Black Girls Heal with Shena Lashey
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Black Girls Heal - #268: 4 Reasons to Be Proud of Yourself
In this episode of the Black Girls Heal podcast, we're taking a moment to celebrate YOU. Yes, you! We're shifting away from our usual conversations about red flags and relationship challenges to focus on something equally important - acknowledging just how far you've come in your healing journey.
You know those moments when you catch a red flag early? When you trust your gut instead of second-guessing yourself? When you look in the mirror and actually like who you see? Those aren't small wins - they're evidence of your incredible growth, and it's time we celebrate them!
Through personal stories and real-life examples, we're diving into the beautiful transformation that happens when we start recognizing our own progress. From being able to spot those red flags quicker (instead of six months down the line!), to actually trusting ourselves more than other people's opinions, to developing that genuine self-love that isn't dependent on anyone else's validation - these are all victories worth celebrating.
This conversation isn't just about patting ourselves on the back - it's about acknowledging that every step forward in our healing journey matters. Whether you're just starting out or you're well along your path, there's something powerful about stopping to recognize how far you've come.
In this episode, we cover…
02:47 Why you should recognize your growth
03:31 Embracing your wisdom
05:13 How to navigate life's challenges
06:30 Understanding self-knowledge
08:26 How to build self-love
09:42 Having faith beyond relationships
19:22 The power of self-liking
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