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My neighbor was head of the cafeteria at my school in 80s/90s. Ours was Tony's brand frozen pizza. It tasted different than the normal Tony's from the store and it was square. But I definitely remember her buying a case occasionally and giving my family some. I do remember Tony's on the case tho. Idk about other areas.

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Frozen dough sheets. That isn't the way they did it in the 80s. I kept good grades so I could help in the kitchen before lunch.

I always loved pizza, so yes from me!

This is the most brilliant video I've seen in a long time. I'm not autistic but i had an experience where a therapist helped me through a break up that had caused such extreme trauma that even my health was falling apart due to stress. This video is absolutely brilliant. What she says about the healing comes from the relationship because the relationship makes you feel safe. That's the key word: safe. Safety is what our nervous system needs to restore and reset itself. And sometimes a good therapist can offer that safety better than anyone else can. That is if you're lucky enough to find a good therapist. I'm glad i did. We only had a few sessions, but it has absolutely changed my life.

I had a great relationship with my ex therapist to the point where she constantly praised me and manipulated me into getting stuck with her for more than I needed. I payed her for 3 years when I only initially needed to fix some issues in my routine, but because I tend to over share, be analytical and mask as part of my diagnosis she took advantage of that. Needing validation from my therapist is actually harmful and affects my capacity to make decisions on my own. I don’t need my therapist to be my payed friend but to help me get my own true friends and be ok with not needing validation because my self esteem is strong enough that I can keep myself in check. What you are describing is dependency and the therapist shouldn’t be concerned whenever the patient/client likes them or not. Getting to a point where the relationship looks like a friendship, triggers me and others into masking.

if an autistic (or not) person is coming away from a therapist saying "it wasn't effective because I already know things about the condition" then I think that points to that therapist being extremely ineffective in general, likely relying on relating to the client the book learning they did in grad school, due to their inability to just be compassionate and project safety to their client. Most therapists are really bad at that, and it's not the kind of thing you learn by sitting in a classroom. But the professional organization that certifies therapists doesn't want to get a reputation for letting young adults go through years of schooling and practice an at the end, say "yeah, you're really just not good enough at this, in regards to your human interactions, to get a certification". Because it's a really squishy reason to shut someone down, when the reason isn't easy to articulate, and especially if it's not something they can improve easily. So we are stuck with having to sort through therapists who don't know how to do the basic stuff, like providing the basic warmth a good house-pet can. And in addition to not being able to do that, they don't have any useful techniques or know how to focus a session, so we end up with people walking away from therapy saying things like "I already know all this stuff about my condition, this isn't going to help."

No, you're wrong. CBT is absolutely goal oriented and the exact thing you described it not being. It's also short term and clinicians are supposed to get you off their client list quickly. You are actually describing 70s style talk therapy from back in the day. Trauma therapists, not trauma informed CBT, full blown trauma therapists are for this. In fact, you are specifically describing re-parenting in CPTSD. This is NOT what standard CBT is.

I have some thoughts. I think Autistic people do best with Autistic counsellors/therapists because a good amount of our damage and trauma has been around being misunderstood. Traditional talk therapies have focused on challenging thoughts and feelings as a means to encourage a person to look at other possibilities in order to challenge their core beliefs and become unstuck. That approach is believed to foster growth. If you take a look at NT sociality at large, there is such a high degree of indirectness which leaves room for endless possible meanings and more flexibility of thought. They are able to accept that they can learn to love something they hate if they perform enough mental gymnastics for a long enough time. (Fake it till you make it/CBT). Autistics accept that an apple is always going to be an apple. It will never pass as an orange no matter how we try to reframe our thinking. Our perceptions will always be aligned with Autistic reality and challenging our reality be it our thoughts, feelings and Sensory experiences will always be seen as gaslighting. Autistics need to be BELIEVED. We need to have Validation which doesn’t happen enough with a lot of traditional therapists. I think my point is a good communication style goes a long way like you said. But some key points for getting to a place of being able to be vulnerable with a therapist is having them really understand you to the point of validating you. A lot of horrible trauma can get dislodged and unstuck simply from that alone. I am Autistic and I grew up with my Psych Therapist father telling me I had a personality disorder. Now I have an AdHD counsellor who really knows me to my core. She makes me feel safe enough to be vulnerable because she’s been a huge help in my journey and she “Sees” me. I have nothing but trust and gratitude and that feels like a head start in my healing journey.

Its telling when someone treats a diagnosis like it was the first goal or a tool for self understanding. Our diagnosis are medical terms meant to be used only in professional settings and does not help individuals to better understand themselves or others.

I’m curious about something…I went to school in the New Orleans area and we always had huge thin hamburgers (they did not put in cheese). I loved them but have no idea where schools get them from. Way before fast food was a thing at schools. Amy ideas as to where I might find them would be great. Thanks.

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It was so delicious! Back in elementary school we sometimes have it for breakfast and loved for lunch.

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This was super helpful for a busy mom like myself! I always get to 5pm and I'm stuck with a bunch of random stuff in my pantry and fridge that I have no idea what to do with.

looks tasty

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Looks tasty

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I’m so happy to see you on TH-cam!

Looks absolutely scrumptious 🤤

Wow!

This looks like so much fun

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Where do you get the breaded doe?

I know people in the school industry might get upset . But anyone who wants to make the actual crust used all it was was jiffy pizza doe mix you can get it in the store only difference in the store stuff is it has a little more salt in schools they had to use less salt do not beleve be buy it try it

insane amount of cheese

Did she say what brand of pizza dough?

Definitely need to par bake this crust. Ive worked with it before

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I miss school pizza my son doesn't like it

Nice thanks for the journey through the memory lane You have stopped posting videos

What city and state is this?

Awesome video. Growing up I always remember the ones I was being served were cooked super evenly with little to no cheese blisters, do you think they cooked it at a low temp or any other ideas on why they were so evenly cooked?

Try Landscape format. It makes the vid more present and larger.

I think I have seen your recipe posted before, but now I can't find it. Am I looking in the wrong places? I'd love to make it for the kids I feed!

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I must know what brands are used for these square pizzas. they were delicious in the mornings and I want to get more of those little sausage topped squares of barely adequate nutrition and I must have more...

Nice!!!!

im a very picky eater bit for some reason i was always able to eat food from the school cafeteria. And it was actually good. Watching u make the food actually springs a bit of nostalgia for me lol

I don't care what anybody says, I loved the school square pizza. My school even had the breakfast pizza with eggs, breakfast sausage, and sausage gravy as the pizza sauce.

Me and my mom love watching your videos

This was very helpful! I have a question about apple slices… how do you prepare yours? And how do you keep them from browning?