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Yes you are correct. I miss my dear husband so much

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I'm so glad that God performed a miracle in my life through the hands of a Christian doctor. I thank god and give him all of the glory knowing that my wife doesn't have to brave this world without me being here. I know first hand that some things are worse than death and I thank god that I don't have them living over my head any longer. Amen.

Amen!

Exactly! Life goes on.

That’s the right decision. None of us would want our wives to never be happy if we weren’t around. My best for joy, when it comes. ❤

I am so thankful you shared your experience. I lost my husband 15 months ago and hearing your explanation of why God didn't save your husband really made me see things in a different way. Even though I knew the things you mentioned were true at the time, it still didn't stop me from asking God why he didn't save him. Your story gave me some clarity. Thank you.

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts... As a new widow of only a few months who has been feeling let down and abandoned by most family and friends, you have given me a lot to think about... I know I am not ready to take action and to step out from under this rock of loneliness yet... But you gave me a perspective that would not have occurred to me on my own... I used to consider myself a fairly strong woman and pretty resilient... But this has pulled the ground out from under me... You are making me realize that it is up to me, to take action against this loneliness, with some very wise suggestions... I really needed this... And I am very grateful to you for reminding me that even though I feel like my life is out of control at this time of my grief... Ultimately it is up to me to LIVE my life... You have just given me some very badly needed hope... Many blessings to you on your own journey of healing❤

Thank you so much for your video... I look forward to viewing them all... I wish you peace and healing ❤️

I just lost my husband 2 months ago... The feeling of becoming invisible to most of the people that I have loved for so many years, is an added grief... No phone calls, no texts, or offers of help of any kind... I had a celebration of life for him 3 weeks ago, and many people did show up... But now that all of the preparation that kept me busy is over with, and there are all these silent days of staggering loneliness, I am simply lost... Watching your video makes me wish I could say the things you suggest to someone who would care... But thank you for helping me understand that's some of what I am feeling is not really unusual as far as feeling detached from normal life anymore... I wish you and all who are viewing your video peace and healing❤

Tell the widow how much you admired her husband for all that he did for your church, school, and community. Someone did that for me and it helped more than anything.

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6 months from my losing my wife of 37 years. Every day feel like crawling up in bed

Numbness-no tears.

I'm living in year one now

I so needed to hear this today. It's been a vary tough 2.5 months and yes it does feel like my life is over. I was married for 38years and even though I' m in counseling the idea that I will ever feel joy again seems out of reach.

You rock, Emily!🙂

❤❤ girl i hear you. Grief. Love with nowhere to go. Thinking of you

I was married 48 years and it's been 2 years my husband has been gone , and I'm so Sad , so lonely still ... I'm not able to sleep anymore, or do anything, I miss his hugs , I miss him sitting on the couch , watching TV, I miss our car rides to the lake ,watch the sunset .I'm devastated...😭💔

Thank you for sharing your story.

So helpful! Ty!

3 years widowed .. 51 years old and the thought of dating makes me sick still.. but i dont want to stay alone either. I dont think im ready.

Having only been a widower for 3 1/2 months now, I can relate. People are there in the beginning, but slowly go back to their lives. I don’t blame them. I tend to regress from people since my wife’s death. I often just want to be left alone. She died at 48 and I am 52, so there are many years to go before I can join her. I have our kids and grandbabies plus I am still working so I get around people enough.

Hi camera shy your the best i have heard my wife passed away two year last Saturday happy i have found your page .Your last part is where my problem is finding widows thats likes the same asi do like flying Drones filming and edit videos just you keep up the good work thank you take care .

I loved being your shark diving buddy. I love your spirit and can’t wait to see you again!

Feeling like 10 times the woman I was as a good wife is totally relatable. I feel like when I tell a man I am a widow, I will follow it up with, "Do you have preconceived notions of widows?" to challenge him to rethink and expand on the conversation.

Not filling a void is such a good thought. I sold our home and moved away building a new life going in a direction that serves me better than my marriage served me. I think this sets me up to find someone new and have them fit into this newness more than my late husband would.

You certainly are the most JOYFUL person I’ve ever known! I’m so lucky to know you and call you a friend ❤. Shane is BEYOND proud of you and the life you’ve created for yourself and the boys! I hope to hear more about your journey and hopefully we can snag a getaway to hang out soon! Love you, girl!

Thank you for this! Love hearing a bit about your trip a well and look forward to hearing more about it.

This chapter 2 site is a joke. I live near Detroit and i cant see people in Canada cause its out of my region lol it is 15 miles from me. But i can see someone in up of Michigan 300 miles away. The only response emails from users were scammers and dic pics wtf. No regulations! #nix111$cammer opps i mean founder. Fricken plenty of fish is better then this app. Dont waste/give your money to this scammer

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I can't tell you how CLARIFYING this was....much gratitude to your guest for sharing her story....thank you ❤️

Sorry for your experience and glad to see your moving forward with your life.

In most cases family and friends disappear. They dont want to see it, hear about it, talk about it or offer help. If they offer help and you reach out, they are suddenly busy or unavailable.

So sorry for you’re lost.

I’m a young widower, I’m looking for a support group.

I really resonated with this episode. Thanks Emily & Shawn. I am sorry for your loss, Shawn. It was eye openning to get your insight into how you structure your Journaling. I look forward to applying your suggestions. I appreciated listening to your story. You both are refreshing to a widow's heart.❤️

Melissa was a treasure of experiential knowledge! Great wisdom in this interview.

Losing a spouse you definitely feel better and better as time goes on. Losing a child you definitely feel worse and worse as time goes on.

When people r married for a long time, they become codependent. They do ,most everything together, and become like one. They always have someone to talk to.When a spouse dies ,there is total silence. U have to adjust to making all of your decisions by yourself

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I’m so sorry for the loss of your beloved wife.

That makes sense cause the dating world is absolutely crazy!

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This couple is delightful! Such humor - timeless. Thank you so much for this episode. ❤

I find that this answer is not complicated at all at least for myself. I am into 2 1/2 years of being a widow. And I definitely feel the second year was a lot harder and worse than the first because the first year you’re in shock. My husband‘s death was a sudden one. And there was no time to prepare not that even if you know ahead of time, you could never really prepare for death of a loved one. That’s my experience. So the answer to the question is the second year worse than the first? you bet it is because reality hits hard that second year. My heart goes out to all you widows out there because this is something I wouldn’t wish on anybody. I read somewhere that today’s widows are yesterday’s lepers. Nobody knows quite what to do with us. We are Reminders of death and tragedy. And people tend to Shy away from us because they don’t know what to say or do to help us which leaves us isolated. That’s a lonely life. 💔

Even when have no Children it’s very Hard for me Judy was Everything to Me ! Thank You 💐🌷😊