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Kate Scharff, Psychotherapist
United States
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 30 ส.ค. 2017
Welcome! I'm a Washington, DC area psychotherapist with 35 years' experience helping individuals, couples and families to navigate such issues as relationship difficulties (including around communication, intimacy and infidelity), parenting and co-parenting, anxiety, depression, life transitions, grief and trauma. I maintain a general practice of individual and couple therapy. A separate part of my practice is dedicating to working with individuals, couples and children going through separation and divorce. I'm also an author, trainer of mental health professionals, and podcaster. Learn more about me at at www.katescharff.com.
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Episode 31-Adults Whose Parents Split: The Invisible Children of Divorce
มุมมอง 295ปีที่แล้ว
With divorce rates rising among people who are over 50, many of today's children of divorce are adults themselves- often with families of their own. Divorcing couples often assume their grown-up kids are "just fine." But these "invisible children of divorce" are impacted just as profoundly as their younger counterparts, often in surprising and painful ways. Kate is joined by psychologist Lisa H...
Separating Finances in Divorce: It Doesn't Have to be a Nightmare with Debora May, CPA, CFP©, CDFA©
มุมมอง 131ปีที่แล้ว
Dividing finances in divorce- most separating couples dread it. After all, when you got married you didn't imagine having to discuss dividing all the assets you acquired during your marriage. Suddenly, the person you once shared a life with feels like an adversary. But it doesn't have to be so hard. Most people don't know that there are financial professionals with specific expertise in shepher...
Podcast Episode 29 - How to Protect Your Children in Divorce An Update on the Latest Research
มุมมอง 1912 ปีที่แล้ว
If you’re a divorcing parent, worries about how the split will affect your kids is probably the most upsetting and scary part of the whole experience. You have lots of questions, including "Is there anything I can do to make sure my divorce doesn’t have a permanent negative impact on my children's development? According to our guest today, Dr. Lisa Herrick, the answer is a resounding "yes!"
Podcast Ep 27 - The Modern Pre-Nup: There's a Better Way, Really!
มุมมอง 1113 ปีที่แล้ว
Who’s afraid of the big bad prenup? Well, if you’re getting married probably you. So you might be surprised to learn that crafting a pre-nup should be a positive experience- one that strengthens the bond between you and your future spouse and sets you on a road to a happy, healthy marriage. Attorney Suzy Eckstein joins Kate to explain.
Podcast Episode 26: Divorce, Mortgages and What to do with the House
มุมมอง 7994 ปีที่แล้ว
Source: www.spreaker.com/user/kate_scharff/divorce-mortgages-and-what-to-do-with-yo If you're getting separated or divorced, where you'll each live is one of your biggest concerns. You have questions, like: "Can one of us keep the house?"; "Should one of us buy the other out?"; "How do we figure out what our house is worth?"; "Can I qualify for a mortgage, and what can I do to increase my chanc...
Podcast Eisode 25- How to Protect Your Children in Divorce: Lessons from the Latest Research
มุมมอง 2694 ปีที่แล้ว
Source: www.spreaker.com/user/kate_scharff/ep25-how-to-protect-your-children-in-div What steps can you take to make sure your divorce doesn't cause permanent damage to your child's development? Psychologist and divorce expert Dr. Lisa Herrick joins Kate to discuss what we can learn from the latest research on the impact of divorce on children of all ages, including how to identify "risk factors...
Podcast Episode 24 - Finding the Right Divorce for You Part 2: What is Collaborative Divorce?
มุมมอง 1914 ปีที่แล้ว
Source: www.spreaker.com/user/kate_scharff/episode-24-finding-the-right-divorce-for Collaborative Divorce is an an out-of-court way to resolve your divorce disputes in a respectful, non-adversarial manner. Never heard of Collaborative Divorce? Heard of it, but want to know more? In this episode Kate and Jane are again joined by family law attorney Suzy Eckstein. Together they explain and demyst...
Podcast Episode 23 - Finding the Right Divorce for You Part 1 - What are Your Options?
มุมมอง 2984 ปีที่แล้ว
Source: www.spreaker.com/user/kate_scharff/episode-23 You've decided to get divorced (or your spouse has decided for you)... Where to begin? In this episode Kate and Jane are joined by experienced family law attorney Suzy Epstein. Together they take on the confusing questions "How can I find a good divorce lawyer who is right for me?", and "What are the the different ways to get divorced, and h...
Podcast Episode 21 - Surviving the Holidays After a Divorce: Part 1
มุมมอง 2485 ปีที่แล้ว
Source: www.spreaker.com/user/kate_scharff/episode-21-surviving-the-holidays-after- If you're newly separated or divorced, the holidays can be particularly tough- fraught with feelings of loss, loneliness, alienation and destabilization. It can seem that while everyone you know is having a magical family experience, you're struggling alone to find your place as an unpartnered person. In this ep...
Podcast Episode 20 - Ten tips for telling your children about the divorce - PT 2
มุมมอง 2765 ปีที่แล้ว
Source: www.spreaker.com/user/kate_scharff/ep20-10-tips-for-telling-your-children-a For most divorcing parents, breaking the news to their kids is one the most upsetting parts of the experience. What, when and how to tell them? How to ease their pain? What if you and your future ex can't agree on a message? Take a breath, relax. You need some guidance and a plan. This is Part 2 of Kate and Jane...
Podcast Episode 19 - 10 tips for telling your children about the divorce - PT 1
มุมมอง 2735 ปีที่แล้ว
Source: www.spreaker.com/user/kate_scharff/ep19-10-tips-for-telling-your-children-a For most divorcing parents, breaking the news to their kids is one the most upsetting parts of the experience. What, when and how to tell them? How to ease their pain? What if you and your future ex can't agree on a message? Take a breath, relax. You need some guidance and a plan. Kate and Jane offer "10 Tips fo...
Podcast Episode 17 - Disciplining Children During Divorce - Part 1: Punishment vs. Consequence
มุมมอง 1655 ปีที่แล้ว
Source: www.spreaker.com/user/kate_scharff/ep17-discipline-during-divorce-pt1 "Now that we're splitting up, should I be softer on the kids or keep doing things the old way?" "Should my ex and I try to have the same rules?" "What if my ex undermines me with the kids?" Deciding how and when to discipline our kids during the emotional maelstrom of divorce is tough. But you can learn to navigate ev...
Podcast Episode 18 - Discipline During Divorce Part 2: 15 Common Parenting Mistakes
มุมมอง 975 ปีที่แล้ว
Source: www.spreaker.com/user/kate_scharff/episode-18-discipline-during-divorce-par Divorcing parents want to support their kids and minimize pain. But being a good parent sometimes means taking unpopular positions. And what if you don't have a cooperative co-parent who supports your philosophy? In this episode, Kate and Jane offer practical and empathic advice for handling even the most comple...
Podcast Episode 14 - Separated Under the Same Roof
มุมมอง 4.6K5 ปีที่แล้ว
Source: www.spreaker.com/user/kate_scharff/ep14-separAted-under-the-same-roof Divorced but still living under the same roof? There are many reasons separating couples share a home for some period of time during the separation/divorce transition. For some it's a financial or legal necessity, for others part of a long-range plan to share time with children. Some couples find this a torturous "lim...
Podcast Episode 16 - How to Choose a Better Partner Next Time
มุมมอง 2445 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 16 - How to Choose a Better Partner Next Time
Podcast Episode 15 - "No One Understands How Hard Divorce is! Will I Ever Feel Normal Again?"
มุมมอง 5305 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 15 - "No One Understands How Hard Divorce is! Will I Ever Feel Normal Again?"
Podcast Episode 13 - The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 6 of 6
มุมมอง 445 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 13 - The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 6 of 6
Podcast Episode 12 - The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 5 of 6
มุมมอง 375 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 12 - The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 5 of 6
Podcast Episode 11 - The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 4 of 6
มุมมอง 575 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 11 - The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 4 of 6
Podcast Episode 7 - Divorce Advice for the Unfaithful
มุมมอง 3256 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 7 - Divorce Advice for the Unfaithful
Podcast Episode 6 - Divorce, Infidelity, and Your Kids
มุมมอง 4426 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 6 - Divorce, Infidelity, and Your Kids
Podcast Episode 10 - The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 3 of 6
มุมมอง 716 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 10 - The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 3 of 6
Podcast Episode 8- The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 1 of 6
มุมมอง 1266 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 8- The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 1 of 6
Podcast Episode 9 - The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 2 of 6
มุมมอง 716 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 9 - The Divorced Parents' Pledge: Part 2 of 6
Pilot Episode - Divorce expert Kate Scharff explains her unique perspective on divorce
มุมมอง 3266 ปีที่แล้ว
Pilot Episode - Divorce expert Kate Scharff explains her unique perspective on divorce
Podcast Episode 5 - Should We Stay Together Until our Kids Go to College?
มุมมอง 3816 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 5 - Should We Stay Together Until our Kids Go to College?
Podcast Episode 3 - My Ex is Trashing Me to My Kids: Help!
มุมมอง 1446 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 3 - My Ex is Trashing Me to My Kids: Help!
Podcast Episode 4 - Spending Time As a Family After Divorce: Good Idea or Bad?
มุมมอง 3896 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 4 - Spending Time As a Family After Divorce: Good Idea or Bad?
Podcast Episode 2: You're Getting Divorce: Do You Really Need Therapy?
มุมมอง 2776 ปีที่แล้ว
Podcast Episode 2: You're Getting Divorce: Do You Really Need Therapy?
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