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No friends no favors....walk away both have a good life. See ya

Yes it is as the negatives out way the positives as it's been proven to be bad for long term attachment. And more pre-martial sex is linked to greater likelihood of divorce.

Do you believe this goes for all men in general or is this advice specific to nice guys

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Man…. I wish you were my boss 😂

Define normal 😅

💯 right. Virtually every 1 is more resilient than they ever fully understand. If we weren't, the human species would have died out before it began, and a significantly higher percentage of people today would have off'd themselves long long ago.

Walk away

I don't know if I'm referring to the same thing as you but I find scripting things can be a double edged sword or make it worse (because you become fixated on remembering your lines instead of being present in the moment, you miss things). I prefer a semi-structured approach. These are the things I might say if X happens but I will only say them after being lucid and aware enough in the moment to assess if it's even relevant

Fantastic explanation!

I’m in the army, I do IT and for some reason at the beginning I’m sharp and on the move and all of a sudden I start feeling dull and start calling myself an idiot out of nowhere. I start having an internal episode and shut down completely… idk if it’s because I’m on a rotation and been away from my wife and son is getting to me but I can’t stop insulting myself….

Best advice ever😂😂😂😂😂

Thank you.

Is it imposter syndrome when you get told to do something smart I started feeling dumb at my job 😂😭😭

Doesn't much matter to her.

Thank you Jason I recently ended my relationship with my girlfriend simply because she was just calling me too much and the compatibility wasn't there

That was a real message. I felt it… Thank you, Sir.

She knows and doesn’t care. Only her problems matter and you better fix them right quick.

My much loved partner left me for another man last year. We had a great life together.. house in the country, nice car and plenty of money. Maybe it was all me.

You don’t.

There are legitimate and illegitimate boundaries. Saying a person who is straight is going to become gay no matter what is not a legitimate boundary. Saying "leave me alone, I'm not gay" is a legitimate boundary.

As a man I don’t feel safe telling my wife I’m not doing ok because just like trying to please her makes her lose respect and emasculate me….telling her my struggles does the same.

I think you touch on something perhaps by mistake when you said stop thinking they will take your existential pain away. I think that's deep.

I would probably pay for both rounds, but if I did things differently, I would propose it to her like this: Let's make a deal, I'll pay for this round, you pay for the next round. Deal?

Another gold nugget

Staying in the friendzone and accepting it will only lead to a life of bitterness and anger, I know because I'm still recovering from it being spineless enough to allow it all through my late teens and 20s holding out that false hope! :/

It’s negatively affecting me but she only showed this 6 months ago since we moved in together. We had a good amount of sex until we moved in together. Then all the excuses come out. I’ve tried asking her if she thinks she asexual and she just doesn’t even try to communicate about any of it she just gets mad and uses her excuses. I want to just give up and break things off but it’s a little bit hard when I’ve still got like 10 months of a lease left

I disagree. It can be measured in large increments... Also, it's best measured by results. How has your life changed, are you getting more of what you want because you are speaking up more often? That's measurable

If men and women defined friendship the same it is one thing. But they don’t. I blame the guy for allowing himself to be placed there. I have never seen a platonic male/female relationship work to the satisfaction of both sides because it will never stay that way. One secretly wants more. My question would be to any man…what point is there in having a female in your life

Wow ! So spot on 😎👌

In the past I had thought it is great to keep female friends because I was single and they might help with advice on dating. Of course their help was useless anyway since it was alwyas about pleasing the egoistic women. Recently I tried dating again, she tried to friendzone me after the first date. I cut her off completely.

Boom! Thanks for your direct answer and to the point!

Depends, I have friends who I had relationships with and its fine. Others no longer in touch with. My ex wife biggest regret, we were friends before we got together but no longer. She was pretty cool as a just a friend. I'd never go back . Others are in the maybe emotionally if I was single as they are genuinely nice people. I think it depends on your history with that person and acceptance.

Good video. Clear and concise.

You can be cordial and technically “friends” without being part of their life. Return her soft rejection with your own.

Yes very true. But if one has spent a life trying and failing to say the right thing, then saying , or even knowing what your authentic self would say is a totally foreign concept. How does one find ones own values if they have spent a lifetime suppressing their own self, thoughts ansd odeas and instead sharing what we think others want from us?

🤔If she really is a friend, she would be willing to introduce you to other women as potential romantic partners. Test her by asking for that!

Get to rejection quickly. - Dr glover

I find that as Nice Guys, we expect all women everywhere to have unconditional respect for men. We also expect to be able to take the passive role and just hope that everything works out because of this expected unconditional respect.

This is good advice if you're honest, and 'realize' you have no chance. Realizing is the key, because you can sometimes fool yourself. When I was young I was sometimes on the other end of the spectrum, where a girl liked me, but I only wanted to keep her as a friend.

Block her on Social medias?

Good advice. Plus if you are worried that somebody will talk s@#ty things about you aknowledge that someone prone to that will always take that bad action towards you. You can control that. Ignore consequences

Coach. She invited me over to her home after we left the club at 3 and friend zoned me .

No contact

Say goodbye

Very few 1% Amen that is the solution indeed…

Amen! Thanks!

Don't stay friends! Just be friendly in your interactions

Do you think that ai could be a safe person if therapy isn't an option?