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What if the abuser remarried? That's committing adultery, shouldn't that free the wife from any spiritual attachment/ covenant?

The underlying problem with the Christian view of marriage is that Christianity has made an idol out of marriage. The Bible has a lot to say about idolatry, none of it good.

I put a divorce into motion when my so called biblical, so called Godly, so called Bible believing toxic narcissistic wife disappeared on disabled little ole me. I do not have video proof that she cheated on me, but she moved in with some people and toward the end, before she left, having men over to my house for her supposedly male friends for fellowship

I was asst pastor at age 20. Married an ungodly 19 yr old girl. Spent 40 yrs wandering the desert of sin . Now at 65 im back under God's grace. Thank you Jesus Christ. He never gives up on us . I need to hear this every day. 🙏💯😮

I like the black. What is love w out ethics and morals? Weak. Not of The Spirit. Love your enemies and pray for them . For God So loved the world 🌎.❤😂🎉

This is great, as a musician and old school John Mayer fan you nailed this!

😊 nice

"You are faithful" CBN radio like that song. Very nice song. 👌

Faithful when no one else is.❤️‍🩹

Abandonment is not grounds for divorce.You can separate and not live with another. Adultery only grounds for divorce

You can leave a person who is abusive but cannot divorce or live with another. Very hard to do. but God allows. If adultery takes place you can devoted and remarry.

If a spouse abuses,he's already divorced you?AMEN,AMEN,AMEN!!!

"ABUSE"....according to who? - An odious wife, who incites her husband to hatred, Proverbs 30:23 kjv - Puffed Up Spiritual guides, who don't deal with true male abusers of women. 1 Cor. 5:2 KJV - Corrupt Social Justice engineers who covertly hate moral justice THE KJV BIBLE PULPIT PIMPS ARE THE TRUE ABUSERS OF WOMEN.

He created government's kingdoms he created everything that's operational for and was taking place in knows what's going to happen before it happened that's why he says he's he is Alpha and Omega

God created everything everything belongs to him he created the are he created blood he created anything that you can see and cannot see he created your heart your hands your feet your eyes your ears your nose your tongue even your spirit belongs to him even knows the thought before you even think it

No because the church belongs to God and everything in the world belongs to God so if you know the truth everything belongs to God because he created it all

Yes! Abuse. Is grounds for divorce

I just listened to 1 min 35 sec about your breakfast.

This is false teaching for the most part! Your opinion is not necessary! Speak only what Yahweh says in His Word! Blessings 🙏🏾

talking about your food as "dope" is not something I would expect from a "Christian."

Another good video showing abuse is Scriptural grounds for divorce - Divorce and Remarriage with David Instone-Brewer th-cam.com/users/livek2v-3zOHRHY?si=xuFwZgLOdMiWtkdu

A spouse can abandon the other and yet still live under the same roof. If the husband will not financially support his wife and children but makes his wife support herself he has abandoned her. If the husband will not protect his wife and children, even if he is living in the same house, he has abandoned them. If either spouse does not give conjugal relations to the other they have abandoned them. Conjugal relations is not just sex. It is love and companionship. No woman wants sex from a man who will not love her and be her close companion. Many times a husband will complain the wife will not perform her duty to give him sex. Sometimes she does not because his actions push her away.

Very interesting perspective, but can I add that in my opinion other forms of abuse can also be grounds for divorce, as was in my own case. I am now remarried, but only after years of processing and healing. God is still my everything, even in my marriage, He comes first. Many people do not take the time they need for their healing journey. I was very happy as a single person but God had another plan. I am now a carer as he is much older than me, but i do not regret the path i have taken as God has opened up wonderful opportunities for me over the years, and still does. When we give our past and our plans to God he uses it all. He is the healer of broken hearts.

There is always fornication with abuse

Hey I'd love to know more about that tradition you mentioned where the groom would wrap his bride in a garment to signify protection. Could you please provide a link as a reference for that?

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Actually no its not. You can legally seperate & only thing I see allowed for divorce is infidelity. Jesus also said if you marry a divorced person you are committing adultery. So are you going to compromise our Lord's word???

What I got from your explanation of God hates 'divorce', (really appreciate your explanation here) is, God hates covenant breakers. So, following through, a spouse who abuses/ abandons, is the divorcer...which God hates...if that makes sense.

The church puts narcissists on pedestals because all the service and tithes they do yet turn a blind eye to their character.

Is religious cult biblical ground for you to leave? Marriage is supposed to potray God-man relationship which is love and submission. Outside that abuse is like religion putting people in bondage. Come out of it says the Lord.

This is absolutely amazing

If you have a marriage ceremony but never file it with the probate court, are you really married?

My husband is not my Saviour. He is to be a servant leader. We are to submit to each other.

God hates abuse, pride, immorality, lies, etc etc.

I enjoyed your video. Side note: Try Soyrizo. It is meatless, not too spicy but has the flavor of the spices. I don't like spicy food, but I like Soyrizo. I like it used sparingly, such as in scrambled eggs. I've never eaten it plain. It is delicious when used in spaghetti sauce.

That also goes to the churches, congregations, ministeries, christians, families, who committ sexual immorality offences with children, minors, and also women, and men, along with crimes, and covered them up with lies, deceit, deception, irresponsibiity and the list goes on.....they already divorced God and the covenant of life and broke trust. They already divorced love, and their marriage covenant with reality and truth and they divorced peace, and chose evil. Also the nations that support abuse, violence, corruption, and severed and cut themselves also off from the community, or had to force others into persecution and exile, abandonment, excommunication and shunning, when it was never God's will. The leaving, is the departing, which is death, destruction and the delivering up to satan, or evil, or death, so the soul may be saved. The sacrificed lamb.

Fantastic job, hope John has seen or will see this!

Thank God your video came up on TH-cam My daughter was in a very abuse marriage mentally she was drained and lost her health but church advised her not to separate or divorce because it’s a sin (God hates divorce)but being called stupid and fat and whole other names it wasn’t ☹️ After 5 years of abuse finally she divorced and remarried with a God sent man who appreciate her and love her very much and God bless them with a beautiful child! I don’t encourage divorce but please don’t stay in a abusive marriage it will destroy you in every way Be blessed!!

Have you ever noticed that one of the most discussed items is divorce? Not discussions on murder, adultery, cheating, stealing, etc. There is so much confusion about divorce and God is not confusion. The underlying confusion is generated from the definition of “the husband of one wife”. God has zero confusion in His Word and God did use the word “divorced” when it applied. The confusion comes from the Pharisee view of self-righteous MEN, who misinterpret God’s Word, in violation of His own demand for you to forgive old man sins. Imagine you hear “ I know you not because you were a stumbling block for my children”, referencing Revelation 22:18-19. God forgive after repentance and rebirth, man condemns outside of God’s commandment.

I hate chorizo!!!🤮🤣🤣🤣

I have lost a few friends to suicide. As they couldn't live with all the righteous judgment, neither there husbands emotional abuse. People that have not experienced emotional abuse, please stop telling others they should have done more. By the time they kill themselves, they have depleted their ability to submission to their husbands, They have judged themselves to a point of despair.

I'll give an example: A young women marries an older man who wants a family. They have 3 children, each less than two years apart. She goes thru postpartum depression with the 3rd child just before Covid shutdowns began. She started drinking alcohol to cope. They were divorced a year later. Makes me think....no judgement but seeking God's best for all parties. What about God's mercy and the wife's recovery? I understand that every individual story is to be respected and needs the ministry of the Holy Spirit in Jesus' name.

I see in the Christian church there is an agreement for divorcing any spouse who is abusive, an abandonment of the marriage by an unbeliever, addictions, etc. The area that remains hotly debated is the question of re-marriage.

Thank you for helping to make this issue clear.

😊 dude, I totally get the chorizo dislike! I've lived in Southern California and I'm now in Central California. Supposedly I've tasted some of the best, yuck!! Just saying

According to Jesus the Son of God,Adultery,or cheating is the only reason for divorce.

As long as it is in the scripture then that is good and it was i knew about immorality but i dint know about abuse And quite a few believer women would be comforted, yhank you .

Thank you 😢

You’re missing the scripture where Moses granted divorce due to the hardening of your heart. The hardening of the heart was a man’s violence towards his wife. The Bible grants a divorce on these grounds meaning you are free to remarry.