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Same could be said for women :)

It's interesting that you mention "not lowering your standards" as a flaw, but it's actually about knowing your worth and setting healthy boundaries. Women are often encouraged to be confident and self-assured, which is a good thing, but it's also important to be realistic about what we bring to the table and what we expect in return. And that also means to be aware of our own unrealistic standards. And never to force a one-sided connection ofcourse, thats a hell scape! Being conscious is everything! When it comes to relationships, it's not just about initial attraction or playing in or out of your league-it's about finding someone who aligns with your values, your life goals, and your emotional needs. Attraction is important, but so is compatibility on a deeper level. If you find yourself in a situationship, it's not necessarily because your standards are too high or low; it might be because the relationship isn’t built on a solid foundation of mutual respect and understanding. Totally long-term relationships are where the real connections happen if both are willing!! In long-term relationships, feelings can ebb and flow, and that's normal. The honeymoon phase doesn't last forever, but that doesn't mean the relationship isn't valuable. The challenge is to recognize when things are getting stale and take proactive steps to reignite that connection. Both partners need to be invested in maintaining the relationship, whether it's by continuing to date each other, communicating openly, or simply making the effort to keep the spark alive. It's also crucial to acknowledge that both partners share responsibility in this like you pointed out. It's not just about the woman dressing up or the man keeping up his game-it's about both people putting in the effort to maintain the relationship. If feelings have faded, it’s worth exploring why that’s happened and whether the relationship can be revived. Sometimes, it’s about rediscovering each other and remembering what made you fall in love in the first place.❤

@@akankshakrishnani Reasonable standards, there are those you can demand without being delusional, are what you are. If you are poor and ask for riches if you require properties or years of knowledge etc, then make sure that you are either these or that they are balanced in different areas. Of course, many people, especially women, skip them. Everyone is entitled to believe or expect anything. But it is good firstly make sure that you are in a manageable position because people belatedly regret good relationships rejected them because they could have done better. Apart from the exceptions and specificities of those requested per treaty. Sorry for my bad English, not my first language.

Dating can be challenging for everyone, but dismissing women's concerns as "petty" overlooks the deeper issues they face. When women mention things like safety, emotional labor, or navigating societal expectations, these are real concerns, not just surface-level frustrations. The idea that men have more "evidence" of dating difficulties is subjective-there are countless stories of women facing harassment or mistreatment, which can be miminized. And the video addresses the same issues for men too. No doubt, there will be examples of both men and women with bad attitudes or a lack of respect to the other. Instead of comparing struggles, we should aim to understand and empathize with each other's experiences to create a more respectful and compassionate dating culture for everyone :)

​@@akankshakrishnani Again, smaller issues. Evidence isn't subjective either when the results speak for themselves. And Im not minimizing your issues, its just calling it like it is. It is possible that one side can have smaller issues and feel more burdened by them. For example, if the court rulings were reversed to be overwhelmingly in favor of men, and we could divorce women at anytime and take half their net worth and their children, the system would break. Women would not tolerate this at all. We would never hear the end of how unfair that would be, yet this is the reality of being a man when dealing with women in an intimate relationship. This isn't some indictment on women for being weaker emotionally, I just find find it interesting.

Also, evidence is different from proof. Broken glass can be evidence of a potential break in, but could actually be proof that the neighbors were playing golf.

Its been really hard and it shows no sign of improving!!😪

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