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This was really good and. helpful. 👏

I think this is great, and I agree ❤

You are right but there are evil people in this world. As much as you might want to accept them as they are, they won't ever change. In that case you would get in the situation to accept them fully although they would even hurt you without a second thought. It's good to recognize that everyone of us has inherent worth but it is also important to know to protect yourself.

1. Don't watch TH-cam videos on how not to procrastinate. Just get on with it. You can watch TH-cam later.

Thank you

Maybe having more than one self is the solution?

Thank you for inspiring

I think embarrassment is the only thing i learned. Now i cant do anything lol.

Lovely video! Thank u ❤

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The hardest thing for one who helps others is to, in return accept help when needed.

Did you think this was news?

Incredible and very insightful!

Great but could you talk a little slower please? It was a lot to process. Love your IG.

Thank you for sharing this content, ur words bring a lot of awareness to me ❤

Good lord she’s clueless…

I have! Certain individual’s are nuts!

This is a gem of 1 minute packed, pure lessons.

Very well done and correct 👍

Stephanie I love you and I love a lot of the things you say however though I agree serving others because I want to and care about not to appease anyone makes me feel good at the same time I also strongly like to believe in enjoying your own fun things that make you happy and serving yourself too. Fact I like to believe doing what truly makes you happy weather that be serving others or doing your own fun things by yourself is maybe in ways the most selfless thing you can do because when you are happy you will naturally be better for everyone you interact with ❤

I ❤ your videos! Ty!

It's impossible to answer the question "What would I do if I loved myself completely?" when you cannot define love.

Beautiful if there was a heart option, oh hey there is...🥰

Crazy eyes, empty head.

hmm nahhh... not making THAT mistake again ahahaha

No wonder men dont want women anymore😂

Show up for ourselves 🤗❤️

I usually get lonely late at night when there's no possibility of going out and helping someone. I have no doubt that this advice is valid, but it's also unhelpful. Nevertheless, "When you create happiness for others, you create it for yourself" is a good rule to live by.

Like how do they use this advice to sell something?

Ur too fast,and not much elaborate.

And that's exactly what the main problem with me has always been. I have never had the support system I needed, in childhood, or now.

The point of social media's creator algorithm is to incentivize creators into making what prolongs engagement on the platform so they can show more ads. Capitalism ruins everything.

But the specifics of each person's experiences cannot and should not be generalized. Telling someone who is in immediate danger of self harm or otherwise "go help someone else" is poor care. You cannot just make universal statements about mental health in the manner you have and expect for others to receive it as you desire. What you are saying is dangerous to the most vulnerable.

"People are more inclined to engage with your content if you tell them what they want to hear, not that what they need to hear." Yes, that's true, but there is a second aspect to it: people are more likely to engage with content that either a) validates their pre-existing beliefs (i.e. affirms their echo chamber, which, really is what can be classified as "what they want to hear", e.g. a "conservative" channel claiming that a "liberal" celebrity agrees with them), or, b) challenges their pre-existing beliefs in a way that evokes negative emotions (i.e. challenging their echo chamber, e.g. a popular "conservative" celebrity agreeing with a "liberal" point of view which would evoke strong negative emotions in someone who calls themselves "conservative"). The media has used this formula for years - in fact, it is taught in journalism courses: "fear and justification are the two most powerful tools of a journalist."

Fear of failure. How do I consciously overcome this?

I dont want it. I dont fxcking want a car or a life. Especially if im forced to be around abusers.

Absolutely 💯

Agree. "How can somebody love you when you can't love yourself" is another bs social media keeps pumping. It's telling people you are not worthy of love until you sort yourself out. It sounds profound so they keep quoting it over and over.

What you say about helping others is absolutely real. The way out of isolation is to help others for their sake. It's strange how it works but it really gives a sense of belonging and purpose when you see you can have a positive impact on others. It needs to be balanced though, some people might abuse this very good nature of yours and take you for granted.

You give us a lot of new perspectives 🎉❤

Love it. Nothin but the truth!

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The idea that you are enough, that you are fine the way you are, is the worst thing you can tell someone. Sit for a minute, think about the troubles of your life, and ask what part you've played in them. Likely, the answer is "a lot." Be better. Do better.

No thanks, I am going to work towards my goals and try to honor God. Women detected, opinion rejected

This is advice for women. If men listen to it, they will pay the price.

I spent years being told by others that I needed to work on myself and improve in order to be worthy of things like friends or a loving relationship. When I told my therapist this recently, her response kind of took me. She said, "I'm hearing a lot of making yourself better for others, but what I think you may want to do instead is be happy with who you are, and ask yourself if someone is a good fit instead of trying to live up to their standards".

This is far easier said than done. I don't want to drag all this down, but this entire zeitgeist feels like it's obsessed with _self-acceptance_ or _self-love,_ or something like that - even between political divides. But every time I hear it, I always think: is this really enough? Do I get to relieve myself just by CBTing myself in the mirror about how great I am? How am I supposed to know if what I'm saying is true? Can generic internet advice about self-love really apply to me? How does this girl on the screen know who I am? Like, what - unless you really love literally everyone in the world, regardless of anything they've said or done, you couldn't just say that about _me_ and _know_ that was true. As I understand it, only one person is postulated to do that - and it's a dispute as to whether they exist or not. I've never seen anyone here give a real reason as to why _I_ should love myself, and nor should anyone here. It's something only people who know me personally could do in principle. I just can't see how this could be anything other than a _personal_ journey for everyone who's 'in the soup' (my term). If that then isn't enough, the only reason I can think of for that being the case is because they don't feel as though they're really being seen by others. For me, it's more a case of having the rug dragged from under my feet one too many a time to trust the rug than anything - I don't trust that _I_ can see my true authentic self. Building another illusion feels counterproductive.

I love the new happy way!!

Oh wow, I really like this one. 💗

Wow I love your animations! Fabulous work! Thanks for making amazing content ☺️❤️