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Post Election Processing: Managing Your Emotions & Considering the Feelings of Others Ep. 327
With the election now behind us, Elliott and I wanted to share thoughts on how to navigate love and life post election-especially concerning our relationships.
Because half the country is really happy with the results, while the other half feels angry, demoralized, and even afraid.
Specifically, we consider:
* How do we build unity in the midst of so much divisiveness?
* Can we find common ground?
* What does the Bible teach us about submitting to leadership and those in authority?
Join us as Elliott and I discuss how to move through the post election landscape-one in which people we love may feel deep distress, disappointment, and perhaps even anger at those who voted for Trump.
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Let’s Talk About It! The Misogyny of Progressives Ep. 326
มุมมอง 521 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
On a day when many Progressives will go to the polls to vote for a “woman,” I’d like to share a few thoughts around the misogyny inherent to Leftists’ ideology. Their logic breaks down immediately as they can’t define what a woman is. So, how can they get excited about voting for a woman hoping she’ll be the first woman president? 🤷‍♀️ They’ve already established that womanhood is meaningless!!...
Why I’m Voting for "Hitler": A COVID Dissident’s Response Ep. 325
มุมมอง 2214 วันที่ผ่านมา
I know most people want to move on from COVID. And, maybe you’re ready to move on from the election. But, it’s all related-COVID, the election, and our platform of mind, body, & spirit. I have some thoughts. Plus, I’d like to explain why I’m voting for “literal Hitler” and his MAGA MAHA team of courageous dissidents-RFK, Jr., Tulsi, and Elon. To do so, I respond to 3 current bits of news: 1. Bi...
Gender Affirming Care for Children: Does it “Follow the Science?” with David Wayne Ep. 324
มุมมอง 2321 วันที่ผ่านมา
It’s such a heated issue-and people on each side believe those who disagree with them are abusing children. In the last 10 years, we’ve witnessed an exponential increase in the number of kids who feel as if they’re the wrong sex. Although Gender Dysphoria Disorder remains a psychiatric illness per the DSM-5-TR, it currently is viewed quite differently when compared to other mental conditions. W...
Faith & Politics: A Pastor’s Take on Voting Ep. 322
มุมมอง 3228 วันที่ผ่านมา
Elliott and I didn’t grow up with a lot of political discourse. Our family delved into a wide array of topics, but as educators and musicians, we tended to discuss chord charts and pop tunes more than public policy. In fact, as most of you know, our father was a lifelong Democrat and our mother is a lifelong Republican. Yet, they possessed the same core values, had a strong 57 year marriage, an...
Pandemic of the Unvaccinated? New Data on COVID Hospitalizations with David Wayne Ep. 321
มุมมอง 20หลายเดือนก่อน
Psychiatric nurse and friend of the program, David Wayne, is back to discuss what he recently shared on Children’s Health Defense’s CHD.TV. In addition to nursing, Dave has a background in data analytics. Throughout the COVID era, he tried to make sense of the vaccinated vs. unvaccinated hospitalizations-the numbers weren’t adding up. Databases weren’t talking to each other. Default modes label...
Masculinity in the Midst of a Father Wound with Bradley Oberrieder Ep. 320
มุมมอง 65หลายเดือนก่อน
Growing up is tough. Growing up with a father wound is even tougher. As we continue our series on masculinity, we’re addressing the complexities of father wounds on sons. How do boys grow into men when their model for manhood has been abusive or absent? One of Elliott’s mentees, Bradley Oberrieder, joins us to share his journey-how his father abandoned his family just as Bradley was moving from...
Rescue the Republic: When BFFs Disagree as to How We Do This Ep. 319
มุมมอง 6หลายเดือนก่อน
Dan and I are heading to Rescue the Republic in DC this weekend! I wanted to share Rescue the Republic’s 8 pillars with Elliott to hear his thoughts. 1. War is always the last resort vs. Military Industrial Complex 2. Sanctify/recodify informed consent vs. Medical Industrial Complex 3. Banish state media control, surveillance and propaganda vs. Censorship Industrial Complex 4. Enact a rational ...
Testosterone-Laden Men-A Bad Thing? Ep. 318
มุมมอง 16หลายเดือนก่อน
Recently, I heard a term, “testosteroni.” It was used in a pejorative manner to describe “testosterone-laden” men. In the conversation, these testosterone-laden men were pitted against a kinder, gentler model of manhood. I wasn’t sure just what they were getting at. But, I had questions. Is testosterone inherently a bad thing? Does it cause problems for men?How does it impact our perception of ...
My BF Says I’m Trying to Control Him but He’s Going Out Drinking with Other Women… Ep. 317
มุมมอง 112 หลายเดือนก่อน
Q: I’m 34 and dating a 44-year-old man who rents out a room to a cutie 21-year-old for a very fair price and sometimes, he goes out with her and her friends and buys their drinks. I’m not sure how I feel about that. He believes it’s socially acceptable but I disagree and see it as predatory. But I also want to be understanding and I’m unsure if I’m being insecure and unreasonable about the situ...
Pharma Dissidents: Abandoning the Medical Model of Mental Health with David Wayne Ep. 316
มุมมอง 52 หลายเดือนก่อน
As a psychiatric nurse, David Wayne believed wholeheartedly in the veracity of medical research and the necessity of pharmaceutical interventions-until he saw how ineffective and at times, harmful, these “treatments” were. He began to question his profession-especially psychiatry’s pharmaceutical “solution” for every mental health concern. Then COVID descended, and because he chose not to injec...
How Can We Be Friends if You Vote for _______? Ep. 315
มุมมอง 62 หลายเดือนก่อน
The election is upon us and the political divide-well, it’s probably better described as a chasm. So, we weren’t surprised to receive this question from a listener: “I’ve seen this rhetoric start to pop up on social media, leading into the election: ‘Don’t tell someone you love them, and then vote for someone who will hurt them.’ How do we deal with this type of divisive statement?” Our listene...
Abortions at the DNC: How This Relates to Our What is a Man? Series Ep. 314
มุมมอง 102 หลายเดือนก่อน
Elliott didn’t know about this-I’m way more into current events than he is-so I decided to inform him during our episode. I wanted him to share his thoughts as a therapist, husband, father, and perhaps most importantly, as a pastor. Abortion is a heavy, sensitive, and painful, subject-at least, it used to be. Clinton claimed it should be, “Safe, legal, and rare.” Now women are encouraged to, “S...
Dying to Be Free! How to Take Charge in Oppressive Times with Dr. Leland Stillman Ep. 311
มุมมอง 123 หลายเดือนก่อน
Our world feels increasingly chaotic and morally inverted. And for those who remain skeptical and endeavor to think critically and rationally, it’s extremely overwhelming. As you know from episode 294 “COVID Trauma: How to Move Through Post COVID Stress Disorder,” Elliott and I have lost trust in many, if not most, of the institutions we once thought were at least somewhat honorable. Who can we...
What is a Man? Part 1: A Tribute to My Father-in-Law Ep. 310
มุมมอง 93 หลายเดือนก่อน
My father-in-law passed away a month ago. We knew his death was imminent, so we weren’t caught off guard, but I was definitely surprised by the depth of my grief. I’d only known Max for 14 years and because I was in my 40s when I joined the Abrell family, I hadn’t had the years of connection with him. Yet my grief was significant and multifaceted. My mom, Elliott, and our brother, Warren, atten...
Single and NOT Settling! with Vanessa Maree Ep. 308
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Single and NOT Settling! with Vanessa Maree Ep. 308
Americans are Getting More Therapy, but We’re Less Happy. What’s Going On? Ep. 307
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Americans are Getting More Therapy, but We’re Less Happy. What’s Going On? Ep. 307
Is it Better to Marry Younger or Wait a While? The Debate Continues! Part 2 Ep. 306
มุมมอง 65 หลายเดือนก่อน
Is it Better to Marry Younger or Wait a While? The Debate Continues! Part 2 Ep. 306
Is Anxiety in Blocking Your Goals in Love & Life? Ep. 305
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Is Anxiety in Blocking Your Goals in Love & Life? Ep. 305
Is it Better to Marry Younger or Wait a While? What Does the Science Say? Part 1 Ep. 304
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Is it Better to Marry Younger or Wait a While? What Does the Science Say? Part 1 Ep. 304
Save Women’s Sports! with Former UPenn Swimmer Paula Scanlan Ep. 303
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Save Women’s Sports! with Former UPenn Swimmer Paula Scanlan Ep. 303
When Your In-Laws Step Over the Line: Help for Newlyweds in Establishing Boundaries Ep. 302
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When Your In-Laws Step Over the Line: Help for Newlyweds in Establishing Boundaries Ep. 302
The Sex is Bad but I Don’t Plan On Leaving. Now What? Ep. 301
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The Sex is Bad but I Don’t Plan On Leaving. Now What? Ep. 301
Couples Who Pray Together Stay Together! Ep. 300
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Couples Who Pray Together Stay Together! Ep. 300
Dr. Karin Interviews David Wayne, former Psychiatric Nurse turned Health Coach! Ep. 298 & Ep. 299
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Dr. Karin Interviews David Wayne, former Psychiatric Nurse turned Health Coach! Ep. 298 & Ep. 299
Are Family Entanglements Preventing You from Enjoying Healthy Romantic Partnership? Ep. 297
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Are Family Entanglements Preventing You from Enjoying Healthy Romantic Partnership? Ep. 297
Let’s Talk About Sex! How to Experience True Sexual Intimacy and Fulfillment Ep. 295 & Ep. 296
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Let’s Talk About Sex! How to Experience True Sexual Intimacy and Fulfillment Ep. 295 & Ep. 296
COVID Trauma: How to Move Through Post COVID Stress Disorder Ep. 294
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COVID Trauma: How to Move Through Post COVID Stress Disorder Ep. 294
Instagram Live: Conflict! How Can We Manage it in Relationships?
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Instagram Live: Conflict! How Can We Manage it in Relationships?
How to Navigate Money & Power Dynamics Ep. 293
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How to Navigate Money & Power Dynamics Ep. 293

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  • @aaliaali6370
    @aaliaali6370 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is so relatable thank your for this, where can i find more like this or on this topic?❤

  • @Autonomous1969
    @Autonomous1969 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's a huge red flag.

  • @ms.helpmeet4753
    @ms.helpmeet4753 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's hard..

  • @akshikamde6764
    @akshikamde6764 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks this helped.

  • @bradleyoberrieder4332
    @bradleyoberrieder4332 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks so much for having me on!!

  • @Optim40
    @Optim40 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why are we listening to children for ? An entire generation of disrespectful kids having a voice. No. It doesn't work like that. They think they're superior to everyone else.

  • @jimstinedurf8297
    @jimstinedurf8297 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    9 months for me and still miss her,even knowing it was toxic

  • @PerfectHarmony80
    @PerfectHarmony80 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @joangratzer2101
    @joangratzer2101 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE; GOD FORGOT TO GIVE WOMEN A SEX DRIVE, HE SCREWED UP BIG TIME. HARDLY PERFECT DESIGN.

  • @annlawrence7199
    @annlawrence7199 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much, this has helped me alot ❤

  • @nonaguma9597
    @nonaguma9597 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This one is a tough one he told me hates that I'm brain washed as a born again Christian.He is old Apostolic believer and a traditionalist I am definitely not going to sacrifice myself for my walk with Christ.He is a mature widower but definitely expected much more from him.I am peace though.

  • @lasugarbelle
    @lasugarbelle ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanh you for this. 💕

  • @bodalix18
    @bodalix18 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep making videos.

  • @jessicajackson1200
    @jessicajackson1200 ปีที่แล้ว

    For me it depends, if we were in a relationship and i get ghosted, if they try to come back i absolutely confront them about it, i will full blown call them a coward, and tell them that behavior is emotionally immature and mean and they need to grow the fuck up and start doing the hard thing and giving closure. You try to circle back i will bite your head off verbally. Because those men need a reality check and at that point i dont care and i dont want another shot. Ive made several men cry with that. In a relationship i am usually very nice, caring and nurturing, but if ive been wronged they find out real quick i am no doormat.

  • @Thunderbird68-i2f
    @Thunderbird68-i2f ปีที่แล้ว

    "A pattern having a hard time cultivating those female friendships". There is much truth to that and personalities do and can differ in that respect, however; on the other side of the coin in my experience, many women are fickle, selfish and petty. Most demand that one walks on eggshells around them, otherwise; they cut you right off. Many hold grudges for years, are crisis collectors, cannot accept an appology, stand you up, are users and ghost a friend when it no longer suits them. I've seen women claw each other's eyes out, burn each other's clothes in the name of jealousy and envy; literally wishing the epic ruin of another woman who seems to be thriving in life. Are you kidding?? I say this because I'm a woman. Certain women will allow themselves to be horribly abused by a male partner yet ghost the very female friend who tries to help them by offering encouragement to leave the abusive situation and question them as to why they hung on so long to a criminal jerk. Many end up in dire straits with psychological problems for the choices they've made in life and begrudge their close female friend for being wise in choosing a good partner in her life. I refuse to entertain the notion of walking on egshells around crappy women. Some are users, takers or emotional manipulators prompting you into do things for them out of pity and then GHOST when they aren't having their way. Women with depression and psychological issues who ghost for months (even years) on end, only to call up again expecting their bad behaviour to be absolved...and it's always their recipient's fault if they aren't accepted back. Some ghost because it feeds their ego to have somebody run after them for their so called friendship. Yes, I've been ghosted....and lucky to have a loving, supportive partner with no time waisted on fickle females. Not all women are like this, mind you. When you have the uncanny feeling or intuition that you must walk on eggshells to retain a female friendship, it's not a true friendship to begin with and likely to sour on a hair's trigger at some point. Why would you want to be around such person? For your own well being, it's best to forgive a ghoster and move on. Friends will bicker, but it's how they resolve their issues in the end that bonds them. It also helps if women hold the same values as one another, ackowledge and repsect each other's boundaries to make it a lifelong friendship. Also important is to be women of their word, put their money where their mouth is and not take their friendship for granted. You cannot count on someone who ghosts or stand you up.

  • @micheleford8774
    @micheleford8774 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is 100 percent correct you will find someone better for you 🌹🤎

    • @micheleford8774
      @micheleford8774 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup it's called a soul tie there was a man who was going out of his way to talk to me all the time he was seeing someone then I saw him out walking with the woman he used to date 😳 I said Nope get as far away from this guy...

  • @georgemcfly3482
    @georgemcfly3482 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about, I'm O.K. with being single.

  • @sofiaamaral6647
    @sofiaamaral6647 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is really good!

  • @alexisshields6623
    @alexisshields6623 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sex doesn't equal love.

  • @antoninosour3675
    @antoninosour3675 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤦 p̾r̾o̾m̾o̾s̾m̾

  • @hmbourne
    @hmbourne 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I recommend that you read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.

  • @cutietae247
    @cutietae247 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kids are deal breakers. You mention you have them. You don’t need to be detailed at all to make sure someone knows you come with children

  • @4gma59
    @4gma59 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVE the scripts. Sometimes it's just hard to find the right way of saying it.

  • @chirpinbird6611
    @chirpinbird6611 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your face Miss doctor. 😍

  • @sunnygirl9691
    @sunnygirl9691 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree. I think his behavior makes it clear that he doesn’t want to give you any impressions that you all are exclusive. I also agree that he likely has multiple women he keeps in contact with this way. It’s actually a very easy thing to do. A few texts a day is nothing to a man who needs a lot of attention.

  • @sunnygirl9691
    @sunnygirl9691 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guest nails it at 8:50. The “test” to see if you are willing to tolerate their disrespect!! I encountered this with an disturbed acquaintance and saw this red flag and avoided this person. However, he refused to leave me alone for several years trying to continually hook me back in with cycles of friendly & demeaning gestures.

  • @tonycarl
    @tonycarl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know of someone who can help you get your ex back

    • @tonycarl
      @tonycarl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whats App

    • @tonycarl
      @tonycarl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @ST-ly8uf
    @ST-ly8uf 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a 22-year-old male student of Computer Engineering. I have no idea what people mean by hook up culture - I'm a virgin. If guys are creating the hook up culture, it isn't anyone in the Nerd department. I have made friends in college, my social circle is myself, my brother, and three male friends. As far as I know none of us are Don Juan.

  • @siobhansignet5256
    @siobhansignet5256 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this seems like a formula for misery. what's wrong with accepting "it's not working out right now"? if we can't accept that things are not going well, we're never going to reflect and change our approach. this just seems like a convenient re-frame of someone who has issues with control.

    • @loveandlifemedia
      @loveandlifemedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I absolutely agree we should reflect and change anything about our approach that isn't serving us. And no, there's nothing wrong with accepting that it's not working out right now. At the same time, if we can maintain what ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) calls "psychological flexibility," we can view our current circumstances as part of our journey. It's building into who we are now and who we're becoming.

  • @shauntecole4275
    @shauntecole4275 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this podcast!! Im currently sitting at my kitchen counter crying during my two week wait of yet another fertility treatment while my teen step-kids dismiss me most of the time … This is so hard and lonely and I don’t know how to survive it …

    • @aaliaali6370
      @aaliaali6370 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I hope your treatment was successful but this comment is so relatable. You are not alone i know how you feel and saying its hard really doesnt do the feeling any justice. ❤😢

  • @stephaniesilcott9124
    @stephaniesilcott9124 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a stepmom without children of my own. I have never been able to have children of my own. We have a son and a daughter. And it is hard to explain my place. We have them full time and yet I’m not their mother.

  • @johnnafantauzzo9269
    @johnnafantauzzo9269 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so so grateful for this. There is such a unique population of these women and it needs to be spoken of more frequently. Thank you!

    • @aaliaali6370
      @aaliaali6370 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I totally agree

  • @pablorages1241
    @pablorages1241 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Learn to enjoy the company of cats

  • @imooyeohiolebo5047
    @imooyeohiolebo5047 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @johndillinger8482
    @johndillinger8482 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    what human trafficking?

  •  4 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice video