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Two things: Mom is an uncaring nitwit who will not believe that her husband was badly damaged by his father. #2: Dad needs to sit down with his wife and explain to her at least some of what his dad did to him - because apparently she won't believe him otherwise. I don't blame him for threatening divorce. His wife is blindly siding with the older man without know squat about him, instead of the man she promised her life to. Maybe dad needs to leave; she clearly doesn't have his back.

NTA. That woman was probably lying! Based on all the "entitled people" stories I've read, I'd be willing to guess that she bought economy tickets and made up a story about a booking error.

Since hubby's sisters are siding with in-laws, I wondered if they barged into the sisters delivery rooms (if they have children)? If not, tell sisters that barging into your delivery room was the equivalent of coming into your bedroom while you're having sex. Also, who notified them that you were in labor?

Definitely NTA. You're a good son.

Honestly, I wouldn't punish her. The reason is my 1st Cousin and I have been treated that exact way by our Grand-Aunts and their families.

They should really let the story fibish before uploading the stories on yt.

Id reply with "Bold of.you to assume i want to be in your childs life"

Nta. She iced you out.

It’s truly messed up how the half sister ruins every event for other people when she’s selfish,people just want to enjoy the event and not have someone ruin it

Wwooaaahhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

if u actually believe this ur an idiot. sorry. ☠️

Their favoritism is disgusting and if the couldn't and wouldn't treat my child equally, they be no contact. NTAH

I haven't heard the story yet, but why don't the parents get professional assistance for the kid?

YTA he has likely been used by gold diggers before and doesn't want to be used again.

Why wouldn’t he just get non specific about his job

Trades men especially a journeyman can get paid anywhere from $32- $120 an hour depending on experience and how good they are in their field. And $120 is just the most I've ever heard of anyone earning and they had like 20 years of experience. I couldn't imagine what someone with 30+ years of experience would be making.

Nta for turning him down but definitely the a-hole for the excuse you gave for turning him down. Yes excuse because that's all it was. You didn't like possibly being called out or for it sounding like he was accusing you of something. Before anyone jumps down my throat. I am a woman. I have also known both men and women who don't tell their job or other things because they have been fucked over badly in the past. He was not the ahole for not telling what his real job was. He wasn't lying for the sake of lying. He is trying to protect himself. “I know men who are rich and they don't act like rhat” Well chances are they didn't get fucked over by someone they were dating or married to. Sounds like he made the right decision not telling her his real job. Saved himself a heartache later on. My ex was mentally, verbally, emotionally, and financially abusive towards me. So I have my own set of trust issues.

Listen ladies, you arent obligated to like anyone, you are NOT the asshole for turning someone down.

It sounds like an "alpha man" move. 😂

Found all the guys in the comments who are happy to lie to women!

Wtf is wrong with you? That poor boy has done nothing wrong and you’re just gonna put him in another place 😕

If you don’t wanna date him then don’t date him no one gives a damn why

You are a scumbag.

Gross

He just doesn’t wanna come in the house because he doesn’t wanna be with you. He’s decompressing and preparing to live in the house with you. Poor guy.

You are disgusting.

Asking what someone does for a living is a completely normal question for a first date. The fact it wasn't asked before then is a little alarming to me. Especially if he is trying to find out if she was a gold digger. Because if she had no job or a low paying job, would be a clue that she might be one. Asking employment is normal. What if she did OF and he did agree with that? Men claim they are logical creatures but logically this makes no sense. If you want a woman thats not a gold digger, look for women with actual careers and your chances of running into one are a lot lower. But if you date a woman with a higher paying job you won't be able to manipulate her with money. Men are weird.😅

if this was their 1st date, SHE failed overall. he had to come up on the spot for an excuse to something he wasn't comforyable with. and gold diggers (or monatary motivated) ask abt their jobs/ earnings on first. those guys she worked with aren't like that cause they don't see her as possibility. she ita. pretty harsh one at that.

Thats not a test, he was uncomfortable sharing at first.

They didn't disinvite anyone just said best friend and sister will be bridesmaids.

"Low paying job" bud, a PROFESSIONAL CARPENTER??

YTA, thats not a gold digging test at all

full story : AITAH for selling my house to get rid of my step children. My wife passed away in November of 2022. She left me three adult step children who have all been very clear that I am not their parent despite being in their lives for over ten years. Their father has retired to the Philippines. They are 21, 22, 25. Their mother and I have been helping them out with a place to live because our city is very HCOL. The youngest is in school still but the other two are employed. After their mother passed away they stopped doing anything around the house. We had been charging no rent so they could save money. The older two were responsible for their own bills other than that. I paid power, water, Internet, all the utilities. We even provided food for the youngest. Now they do nothing to help around the house. I have had to hire a cleaning lady to help. It's stupid. So I put the house up for sale. The price has gone up so much since I bought it that I could retire to the Philippines if that was my thing. It took no time at all to sell and I'm moving out to my cabin. I gave each kid $10,000 and told them that the house was sold. They aren't idiots they had seen the for sale sign and been around for the open houses. Now they are getting upset with me for throwing them out of their home. I guess they did some of their growing up there but they never treated it like much more than a place to sleep. I think that their mom would be disgusted with how they treated me and our home. They pooled their money and got an apartment but if they count on only the money I gave them they will have nothing in a year. AITA?

If they lie the first time they meet you, it won’t be the last

''You have two weeks to host a party,'' Holy, does she want OP to participate in this ''tradition,'' or is she just threatening their life?

I dont think anyone is in the wrong You truly just dont think you have to get a new one and they just wanted to get you something special

I’m autistic and I understand everything that the husband does. You’re nta if you divorce him just because you aren’t compatible but you are the asshole if you are divorcing him *just* because he has autism.

You are the asshole because you should have looked into autism before marrying him knowing damn well he's autistic

your parents sound like narcissists, they will pit siblings against each other to make them selves look better and destroy the relationship between siblings. If you really are doing well financially and have good friends an healthy family dynamics, theres no wrong in keeping your distance from them. Im glad your little girl is comfortable expressing her wants an feelings, it shows you are doing a good job at raising her♡

So sad. But they should have respected your wishes

Nta

This probably has more to do with her being a girl than OP and her husband being well off financially. Paying the grandparents to babysit? They don’t consider her their grandchild then and it’s obvious

Having to pay grandparents to watch the children it’s actually wild. If they are watching them every single day like full time childcare then sure but for a little date night. That’s crazy

I love your nails so much 💗

Restraining order

WHY…Why would you want to take your bank balance to ZERO to begin your lives together? When is it ever your family’s responsibility to pay for YOUR wedding? Past traditions that the bride’s family pays for the wedding…groom’s family pays for the rehearsal dinner. Your are a grown up with a JOB making an income. STAY WITHIN YOUR BUDGET OF YOUR INCOME! …why would you go into debt for this? Buy a house and make your memories…unbelievable!

NTA: what is so bad about letting the little girl use the trampoline, too?!? Ain't she also their grand-child?

He has every right to speak like that

NTA

She just spitting facts🤣🤣🤣(also if u say something about a someone and that person gets angry, it’s most likely because they know u r right)