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Thank you. Very much.

Thank you!! **hugs**

@@CynthiaLees-kq7cs Ask and I can send it to you when you want it :) Comments bookmark them :)

@@CynthiaLees-kq7cs Haha!! 🤣🤣

You are welcome :)

You are always very welcome **hugs**

@@victoriagrove5344 You have no idea how good that makes me feel... I have the same problem often.

You are very welcome, love.

Haha! Me too! **hugs**

;) The Story is almost done... Open Mind. The Ending has a BIG FINISH. The 12th Ethic. Non-Judgement for all have suffered. All have been Punished.

Oh, yeah! I hate the script. I'm actually working on a "script" now that, when repeated, it unlocks and frees the Identity! I think it will be something like, "Excuse me. What you're saying is what everyone is saying. I know because I've said this before. What does your Identity want?" ... So I would condense that to "What does your Identity want?" If you were to take off the mask, who would I see?

**hugs** Thank you so much. The Hope Threads is one I go back to often. It's one that truly is at the core of turning life around and so, so many people turn to suicide because they lack the hope in finding answers or help.

You are very welcome!!! **hugs** And thank you so much for the love and support! Every word goes a long way to keep me going forward.

Thank you!!

To Love is to Value without Profit or Gain. Most people put "conditions" on love, which is only done during manipulative tactics of Emotional Prosthetics. We see this often between Narcissists/Empath. "Serve me and I will love you" says the Narcissist. "Need me and I will love" says the Empath. This is Conditional Love. In fact, it is not love at all. Love is, "I love you because I am." It is a Celebration of the Self. We choose who we love based on our Ethics and the Reflection of the Self. And as we Grow, Ethically, we lose the Defined Toxic Self (Conditional Love) and gain the Defined Healthy Self (Unconditional Love defined on the Ethics of Natural Growth). This is Love. Pizza... lol... Your love of pizza is based on the pleasure centers of your Taste Buds to Brain. Not on Love: A State of Being.

@@AnnaImaginationNYC so if one takes conditional love as the contradiction in terms. To place conditions on love would be I love you therefore, or I love you when you. I think the real premise that I missed previously is that one cannot love, is incapable of real love, until one's ethical ideal has been reached, until one becomes one's own source of light and highest value, at that point the person one loves can only be of the same nature and nothing but unconditional love would be possible.

Pythagoras is the man who invented the term "Philosophy" and when translated properly, it does not mean "Lover of Wisdom," but actually "Wisdom Love." Waking up to a quote from Ayn Rand from an intellect brought tears to my eyes. Thank you.

@@AnnaImaginationNYC it was my pleasure. It's the best definition of love I've found so far. A person's "sense of life", and, "Self-made soul" are two of my favourite phrases of hers. "Wisdom love" sums it up perfectly. Wisdom being the sum of all one's knowledge and intellect. Also the phrase love is blind belongs in the same trash can as ignorance is bliss.

LOL! OH, I like you! Yes! Yes, it does! @@CuriousCattery "Ignorance is bliss" is what I call "Slave-Mind" Conditioning for when an Abuser wants to keep a tight leash on their pet. "Knowledge is Power" is the proper retaliation for "Ignorance is bliss."

My dear. First... Condolences. My deepest healing warmth to you. Grief, in my opinion, is a Grieving of the Self. A Deep Sadness of our Dreams, Identity, or our Hopes... It is a piece of the Self that we have lost. For Identity and The Self is composed of Pure Love, which defines The Self and thus are Dreams born. (See your Quote from Ayn Rand that you left me). To grief is to simply be sad for the part of the Self you have lost. Gratitude in the time spent with your dearest friend. Gratitude does much to soothe Grief.

@@AnnaImaginationNYC gratitude makes sense as a healthy response to grief. In a sense it is a loss of self within a certain relationship container and the loss of a primary value. He was an incredible soul, fussy about who he would bond with but completely relaxed and at peace with his surroundings when in the right company. I'm grateful that he and I met when we did and had as much time together as we could. I could love him completely without fear of being manipulated or losing myself. I do think from observing society's beliefs about grief, and from first hand experience that what sometimes is labeled as grief is in fact narcissism. I experienced this with my mother who engulfed me with her "love", and would often tell me that I'd saved her. The final time I went no contact she accused me of killing her, developed cancer, and died a few months later. She was an incredible and yet very sick soul who fell into a lot of toxic new age ideas. All she ever wanted was unconditional love which is an oxymoron, and to merge with those she claimed to love. It left no room for the other person and the only boundary possible was no contact. It's been about 4 years since she died. I grieve the person she could've been if not for following a self destructive path (she was incredibly creative and had inexhaustible amounts of energy for her passions) and I feel a lot of anger towards the new age movement and various so called healers, psychologists, and psychiatrists she saw in general. It's a relief that she's gone because I'd likely still be trying to fix it all and losing myself in the process. I'm also eternally vigilant not to become like her by understanding why she was the way she was, what choices she made and beliefs she held. I think it's easy, when a child's survival depends on being more aware of their parents' mood than their own, to slip into codependent and abusive relationships later in life. Which is what she did, what I if I'm not conscious could easily do. Self Love like you said in one of your videos is the antidote. Or as the objectivist ethics would say, Reason, Purpose, and Self Esteem. And that is my rant about grief. Thank you for your videos. I don't agree with or understand all of it but there's a lot of depth and understanding on your part to them which is giving me some new perspectives and things to think about.

On a side note, the way we talk really shapes the way we think. When we talk using the language provided to us by the pathology paradigm, we ironically go against the principle of radical acceptance. The word "healing", for example, implies that whatever that thing that is in you, is somehow "ill", and that prevents you from being able to radically accept it, and, thus, let it go. So yeah

I agree. I use "Healing" because it is what is familiar, but I hate the word. There is nothing wrong with people. The system is the problem. I use Pythagorean Psychology. I love your insights! They align with my philosophy. I do a lot of work with Linguistics the physics and biology of Language. And invented Abstractic to address this problem at the core. (Sorry it took me so long to reply)

@@AnnaImaginationNYC No prob. I have friends who take months to reply, lol. I wasn't expecting you to reply tbh, so this is a very welcomed surprise. Thank you for reading my comment. I'm glad that we are on the same page. I met at least 2 other people also working with the linguistics of this matter. It would be great if we could change this for the better somehow.

Correct. It's why the word alone makes me cringe, BUT... My Definition of Romance is a bit different than the 4th Perspective's Definition. It is Valentine's Day. I'll talk on Love and Romantic Love today. :)

Rebuild the Self. Look at the big picture. Not at this horrific event or the pieces that occurred to you. Instead, look at the Journey you are on. Go back to your beginning and rebuild your Self. Learning to Fish begins at the Beginning. All of my work here and on my websites does nothing but this. Start with CHOICE. Your POWER of CHOICE. That builds Self-Authority, which builds Confidence and Courage... the path begins at Choice.

lol! Thanks!

LOL... Nathaniel! I am very familiar with Ayn Rand. Most of my Philosophy was inspired by hers. I only comment on my own Philosophy. Not on others. I am an Author and not a parrot. Free Will, Destiny, Fate, and Choice... We will talk about that today.

Thanks for the sub! Be sure to tell others so they can also get the message. So many of us are brainwashed for our entire lives so we need to help as many as will listen.

a "2 week chip?" WTF is that? lol... I often say, "Psychology is used when you want to manipulate people. Ontology is used when you want to heal people."

Yes! I do take requests! Thank you for the questions! I do teach group classes for apprentices. My people will be in touch with you shortly with how to contact.

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**Hugs** You do not walk alone. At the end of the storm, there *IS* a Golden sky and the sweet silver song of a lark. And thank you... I often wonder if my anger is too much. If I should hide it... So many people complain about my anger... But you... Your words are all the fuel I need for the rest of my life to keep getting angry and to keep it MORE REAL than ever. Here is a Hope Thread... www.annaimagination.com/youll-never-walk-alone/?swcfpc=1 and then... www.annaimagination.com/the-philosophers-compass-the-life-vitals/?swcfpc=1

Hope it gets better

**hugs** Much warmth and light to you!! And congratulations!! Self-Authority! Choice! You are the GREATEST AUTHORITY on YOU!

@@AnnaImaginationNYC you helped me with your Vid! They always blaming if Iam angry. With this Iam just saying fuck that shit!! You know what I got a sedative Pill! Iam not sick it's society and most of humanity. I think Iam back on track. Fight. Never give up. Never give your Power to others! 💪

Anger is an emotion. Emotions are not destructive. The ACTIONS we CHOOSE to do with that anger IS. And the actions can also be POSITIVE. For instance: When I get angry, I choose to PROBLEM SOLVE and CHANGE a situation. That is NOT destructive. Do not blame EMOTIONAL ENERGY for your problems. Blame the CHOICES you do or don't take. Anger is just energy. And when people blame EMOTIONS for their actions, they are NOT ACCOUNTABLE. People who believe that emotions are the problem have A LOT of learning and growing to do.

point taken. @@AnnaImaginationNYC

Anger is also essential for healthy boundaries. Emotions are indicators of our values.

It's the Delusion of presenting themselves as the Underdog. Narcissists always present themselves as "weak, vulnerable, meek, and helpless." Then, as their Caregiver "nurses them back to health," the Narcissist strikes. The Narcissist uses themselves as bait to lure in the "Super Hero," which is stage #1 of Narcissism. True, healthy people, don't emphasize their own weaknesses or shortcomings. Beware of those who talk often of their failures and problem. It's "Damsel In Distress" and "Underdog" bait for those who need to nurture others to feel fulfilled.

LOL... I See a LOT of Astrology lovers wanting my charts... ! 14 May 1980; 10:55 AM EST; Cortland New York. I am a Taurus Sun, Taurus Moon, Taurus Mercury, Taurus Jupiter, Leo Rising, Cancer Venus ;) - Generator 6/2 Line

You are definitely a Generator! We are all so perfect in our design. I love your Taurus energy, it's solid and productive. Your Pluto must be in your 9th house? I don't know but it's fun to guess. peace sister@@AnnaImaginationNYC

Your Part of Fortune is in Gemini too which is your Destiny/Good Luck home and it's in the 11th house of Aquarius /the Humanitarian. - I knew I liked you - I have Venus in Gemini out of bounds too and Mars out of bounds in Cancer and I'm a Taurus and I'm a therapist... peace@@AnnaImaginationNYC