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Setting Boundaries With a Toxic vs a Healthy Person

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How to Live with a Painful Reality

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Who Is Responsible for Your Triggers?

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Character Traits Toxic People Exploit

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Is It Future Faking or Realistic Hope You Have?

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Confronting a Toxic vs a Healthy Person

Healthy conflict resolution is only possible with two healthy people. Having one unhealthy person doesn't work. Confronting a toxic person versus a healthy person is a completely different experience. Dealing with issues in a toxic relationship is difficult and frustrating. All kinds of dysfunctional dynamics are possible. It is important you know what to expect before confronting. Knowing the differences between confronting a toxic vs a healthy person could even help you identify the problems in your relationship that have been confusing. #toxicrelationships #healthyrelationships #toxicperson #healthyconflictresolution #healthyperson
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Silence Is a Boundary

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Boundaries are necessary in all relationships, but they are even more necessary in toxic relationships with toxic people. There isn't a correct boundary that needs to be set, as it is always up to you. They are individual to your needs, circumstances, and abilities. That means you can set any boundaries you want and one of the options is silence. It communicates specific and powerful things wit...

Setting Boundaries With a Toxic vs a Healthy Person

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Setting Boundaries With a Toxic vs a Healthy Person

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Toxic relationships present many challenging issues that require making decisions about what you will accept and tolerate. Figuring out those limits is the first step and the next is communicating them. You will also need boundaries in healthy relationships, but the reaction won't be the same in a toxic relationship. Watch this video to find out what the differences will be when setting boundar...

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How to Live with a Painful Reality

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Do you know how to live with a painful reality? Most people are doing so without a plan. You can do many things that will improve your life even though chronic stress, chronic illness, toxic relationships, mentally ill loved ones, or any other difficult situation remains unchanged. You must know what they are and begin to implement them. Watch this video to find out how to live with a painful r...

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Who Is Responsible for Your Triggers?

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Who is responsible for your triggers? Is it you or the person who did what made you react? Should your spouse, parent, or friend do everything possible to keep from doing the things that bother you? And when you react in a strong way to that person, is it your fault or theirs? Most triggers are related to past experiences from childhood trauma or previous relationship trauma but they affect you...

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Character Traits Toxic People Exploit

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Have you ever wondered if there are character traits toxic people exploit and that is why you have so many of them in your life? The answer is "Yes," there are traits that they are drawn to because it is easier to manipulate and influence you. One of the ways to combat this is to know what those traits are so you can strengthen yourself in those areas when you are dealing with toxic people. Awa...

Is It Future Faking or Realistic Hope You Have?

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Is It Future Faking or Realistic Hope You Have?

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Is it realistic hope or future faking to believe that your dysfunctional relationship will get better? Should you stay or should you go? Normally, the other person uses future faking to keep you expecting change, but you can future fake yourself. Watch this video to figure out if there is realistic hope. #futurefaking #hope #dysfunctionalrelationship #toxicrelationship Website: www.changemyrela...

Christian Toxic Misbeliefs About Emotions

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Christian Toxic Misbeliefs About Emotions

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Is depression a sin? Is anger a sin? Is fear a sin? Are all emotions sinful? Unfortunately, Christians have toxic misbeliefs about emotions that cause problems in their lives and relationships. You must understand the purpose of emotions and the confusion about them. Watch this video for a surprising and insightful explanation of what Christians get wrong. Your emotional and relational health d...

I Divorced My Emotionally and Spiritually Abusive Husband

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I Divorced My Emotionally and Spiritually Abusive Husband

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Wendy divorced her emotionally and spiritually abusive husband after a thirty-five-year marriage and five-year separation. She describes how she navigated the painful but necessary grief process. She also explains how she is discovering who she is, the boundaries she needs with her ex-husband, and the new life open to her. Divorce is a painful experience with many challenges to overcome. Wendy ...

Why Do Dysfunctional Toxic People Act That Way?

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Why Do Dysfunctional Toxic People Act That Way?

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Some people manipulate, abuse, lie, blame, gaslight, cheat, and betray. Do you wonder why dysfunctional toxic people act that way? It is reasonable to ask because a healthy person wouldn't do these things. There are several reasons, but this video focuses on one that we often forget to mention. Understanding why people do what they do is important because we must respond and what we think will ...

Empowered By Choice in Dysfunctional Relationships

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Empowered By Choice in Dysfunctional Relationships

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You can be empowered by choice in dysfunctional relationships even though it doesn't feel that way. It feels like you are stuck and victimized, but in reality, you are never without the opportunity to take back your power and choose for yourself. Knowing this and acting on it, can change your life. Watch this video to learn how to apply this truth of empowered by choice to your dysfunctional re...

My Husband Weaponized Scripture to Emotionally and Spiritually Abuse Me

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My Husband Weaponized Scripture to Emotionally and Spiritually Abuse Me

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Even though they looked perfect from the outside to everyone who knew them and held a prominent position in the community, life within their home was anything but perfect. Wendy describes her journey in an emotionally and spiritually abusive marriage where her husband weaponized scripture. Truth was mixed with untruth increasing the confusion and self-doubt. Anyone who has been gaslit, manipula...

How You Feel With a Toxic vs a Healthy Person

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How You Feel With a Toxic vs a Healthy Person

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It isn't always easy to identify dysfunctional dynamics in a relationship. You can't diagnose people and figure out all the complex behavior that doesn't make sense. You can't always be unbiased in how you view them. There is something you can focus on: how you feel with a toxic vs a healthy person. Unhealthy people negatively impact our bodies, emotions, and spirit. We often ignore these signs...

How Not to Be Double-Minded When Making Decisions as a Christian

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How Not to Be Double-Minded When Making Decisions as a Christian

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As Christians, we want to know God's will for our lives. When we make decisions, we seek guidance that we can trust. We get it from numerous sources: the Bible, pastors, things we hear, things we read, social media posts, friends, counselors, and more. The problem is that we often become double-minded because we consider everything we hear and see as equal. God's wisdom is available for all who...

His Name Is Stephen--My Healing Journey After Abortion

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His Name Is Stephen--My Healing Journey After Abortion

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Susan Justice is a retired nurse, author, and speaker, sharing the devastation of abortion and her healing through Jesus Christ. Susan uses her testimony to promote life-affirming solutions to persons facing unintended pregnancies and to share healing avenues with those impacted by abortion, honor her child, share the emotional/spiritual/relational “fall-out” that occurred, and educate on “Post...