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Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

Its great that have more things to help BPD and other personality disorders, theres very little in uk its DBT or nothing and if your bpd is complex with multiple co mirbidities DBT isbtakeats a optiin i did a short treatment trual of DBT but i ciuldnt taje in methods and then bring them into action when i needed it imbetter at mindfullbess so this eould gelp but they just dont use it in uk care teans heard about them but dont fund it obviously if DBT helps mist prople thats what there going with. My sutuation is complicated by autism so i find ut very very gard toubderstand and taje un how ithers think abd react its nuce to fibd a comnents section your other sections nentioning bpd etc connents in uks closed to public Comnents

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you spent a lot of time saying the same things over and over again just different ways and all of it theoretical and clinical and only about 10 minutes worth of solutions which is all I care about right now. I know very well the wide variety of symptoms of borderline personality and how identity disturbance in a relates with chronic emptiness and meaninglessness. I already have plenty of apps and TH-cam channels and radio of the mindfulness tools and this was just nothing but a lot of clinical stuff which I do appreciate because knowledge is power and helps me understand myself and helps me to forgive myself and have compassion for myself but ultimately I need tools and this was definitely lacking in any real help including any real clinical originality. All of this is old news. Sorry for the bad review but I didn't find it helpful at all and I am looking for solutions and not just a lot of theories that I am living out and don't need to hear every possible combination of causality or correlation or whatever. Get a heart

Excellent research video! Subscribed.

Under distress tolerance don’t forget the impact of breathing and meditation as well

Bravo à vous tous qui avez participé à cette vidéo. Ça m' à fait revivre des interactions avec mon être cher. Je suis heureuse de vous avoir connu, mes mentors de Sashbear.

I just got out of dual diagnosis treatment due to bpd,ed,and addiction. I needed to see this.

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Hey!, keep at the work. From what you said, I think you might be interested in this channel 👉 #drjohnaking. I find him encouraging and insightful.

Is there a way to get access to the Fruzzetti, Kaplan and Payne study from 2021?

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I'm ADHD and I have close friends with BPD. I like a lot of the BPD material it helps with Executive Function and Rejection Sensitivity. I wonder if we are Traits Of? Like we could benefit from some of the DBT modules too, huh? Ppl w/BPD are f*cking geniuses sometimes, you just have to ask them the right questions. 💖😎🙏

Thanks Alex, that's the detail explanations.

I have a daughter with BPD in her 30’s it is hell living with.

Lovely, thank you so very much for all you do

Thank you for creating this opportunity to stop and be mindful.

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When this black man started speaking, it felt like he was speaking FOR me… all I can say is ME TOO

Thank you, this helps me understand why i do certain things. Do u have more videos on this?

Incredible video and information.

I can’t even get DBT therapy due to it not being affordable let alone DBT plus PTSD therapy.

Good work

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Ouah!! Quelles superbes célébrations! Bravo Sashbear! Et merci aux professionnels de la santé mentale, le Dr Alan Fruzetti, qui parle de stigmatisation, et le Dr Blaise Aguirre, qui nous encourage à transformer notre espoir en réalité, en acquérant les compétences dont on a besoin pour changer et améliorer nos interactions! Superbe! Et Dr Shelley McMain, qui nous parle d'isolation, d'acceptation et de validation! Et tout le reste!!! Merci pour le travail fantastique que vous faites chez Sashbear!

I hate all these lame analogies like “fighter pilot”. It seems like false praise, or at best, inaccurate.

Dr. Chapman: It's hard for people with BPD to think when they are upset. Me: Everyone on the planet has BPD.

So grateful for the many volunteer leaders across the country and especially those who travel to train more leaders to support us in our communities. Thank you.

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So beautiful to see all the different ways people practice mindfulness.

Thank you for sharing your story with us. You are an inspiration. I wish you the very best in your journey through life. Not only have you helped me understand my daughter's struggles living with BPD, you have provided me with tools to help her and myself.

Thank you for the presentation. I am surprised (maybe not) that there is little research on the impact that living with a BPD has on a loved one. I have been married to a BPD female for 30 years. About 15 years ago my wife went from being very emotional, but not mean, to being very emotionally, verbally, and sometimes physically abusive. I had to move out of our bedroom almost 2 years ago because she would wake me up at night to rage at me, and sometimes hit me. I have all four of the symptoms of CPTSD. She blames me for all of her problems and refuses to go to counselling again after walking out in a rage with two different counsellors. Interestingly she does not remember either of those events, but can remember every time I ever offended her and can recount them to the slightest detail. She is now divorcing me, which actually gives me some hope that I might live a normal life. I am currently attending a "Men's Distress Tolerance Group", via Zoom, with 6 other men who are married to, or are in a divorce situation with a BPD wife. Our therapist says that all of our stories of being abused are so similar that he cannot keep them straight. I go from feeling sorry for my wife and wishing she could get help, to wishing she would disappear so that my pain could stop. Living with a BPD is exhausting, frustrating, and painful. Any happiness is long gone. I don't recognize my wife compared to how she was the first 10-15 years together. She is cruel to me, but nice to everyone else. When I go to the forums on BPDFamily, I see similar stories. I will look for your research.

Wow such a beautiful soul...........this is so informative and helpful.......thank you!!!!

Thank you so much for having me!!

The 4 Agreements. Good stuff. Love Ruiz. Read that book years ago. Excellent life advice. You've overcome a lot & seem to have done a fabulous job of taking control of your life & your own destiny. You're helping others with this video, too. Wishing you all the best for your future. 🙏

Thank you Alex. A well thought out presentation. From my experience I agree with most of what you say here.

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My son has contrivied pstd about me - his father. When younger, he bounced between my wife and I as good guy and bad guy. He has now settled on me(father) as the the permanent bad guy. His bad treatment to me goes as far back as grade school. In high school, while waiting for him to finish up at his daily sports practice, if I would be talking to a coach on another team, he would run up to me and accuse me of sabotaging him, and I can't talk to these people. So just to keep him from making a scene, after some shouting from him, I just complied. This is just one small example of the bs ( financially and bs) I put up with from him over his life. My wife and I observed some of his behaviors as early as 6 years old. Now, his abuse by him continues at 26 blaming me for all his life ills. Thank God he lives 800 miles away. Now he wants PTSD treatment paid for because my wife and I owe him. But will only talk to my wife and will not allow her to inform me what is going on (of course she fills me in). I should clarify that he has BPD.

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Karen’s voice is calming and inviting! A very informative helpful video! Thank you.

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Can you recommend where to go for treatment in Newport Beach, CA?

I'm so proud of and grateful for these wonderful people who are sharing their stories here, it will help many. And the biggest gratitude to the angel, Dr. Aguirre who is a hero and such a compassionate man.

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It's a hard video to watch being 54, knowing what's wrong and still not being able to get the help I need. I tried a DBT program in the area and was retraumatized by a therapist.

Thank you for posting these!

Hey I really like your channel....I had depression and it has given me a mission to not let anyone suffer from it alone... I am going to take up psychology and in these holidays I have opened a TH-cam Channel called fight depression...do check it out .... would you like to make a video together th-cam.com/channels/ren0k_MfHNoJpqgIYZ1XZA.html

*Lovely :-)* Good wkd to all. Its Your weekend!

Thank you for being brave and sharing this video. Two years after diagnosis and some days are still a struggle.

Please help me