message and breaking up with me coz he said he cannot goon with me anymore the he is so broken and his not himself.. it brokes me, coz all i did was support him and made him feel love from the start when his father just diagnosed with cancer. im having mental breakdowns already coz i dont know how to understand him i cannot accept also the break up i told him that he can grieve all he want its understandable ill give him all the time and space. i will be here athome waiting for him but dont ever said the BU word again.

Love it!

I lost my healthy husband (48 y)three weeks ago. He died suddenly. We where married for 20 years. It feels like I have a knive in my heart. I miss him so much. We have three kids together under 18 and I have to help them with their feelings to. I feel so sad for me and my kids. I don' t know how I shall deal with life now. It hurts so bad.

8 months I and I was dealing with loss but lately coming home just sobing looking at her clothes

Thank you so much for this. I feel I have a plan now.

My husband passed away in January 2024. Like for instants, after a family get together, I felt lonely, irritable. they say that it is getting uncomfortable for them. What must I do.

This coming up Christmas is me and my family's third Christmas without my father 💔 I miss him so much

There are no clearly defined stages of grief. Kubler Ross wrote about the death and dying experience of patients, not the loss experience of near loved ones.

My dog helps me to ❤️

2 1/2 years in. I have no idea what it’s supposed to look like. 😔 Struggling so hard not to be lead by emotions and just DO! Nothing is the same and I… still can’t grasp it.

The Jewish grief laws are very helpful for 7 days you sit and reflect on your loss and family friends come to support. It is quite therapeutic and you are not left alone. Meals are brought. No one brings flowers

My husband.. his dad Said I am too sad and angry.. son died by suicide 2021, pending a divorce with 2 little kids.. our marriage is even more horrible. Men vs women differences?

That's a good video 👌

Yes

This was so helpful❤

I lost my wife of 50 years being married I will not touch anything of hers and I never will.💔💔

Thank you so much for this.

You are beautiful, thank you for those words of encouragement.

PRAY IN TONGUES. Do this one thing consistently and it will absolutely change your life in the best possible way and your relationship with GOD. If you cant/dont pray in tongues prayer the following; 'FATHER, GOD, I come in JESUS name and I ask the blood of JESUS to speak for me. I want my life to please YOU. I want to walk in daily obedience to YOU. Help me to recognise the truth about praying in tongues. I want to be lead only by YOU. HOLY SPIRIT, YOU are welcome to lead me, guide me, teach me. Help me to surrender all and any false beliefs and to align my thinking with YOUR will.' We need both the WORD and the SPIRIT to grow in truth.

Thank you I’m at 6 weeks

Kelli, I stumbled across your video and think perhaps maybe a Godsend. I found your voice and the way it seems you talk directly to me (the viewer), comforting. My husband passed suddenly in May - 6 months ago tomorrow and we did not have children...I also was the only child of my mother who although she passed 9 years ago, so no siblings to share in my grief or really help me through that of my husband's. I believe that I need to speak to someone because I obviously need some type of plan to help me through this year of firsts...coming up on the anniversary this month and I would like to speak with you, in particularly, if available.

I have just discovered this group. I am on month 10, grieving my wife, and it has been tough. My daughter and I participate in a six week grieving group. Next week we start cycle 5. It has been extremely helpdull and rewarding. Next month I'll be starting one on one therapy. Thank you for what you do. I look forward into taking a closer look at your presentations.

I am going now on for 10months after my husbands passing, and the first of of some birthdays had already gone buy. We were married for 30 years. At this point i am dreading on our Wedding anniversary and the first year of his passing that is lying ahead. I really do not know how I am going to deal with those 2. I have a good supporting system, but still thinking of him day and night. Although you do have a good supporting system in place. This is still your own journey, and its a very hard journey. Sometimes I just feel that where is God in this big picture.

Amen

Today is my first birthaday since losing my beloved Mom four months ago. Over the months so far it never became easier...I wonder if it ever will!

Even though I lost my wife of 37 years I still love god

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I lost my guy bestfriend almost one yr ago then 5 months ago my husband. Ive lost my father, my brother, my daughter and now my guy bestfriend and im a widow at 44. I really pray for healing

How great to stumble on this TH-cam. My father, mother, and therapist of 30 years all passed away within the same 7 weeks. I was expecting my long time therapist to walk me through my parents deaths. That didn't happen. I felt shattered. I don't see much writting regarding the death of therapists. Would love to hear about that, as it was so painful for me and I grieved for her alone. I created a tribute in honor of her. th-cam.com/video/yyNVU0iu1xE/w-d-xo.html

this direct and brief video is pretty much the only one that actually helped me write this eulogy!

Nice information

So it’s been almost 2 years since I lost my boyfriend of 15 years. Everyone’s disappeared, and no one speaks of him anymore and I’m just in terrible grief all over again

I am so very sorry about your young daughter and Covid so very very sorry .as for sharing grief in the country uk forget it the British are useless at grief you just have to deal with it on yr own try to communicate grief to others forget it

My girlfriend of 14 years lost her battle with cancer on September 20th, 2024. I was broken. But after the wake and funeral I stepped up and came to terms with myself that she was gone. I needed to move forward and not get caught in the rut. I have watched a couple of videos about men dealing with the loss of their wife's/girlfriends, and I don't fit in the box with most men. In the two weeks since she passed, I cleaned out the whole house, I removed her belongings, I reorganized, changed rooms around and basically stayed busy. I have my moments and short breakdowns but I'm a realist, I know I can't change anything. I said my prayers, cried my tears. Didn't get mad, I have no regrets. I'm ready to continue moving forward. She would have wanted that. We had these talks. I'm a Navy veteran so I know how to do chores, do laundry, clean house fold clothes and I make my bed every morning. I was raised with all sisters and raised two daughters. I have always managed the bills and kept the bank account balanced. I work an overnight shift by myself, so I'm used to being alone and used to the silence. I will never forget her and what we shared, but I needed let her go. No alters, or memorials. I plan on finding a new person someday to share my life with, because I don't want to be alone even at 63, I'm not ready to pack it in. After watching many different videos on the issue I would peruse a widow, I think that would be the best match. My kids are grown and gone, and I need to move forward and live my life the way I want. I know she is in the lords' hands, and she's no longer having pain. We will meet again, in the future, in another time, place and reality... James Swan, Rapid City, South Dakota.

Bathing is the hardest for me, there’s no one to be clean for. I forgot to do it.

You would never believe the horrible things said to me by family who then abandoned me for MY grief-- thank you 🙏

Great channel,you have a lot of good information,I’d like to share this with my girlfriend

Thank you for the information

Good Information,trying to understand what my girlfriend is going through as she lost her son

Thank you so very much I lost my wife on August 11th 2024 it’s now 61 days ago and I have been crying every day and night.💔💔 And to all that are suffering I hope that you will find peace and happiness someday soon.🙏🙏

My dad passed this February. I was executor of will and had to also deal with selling house. Plus, it was my attorney boss who took care of the estate so I had to do all the work.I don't feel like i got to grieve much because thats alot of work. But I'm almost done with the estate stuff and I'm trying to take care of me now.