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Thanks!! 😊

Thanks for sharing!

Yes, we are both divorced and remarried. What does that have to do with the price of tea in China? (As my mom would say!)🤣

@@joshandkristy Nothing at all apparently. I think that person was trying to "stir the pot" in some way. Sad.

@@rlhicks1 Wouldn't be the internet without the trolls! It is sad...

Thank you watching!!

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Absolutely not!

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Agreed!

Happy Anniversary!!!🙏💞🇺🇲😊

Happy Anniversary!!!!

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Amen!

Amen 🙏!

Amen!! 🙏🏼

Amen!! 😊

He’s got good stuff for sure!

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I am assuming she lives the same long 24 hours as you? 🤣🤣

@@joshandkristy no I work she stay home as a woman should

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🤣🤣 hey. Plullin’ your weight!

Coming soon!! 🤣🤣

The important thing is to follow what God calls us each to do. Pray for your husband and allow God to work on him. This is why community is so important! We all need others to lean on and gather strength from. ❤️

@@joshandkristy Thank you! I agree! This video was helpful.

Egg salad. 🤮 (j) 🤣🤣

My wife and I both have experienced severe trauma. Getting shot, sexual-emotional-physical abuse and so much more. Trauma is real and it affects us all..but GOD!! So sorry for your loss. 😢

Everyone is different and our past pain can be triggered in many different ways. Depends on the person and the trauma.

Most welcome! 🤗

What? 🫤

I think the whole therapy system is broken. It hasn’t changed in over 100 years. Even though society has changed in major ways. This is the exact reason why I’m finishing my grad degree in marriage and family therapy. Because I believe it takes something different to create a different outcome. I just pray, and hope that more people that see the problem are getting into the field to help create a new solution.

Amen!!

I was about to say the same thing!! You said nothing but the total truth!! I was broken and stayed for my children but I just don't want to keep going through the same thing. Bless you stay strong and hold your head high Queen! ❤

Amen this comment is witness by P.astor

The Bible states very clearly the way a man is supposed to honor their wives and if he has not done so you have a Biblical right to leave! It works both ways. Men need to step up and stop being so selfish!!

That’s why we have one per day! Works for your entire marriage! ❤️

@@joshandkristy where is the devotional calling women to submit to their husbands?

lol. Slow down buckey! Devotionals are supposed to help the individual not call out others! The last thing God wants us doing is try to do his job, by attempting to fix (or call out our wives). It’s a marriage devotional. There will be plenty to help both husbands and wives. 😉

@@joshandkristy All right there, buckey!! You call husbands to love their wives, like Christ loves His church, but you won’t call wives to submit to their husbands?

How do you know that we haven’t? Have you watch all our content? You seem So fixed on ensuring wives are called out that I believe you are missing the point here! Devotionals are not to supposed to encompass the entire Bible, that’s why we are all called to read God’s word for ourselves. 😊

Agreed!!

I agree. When you look at relationships like marriage, (through a faith-based perspective ) it’s hard to accept the way society is going. But you are right, it’s been going this direction for a long time.

I think you need to watch the entire episode before deciding on how bad the advice is. lol. Healthy equally yoked, Christ centered relationship can go out with friends. 🤷🏼‍♂️ Really not sure the issue here?!?

Not everyone is a follower of Jesus. Not everyone starts their relationships out with believing and following Jesus.

RESPONSIBILITIES tie into wants and needs. I think that it’s highly IRRESPONSIBLE to not focus on your partners wants and needs.

I think relationships are always tough. The most important thing is moving forward. What was the reason why she came clean? Did she explain to you? Why she kept it from you? These are the types of questions that are important for moving forward. We all have secrets to some degree. If you guys are together for 50 years, five years in is a struggle, the next 45 could be incredible.

@MugenWoe She helped build the relationship on a lie. If she lies to you, she doesn't respect you. If she doesn't respect you, she can't love you. Do you want to continue in a relationship with that betrayal in the back of your mind for the rest of your lives? In my opinion, cut it off and find someone else who will respect you. 5 years is nothing compared to a lifetime.

@@joshandkristyhow is the most important thing about "moving forward"? We're here to confront the situation not ignore it. Also what possible reason could be valid as to why she lied to him? Also can you trust her response to be truthful at this point? What ELSE has she lied about?

I just don’t think it’s that cut and dry, respectfully. I’ve cheated on every single woman I’ve ever been with, except for my wife I have now. Just for context, this is my second marriage. Just because I made those mistakes in the past doesn’t mean that’s the person I will forever be. People can and do change. Not saying what you are saying is 100% wrong, I just don’t think it’s 100% right.

The only true way to move forward is to NOT ignore it. I would never say ignore something of that severity. When someone is dishonest in a relationship, especially for that long, it takes a huge amount of trust and hard work to regain the relationship again. A single lie doesn’t make a person a liar. A single lie doesn’t mean that a relationship needs to be over.