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Knitting is so satisfying!

La Roche is good but it’s pricey… cerave is good too or cetaphil. I get eczema on my face in extreme temps so moisturizer is KEY. Also facial sprays like Mario bedascu helps too for extra moisturizer.

Just leaving a comment before watching and sleeping aha to tell you that I am so thankful for your channel, a little safe place before going to bed. Thanks for always being you, thanks for your kindness, thanks for everything ❤️ Wish you the best !!

The tapping on the wallet and the card is so good! And the zipper ❤ I don’t know Sheetz to be honest! 😮

Love the tapping on the hand sanitiser! I used it years before 🦠!

The shirt is too lovely 🌱❤

The tapping on the bag is very good! Also it was windy 🌬️ that day! 😮😂❤

The 3D printed key is crazy. I watched a video of that once! I was 😮 Don’t worry, we won’t do that! ❤

Cerave is cheap and good I think! Garnier, Nivea, The Ordinary… Try one of those! ❤ I like the Nivea face, body and hands that is called Nivea Soft! (It’s a tube) If you have rosacea maybe consult a dermatologist! But there are Cerave, Eucerin, Ducray, La Roche Posay, Avène, Neutrogena…and other brands for that specific “illness”! ❤

Good to see you again! ❤

hi ru! just stopping by to say that I love your videos! they make me feel safe and seen as an autistic adult, thank you:)

I use the Averr Aglow Clear Skin Set

Ok you need a citrus moisturizer Dryness & redness relief for myself I found recently I use on my face and is AMAZING: Bliss Lemon and Sage Body Butter - Maximum Moisture Cream - 6.7 Fl Oz Lotion for Dry Skin its like $10-12

I watch this video whenever I can’t sleep it puts me to sleep every time, no asmr videos help me but this does. You have a kind and safe presence, as a teenager with autism and social anxiety this video is wonderful. (Btw I love your shark it’s so cute!)

We are so luckyyyy with all the videos! Thank youuuu ♥️

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First comment!!!! ❤❤❤ love your vids friend 😊 I need new hobbies!

I’m pretty sure that I’m autistic for quite a long time, but my traits aren’t so obvious (I go through most sh💩t by oneself). My family doesn’t believe me and it hurts a bit, but your videos make me feel valid. Thank you 🥰❤

I’m trying to make something far too complicated for myself 😂😂😂

“I made this!” And the beaming level of proud you are and the excitement is priceless ❤❤❤

Can I like this 1,000 more times? Why are my eyes leaking 😢

High yield savings - Lending Club is chill

The “Lose It” app can track calories from scanning barcodes. I am on 1200 CAL/day and do intermittent fasting where I only eat 2p-10p. I have lost 40# and am down 2 pant sizes. My face is skinny now. It was REAL ROUND B4

I love your channel, thank you so much for this safe place 🥺🥺🤍

Ohhhhh thank you for this video, we are lucky 🥰 (this is a nice bday gift aha, I couldn’t start my bday in a better way, it’s 00:10 where I live 😜) Sending you love always ❤️

im not sure if anyone else has commented this but look into agender! its something that ive felt the most drawn to, where you have no relationship to gender really it feels like a nice word to describe its easy to label when sometimes you cant find the right words to describe it im audhd, very likely that that has something to do with it :)

I relate to this so heavily. I am also autistic and my pronouns are she/they. They are just in my bio but I haven’t really told many people in my real life for many reasons. I don’t feel dysmorphia if I’m perceived as a woman but it also doesn’t feel 100% correct to me either. I finally accepted I can be enby after convos with trans friends who told me that I don’t have to suffer for my identity to be valid. I did recently have a vacation with two friends who used they/them to refer to me throughout and it felt very…sparkly? Idk but anyway thank you for being brave and talking about this. It’s important work.

Why i dont cammet it a 2 y ago :(

I was having terrible anxiety and I tend to forget about being neurodivergent and everytime I speak to or watch a fellow neurodivergent person it just clicks and I’m soothed …so many asmr people repeats mantras and it feels so disingenuous but the way other neurodivergent folk speak and the vibes it’s hard to describe but thank you for posting this and giving folk like us a safe space

This is my first video seeing you, hello! I enjoyed the video have a lot to say to you as I have shared a lot of feelings you have as well as doing a sociology degree and dissertation about gender identity. Also please don't delete the video, more queer representation is needed in the ASMR community! I'm AFAB nb but prefer to go by the term gender queer. It feels more encompassing and less limiting than nb. My gender is just 'queer' and I think there's already an expectation of what nb should look like as well as saying it's not the binary, reinforces a binary and is creating a new binary! That's just my opinion though, and I also just prefer the flag! I used to go by she/they, now they/them. The longer I go by they/them, the more taken back I am by being called she. I told hold it against people, especially strangers as they don't know me. I don't often correct people because I know who I am, them saying she doesn't make me not feel genderqueer, I'm comfortable in my gender. It's more disheartening if it's someone close to me who is accepting and knows my pronouns and doesn't try to use the right ones. Soem of the older figures in my life are taking time getting used to it but they're trying and I really appreciate. I'd never come out to family because they wouldn't get it and luckily I'm somewhere else so it's less needed. I understand being connected somehow to woman hood, that is how you were socialised (raised to be) and girls and boys are socialised differently often based on gender stereotypes and this effects them throughout life meaning men and women may be more skilled at certain things but it's based on how they are nurtured. Gender is socially constructed, society decides the norms and expectations for each gender. This can differ culturally, historically I.e it used to be very masculine to wear high heels and now this is feminine. How you navigate life may bring your back to feminity either due to how you were socialised or biologically however you don't have to fit into any box. I've found since I've understood that how I feel about myself and my life experiences are not what a cisgender person experiences, I feel more comfortable with feminity because it's not as a woman, similar to how men wear dangly earrings or skirts and can still be masculine. Gender is a long road and you've made the first major step from here you can stay to feel more comfortable. I hope you figure things out and can continue to be fully yourself. I'm no gender guru but I have my experiences and studies so if you have any questions, feel free to ask and I will continue checking out your channel! :)

Familiarity in a social space brings comfort for us AuDHD folx (socialized under an assumed binary sex) familiarity = comfort but may not be as safe esp around NT folx. I have learned ND folx are my group, please put me in THAT box so I can reside outside the gender performance expected of me by NT society.

9:29 I love Little Kitty Big City. You are a CAT! 🐈 dont have to choose you are an adorable vibrating fur baby. I ID with that.

8:32 I dont love being put into boxes. Genderqueer people just dont have a box!

FTM and feel she/they pronouns fit better too, but her is okay. I am pretty binary but I feel masc occasionally due to my upbringing. I have a ton of masculine interests. I also only like to wear tees hoodies and leggings. I dress the same now as b4 transition 😂. I feel better in a female body 🎉

So proud of u, your channel is definitely my safe place and I’m so glad and happy about it ❤️‍🩹 Thank you for that and for everything, wish you the best <3

this was a very good asmr, made me feel safe and comfortable !! i am transgender myself actually (ftm) :)) definitely subscribing !!!

13:30 could you bring that back and scratch on the black textured plastic? 💝

Just fyi I got 2 loud ads at the end of the vid ❤

❤ 28:55 - 29:05 ❤ congrats for that baby 😊

26:49 - 27:21 this is your safe space, don’t worry 🤍

24:14 - 24:17 ❤ that’s beautiful

21:37 - 22:04 “live and let others live” is my philosophy 🩵

20:30 - 21:00 biological & physical characteristics and hormones, maybe? ❤

18:29 - 18:53 you’re so cute 🩷

16:17 - 16:23 I feel that this is such a good way of thinking about people, a good attitude in life & society 😊 to think positive and to be tolerant to avoid bad feelings and uncomfortable situations ❤

11:58 - 12:23” very good analogy, I understand it better now ❤

9:20 - 9:25 so cute (did you say troll 🧌?) 🥹💜