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Is Wednesday autistic?

which is also one of the reasons why women who are toned and muscular are demonised!

I would get cat called on a regular basis as a teenager. It never felt good.

I was a lesbian who thought I had no choice but to compromise and be with a man. I became the ultimate girl, in shape, always positive, on my own buzz and let husband do whatever he liked without complaining. I developed anorexia, became debilitatingly ill for years . He was a serial cheater who neglected me, I could not heal because I was too sick to work and could not buy the nutrition I needed. He did not get the nutrition I needed either. Starving and ill for years. I had to pretend I was okay because he did not like me talking about my illness. I had to be susie sunshine. When you get that ill you dont care any more. All you want is your health. I no longer cared about societal expectations which got me to finally confront my sexuality.

Hi! I came across your channel recently, and ive subscribed. Thank you because you are giving me the courage to open up about my eating habits to at least one person after a year of struggling alone.. thank you!!

I wish lol. You look great though

I dont understand, can you explain please?

I took an online test to see if I was a psycopath about a year an a half before I took one for autism. 😅

I think all the makeup trends and filters on top of heavy makeup has pushed a lot of this as well. Its easier than ever to still look fresh skinned and healthy. Despite actually being in pretty rough shape. When I've dropped down to underweight territory from stress (bad breakups mostly) or becuase of audden health concerns, I've usually also looked pretty haggard. When the situation and my health got better I still had a very tired look about me. Even if I didnt look quite as haggard I still didnt have the fresh faced or even flushed look. Not until my weight got back up to the upper levels of normal BMI. I am at my most energetic when I am somwhere at or right above the "normal" BMI level.

Great analysis

Oh boy. I think I’ve got some work to do.

Pi wish I could think like her

Hell yes. Well, I was more of an early 2000's pro-ana girl. I do worry about the young generations. Where 'we' had to actively search for more and more extreme content, with social media alghorithms, you are pulled into it before you're even aware of it.

Great advice! Thank you! 🌻

are you a psychotherapist

Can you share a link to the products in the video? This looks amazing breakfast

I think for a start they need to stop using weight as a parameter for 'wellness' but the funding would never allow it.

This channel is a gem. I just found it. I’m going to discuss with my therapist

I don’t think so? I think Rory was just trying to find herself not everyone is perfect and I think the show wanted to depict that and maybe lorlai could’ve been a little more like a mom at sometimes but I think lorali and Rory’s relationship was beautiful and healthy and happy

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this is SOOOO accurate omg

I mean, SOME of the eating disorder promotion on tumblr was transparent, but there was a whole lot of 'thinspo' that was all like 'nooo this is healthy we swear'

Yes!!! This is my husband!

That's vey true.One of Mine was 90% stranger & 10% known

I WILL choose both. And let them both fight barehands and go with whoever wins 😂

THATS THE TEA 😂

I have only watched Gilmore Girls and the reboot once, as an adult. I did not really care for it and couldn't understand why people were so obsessed. It was clear to me the women were dealing with unresolved traumas and unhealthy relationships. I wonder why this is not obvious to most viewers? Do they choose to overlook that or are they actually unaware?

I do agree with your conclusion about Emily. I remember Lorelai saying to someone that her mother is a corporate wife, and Emily compares her relationship to a canoe when Richard is still recovering from a heart attack. Once Richard passes away, Emily realises that everything she did was part of her marriage. As she says, walking out of the DAR meeting, "it died with Richard." ❤

Another thing that really bugs me is how we are taught to "fangirl" certain people based on their body/image they are showing. I would really like a video about Wonyoungism on TikTok, as this was my stepping stone back into a severe round of ana

I agree, and the fact that young people often make "vents" expressing in detail how they eat disordered. It is such a large community about this on TikTok especially.

Congratulations, you deserve it!!!! 🎉

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When you're pretty some neurodivergent behaviors will be seen as cute weird but some still will be seen as weird weird

Good! Your calm presence is lovely!

Congratulations that’s awesome

Thank you so much. I immediately felt guilty but now I am feeling relieved.❤

Wish it didn’t make so much sense… 😭

My therapist said the exact thing to me. It's SO true. I didn't know what my adult body actually looked like. So I have been struggling a lot to accept my adult body. 💜

Lorelai was not the mother that Rory needed, she acted more like a hateful big sister and always victimised herself but when Rory didn’t something wrong she would flip out because ‘that’s not like her’ but it is typical of the both of them because they merged into each other. Rory had a gradual deterioration of her character and I think Lorelai was angry at herself for creating that but in the end the cycle could continue because Rory is pregnant with Logan’s baby even though she had a fiance ( who she cheated on constantly ).

I love your analysis! I honesty think Lorelai and Rory's relationship are so realistic and relatable because not only they're bad characters but more complex I would say. I'm glad that Emily in AYITL is finally working on herself and independence without Richard. Rory in her 30s was a huge mess, which it does make sense because she doesn't have any strong connections that relates to her career and have a poor self sense and decisions in life.

Go girl

I also found Rory’s character on the show to be privileged and sheltered as her grandparents came from old money despite being raised by a single parent household and that of being a teen mom as well. It was good seeing her have ties and receiving some guidance from her grandparents while also maintaining a close relationship with her mother. I would also add their mother daughter relationship was a bit more casual like the mother was more of a friend/ needing to be liked than a parent at times to Rory on the show. Overall Rory was also just a good kid that stayed out of trouble and seemed honest.

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