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The Narcissist | Short Film (HD)
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  • @idahamidah2211
    @idahamidah2211 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sounds like my previous toxic coworker. One day, I lost my ID card. I always put my ID card inside my bag. I realized it's gone. Few days later, the coworker gave me my ID card. She said she found it on room A (I've searched my ID there several times and couldn't find it). After the incident, she seemed to try to make converrsation with me. Surprisingly, she knows about my working experiences and educational background, which I never shared anything about it to anyone in the workplace.

  • @mueschael
    @mueschael หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a strong movie, it really shows a narc irl. I'm reading the comments and as expected, I'm recognizing the tendency to an "us & them" mentality which is the most natural thing to ever do. But it scares me. I'll tell you why: I'm still living with my narcissistic mother (just few weeks until moving out for studying) and she's really awful. It's the whole story with bitter coldness, neglect, hate and the constant negativity. Isn't that where narcs are born? And as I know, I'm narcissistic too. I have serious problems with people criticizing me and I always seem to walk around with some fake persona even though I really don't want to. No matter how good things could become after not living with my mum anymore, I'm traumatized forever and I'll need to heal. I've already consulted a psychotherapist but due to lack of capacities he suggested I'd approach him again if I noticed things went wrong despite my mum not being around all the time anymore. And this is where the problems begin. How can someone who's narcissistic ACTUALLY "de-narcissist" himself? And that's the whole determinism thing that scares me. You were put in this world by people full of hate, were possibly hated by parts of the outside world (bullying and stuff), learned to hate people in a natural way and now you're hated because you do indeed hate people. What the hell of the life is that supposed to be? I'm not defending narcs for their behavior since I myself really hate my mum, I just hate that person deeply. But just think about that. Now imagine we weren't that lucky to find out about narcissism and its roots (trauma, psychoanalysis) which was quite the case until the 20th century. We'd still end up differentiating between "good" and "bad" people and not even question that from an intellectual perspective. So yeah I can again confirm that having a narcissist mum and a co-dependant dad is really awful. Being a narcissist and being aware of it brings this to another level of psychological cruelty. Like yk I'm trying to be kind and stuff. I'll have to go through things myself and do my best to heal as soon as I'm out, that's what I've been planning on for years. But these scientific articles that state that narcissists couldn't heal at all but just become a more subtle type of it just generate a feeling inside me which could be visualized as the absolute death stare into nothingness while listening to Shostakovitch. If you know you know. Thank you for reading.

  • @GetShorty29
    @GetShorty29 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The narration was cool for about two minutes. After that you have to have an actual scene with actual people actually talking and actually reacting… This is like listening to an audiobook that is intended to put you to sleep once you have the momentum, you need something drastic or unforgettable to happen that knocks people out there ass … Good start got boring very quickly… Keep at it you’ll catch the right emotion. Much love process never quit…

  • @GetShorty29
    @GetShorty29 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Intro was solid… A cliff fall shortly ensued… Respect for the work regardless💯

  • @Meggydoes
    @Meggydoes หลายเดือนก่อน

    Show this to a narc they'll say ' this is what you do to me'

  • @kiffthewatchernnasa7438
    @kiffthewatchernnasa7438 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sound's more like a over thinking paranoid person that judges everything and everyone

    • @MegaCardigans
      @MegaCardigans หลายเดือนก่อน

      NPD always carries some traits or symptoms of all other type personality disorders.İt can take very long years for a proper diagnosis.Most of the people with NPD get wrong diagnosises during their life time.Such as borderline,schoziod,schizotypical,paranoid,obsesisive compulsive disorder,Even autism,asperger syndrome..

  • @app13s33d
    @app13s33d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That princess mononoke poster tho....

  • @Whowhodatdat
    @Whowhodatdat 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Autism and NPD are very similar... beware... I am a girl formally diagnosed with autism and ADHD, and I have many of those traits! From being disturbed by disgusting chewing noises, to not being able to hear people when something is not of my interests, emotional delay, poker face in social situations so I avoid most conversations, avoidance of people and preferring the machine, feeling different ( yet not superior) practically all traits describing the protagonist I have, besides I'm a girl...not to mention the bathroom is my safe space.... I hide myself in there almost in every social interaction... especially work...

  • @misskay-zs2ow
    @misskay-zs2ow 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, thank you for this ❤ it brings a human touch to narcissism

  • @evonyevans
    @evonyevans 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The crazy thing about it is that the narcissists will you feel like you are the narcissist. The level of mind games they play is exhausting and evil

  • @michelleroselilley4637
    @michelleroselilley4637 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This just resembles a spoilt teenager.

  • @MrRicardonz15
    @MrRicardonz15 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is frightening.

  • @MrRicardonz15
    @MrRicardonz15 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This reminds me so much of Patrick Bateman and his comparison to Paul Allen

  • @lindsey-nm7ng
    @lindsey-nm7ng 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Damn… That’s literally my brain 24/7… r they implying that that’s narcissistic thinking?

    • @lindsey-nm7ng
      @lindsey-nm7ng 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kind of surprised that there’s guys that think like this… so do men and women really think about the same things after all?

  • @ShaydaFeeley-ym1nq
    @ShaydaFeeley-ym1nq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Deep

  • @abbz23
    @abbz23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish more short films like this

  • @kirie1177
    @kirie1177 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    he just an antisocial gay guy 😂

  • @3lfruler
    @3lfruler 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What an awful way to live. I understand why therapists say that narcissists live in hell everyday

  • @semperdecorus37
    @semperdecorus37 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I highly recommend watching Dr Sam Vaknin as he has incredible videos about narcs.

  • @kottawaforest6943
    @kottawaforest6943 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    please make a female oriented version of this skit because its just as relevant for us to see the bad examples of women to avoid

  • @amandamag-xg4cj
    @amandamag-xg4cj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    damn how does it feel to be like that though that sounds exhausting i rarely think about what other people think of themselves or care to compare myself to others i rarely do i couldn’t care less about that 99% of the time

  • @hix9306
    @hix9306 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wait this sounds more like someone who questions everything in the world someone with an open mind. He isn’t openly putting them down and being an ass to his friends . People with npd agent looking up dudes and putting their photos on the wall like it’s a hit list . This looks like he has a obsession with this guy on the low

  • @soulseaurchin2739
    @soulseaurchin2739 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think you just saved my life with this. Thank you.

  • @Jas12978
    @Jas12978 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Disturbing personality

  • @izdotcarter
    @izdotcarter 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to encourage everyone here to watch for the distinction between NPD and CPTSD. Some of the behaviors attributed to NPD and actually be trauma.

  • @izdotcarter
    @izdotcarter 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How did you get the dialogue right? How did you research?

  • @feliciajoy2264
    @feliciajoy2264 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And It shows on his HATE, SHAME, BLAME, " DECITFUL " FACE EVERYDAY

  • @feliciajoy2264
    @feliciajoy2264 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes. I know this true. I live this with the narcissist every. Single. Day😢

  • @justanomorifan3059
    @justanomorifan3059 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ngl, my thought process is sometimes like this. I never voice my thoughts because that would make me an ass. I either think like this, or think the person I'm friends or family with as perfect. I'm not a narc though, because I can sometimes feel empathy, and do feel heavy remorse for small things that don't even matter. I also am hating on myself whenever I'm not angry at people who a rude to me, or in a neutral state. I'm pretty sure it's just stupid middle school girl hormones tho lol. I'll outgrow it so it's nothing to worry about. I never go to "the I'm better than everyone" extreme that this guy does in the mirror scene. It's more of thinking people are disgusting and pathetic "vermin" whenever someone is rude to me. (I know its edgy lmao)

    • @hix9306
      @hix9306 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Majority of people think like this and you can admit it but some people with npd will blurt it out

  • @bub777
    @bub777 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I liked the narration, it gave this film an American Psycho vibe. I didn't even realize it was winter until like 10:27. It's crazy seeing that one trope being done at the end; I don't know the name for it, but I've seen it in a lot of TV shows and movies.

  • @AntheaMissy
    @AntheaMissy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This movie is brilliant . Perfect catch of the psychology.

  • @jessicadarnell4209
    @jessicadarnell4209 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The person who doesn't have a car: I bet he drives an old Toyota.

  • @sbjclasses-bq3xs
    @sbjclasses-bq3xs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have NPD too, and I can confirm that thisvis 99% accurate.

  • @Theuntalentedmrpitman
    @Theuntalentedmrpitman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He sounds and acts like my ex wife

  • @NightOwlGames
    @NightOwlGames 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    its heartbreaking knowing people actually feel this way about others why? one thing i care very little about is other peoples appearences or how they speak its their actions thats important to me, help a blind man cross the street? i see you as an angel of god, rob a old lady? they a devils child a waste of oxygen it dont matter what clothes or how you have your hair its your where your heart is at that counts.

  • @Random_Wierdo.
    @Random_Wierdo. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really think you are confusing narcissist with psychopath, if he has to mimic emotions he doesn’t feel. They also have a narcissistic traits.

  • @tiptoethroughthetulips9428
    @tiptoethroughthetulips9428 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great summery!

  • @Ifyouonlyknew22673
    @Ifyouonlyknew22673 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is this how thye feel wow ! ! 😂

  • @Synfulz.
    @Synfulz. ปีที่แล้ว

    watching this like ' am i ... a narcassist... ' :') apart from i dont think im highly attractive half the time or do that kinda intense research on others. lol :D the thoughts are accurate though.

  • @missgaia12
    @missgaia12 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a great movie! Seeing the narcissist's side of life: tensions, insecurities, observations, all non-sense mechanical qualities of reasoning that are unrealistic and connected w/ his lack of connection to everyone, since his superior attitude shows that narcissists are in fact sick in their heart, which is dead by default and they know no-love... I really enjoyed it! :) (English is not my first language, can you notice it? lol)

  • @66kaisersoza
    @66kaisersoza ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn i feel this way. I read plenty of books on human behaviour to better fit in. Im still always bored by everyone, its like everyones two-dimensional 😢

  • @kaylabrown4849
    @kaylabrown4849 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s funny really this is how these nutcases think me me and more me I think all cluster bs are stupid so after researching their disorder and deal with them they are not to be feared but laugh at 😂😂😂

  • @LucasSchlief-ts4ee
    @LucasSchlief-ts4ee ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this i must show it with a comment!!! Good job

  • @Max-wz6cu
    @Max-wz6cu ปีที่แล้ว

    2:53 This really shows how they project their feelings onto other people. He says it's sad but then immediately says "actually for them" to deflect his insecurities onto someone else because deep down he knows that what he does is sad.

  • @williamhamilton8438
    @williamhamilton8438 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ngl he could have been far worse. Activity trying to be as big as a buzzkill as possible. Targeting his real "friends" instead of a rando. He also could have really verbalized his warped opinions too. He's almost cuddly compared to most.

  • @Sarit473
    @Sarit473 ปีที่แล้ว

    Narcissist are ONLY insicure people. Their inferiority it's clear since the first time you met them.

  • @jasminagavrilovic661
    @jasminagavrilovic661 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well, this is terrible. I just can't believe that they are so cold-blooded, that the life in their narcissistic minds is like this, everything is fake and they have no emotions. This is more likely for psychopaths.

  • @bleedingbellybutton9403
    @bleedingbellybutton9403 ปีที่แล้ว

    American psycho Netflix reboot

  • @bellaapple2166
    @bellaapple2166 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow this is really spot on. You should do one with a Narcissist guy and how he views his relationship with his girlfriend/ wife. You know like different dynamics would help lots of people.

  • @anastazijaradisavljevic7589
    @anastazijaradisavljevic7589 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent work, deserves more popularity.