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Ragebait fantasy of someone who doesn't really understand misophonia...

NTA, you did what you had to do, and that's all I have to say about it.

Poor choice of words, but NTA. Thank God you have your friend and her mother, I hope you went to Disney World with them and had a wonderful time.

NTA, but your parents deserve your anger, not your brother.

I'm sorry, but I would not completely stop speaking or clearing my throat in my own home for anyone, even my child. You're gonna get over it or live in the back yard in a tent.

Ok, eww, wonderful soninlaw married twrnty years younger, too. They are both gross.

When are women gonna understand that misandry isnt feminism?

Who let them call their kid Thatcher 😭 That's a full on tragedeigh name

I think this dude is SERIOUSLY overestimating the rate of flow. We’re not gushing fountains. Period blood is sticky, like slower than molasses sticky. There’s no way any blood is going to drip on the floor over the course of the three seconds between undressing and getting in the shower, and she’s not even out of the shower for one second before the pad is in place. Dude is delusion.

NTA. I'm autistic (13F) and if I did that I would've at least got yelled at. That "mom" is a horrible parent, and she'll continue to be like that if she doesn't get this resolved.

The problem was she wasn't taking one or two she was finishing the box. You told her she would have to replace them and she didn't do that in a timely manner. Guess you're going to have to find a good hiding place!

Why are all the solutions to this problem revolve around her period, the bathroom door, or the trashcan? Why is no one addressing the ACTUAL cause? The dog? I love dogs, but some people really shouldn't be dog owners because it is irresponsible to own a dog and not train them. She mentioned that she's not a fan of dogs. This is probably why. Any dogs she has been around aren't trained. As for periods, people without a uterus deserve no opinion on how to handle it. I'm in my 30s and still not a fan of tampons. I still use them sometimes because if I'm running around all day, tampons lengthen the time between needing to change pads or period underwear, but I don't use them much because despite people saying you can't feel them, I can. And they make my cramps and bloating worse, and they cause my period to last longer than if I just let myself freely bleed onto a pad or period underwear. But I would never dream of telling another woman that the way she's handling her period is "wrong." The stupid dad probably prefers that women use tampons that immediately get flushed (not recommended,) so HE doesn't have to see any evidence that periods exist. What a jerk.

Fuck them and their idiocy. The bf was so kind to give thought and money into the gifts he wanted to give, and they made fun of him. I'd tell them get out my house too, and give the presents away to someone who deserved it more, or donated them.

1. OP can hire a babysitter if wife won't. 2. Take the kid with him and introduce her to the game. Have her bring a bag with her favorite snacks and other things to keep her occupied if she's not interested and gets bored watching them play golf. 3. Reconsider this marriage. Wife went from zero to "your hobby is stupid" just because she expects him to be a free babysitter. Is that why she married him, he was the free back up babysitter?

No one that uses reddit has an "alpha" significant other.

This is definitely YTA

Ok the fact the prank was saying they got gift cards to various places equaling the cost of a laptop is fucking dumb. This was the moms logic: Oh my daughter wants a $600 laptop, so lets buy it, then get my son to "joke" with his sister that she's getting $600 worth of gift cards for things my daughter doesn't want or need. She will totally love this prank! Sure the daughter shouldn't have called her a jerk cause it's still her mom, but the mother was a jerk. Especially to go to her husband and say they should return it because the daughter "showed her true colors" like huh? She believes rather then getting 1 item she WANTED she's getting a bunch of gift cards for things she DOESN'T NEED. Now, if money was really tight and the mother had her son say she got $200 worth of gift cards maybe it would be fine, but it was the fact the totals MATCHED that was the problem.

To be fair, he seems like a damn child. She said she ignored his football rants so sure she COULD be at fault. However we also have no context of how long they were actually together before breaking up. If it wasn't a long term relationship, it's fair she may not actually remember what team he hates years later. Not to mention, it seems if she was ignoring his football rants, she had 0 interest and didn't care enough but listened about his favorite team. It could be 1 of many reasons they did split. They probably had too many different interests and it didn't work out but they have a child so they have to deal with each other. She was just happy to let their child pick out gifts. A 3 year old wouldn't understand the different teams or what her dad may hate. She just knew he liked blue and picked something blue. A 3 year old shouldn't be blamed. Like sure it wasn't "his" team. But the ball itself didn't have a team. just the wrapper. Big over reaction to blame the mom because of a wrapper.

Rachel has a husband problem. It's not OP's fault Rachel married someone so shallow. It sounds like Rachel and Adam need marriage counseling.

“She insisted that she needed to live there so her kids lives wouldn’t be disrupted.” Uh…preeetty sure that ship has already sailed. Considering, you know, she divorced their father to be with a younger man.

They just want extra babysitters.

This is not about energy bars. It’s about having control. Living with anyone is always about compromising because most of us like to have a sense of control over our lives, and we all have different priorities. She doesn’t get your cycling obsession, there are probably things about her you don’t get. Relax and compromise or live alone

Making a veterinary diagnosis after taking one glance at the dog is not "being realistic". It was extremely unrealistic since the dog is still alive a month later. BIL doesn't get to be mad at the parents since it's the daughter's decision for him not to be there.

Sick of the autistic person being coddled and spoiled at the expense of siblings. Parents of REAL autistic children need to do more - therapy, behavior modification, food sensitivity testing, etc not "they're autistic, we do nothing." Isn't Disney too loud and stimulating for the autistic?

Naming your kid after colleges? Why? Poor kids.

I thought the niece was 5😂😂

I'm not married I wouldn't want to have it any other way! 😊😊😊

Simp always living sad loser lives who everyone just walks all over lmao so funny to see

I'm guessing that isn't his baby.

Dude is a simpering putz.

Classic situation of woman chooses bad man then blames the bad man for being bad.

Find 2 trusted relatives. 1 to hold on to your baby during your talk so he doesn't run off with them in retaliation. Another one to help attend the conversation if you truly feel unsafe. Whatever you do, don't listen to these idiots telling you to go ghost because your spouse sounds unstable and will likely become a greater danger because of the stress of the confusion. Even if you yourself find safety this way, your leaving the time bomb on someone else. That being said, if what you say about him is true, do not, under any circumstance, confront him alone. Informing him will make it better, but it's still a massive bombshell your dropping on his PoV.

lol, "i watched Not Safe For Work at work, it went wrong" yeah no shit sherlock

Women will see a man like that and be like: "yeah, I need to have a child with him"

File for divorce

NTA, this is super sus

NTA, but I do think OP should plan a special trip within the country with his bio kids when he gets back to help make it up to them, and plan future family vacations in the country so they can be included.

I'm going benefit of the doubt here. Its possible she was intoxicated, didnt realize who was caling, and then just blew up on op, not realizing it was him that was calling.

NTA. The fact that she didn’t even apologize after OP told her she had crossed a boundary says a lot

Is it just her voice or does she have the same reaction with similar voices? I mean this is pretty tough since it's not recognized as a full on disorder. If she has the same reaction to similar voices things are gonna get harder for her.

definitely cheating

god damn can they at least make it sound somewhat plausible? "i have no idea i sorted all my nude photos into a single folder on my google drive" yeah ok m8

Is this story fake? Like literally who cares about this? The (no pun intended) elephant in the living room is someone gaining 300 lbs in 3 years. That's an absolutely insane amount of weight gain. This person needs medical and/or psychological help urgently.

Lol

If she's obese she should exercise, you did good kid

it isnt really about what she ate, it is about not replacing.

He needs help, as much as you. First, get away and act quickly. Make sure you are surrounded by people you trust and who would help you. Try to communicate with him. If he is blaming YOU for all that, its not right. You had nothing to do with the miscarriage. Try to cut off his weed supply IMMEDIATELY. Hide your location. Keep trying to communicate, while keeping yourself safe. If you still think he is dangerous, he is not worth it. You had a baby with him, and he CAN hurt it, even is simply in blind rage. Cutting off weed is the most important thing while keeping yourself and the baby secure. No need to take any risks. Yes, this WILL push him over the edge, but sometimes people need to be pushed over the edge so they can see how far down it goes, realise their mistake, and return to safety. If they don't.....they fall. You cannot do anything about it. Learn from his mistakes, make sure your child does not get exposed to the pitfalls he fell into. Keep safe.

The brother is an idiot

She should've screamed at her hubby who clearly didn't even mention anything to his sister. Though, preferably, she'd visit a psychologist and a dietician. She's hugely insecure and instead of adressing the underlying issue, she's gained weight.

So treating your daughter being a lesbian as completely normal and not anything to make a big deal about is homophobic?