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Coquette Aesthetic: The ULTIMATE guide for women over 30
What is coquette? Are there different types of coquette style? Am I too old to wear coquettecore? Does wearing coquette make me a bad feminist?
These questions and more are answered in this video!
Coquette fashion is broad, and it can include elements of Vintage Americana, Regencycore, Lolita fashion, and more. I’ll show you how to incorporate coquette style to the level you’re comfortable wearing-whether you’re all in or just dipping a pink-polished toe in the proverbial pool.
I’ll also discuss why coquettecore is (IMO) not intended for the male gaze.
Get ready for bloomers, bows, ballet slippers and more!
Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more fashion tips and inspiration! Let’s redefine coquette fashion together and celebrate beauty at every age! ✨💖
To read “The Enduring Appeal of Those Viral Selkie Dresses,” visit www.glamour.com/story/the-enduring-appeal-viral-selkie-dresses
To watch the TEDx Talk, “Is the Cure for Loneliness Hiding in Your Closet?” visit th-cam.com/video/mcYPiQGyZbM/w-d-xo.htmlsi=0gw_hmFUz2t3Q9x1
To watch the Vivienne Westwood 1995 runway show, “Vive la Cocotte,” visit @90sfashion29 th-cam.com/video/JloH8IR-XpU/w-d-xo.htmlsi=IRc9IzHNh7iK1UpG
And you can support my channel by purchasing a t-shirt here: darlingvulgarity.teemill.com/
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0:00 What is Coquette?
1:17 Vintage Americana
2:45 Regencycore
3:08 How to tone it down
4:20 Dark Coquette
5:10 Coquette for adults
7:37 Balletcore
8:26 How to dress it down
9:03 Bloomers
10:00 The Puff Dress
10:28 Is Coquette creepy?
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  • @dohulia
    @dohulia 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    TH-cam just served your video to me and your channel is lovely! Also I turn 33 tomorrow and I have never been more playful in my wardrobe in my life and yes that includes finally buying the lolita dresses and coquette outfits I wanted to wear as a teen!

  • @Crystal_Clout
    @Crystal_Clout 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I worked in high fashion for a while, (started in the 1970s), then in the music biz from mid 80s. What was on stage, on the runway, or in Vogue usually freaked men, (the ones not actually in fashion), right out. When i dressed high fashion, especially on my nights out with my gfs, one of whom was a dressmaking savant (she would copy runway outfits and shock our city), men ran away a lot. When we dressed 'normal' (catering to male tastes), they'd flock round. (Yes, men in the olden days were as scared of strong confident women as they are today.) Great range of examples of how to modify outfits in the vid. Would say, the nearly to the knee length rarely flatters most legs, shorter or longer often looks better. Models are generally leggy, skinny creatures, legs much longer than average, and they may look fine, but it may not suit anyone with normal proportions. Also, depending on weather, if you put something like white or pale tights (i mean with feet in, like pantyhose, NOT the shiny skintight pants you might wear for workouts), with your ruffled white bloomers, you won't feel so nekkid. 😊 You can still pop lacy top socks over. Enjoyed this guide to a look, would add, go ahead and wear it. I'm 60+ and i wouldn't, but anyone under 50 should be able to pull it off. ❤

  • @Wherealltherottenthingsbloom
    @Wherealltherottenthingsbloom 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The only thing I’m too old for is thinking I’m too old for the things that make me happy

  • @uselessmemberofsociety4664
    @uselessmemberofsociety4664 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Obsessed with your dress! 💗

  • @joshina4497
    @joshina4497 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i'm 21, but LOVED the video. I often prefer dressing a bit more mature, but also love cute and playful styles, so this was interesting. also loved the quality of your video & editing! ^^

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕

  • @divineile9032
    @divineile9032 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi! May I ask how tall you are?

  • @elzibabmorac3553
    @elzibabmorac3553 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have the Vampira gown and am yet to wear it! It's freezing in Melbourne so thanks for the reminder to wear it soon. I host the door at an all night goth club and I always wear La Femme pieces, what else? Was going to go out tonight and wear my black Art Deco Gown but it's too cold to get off the couch. I've had my eye on that belladonna dress for a while. Everything looks amazing on you! I think you should absolutely go for a walk in the park in that Crimson Peak Dress. Thanks for the vid!

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks so much for watching!! Great to hear from a fellow La Femme fan! Your job sounds so fun.

  • @wishjordanne2235
    @wishjordanne2235 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loved this video!!!

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so glad!! Thanks for letting me know!

  • @Thekawaiiasian101vid
    @Thekawaiiasian101vid 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i loveeee this brand! ive been saving to get their dracula bag in black<3

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I love them too! There’s a Facebook group called the Vixen Salon-have you heard of it? You might be able to buy one secondhand!

  • @michellecornum5856
    @michellecornum5856 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No. No it's not. The fourth is over, bring on tje spoopy

  • @movedwifheifhuehg
    @movedwifheifhuehg หลายเดือนก่อน

    these are gorgeous!! i'm in awe the crismon peak dress is actually stunning i can see why you love it so much🖤

  • @mariecurie7491
    @mariecurie7491 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A very refreshing approach, great stuff

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @sonicleaves
    @sonicleaves หลายเดือนก่อน

    My husband bought me the blue skirt for our anniversary last year and I love it! I'd love to have the ethereal dress but it's too expensive right now. I'll have to save for that one.

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity หลายเดือนก่อน

      Keep an eye out for sales! I bought the ethereal during a black Friday sale for way less than full price. I’ve seen them on Poshmark occasionally, too.

  • @AdrienneMint
    @AdrienneMint หลายเดือนก่อน

    You look beautiful! The slip dresses are the only ones i think i could wear, as they don’t look costumey, they just look cool.

  • @thedizzygirl77
    @thedizzygirl77 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you have to wear a slip under the Doen dresses. I think they’re pretty sheer?

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity หลายเดือนก่อน

      It depends on the dress, but I can get away with wearing MOST of them without a slip.

  • @MommyKS4
    @MommyKS4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really appreciate this review as I’ve been super curious. I’m not the size 4 you always see modeling them on Insta etc. and I’m a busty gal so I’ve wanted to see it on a real body. So thanks! I can’t see how the black strap is stitched to the dress but that should be a very simple alteration with a seam ripper and restitch to a longer length so it goes under the bust properly. If you can’t do it, any seamstress totally could and shouldn’t cost much. Seems worth it to not be futzing with it all the time.

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!

    • @KarlaTorres-cm1ux
      @KarlaTorres-cm1ux 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Was just about to make my first purchase, but I’ll hold off on it. It’s almost like they don’t want customers to be able to return products! Thanks for your review.

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@KarlaTorres-cm1ux glad to help! If you decide to take the plunge and order, I would suggest contacting customer service to give them your measurements and get your correct sizing first. For me, the online size chart was not reflective of the garments I received.

  • @TrudyOutrageous
    @TrudyOutrageous หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great styling tips! Liked and subscribed!

  • @ProfMcGonaGil
    @ProfMcGonaGil หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the looks! Such fun inspiration! For all my love of 90s movies, I somehow missed PM! Adding it to my must watch mist

  • @ProfMcGonaGil
    @ProfMcGonaGil หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your style and personality! I have a feeling this channel is gonna blow up! From one midsized girl to another, keep rockin’! Thanks for the brand recommendations, I haven’t heard of a few of them and I have some fun research to look forward to!

  • @itsaar
    @itsaar หลายเดือนก่อน

    More Dôen collections please 😍

  • @atmospherecollectibles-rec7981
    @atmospherecollectibles-rec7981 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best video ever!! I love Vixen and am so happy I found your channel. You look stunning in every outfit shown. I esp love the Labrinth on you. I wish it was in my budget. Are you in the FB Salon group?

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! Yes, I am! I think that's how I found your TikTok channel, actually.

  • @elenoredanielsson6771
    @elenoredanielsson6771 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😱😍yes yes yes a video about all 🧣🥋👖🧦👔👘👚🥻🩳👗🧢👕🧙‍♀️❤️

  • @Ravoyy
    @Ravoyy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are looking very attractive and I love your beautiful eyes

  • @yuxix3700
    @yuxix3700 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The return is terrible and they are not upfront at all because cost is not mentioned in the instructions online. I am definitely not buying from them again .. totally agree with you on the first dress

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      YES! Love their stuff, but I’ll look for it on Poshmark.

  • @chelseyriddell5236
    @chelseyriddell5236 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this video so much! Selkie 💕

  • @abbycooke9933
    @abbycooke9933 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💗💗💗

  • @abbycooke9933
    @abbycooke9933 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so glad you came! 💗💗

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too! Thank you so much for organizing!

  • @jennamoy7833
    @jennamoy7833 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful Selkie stylings!! 🩷✨ I love whenever they do pastels and I adore the pieces you bought from the collection! So pretty 🎀

  • @lores-marinellemerlot7011
    @lores-marinellemerlot7011 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    cute :)

  • @miam.6721
    @miam.6721 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    2:50 it doesnt work😢. But the previous outfit is so much cuter😍 would definitely wear

    • @darlingvulgarity
      @darlingvulgarity 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha, thank you! I haven’t left the house in that one yet, so you saved me.

  • @fantakouyate2307
    @fantakouyate2307 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thx for this :)