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Just randomly won a makeup party for 8 friends at a Bridal show. I've texted 10 ppl invites. 2 ppl responded right away saying they couldnt make it, 2 ppl said they could make it & the other 6 havent responded at all. Makes you question who your true friends are. People are so unreliable. Girl you aren't the only one. Sometimes ppl just suck. Keep working on yourself: eating healthy, working out, doing things you enjoy, focusing on school, spending time with loved ones. Life is short. The people who are meant to be in your life will always be there. I'm 36 recently engaged & I struggle to find time for myself after working full-time. So I try not to let the whole no friends thing bother me anymore 😅

I'm so happy u are back. I missed seeing you. I feel similar about friendship. As I have gotten older, I dnt have as many friends as I have had in the past, and it is hard to make new friends. I also find myself doing the checking in seeing how everyone is doing, and it gets exhausting. I have just started doing me, and I have found that the people who are supposed to be part of ur tribe will show up. So don't worry, they will come

Good to see you!

Hello Hauthor, thanks for being so transparent. I'm relocating back to NYC after living in Mexico City for the past few years. I recently began searching "things to do in NYC" on IG for the sole purpose of going places once I'm back in the city with no expectations but showing up as myself. I know most encounters will be polite and we will lead our separate lives, but I know there are other women like me who seek meaningful, friendships where we witness the essence of the other person. I'm also brainstorming an initiative for this purpose for women over 30 in NYC. Anywho, I'd love to share a few links of the IG pages with events happening, and perhaps when I'm back in the city we can meet for a tea. Let me know! :)

Adoption is positiv and possible.

Everyone’s purpose should be following Jesus, but it may be hard to understand why. Just know that he loves you and wants you to trust in him. God bless ❤️👍🙏🫡

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Wow I haven't watched one of your videos in weeks & I see a changed person! You seem to be so strong mentally & physically. I love how you have come to terms with it's just not your time now. I haven't been going on my morning & or nightly walks & I miss it. Your updo is gorgeous! You will get there I just know it. I've been listening to Lavendaire's positive affirmations on TH-cam each morning & they have been helping me. Maybe try watching/ listening to one when you are having an 'off' day. My Mom struggled the 2nd time becoming pregnant & the Dr who delivered me went on African safaris every year. He asked if she had tried traveling across the equator. My Mom & Dad went to Aruba (located near South America & over the equator), my Mom came back pregnant. Something about the gravitational shift of the earth's axis messes with your female cycle & it helps you get pregnant easier. Some ppl wouldn't believe it regardless of the science but a trip to Aruba did the trick & was much cheaper than $$$ medical trials: IVF, etc

Welcome back. You look gorgeous. You and hubby will have a child God's willing. Your doctor wlll take care of you. ❤❤

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Hey, how can I reach out to you privately? Would love to share something with you and I hope it would be something you're interested in. Thank you :)

This story is so relatable to my situation. I have pcos and I know how hard it is to conceive with the condition. I'm 33 and feel like my time is running out to having child/ren. I have struggled for a decade now,and lost two pregnancies (twins at 22 weeks and a baby girl of 16 weeks that happened on this year's mother's day) and an ectopic pregnancy. I'm now thinking of relocating to the UK to start over after my husband walked away from me. I'm doing this while afraid 😢

You’re husband thinks like I do when it comes to desserts but it has apple 🍎 lol 😂

I could never do this. If I skip 1 meal I overeat at my next meal to make up for the calories. I know I don't drink enough water in a day & that's probably why I get headaches almost daily. I woke up early because I'm hungry/ thirsty. I'm always hungry😂 my bf has diabetes & he fasts till noon every day. I think his Dr is full of 💩 when she says fasting is good for diabetics. My bf is doing well working out daily & has never looked better, however; I find it ironic that his #'s are still high with his diabetes & she has told him if he can't get his #'s under control then he will have to get on Ozempic. I think she gets some sort of kick back for the more ppl she gets on Ozempic. Reminds me of the movie Pain Hustlers with Emily Blunt. I wish my bf would take an eating class so he was more aware of his nutritional choices. But he refuses. I think everyone who is diabetic should be required to take educational classes on food choices. The whole world can't afford to be on Ozempic, its $$$ & most ppl can't afford it to begin with. I started working at a pharmacy recently & its depressing how many ppl are diabetic simply because of poor lifestyle choices 😢 I hope doing this improves your health & overall happiness, I just know I could never do this.

GREAT JOB , I ENJOYED THE VIDEO 🤐

the singing is angelic omg - going to need a full version🤩

hi, How are you? I love your content. I analyzed your channel and found there are many problems. Can't you see the problems. You need to solve the problems very quickly. I can help you if you want. I will wait for your reply. thank you

I don't have an Apple laptop but I've noticed if I leave my laptop on it will go to sleep and will not easily wake up. The power button is lit but I have to keep pushing it until it goes out and then press it to start again. Sometimes it takes quite awhile for it to work. If I shut the laptop off then I have no problem getting it to start. So now I make sure to shut it down even when charging.

I am waking up now, I am 32. It’s okay it’s okay it’s okay

Love your energy, you keep singing

I'm in the same boat as you, Sis like I just turned 31, been unemployed for 2 years now, like I'm frustrated and overwhelmed by my emotions 😭 😒 I'm from South Africa 🇿🇦

Hey Haular! I am Ugandan born in London as well and I want to move to NYC for a masters! Congrats on the move, so inspiring!!!!

I love your content

Social Media is false. You will become a full adult when you stay off of social media.

I'm in the same boat! Partying a lot in my 20's, avoiding any form of responsibility - after 3 years of trauma therapy I finally started sitting in the driversseat of my life! Yes when you are in your 20s you can make more mistakes and experiment but I have found that all the things that i put away I now can tap from. No matter how or what - the years we spent 'hiding' are still years of experience. For example you now creating a video that inspires young people to make the most out of their 20s and connecting with other 30+ people to show that the moment is now ;) All the best and thanks for the vid!

This speaks to me so much. 🩷 Happy I came across your channel and looking forward to hearing more about your life and journey. 🌞

Thank you for sharing your story. Please let me know I can send you a nice African Handbag as personal gift to say Thank you for your bravery. <3

I loved watching this thank you for sharing. Also maybe try to explore and dismantle your beliefs on adult friendships! I find that the more I used to think like that, the more I would attract people that were closed off like that. But honestly I’ve made so much close amazing friendships in my adult life, I think you just have to find those people who feel confused like you. We all are. Just food for thought! You’re doing great :)

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from a late bloomer, I can assure you, it’s not too late to become the best version of yourself. I too woke up when I was 30 after my mom passing and becoming a single mom whilst in debt and broke! it’s only over the last couple of years that my life started to make sense again and I’m turning things around. Just a reminder that just because it’s taking time, it doesn’t mean it’s not happening 💕🫶🏽💕

Your message speaks to me. I had just turned 31 this year. Last year, I had lost my job and remained unemployed for 8 months, despite actively searching. What little I had left was nearly gone, and I accumulated so much debt that I never thought I would have in my lifetime. I was finally hired just two months ago, and slowly have been working my way out of debt and desperately putting whatever I have left towards saving for a future, but it feels like an impossible task, especially while seeing so many people my age (and younger) starting families, traveling, and seemingly feeling so sure about their lives. What kept me going was this piece of advice: "don't aim for perfect, aim for progress."

I can totally relate to you. I would say write a list and prioritize those things. Pick one or two things off that list and start there. Trying to do it all will continue having you filling stuck. Income seems to be the most important so I would say start there and work on a second thing that would require you to get out of the house such as going to the gym and then that could lead into you meeting other people. So I would say to start there. Take it one day at a time and enjoy the process or journey. You will get there in your own timing. No more comparing your life to social media ok! People of all age groups have this problem. I just moved to a different city about 3 years ago and I felt that way. It takes some time but it slowly starts to come together. Letting go and enjoying the process and enjoying the journey will make the destination that much more enjoyable.

as a 20 year old, thank you for sharing your perspective

Also, you’re not alone! We’re in this together! This battle is internal we must remind ourselves of that! Enemy get out! You are not welcome here! You used your authentic power to share this with us! You are walking in your power. You’re saying things like catch up, late bloomer, etc. All I hear is no financial obligation that keep me tied down, new beginnings to continue creating the life of my dreams, and lightness to start fresh! Everything is perception! Shift yours!

I paused after 1:23, I have been exactly where you are, actually just shortly over a year ago. When the circumstances are changing and you still feel a heaviness second to second, that is your spirit crying out for attention. We have an ego and a spirit. Our ego is moved by all things that we can perceive with our five senses. Our spirit, when recognized, only perceives love in all things, people, and places. It may be time to go within and start the journey toward wholeness. Because no matter how far you climb, unless you have an awareness of the higher powers at work, and wellness practices based on what you need, there will be this continuous longing feeling on the inside. Getting in-tune with source, your true self, will solve all of that instantaneously! Allow me to be a testimony, as I have been transformed by the renewing of my mind! ❤️🤞🏾🪷😇

Thank you for your vulnerability. I can relate being a late bloomer myself and being in a similar situation. You didn't do anything wrong. Just as you said, life be lifeing. This too shall pass.o

I don't know why he's annoyed with your singing; you've got a great voice!

I can't say that I'm a late bloomer except from the perspective of a recently retired woman who now has time for meaningful friendships and haven't been able to find that tribe you speak of. I have one close friend from high school but she lives 2 hours away and is still working. We get together when we can but I miss a more spontaneous connection with others. I've had some lunches and dinners with women I would like to connect with but so far am not feeling the kind of close friendships that I had hoped for. I'm a bit of an introvert and a homebody. I have 2 adult daughters and a 6 month old grandson I get to take care of 2 days a week so I have those connections but it's not the same as having a close girlfriend that you see frequently. My spouse of 40 years passed away shortly after I retired so being alone is much more pronounced than it would have been if he were still here. Making friends as an adult is difficult for many age groups so if it helps you are not alone.

Hi Hauthor, remember that everyone’s blessings come at different times. Just because you see others with things you desire doesn’t mean that they aren’t facing their own challenges. I understand how difficult it can be to make friends as an adult; I also moved from London to the US, and it hasn’t been easy. I’ve kept myself busy by exploring different hobbies and focusing on my professional development, much like you. Being a late bloomer can be frustrating,as it often feels like you’re behind. But I believe this is part of Gods plan for you. You might be surprised at how many people would love to be in your position. Though you may have doubts about your faith, remember that the almighty God (Jesus) never fails when you trust him. Everything will turn out beautifully for you. Don’t worry.

Hi Hauthor, I am also a late bloomer and the struggles you speak of are so relatable. I have so much to say but I don’t feel like venting. So I’ll just say you are not alone in the situations and emotions you have shared…. Love and light ❤️🙏 maybe let’s try to be thankful and grateful for what we have irregardless……..

Thank you for sharing and being honest. I'm a late bloomer, too, and I totally understand being in the wait.

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I've been to NYC 2x, once when I was 15, & once at 19. Never long enough. I've always wanted to go back & stay longer & see & do more. I love learning about other cultures, cuisines & trying new things & NYC is great for all of those things. I also have a degree in Fashion, however; what those jobs pay I would barely survive on in NYC. At 36 I don't want roommates. I'm from Iowa it's in the Midwest. I used my degree for 7 years in Iowa as a designer (sewing & designing samples for customers & getting them ready for Production)& currently I'm learning a new trade as a Pharmacy tech. I was beating myself up for the longest time for not using my degree anymore, but now that I'm not in a creative job, I have more time to work on my own creative projects. We are all capable of being multi faceted. Why stick to the same profession for 40 years?

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. ❤

Love your style!

This is so beautiful. I'm glad I found your channel ❤