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@@kidoa.3688www.todaysparent.com/baby/baby-sleep/safe-co-sleeping-according-to-experts/

Let me share my story with you. I am Dilyana Lulcheva, a speech-language pathologist and developmental psychologist, a single mother, and the owner of a speech therapy practice that works with children with special needs. Over 10 years ago, I started a project with a major Swiss publishing house and wrote four therapeutic books in German, which continue to sell well in the German market. The truth is, I've been struggling with writer's block for seven years, and after much hesitation, I decided to try creating content for TH-cam. My initial idea was to create a personal channel in Bulgarian, as many people in professional circles in Bulgaria already know me. I started Daily Dose of Parenting in English as an experiment. The first few videos were based on scripts I created, but the video content was selected by AI. Although I wasn’t satisfied with the video results, the content was watched because of the script, despite the video quality, which even I hesitate to watch. Suddenly, this first video became the main generator of watch hours, crucial for TH-cam monetization. This was something I didn’t expect at all, as I was still figuring out how the TH-cam algorithm works. Since April 25th, when this first video was published, I started working with Capcut, Canva, and other tools to select the video footage for the scripts myself. I still make some mistakes (e.g., the pauses between frames are too long in recent videos, as a friend pointed out). Keep in mind that I am not a professional visual editor; I am learning along the way, and the channel is created to generate income for my foundation, which helps children with developmental delays. As I still work as a therapist and manage a team of six in my small practice, I work on the videos in the evenings and nights after work. I put a lot of effort into them, but the early videos show my lack of video editing skills because I decided to try invideo.ai but quickly realized I wasn’t satisfied with the lack of control over the footage selection, so I started learning. The most important thing for me is that I have started writing content again, because it makes me happy. I am very close to reaching the watch hours needed for TH-cam monetization, and the channel has grown quickly. Once monetized, I will create a new version of the initial video with fully selected footage by me. Sometimes I face difficulties, because there aren't always suitable stock videos for the given topic, and because I am learning, but I truly strive to select the scenes entirely myself now. I rely on Invideo for voiceovers, because I am self-conscious about my accent. Here is a link to my speech therapy practice, because I also don’t feel comfortable with this anonymity. I plan to create a video to share my personal story and motivation for creating the channel. What I can guarantee is that the information in the scripts is scientifically verified and sourced. I apologize for the poor footage. It would probably be easier to delete your comment to prevent others from seeing the obvious defects, but I believe it is important to be honest with people. I sincerely hope the content of the video has helped those who watched it, even those who noticed the video footage defects. barborela.bg/

@@DailyDoseofParenting-hi8gn no I orders, you’re doing great and I’m sorry for my comment. You do put much work into these. Thank you. ❤️❤️🙏🏻

Responding to a crying child is absolutely essential for their emotional and psychological well-being. Attending to a child's cries is one of the most crucial steps in fostering secure attachment. Secure attachment develops when a caregiver consistently responds to an infant's needs with warmth, sensitivity, and reliability. This type of responsive caregiving helps build a strong foundation of trust and security, which is vital for the child's overall development. By comforting a crying child, you are not only addressing their immediate needs but also reinforcing their sense of safety and emotional stability. This responsiveness is key to nurturing a secure and healthy parent-child relationship.

www.healthline.com/health/baby/how-to-clean-baby-tongue#newborn-how-to

@@DailyDoseofParenting-hi8gn I appreciate the link but I rather take advice from a doctor who’s seeing my baby. My Nurse at the hospital told me as well that burping isn’t really needed for all babies especially breast feeding ones. She had her first baby at 19 and didn’t know about burping and her little one grew up fine.

I rely on science, you on your 4 kids - www.webmd.com/parenting/baby/what-to-know-about-nipple-confusion

Are you a professional, working with children? See, comments like yours are really dangerous, because they are not evidence-based!

www.whattoexpect.com/first-year/ask-heidi/nipple-confusion.aspx

Who cares if they don't like this rule! This is your baby and you are to protect your baby. Are they going to be staying up at night with your baby when it caughts their cold. Their feelings are not in play here. Also, there has recently been a rash of whooping cough going around--there has been ads in parents magazines about this. Whooping couch can be deadly to an infant- Offened, who cares!!!!! They show no respect for you or your baby.

"Thank you so much for your comment! Writing the script was not easy, and I feel a bit disappointed that the video has received fewer than 50 views."

Responding to a crying child is absolutely essential for their emotional and psychological well-being. Attending to child's cries is one of the most crucial steps in fostering secure attachment. Secure attachment develops when a caregiver consistently responds to an infant's needs with warmth, sensitivity, and reliability. This type of responsive caregiving helps build a strong foundation of trust and security, which is vital for the child's overall development. By comforting a crying child, you are not only addressing their immediate needs but also reinforcing their sense of safety and emotional stability. This responsiveness is key to nurturing a secure and healthy parent-child relationship.

It is a very bad idea to let an infant cry! There is research indicating that infants left in facilities where their cries are not attended to may eventually stop crying. This phenomenon is often observed in situations where infants experience neglect or inadequate caregiving, such as in some orphanages or institutional settings. The lack of responsiveness can lead to learned helplessness, where the infant stops crying because their needs are consistently unmet. One notable study on this topic is the Bucharest Early Intervention Project, which compared children raised in Romanian orphanages with those placed in foster care. The study found that children in institutional care who experienced severe neglect showed significant delays in emotional and cognitive development, and often displayed withdrawn and apathetic behavior, including reduced crying. These findings highlight the importance of responsive caregiving for healthy child development. Another source of information is research on attachment theory by John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth, which underscores the importance of a caregiver's responsiveness to an infant's needs. They found that consistent, nurturing responses to a child's cries are crucial for the development of secure attachment. In contrast, when caregivers are unresponsive or inconsistently responsive, it can lead to insecure attachment, with long-term negative effects on the child's emotional and psychological well-being. References: Nelson, C. A., Zeanah, C. H., Fox, N. A., Marshall, P. J., Smyke, A. T., & Guthrie, D. (2007). Cognitive recovery in socially deprived young children: The Bucharest Early Intervention Project. Science, 318(5858), 1937-1940. Zeanah, C. H., Nelson, C. A., Fox, N. A., Smyke, A. T., Marshall, P. J., Parker, S. W., & Koga, S. F. (2003). Designing research to study the effects of institutionalization on brain and behavioral development: The Bucharest Early Intervention Project. Development and Psychopathology, 15(4), 885-907. Bowlby, J. (1969). Attachment and Loss: Volume I: Attachment. New York: Basic Books. Ainsworth, M. D. S., Blehar, M. C., Waters, E., & Wall, S. (1978). Patterns of Attachment: A Psychological Study of the Strange Situation. Hillsdale, NJ: Erlbaum. These studies provide substantial evidence on the detrimental effects of unresponsive caregiving and the critical importance of attending to an infant's needs for fostering secure attachment and healthy development.

If this ridiculous comment isn’t a very bad joke, it’s horrifying that anyone with 2 brain cells would really think this way. I hope you never had a child to treat this way!

What is wrong with you? Sociopath.

No co-sleeping! Dangerous

@@SaystheTruth3 like I said, putting babies in a car is dangerous. Risk is everywhere, we need to learn risk management - and that may be for you no co sleeping, that’s fine. Parents should be given good and clear information for SAFE cosleeping should they wish to though.

Can you refer to this research?

What is your suggestion for people with pets? I am going to publish a video on the the topic. I am not a pet owner, there are risks and it is better to be informed - www.webmd.com/pets/features/pets-and-new-baby

@@DailyDoseofParenting-hi8gn give the pets away, why take the risk. It’s the only logical solution when you go through the list of inconveniences, pet cancel out the need for a babies and vise versa the added work involved with pets getting into babies things and babies getting into pet things is grossly unhealthy, as is pet hair, pet poop and litter getting onto surfaces where babies crawl and sleep or where meals are prepped or bottles made, pets also pollute the air while their hair lands on everything, the consent clean up is maddening. It’s not uncommon for women to rid themselves of their pests once they become a parent and the ones who don’t are generally dirty and lack hygiene or are just fail to see the dangers.

Who are THEY? The AAP? www.pregnancybirthbaby.org.au/co-sleeping-with-your-baby

Trying to prevent SIDS, or accidents and harming your baby is “them” not wanting you to bond with your baby? Weird logic there

co-sleeping could be dangerous

Bad idea!!!!

It is very dangerous to co sleep

@@DailyDoseofParenting-hi8gnIn many Asian countries it’s a normal practice and although dads may stump upon a baby, moms do have instinct that prevents that.

Pacifier is not a must, but your baby has reflexes and is going to discover the thumb and this is not the best option

Mine never needed it though. Isn’t a thumb sucker either. It’s best to avoid it as far as possible

Exactly

They bring the boys back with pacifiers after circumcision i hate it

@@yvinwanebu6780 what's wrong with that? Pacifier calms the baby down.

Than you for your comment Please, read this article! rednose.org.au/article/will-baby-choke-if-he-she-vomits-while-sleeping-on-the-back#:~:text=Babies%20sleep%20more%20deeply%20on,the%20baby's%20airway%20and%20lungs.

That's an outdated view. Nowadays back or side is considered safer.

@@maddythelion Can you cite a source? All reliable sources point to the opposite - www.sleepfoundation.org/baby-sleep/baby-sleeping-on-stomach

@@maddythelion I guess, AAP doesn't promote outdated views - "The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that caregivers place infants on their back until the child is at least 1 year of age."

@@DailyDoseofParenting-hi8gnbabies tend to roll over and sleep on their stomachs way before they turn 1. My first 3 babies all slept on their stomachs and were all settled babies then my 4 th I was told they can’t sleep on their stomachs he was the most unsettled baby.

Thank you so much for this very important question! The answer depends on several factors, so always - really, always - consult your pediatrician first. It's generally safe for most healthy newborns to begin tummy time a day or two after birth. However, it's important to consider the mother's health and recovery, especially if she’s experiencing postpartum difficulties. For babies, aim to start with two or three brief tummy time sessions each day, each lasting about 1 to 3 minutes. As your baby grows and becomes more comfortable on their stomach, you can gradually increase the duration and frequency of tummy time sessions throughout the day. Always ensure both the mother's and baby's readiness and comfort with each session. And let me introduce myself! I'm Dilyana Lulcheva. I work as an SLP and a developmental psychologist. I lead a team of professionals at my own speech and language pathology practice, focusing on improving communication abilities and helping individuals achieve their full potential in speech and language.