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I stopped going to church once I found out that it's all false. No amount of doctrinally sound hymns or "proper" worship or "on fire" believers can change the fact that it's all Iron Age nonsense.

Good information. You said that men are more likely to commit DV. Not true. Women are more likely. Men just don't report it. We think it is normal to me yelled at and hit by a woman. Sometimes men have all they can take and strike back. Then they go to jail. My ex-wife was very violent. I was very careful to always walk away. I never went anywhere with her without thinking of a means of escape. It was terrible. Never again.

Man has been in rebellion since the garden, he blamed the woman then and still does today. Notice the spirit of this complaint, the woman you gave me! When God gave the woman she was a gift, she will be the avenue for you to have a family. Just because you are rebellious and resentful and the woman wants to serve the Lord by being obedient to the "go to church" mandate what a hypocrite you make yourself into by saying "I don't go to church and serve the Lord because the family you gave me is there and that offends me!"

I remember going to church regularly in my 20s as a single guy and being treated like I was a loser. Then I got married and went to church regularly, only to be treated like a loser and a fool. Then I stopped going.

21:00 He is wrong. Because the 2007 Whitaker meta-study using government statistics proves that females are 2.3 times more often the perpetrator of domestic abuse than males. Females know this but won't allow the truth.

Christianity is a music based religion because they sponsored the great music of past generations. They were virtuosos, think the EVH of their generations. Now its the wish version, and about inclusion.

Clearly youtube shadowbanned this man 10 yrs ago 😂😂

The tolerance anarchy, people must accept any kind of twisted abuse or evil, otherwise they discriminante or are hate speakers. Forbiden to reason!🫢🫢🫢🤔🥴

Hmmm... This guy seems to assume that churches are Christian. Been a long time since that was the case. And all those "faithful women". How many of them actually follow the teachings of the bible even in small fundamental issues as OBEYING their husbands...

Old church going women are surprisingly randy, if you get my drift!

My greatest regrets in my life are from following the advice of lesser men who were pastors… I own my decisions, I have learned from my mistakes and I have no intention of repeating them… I follow the Lion of Judah, not the sheep of Satan

Female influence in the mainstream churches has resulted in apostacy and heresy being accepted and tolerated. The church has traditionally, until recently, prohibited females from positions of influence for a very good reason, and we are now seeing the disastrous results of allowing them into powerful offices.

I quit going to church because I got tired of being lied to by a devil wearing a suit and tie God has given me a great gift of discernment and has show me you are all liars

The singing part reminds me of SouthPark episode, when Cartman decided to achieve platinum rock album by taking old rock songs about love and s3x and replaced all words "baby" with word "Jesus". Fun times.

Why when I'm just being told I'm bad and all women are good?

This guy is a liar. no one is non-partisan. Whatever he says next is probably b*******

One good way to bring back men would be this: equal weights and measures. Churches coddle women and berate men. Start giving fiery sermons pointed at women and encourage them to be godly. THAT will help bring the men back for sure. Start helping men out by helping them get jobs. I'm not saying give an incompetent man a pity job...I'm saying help them build connections to get real careers. Yes, we need to expect them to put in work too.

This is such a secular, sociological view of church. It is not just men leaving the church, the whole church is dying and has been for decades, and it is because disobedience in the church!

I don't mind worship, but 45 minutes?!!! That's what most non-denominational or apostolic or evangelic churches do.

I am starting to see more single men at catholic mass

I'm just going to throw this out here: I don't like to sing - period. I cant read sheet music so all that is meaningless. I really don't like people telling me what to do, say or think and it comes down to: stand up, sit down, stand up, sit down, say these words, sing these songs which i don't know. Greet your neighbor, give us money. and the money goes to places I don't agree with.

The singing or songs are completely feminine or repetitive. The song leader add libs to the song. So they never sing it the way it was written. Whenever they mention sin, its always the man's fault. So sick of hearing porn, porn, porn, and not accommodating the females, while half the females in the congregation are divorced, cheated on their husband, and took the kids. And of course its all the males fault. Also the vibe all men are sexual pervs. Then they wonder why men don't get involved or help in kids ministry.

The biggest reason men don't go to church is because churches don't want real men to be there. They want money from men and nothing more. Men also know that they don't need a church to know God. Church's have become so gynosentric that there is no reason for us to be there...

I bet this guy hates the Psalms where David said, "As a deer longs for streams of water, so I long for You, God," or when the gospel says, "Jesus wept." His mind must blow when it describes the church as the bride of Christ or David dancing naked in front of the Ark of the Covenant. If your masculinity is so "manly" you can't do what the manliest men have done in the Bible, then your masculinity isn't masculinity. The church doesn't need to change for that, but you need to readdress what manhood is.

People generally dont like being in a place that constantly judges them and tells them theyre toxic. They dont do this to women. They tell women there is nothing wrong with you and are great, sugar and spice and everything nice. They tell men "Your wrong! You need to do this! You need to do that!" Thats not a message attractive to men besides the double standards.

While he makes some good points, I think he is confusing pop-culture characteristics of being a man (energetic & unable to sit still, sports oriented, etc.) as the way men are. Consider Ps. 46:10. The surrounding verses describe scenes of war and battle, yet the command is "Be still." Or consider when Christ was at the Mt. of Olives, he doesn't tell Peter, James, and John to do some workouts when they got bored holding vigil (i.e. praying while holding a posture of prayer during the night). Instead of making the Church more friendly to the pop-culture image of manliness, the Church ought to be challenging men to conform to Christ and a godly way of living that promotes worship. Men have been taught by the culture "This is what is means to be a man" and it doesn't match up with the image God has provided.

I'm a little late to this conversation, but I'll give you my story in a nutshell. My dad was a pastor, and despite that, I was never a true believer. My earliest recollections are of skepticism. There was something about the Bible stories that just never added up. It all just reeked of BS to me. When I was about ten years old, I asked my dad how we can know that the Bible is true. He got this look of death on his face, grabbed me and said, "You don't ever, EVER, question the word of God! Do you understand?" It scared the living shit out of me. I knew right then and there that it was all BS. I also knew to never bring the subject up again, and I never did. That was the first, and last time I ever discussed religion with my dad. When I tell that story to my Christian friends and family, they would say something along the lines of, "Don't let your dad's bad behavior affect your faith, and I would tell them that he wasn't behaving badly, he was doing exactly what his God was telling him to do;. He was following the example given to him by God which is , "I love you, now love me back, and do as I say or I am going to hurt you really, REALLY, bad." That is God's message to all of us, and that is just one of many reasons why I'm not a believer.

This is caused by pastors moving away from the Bible and adopting feminism in its place. Satan's plan working as designed.

"His gifts are largely unwanted and unneeded in the church." Wow !

Men don't 'hate' going to church. Most men don't go because they don't believe it. And they don't believe it because they are rational beings. Religion is irrational nonsense suitable only for weak men and emotion-driven women. There is something yucky about a religious man. He lacks the cold, masculine edge that is important for every man to have.

29:52, its not just divorce. Even friendship, Christians are more likely to stick it out with a friend too. One of my best friends in the church is a know-it-all and I was really tempted to stop talking to him after we had an argument but then I realized that's not what Jesus would do. We are to love our brothers no matter what so I let it go and I'm glad to have him as my friend.

Don't wanna hug strangers!!!!!!!!

I didn't hate going to church. Thats why i wasnt considered a man. The women in my church love unchurched nihghas. I was sitting there watching them marry, screw, and have babies with the unchurched. I was oblivious to the reality. These women gonna go to church for the both of them for life. While he lay in bed sleepin it off, rinsing it off, or whatever. Plus i could cuss at church functions and finger bang the preachers daughter when we were 13. They love thug life plain and simple. And church confused me about the reality. Yall should rename your churches, 'The House Of The Ever Loving Unchurched Nihghah...

Because the church thinks women can do no wrong

I’m not a man, but this is an obvious and easy problem to solve. Men don’t go to church because there aren’t attractive women who are forced to be there. Part of community is having a bountiful selection of singles to network and mingle, possibly marry. No alcohol or drugs involved, just wholesome gatherings to connect with your local community. Men in 2023 are spending lots of time online, not enough time around women or other men their age. Having events to attract men assumes that churches are feminized, which is case by case. Most pastors are male. Most church leaders are male. Singing silly worship songs doesn’t make the church less male dominant. It’s still men running the entire affair. It’s time to face the music - men don’t see value in going to a place where the women aren’t attractive and plentiful. You get better odds going to a club or concert than a church. The same women go to both churches and clubs these days, so they’re not missing out on much 😂

Legalism. No thanks.

Dave Hunt called today's worship songs, "7/11 songs". You sing the same 7 words 11 times. Discarding the old doctrinally sound hymns for today's pop rubbish is part of the problem.

Read the Exodus Theory: Journey into the Spiritual Wilderness.

This is what the church tells women: “Proverbs 31 is an unrealistic and unattainable standard that shouldn’t be taken literally.” This is what the church tells men: “Love your wives the way Christ loved the church. Ephesians 5:25. You should be willing to die for her. Her shortcomings are your responsibility. Your children’s shortcomings are your responsibility.”

im the opposite i need to hide my true status and background as i prefer to be low profile and have my peace and prefer not to flash my status and only my what i have to say is useful since im not a attention seeking person.

Men would have never attended the early church because the Apostles Paul told them to greet each other with a "Holy Kiss".

Most churches are set up so that we all go into a big room and listen to one guy (or set of guys) get on stage and talk every week. Quite honestly, I don't find it to be worth my time either. As the Apostle Paul wrote, "The kingdom of God is not a matter of talk, but of power." (1 Cor 4:20). In every ministry I've seen that focuses on EVERYBODY doing ministry: healing the sick, baptizing, casting out demons, there are LOTS of men. Even more men than women in some instances. Nobody, male or female, interested in playing 8th fiddle to some guy and his cronies on a stage. Gen Z is coming through with serious 'main character energy.' Churches need to catch on quickly!

There is one more thing: I'm 30 and I always thought I'm gonna find my wife in Church. The problem is that in Church, single women are not interested in single men. There is no chemistry whatsoever. Lately I learnt that most of these woman have non-christian boyfriends that they don't bring to church. Some of them are cohabitating with them. And no one in Church is telling them this is wrong, there is no accountability for them. I grew up in Christian environment. I was always taught "but only in the Lord" (Cor I 7,39) and I really wanted to marry a girl that is also a Christian. Turns out they are not interested in us. How are young men supposed to win against that?

The reason why men don't go to church is because they're obsessed with masturbation and perfnography even so-called Christian men, and they're always thinking about sex and they like to spend all their time with their hand on their crotch so they don't want to sit in church because they really want to be home masturbating. That's the truth and I wish people would start to speak the truth and stop pretending that men don't have an obsession with pornography and masturbation.

A lot of these love songs that you hear in these modern-day worship songs are songs written by men.

@4:16, well, I put my hand up. Read Paul and the Gospels like the books for continuous reading they were written as and they are full of the language or sentiments of the left hand column. They are strong, uncompromising, and competitive: the competition between God and the World. Revelation: full of the most graphic battles. Can't get more competitive than that. Yeshua telling off the pharisees, deprecating Herod, standing up to Caiaphas...no end to it. Acts, full of violence, bloodshed, honour, sacrifice for a greater cause...amazing stuff. . So, me idea of a church hunting club is not so out of order, then. Helping farmers get rid of vermin, having a good time.

This man is awful. Many people come to him, some not for medical reasons, having made the rational decision to want to die. If someone isn't physically ill and wanting to die, they are mentally or emotionally ill. So he has vulnerable people going to him a trusted professional for information and he's agreeing they should die? He states "I feel uncomfortable exercising my right to prevent them from taking the course of euthanasia". But you're comfortable killing them? What happened to thou shall cause no harm. So the vulnerable are being killed all because said doctors ego's are now wrapped up in euthanasia being 'right'. One giant leap away from civilisation....

I'm sure women do outscore men on finger dexterity, but why wouldn't men just use a Bible app instead?

Awww, poor men. Perhaps we can masculate the church by adding a sporting event and serving beer. Yes, let the church serve men so that the men don't have to serve the church. Now for the truth: men don't attend church because their love for Christ has grown cold.

Praise the lord