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Codependency is never healthy-but external stress TO a relationship (hardly uncommon with LGBTQ people) or with the individuals in a relationship when dealing with *external* events will obviously impact those individuals. That’s cause & effect. Straight relationships have a web of invisible support that is largely lacking in LGBTQ relationships unless friends & family are able to fill in-and **that** dependency can be unhealthy too. Yet we all are part of a social fabric-so what’s the answer? Balance. For Nick to be concerned but carrying on as if “everything would work itself out” would mean-and convey-that Charlie was, in fact, just a (transient) boyfriend. A first love, exciting for that but essentially a distraction from the rest of his life. I think their relationship is much more than that. It’s my view that they are “soul-mates” (or whatever term you prefer) and they are destined to be together-and obviously want to be. Yes, they have considerable growing up to do. Given their ages that’s hardly surprising. But both guys have a solid instinct for emotional sensibility. Nick and Charlie have both been responsible as teens-even their excesses have been moderate at worst. Drinking? Drugs? Nope. The worst they’ve done is made out-chastely! Nick feels the lack of self-identity and, as he put it, “wants the Uni experience.” Nick also agreed to go on the family vacation, something he could have balked at. He was willing-even happy at the prospect of the vacation despite being away from Charlie. That is not codependence, that is independence and it is healthy. It was only his understandable worry over Charlie’s ED that intruded. Charlie had his own journey to make, profoundly complicated by being a survivor of prolonged traumatic assault. As his therapist pointed out, he still had the inner strength to take risks and to be vulnerable, showing Charlie to be far more resilient than appearances might suggest. He will have a struggle with the (hoped for) season 4 which we (hope) will cover with the Summer and extend into the first terms at HS and Uni where N&C are separated. I’ll just observe that while 4½ hours IS a long drive, my daily commute when I worked was 1½ or 2 hours-each way-depending on which office I was going to. A few decades ago I had someone very close who lived 1500 miles away. I’d take frequent long (4 day) weekends, perhaps one every 4-6 weeks. Fortunately I had a job that gave me the leeway to leave a little early to catch a flight or arrive a little late when returning so I was able to maximize those four days… but the point is LD relationships can be made to work. And the time traveling is relative. Charlie can get his license and Nick can take the train using that time to study. Problems with possible solutions. Yes, life will change, but with that change comes opportunity. And Charlie is smart. HE might end up being accepted into Oxford if he focuses. But… only Alice Oseman knows. 😃

LOSSS AMOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO 😭😭😭💗💗💗

This a reminder of my boyfriends Alex

I hope if we get a season 4 that they will focus in nick's mental health aswell😭 he was trying to so hard to stay strong when he was struggling aswell.. - i love the part when tori said he is her favourite🥺

This edit is so beautiful😭😭

Nick e Charlie Forever ❤❤❤❤

Nick Nelson é uma verdadeira belezura ❤❤❤❤

My favorite LGBT couple ❤

Move in with him

Nick just go and tell your boyfriend r

I want to see Heartstopper season 4 so bad. Please @Netflix we want to see how this wonderful series ends and say a proper goodbye to all the characters. 🥺❤🍂

it breaks my heart whenever Charlie goes through hard time's.. and i cried so much.. when Charlie told his parents his personal issues... Charle will always be my favorite the main character of heartstoper will always be the main really hoping they add some more seasons soon

i been lost with no season 4 i really hope they add season 4 soon even more seasons to come i, hope i love nick & Charlie ❤😭

I love you the music + heartstopper ❤

They weren't supposed to be together because it would destroy one of them if the other felt bad at such a young age. but in all of you thinking Well they are doing well now but Nick is someone who is two seconds away from having anxiety or depression

Great work buddy ❤

Come here u idiot 🥺

Joe Locke’s performance throughout HS, especially in S3, is outstanding. He deserves the Emmy! HS is really Charlie’s story.

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Essa série e top e mi ensinou que quando amarmos de verdade a outra pessoa tem que amar na mesma intensidade

Such a good video it so good and sweet

I really hope next season they dive into Nicks codependency issues with Charlie although is it cute and wanting to always be with your person just like his aunt said it’s unhealthy and even in scenes after Charlie came back and was better Nick seemed out of place when he wasn’t with him Uni will be a challenge but I’d love to see his evolution of finding himself

uch go and break my heart why don't you :((( this was beautiful, really put the spotlight on nick's story, and how he's trying to discover who is his without challie

Incredible edit ❤

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Xperia

Acho que todos merecia ter um Nick na vida 😢❤ amo essa série, ja perdi as contas de quantas vezes assisti , acho que nunca vou enjoar de assistir ❤

1:15 what episode is this scene?

A melhor série de todas

I LOVE THIS EDIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Situation.

Why did this make me cry 😭😭 they're so cute ❤❤

S3 DESTORYED me but I appreciate them not sugarcoating anything or taking away what makes this show so special! This edit captures that essence beautifully, thank you for more tears in a good way 🥹

The fact that this was playing in the I love you scene oh my God I’m so happy this is one of the best videos ever!❤

When the song started i was crying 😢❤ 😭😭

Thank you, very sensitive

Fue lo mejor que he visto en mi vida y ahora entiendo que no pueda encontrar alguien como nick para mi estoy en un mar donde no veo tierra 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Very nice edit!

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Such a good vidoe it so good and swet

this is so beautiful!!!

my comfort show forever.

this is amazing!! how do you get the clips?

I cried so much during the scene where Charlie tells his parents 😢 it was so powerful and brave and vulnerable

What an amazing edit of an amazing series 😊. Heartstopper feels so relatable in so many ways. Heartstopper is the first series/movie ever to have made me cry, it felt so weird but so relieving. Heartstopper is an emotional rollercoaster that makes you think about life. A true masterpiece.

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Beautiful song for a beautiful story ❤️💕

I have no words to explain...I just love the series...in the world of Charlie..we all need a person like Nick ...but sadly we don't have one ..😢😢😢😢

Powerful ❤

Wow this was beautiful. Thank you 😭😭😭❤️