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Happy new year. I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. You do not have to be a certain age to access attendance allowance and it sounds like there maybe lots of support you could access. Please reach out to Dean though as he is the expert dean.morgan@grey-matters-consultancy.com. Also check the description and get yourself a carers card. There is loads of support available there. Best wishes.

@ thanks for you reply that’s very helpful 🙂

😂 He's been around a while he seems resilient.

That's so good to hear! Please listen to the full episode. Sarah is fantastic 😊

Thank you so much. Please share with any one you think could benefit. 😊

I detect sarcasm 😂😂 I think there is a difference between saying "let kids do whatever they want" and "maybe ways we are trying don't work very well" . For instance prison doesn't work and actually statistically slightly increasing the risk of reoffending isn't the same as saying... . "yeah we should let criminals do what ever they want". There is a thing called a reflective and nuanced argument but let's see what happens next.

@ lol true, but yet we raise the theft limit at stores to avoid criminals getting felonies, and now we have more thefts. We legalize drugs and now we have druggies on the street. It seems to me as if Americans no longer hold people accountable anymore, regardless if it’s “effective”. Just my opinion, sure prison maybe isn’t the most effective. Preventing people from even wanting to go to prison is the real issue. Preventing students from wanting to get detention is the issue. Accountability.

My approach involves restorative practice. Helping people to see how their actions impact on others through developing social understanding, responsibility and empathy. If I empathise with the store owner because he's just like me I'm less likely to steal from them. It's not punishment based as it rarely works whereas restorative practice could help people be better to each other and is proving more effective when used. But long way to go.

@ honestly, I hope that’s the case and wish you the best. Unfortunately the culture in America would need to have a whole different value system. Asian cultures seemed to have mastered accountability and honor, and shame. Wish you the best though.

I'm UK based and there are sectors here that are getting there but.... systemic change is a long way off. Here's to a better world though 🤞

Fuck humans animals are animals, pets are pets. Same thing with me bro bro

It would be amazing if all parents had the choice financially if they wanted to stay at home but if any parents want to work or need to work they should have that choice but then maybe a recognition from the powers that be that a higher level of nurturing support maybe needed for longer by any community the child goes into like nursery maybe needed. We used to be raised by the village, grandmother used to be in the same house, auntie and uncle over the road, next door were called auntie and uncle even if they weren't related. It doesn't have to be one parent or the another. Kids need play and kids need empathy from somewhere.

Aboslutely, the work/life balance is paramount! As is having that time to bond and adjust to being a parent. Thank you 😊

I agree, a lower risk of violent death, better education, decreased childhood mortality, longer life expectancy, reduced global poverty and yet we are still not happy. Mental health is the worst its ever been so something is still not working. So are we measuring metrics of well-being the wrong way or do people just need to get a grip? The challenge is that resilience to challenges seems to be poor, why do you think this is?

@@abletocarepodcast mental health is as you want it to be. Especially in modernity. When you tell yourself that you are more privileged than 99% of humanity (117 billion people who’ve existed) everything goes away. We GET TO LIVE AND WORK IN AC WITHOUT PREDATORS CHASING US.

@@abletocarepodcast people are non-resilient today because of they are pampered and everything is already made for them. They don’t have historical perspective. It seems as though they’re incapable of imagining the 30’s……..

@@Egalitarianism_Secularism again from a logical point of view you are correct. We are so safe. However, our biological evolution has not kept up with our cultural evolution. If you have ever felt nervous on a job interview or when giving a speech your brain triggers a similar response to when a predator is chasing you. So why have you ever "logically" felt nervous? Did you not have control of your brain? emotions are not logical. Now its amazing if you personally have a brain that works typically and has really good psychological strategies for managing that fear. However, under the biopsychosocial model, not everyone has the same biology, psychological strategies or social support. So what would your answer be to those who can't yet do what you can?

@@abletocarepodcast everyone can develop it. CIA are highly functional psychos who can become a different person on command. How you act is a choice. Everyone can be trained to suppress emotions as they should sometimes. When we get to live in a place where the roads are made for us AND EVERY ANSWER IS GIVENNNNN TO US (INTERNET) and we’re on the cusp of commercial space tourism in this human arc… There’s very little reason for despondency barring heath issues.

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Great quote. Thanks for your comment. I often refer to it as an internal battle of cost and benefit. The benefit and cost of maintaining vs the cost and benefit of changing. Some people will change when the pleasure of changing becomes greater than the pleasure of maintaining. For example if I offered someone a million pounds to stop eating chocolate, even though they love chocolate, it might be enough motivation for them to change the habit with no pain involved. 👍 Thanks so much for engaging. 😊

Thanks for your feedback. I won't pass on your feedback to Alison who is the podcast guest on this occasion. As she is talking about her and her daughter's experience of being neurodivergent and constantly being corrected, it seems a little too ironic to then correct her. I'm sure your intention was well meaning though and you are 100% correct so thank you.

@@abletocarepodcast hahaha that is fair, this is the Internet and I'm always thinking of the sociopolitical game theory, it isn't always healthy.

no I appreciate the correction and I know but forget due to my neurodivergent memory issues. 😂

That's an interesting concept. So you feel the number 1 cause if the increase in crime since the 80's in British youth is because we are now more open about feelings. I'm not sure there is a direct correlation but it would be interesting to explore and see if there has been study done. My only thought though is the majority of crimes don't seem to carried out by the youth who have higher emotional literacy and intelligence, in fact I'd statistics show exactly the opposite but I'm always open to new theories.

Which just like early dementia in general, has become much more common since ignoring rampant long term effects of COVID infections and constant reinfections became an international policy to pander to short sighted corporate greed not wanting to install HEPA filters. We are all affected, it is only different in degree. Hidden pandemic of neurocognitive decline while everyone complains about air traffic control, pilots and doctors making more mistakes than ever before

It's our pleasure. Please could I ask why this was useful for you? ❤️

@@abletocarepodcast sorry I just saw your response. I am an adoptive momma of 7 amazing angels and my 3 younger kids were all born with drugs & alcohol in their system. I have never heard of this before your video. 🩷

You're right the concept of halo effect or reverse halo effect does seem to fluctuate based on cultural perspectives. My example doesn't not exist anymore it just more nuanced than I could describe in the clip but great feedback. Thank you.

@@abletocarepodcast thank you for taking it as feedback, too often coddled people take raw data as confrontation.

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It's 100% misused at times. It's designed to protect and empower but is often not. Education is the one of the only ways we will be able to improve things. Thanks so much for your comment.

Thanks for your comment Robert would you like to expand?

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I've been compared to worse! 😂