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“Consistency”!! I am stealing “Effort not force”; that is so Great!!

Experienced all this throughout my 20s. The solutions are spot on.

Who has time to just hang out in public hoping that you might make friends. I am 58 and have never made a friend from a business that i supported. Most of us don't have the option of working from a coffee shop. Remember your life experiences are the exception not the rule. P.S. Your wrong churches have not changed, they are still breading grounds for toxic people.

It’s interesting to hear you talk about this and I’m grateful of your willingness to share. I would have never guessed you have these struggles because of the way you come across in your videos.

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My word… systems!

I agree LinkedIn is so much better than Facebook for me. My goal is to learn from others, share my inspirations, books that have helped me and to celebrate others accomplishments. Networking is a plus when you engage in it, especially when it is authentic.

I appreciate this!

I do this every year at my company, because there are folks who go out of their way to help me. I pick up a nice container and fill it with snacks, we all need to eat.

ya same i did all this but worse

What makes you think that people talk to each other in class? This is not my experience. Adults show up last minute and leave as soon as the class is over. There is no time to talk.

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or you have no credibility also , right ?

How do you react when you see someone from a different dept. and I say good morning and by the time you say moooorn…. The other person acts as is she has seen the devil and does this many times. And then one day after 3 years tries to have a friendly conversation. 😮

Love it, Cassandra!!! Just subscribed. :)

My question is, how to let go of the fear of rejection; do you have a course on that?

How true, we care for so many, but who cares for us? There are times we all have to balance the give and take.

Such an interesting discussion; so many people are only “act” interested because of what you can do for them. Is there a way to see through those with ulterior motives vs. those who are genuine?

Best advice ever; “listen more than you speak”! I also was not expecting, after watching a video on how to talk to anyone, to get a link on how to bail; you truly have us totally covered!

801st subscriber here! 🧡✨

From a fellow external processor, YES!!

As an extrovert this needs more views!! I get so lonely without social interaction and feel like I can’t be left alone :( but I also get so exhausted from difficult social settings. I get depressed without my friends, so I feel like I’m a needy person who can’t be a real adult on my own even though I’m 30…

Great information that for me is easier said than done; It’s so difficult to leave the safety of being a lurker.

Made For People, Super Communication, The LIKE SWITCH books are stunning choices that i can look into 🙏🏿😃 thank you for sharing this cass

Thank you for the tips cass 😊 i appreciate it! this video help in a major way.

Thank you for the clarification & great advice cass 🙏🏿💯 i needed to hear this.

Wow I needed to hear this. Lol. Thank you! 😂😊. Do you have a teen version of this? My daughter with Asperger’s needs help with building connections and confidence. This pandemic really messed all of us up!

Somewhere you can see someone on a weekly basis at least. you get to "know" each other. And actually build relationships. Vs at bar / club or event a quick event. Your there boom next time they are somewhere else. This is why relationships can develop at work. You get to be around someone and get a feel for them rather than a stranger on the st.

Just came across this by shear luck as I didn’t see it when it was originally uploaded. I enjoy the occasional guest but also value/appreciate hearing your insight into various aspects of the workplace.

Nice information, as always. As much as I like hearing you speak on topics, it’s nice to see you inviting guests on occasion.

An ongoing class.

This was so so helpful 🎉

Cassie such a great show and very timely for all of us who want to work on connections. Thank you so much. I will follow Bailey on LinkedIn for sure.

The baby boomers don't ghost. That's the difference. Ghosting is now acceptable behavior. Integrity and closure are less valued.

I agree with the first two reasons. But #3, yes there are times you don't know what to say, such as giving advice. Then just say that you are not comfortable giving advice, and either suggest someone who could (clear that first with the person) or say I will get back to you on that one, let me put something together for you. I guess what I am saying is just acknowledge the person in some way.

Interesting discussion; lots of great information that is easy to forget when you let your emotions get the better of you! It’s very easy to blame yourself when you believe you’ve been ghosted.

would you have any advice for drop in classes? i use ClassPass and sometimes manage to book the same time slot every week... but 90% of the time, all my classmates are different people. its often like this with dance or gym classes as well. most tend to be "drop in" classes

Nice video; appreciate the personal stories of how the books helped you at a specific time in your life. I am curious if you will be writing a book at some point?

Thanks for the video!❤

As an iced coffee lover, don’t you have a way for us to “buy you a coffee”?😊

I remember you made a video before about loneliness and hybrid working and I read the comments and people were saying hybrid is great because they have more time to spend with their friends and family or they can avoid the toxicity of their office. My family also reap the benefits of hybrid working because there's always someone at home to keep an eye on and care for my elderly grandma. But I think people forget that not everyone has friends and family that they can easily visit and also, not every office is toxic. I heard this suggestion from someone and don't remember it well, but if you and your friend have the same work-at-home days, you could gather at one person's house and work there. If you need to take a call, you can go into another room etc. I've never tried this before (and it's not my idea!) but I think it would work because you're having the social interaction with your friends and working as well, sort of making your own office. I think the only issue is if you work on confidential stuff that can't be shared with other people

Cassandra, you are amazing! I have been following you for 4 years and I love how you deliver your messages. This video was for me! I consider myself an introvert and struggle with networking. This has been useful. Thank you!!

I have my accountability buddy, so I am going to start with finding pre-influencers in and out of my field. I am also going to check out Noah Kagan's book, thank you for the referral Cassandra.