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What I find strange is that solitary confinement is considered torture yet people think it's okay to give timeouts to their kids. It's also strange that spanking is considered wrong even though there have been studies that show there are benefits to it and some people pay spank therapists to spank them. Or ask their partner to do it.

False. 😊

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I have autism, and I personally think if the kiddo wants to be left alone, leave them alone. If an autistic child is simply left alone, their meltdown will stop.

Doesn’t make sense to me but ok

What you do is don’t fly with a child until they can understand what is expected of them. Your welcome

That is so so helpful! I have a kid who cant communicate very well and feels all that.. and i am working towards being able to do that .. and it is so hard to regulate. Think of words to co-regulate. Im doing it all wrong…. thank you for helping me to find that answer. You are helpful!

Will you make a video where you act out the exact process rather then tell me .. show me how or play it like im dysregulsted and you Are helping me to calm.. so i can play it 10,000 times until i can do it for my son..

How did you get the job without knowing these things before hand? We treat special needs individuals like inmates and wonder why they act out.

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I am a teacher and I want to move away from reward and punsihment systems, it just feels confusing where to start

Yes I did that one time and really worked. When my daughter had her tantrum I start talking about buying princess dresses and beautiful things that we will get she just stopped crying

We see a lot of kids who have no manners walking around the streets now like a gangsta. Cause no one hit them. If you don’t teach your delinquent kid properly when they are young some body else will.

Yyyyeeeeesh this doesn’t work for me

The parents don't care, they see children as objects, as slaves, as animals, as feelingless, the only way to stop them is the law, morality isnt something they know, all what they know is if its legal, then its morally ok.

Tried a similar technique around and hour ago. It make my toddler happy for 2.5 seconds then went back to having a fit. With 200 other parents watching. And "wiggling " was more like "flailing ".

Does it work for a 10 year old preteen meltdown/tantrum?

This is an example of redirecting.

My 3 year old hits me and kiks me in the face when i want to nap what should i do????

Amazing!

This is much better than just the strategy of NO and ignorance.

Amazing!

I had the same experience at the airport. My baby boy strapped to my chest was so frustrated and started screaming. My solution has to pick him up hold him high. He switches to a happy and laughing.

That would be a 10 second call on the banana phone

Facts Before I say it people who think hitting your child with items isn’t abuse is just discipline Honestly no parent should have any right to put hands on their child just cause they did something wrong or their bad. And plus that can hurt the child physically and mentally especially emotionally technically blocking them away from their parents And also parents shouldn’t let that happen cause that’s your child you are responsible for your child’s thoughts of death hurting themselves especially trauma. You are a parent giving your child trauma- If you child doesn’t listen to you don’t hurt them especially the fact that when you want to spend time with them. They’ll reject the offer most of the time cause of YOU! Before you even say it’s their child their actions or something like that SHUT UP. Cause that’s their life if they don’t want to be hit them THEN TOU SHOULDNT… Not only the fact that the child would even try to stand up for or themselves yet they can’t say it.. that they don’t want this to happen yet no. cause it’s your fault not theirs not nobody else’s Unless it’s a person at school that’s a different story but it’s even worse if your child tells you about bullying And YOU DONT TRY ANYTHING TO HELP THEM YOUR JUST AWFUL ESPECIALLY YOU HITTING YOUR CHILD MENTALLY AND SOCIALLY AFFECTS THEIR HEALTH… Now how could I know this….? I’ve been through that kind of nonsense and it’s not ok… it hurts and honestly I just feel like I have to kill myself for my damn family to be happy THATS NOT OK We need to all stop their nonsense about parents hitting their kids. (Sorry if it’s too long but it’s reasonable)

I learned recently that understanding a child's reaction patterns can make handling such situations perfectly. This video just prove me right😂

Dont give them an ass whooping (optional)

Yeah maybe would work with a “toddler” but what about an adult acting 4 y/o? It’s my grandson and I watch him. He has an early BD so won’t start prek until fall. That wouldn’t work for him

easy to say don't take it personally

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Last time blah blah blah, and more time, telling us how to solve the problem

What if they're grown adults? Are they beyond help at that point? 😂

What if you dont have a banana 😂😂😂

I will give it a try

Nice, I’ve tried everything with my five year old. The airport example is understandable. What about when you’re at a birthday party or somewhere else where people are supposed to have fun and he starts kicking and punching and screaming the first second he doesn’t get what he wants i.e. the first piece of birthday cake or a second scoop of ice cream, etc…

Make them gay and give them hormone therapy for life ?

I’m a child that would not be me I’m 10 I don’t have a single tantrum

When I was a child I would too scared to have a tantrum, my parents would have slapped the shit out of me... It was enough of a deterrent for me.

Hi there my toddler who is 3.5 years old, he mostly gets irritated when i stop him doing something not good, like throwing stuffs on someone, stopping him doing something which is actually misbehaving, he gets irritated how should i deal with this behaviour please do reply will be big help... Thanks

This isn't realistic lol

tickles happen pretty quickly

Thanks for this Hayley my wife suggested your work and I'm finding it very helpful😊

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You're very amazing. You refuse to give up even after all your Posts you still have 300+ subs you're very patient

The bind doesn’t happen until the simple everyday things like this DONT work. Most ppl instinctively do things like this to help soothe a toddler. I get what’s common sense to one isn’t for another. But I was really hoping for advice in this 😭

Are you irsh 🇮🇪

Your gorgeous and, your voice is beautiful:)

My toddler would smack that banana out of my hands so fast 🥲