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I wonder, instead of Gay, what about using the term HomoErectus? I am a masculine Bisexual Happily Married Husband to the perfect wife and take seriously, "forsaking all others," but previous relationships include six Boyfriends plus women. I began to see that using that term described by Boyfriend sexual activity better than "gay or Bisexual." Plus, as a Bull, it explained the intimacy and attraction to making love to them or just doing something sexual, i.e., sucking only or stroking together-sword fun.

Literally me. Heading for another alcohol rehab next month but when not in my addiction, im frozen in place between the depression and anxiety. So i feed it alcohol

So good. You explain all of this clearly. It really took me quitting drinking to even realize how unregulated I was. Is there much research about attachment styles at different ages? I feel like there were particular issues for me from 8-18

Finally watching the rest of this. Thank you for this - the lenses was super helpful. do you know Lisa Feldman Barrett's work?

Please do more video like this Justina!

Hey Justina, do you have a book about this topic you can recommend ?

Came over from IG. You are in fact radiating. This framework makes sense to me. Whether it’s nature or nurture - coming to grips with my pattens - especially while under stress has been helpful. I found I had better attachment patterns until things got tough or I felt rejected (post honeymoon).

Great interview! It was only after about a year or two of steady meditation that I really started to see these narratives forming in the moment. Still I find it requires constant maintenance to not let negative narratives to take hold and to maintain a healthy default state network. Good stuff !!

Lovely video! Looks like you are enjoying the mansion! From my experience it’s like improvisational music playing. The comment about what feels good to you be what they want is important - and a trap I fall into now that my partner is experiencing a lot of blocks. (Especially accumulated over time). Something I struggle with is that in my case, I feel like im doing 100% of “owning” the process whereas she (who is 52) could die without having another piece of cake to borrow your metaphor.

I've been trying some of these techniques and I can feel it working, albeit slowly. It does require self-discipline - particularly not 'inventing' or reinventing any problems later reframing the experience as performance.

Do you have any specialized education or certifications in this area?

Your channel is so informative and helpful. It is going to grow fast.

Great stuff!!

This is so so true. Your focus creates neural patterns (wires firing together) and creating ruts. If the pattern can turn into a constant reminder to align and get in a good spot you are getting somewhere. Wow what a story. I’m so happy for you.

I love your videos.

Why do women get giggly after on this topic.

This is a great interview! I follow Sharif on Instagram, and this was really helpful!

Though it is helpful to know what not to do, it would also be beneficial to see examples of bios done right and why. Looking forward to future videos.