Yes! my sil and mil talk almost like this, its exhausting- a constant victim/whiney/gossip deeep sighing speak, the loudest biggest talkers in any room. Idk how my husband ended up differently but I'm very grateful
girl that is so rude and wrong to say! don't generalize based on 1 or 2 people. if someone with BPD is abusive for reasons relating to their disorder, they don't mean to be and they're most likely aware of their actions and have to deal with the consequences but are watching everything unfold without their control. you're literally a prisoner in your own brain. it's like when a dog snaps at you when it's scared. it didn't mean to, but it's a trauma response or something they did in fight or flight mode.
I know two people that act like they have HPD and that's what I agreed to: some people act like they are in a soap opera 24/7...My friends with BPD were exhausting and suicidal so I have empathy but we are not required to save people and be their eternal therapist and helper. We can have empathy or understanding but abuse is abuse. Everyone has the backstory for why they are the way they are. If a dog bites or kills someone we put the dog down so that's a dumb analogy. I can have empathy for my NPD fam members too but healthy boundaries are important. Here's a better analogy: if you try to save a drowning person you can both die. @@feetloaf420
Excellent work, really enjoyed the your approach with the client, easily flowed.
Don’t tell me there are people that act this way. I thought borderlines were the worst (well, I still think they are, as they are abusive)
Yes! my sil and mil talk almost like this, its exhausting- a constant victim/whiney/gossip deeep sighing speak, the loudest biggest talkers in any room. Idk how my husband ended up differently but I'm very grateful
girl that is so rude and wrong to say! don't generalize based on 1 or 2 people. if someone with BPD is abusive for reasons relating to their disorder, they don't mean to be and they're most likely aware of their actions and have to deal with the consequences but are watching everything unfold without their control. you're literally a prisoner in your own brain. it's like when a dog snaps at you when it's scared. it didn't mean to, but it's a trauma response or something they did in fight or flight mode.
I know two people that act like they have HPD and that's what I agreed to: some people act like they are in a soap opera 24/7...My friends with BPD were exhausting and suicidal so I have empathy but we are not required to save people and be their eternal therapist and helper. We can have empathy or understanding but abuse is abuse. Everyone has the backstory for why they are the way they are. If a dog bites or kills someone we put the dog down so that's a dumb analogy. I can have empathy for my NPD fam members too but healthy boundaries are important. Here's a better analogy: if you try to save a drowning person you can both die. @@feetloaf420
LMFAOOOOOOO
this is an example of bad acting, not histrionic personality disorder...right?
It's basically a satire of histrionics
Yeah, too over the top.
😂😂😂
Is it real?
no its just a simulation
My ex acts just like that....almost to a tee!
I’m starting to realize my mom definitely has this.
This is literally my sister lol.
This is my mom to a T! Lol
shes beautiful. Im glad she scored the interview
Honestly, I also want to be Elisabeth's friend. She seems so sweet and kind 😊
Nice! thanks for sharing
Thank you very helpful to see Super's theory in action!!
I'm studying career counselling right now. This was really helpful, great work!
Me too