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So basically you just gave every person a get out clause for their behaviour. I'm sure adrenaline plays a part but making the right choice is an even bigger part.

Good morning sir.

how did you know I really needed this topic today? Thanks!

Im like you sir. Im have respect for you and your wife.

Im a nurse. Very proud. And dont like lyers and cheeters. When you proud on yourself, you never played with others heart. Im also liked to learned. And worked hard to completed all my tasked. Thankyou for your daily vitamins. ❤

This is a good video. After my wife's cheating, I've come to see divorce as a very natural and inevitable result of cheating and it doesn't really feel negative. I still have some sadness now and then but that's the grief that I expect will be there for a very long time.

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I never trusted the ex bosses wife and yes a causality if war .......he'd go for everyone's throat if threatened. All the newest I terns that learned in his vet clinic had no idea how many people got burned .let's put this way someone's living in public housing while they just a almost two hundred million dollar home

Sir Jay, you have beautiful eyes and calm voice. Did you speek with your wife also with this beautiful voice?

Such important tools. Thank you Dr. J. Especially the part about letting myself feel sad, etc. And realizing that right now i am safe in my house and i can feel Gods peace surround me.

I’m so grateful to see you here on your own platform Mr. Jay! Thank you for doing what you do

Thankyou Mr Ray. Your voice are so calming. Im did not have a fair. No problems.

Totally relate to this I just stopped talking and now I just talk to my therapist and wait for him to heal and maybe someday he will want to talk and heal.

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Thankyou for your friendship. Im alone. And im enjoy your Daly dose of vitamins.😂

Thankyou for your friendship. Im alone. And im enjoy your Daly dose of vitamins.😂

This is good I felt this 👏🏾👏🏾

Sorry, maraiges.

Protecting come 100%. From husband and wife. The thing they said, a relationship are 50%. Nonsens. In marriage and relationship are 100%.

Protecting come 100%. From husband and wife. The thing they said, a relationship are 50%. Nonsens. In marriage and relationship are 100%.

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5 months ago. Im great him for the last time. Im give him a hug and a kiss. 😢

My husband passaway on the 25th April 2024. For me, it's very hard. He have had bone canser. The last 15 monts im nurse him. Im care him. Im change his navy's and give him a urine bottel. Im try to ceap his pride for him. When he fall, the bone broken easy. He have (im hope the spelling are correct. )He have Mastasis bone cancer. He was on morfine and he stil feel the pain. Im have the best Dr in my town. Im from South-Africa. Good night.

Trickle truth comes the most from those that can handle accountability the least.

They are no longer on my life..... They acted abd said things that let me known w how little they cared

That’s a beautiful place! Thanks for all you do ! Love it ❤

Why would you want to look at their heart? You said it yourself, if they really love you, they wont hurt you. You can analyze all you want and it will not justify cheating behavior. Betrayal is the devils weapon to ruin marriages. If a spouse chooses that more than once they have chosen to do evil regardless of how much it hurts their spouse. No thank you to any of that. I can forgive as I walk away. Hopefully I can create a better future with an honest person. Trust is everything.

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Im a old lady. 73 years old.

Good morning sir. Can im help you?

Im a widowed 😢

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Lovely pronunciation!

Been following your videos for sometime. Hope you enjoy Scotland. If you are passing through Glasgow would be good to say hello to you in person. Enjoy your holiday.

Is it possible that smiling and lots of contact with people you can help yourself can help get your brain back on track? When everything came out for us, I was housebound for a year due to illness (herniated disc) and my brain had all the time in the world to focus on this topic for months. It was terrible. After my recovery, I didn't really make any progress until I started a new job. I now work as a nurse in a refugee camp and I love it with all my heart. And it's really good for me to work there, even if it's sometimes dangerous. But that's probably another point that's good for me: I know that we look after each other there and I've already seen how quickly the security colleagues were there and protected me when it was necessary. Phew, now that I'm writing this I realize that it's the appreciation I experience there from colleagues and patients every day that heals my soul. Have a wonderful holiday to you and your family, enjoy your stay in Europe!

Wow. Mr Jay this is exactly what my husband needs to hear .

I think the details should be given concerning the betrayal because if not, there will be sugar-coating the truth with as minimal facts as possible. Rather be devastated with the whole truth than soothed with a bunch of half-truths that do not accurately describe the degree of betrayal. The cheater should not get to skim over the ugly parts for his benefit as to not make him look so bad.

Just a couple of days after D-day was the absolute worst for me. I asked where on the computer did he hide his porn, because I just KNEW.... I was bawling, tears streaming down my face and he stood there and lied right to me: "Oh, no, no, I don't have any porn hidden anywhere". Only to find out a few days later when he finally STOPPED lying and handed me a jump drive and said, "I've erased it all, I promise". That he could lie right to my face. . . .it was incomprehensible to me, then and even now, nearly one year later. He said he was afraid of hurting me. That's laughable. He was afraid for himself. Every time I hear Rod Stewart's song "Reason to Believe" I can't help but weep. "Knowing that you lied, straight faced while I cried..."

Thank you, needed this!

Wonderful ❤

The problem is that there are people making toxic choices and think that their loved one who is trying to hold a boundary is actually a person with a hammer wrecking the bridge. There are people who believe that if you do not behave in codependent or enmeshed ways, then they have been “betrayed.”

Pep* talk

As Pink Floyd famously said, "I have become comfortably numb."

Wow. Thats totally how i feel right now. 3 yrs after d day!

Im cant walk. Im not a English women. Im South-Africa girl.

Good ninght

Good night.

One of my best videos I’ve watched. My biggest shown emotion is anger.

❤ Needed this a year ago!! Grateful for it now.