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My god, how fragile people must be, if all this overthinking every detail is needed...😮 Wouldn't like such a weak person in my life.

For sex if you passing it out

Yes💯💯💯💯👍👍👍

Don't text, make the call, be real

Spot on

These are so random! But makes sense

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Wait that's only two things! D:

Sometimes what are you doing or what are you up to is asked because you aren't sure of work or school schedule and you don't wanna be making them text too much at awkward times

Children text, adults call.

What about the guy who says they don't want a serious relationship but want to see you 3 times a week? No sex but feeling mixed signals

Sex

Yes, I agree. You should give them an informational platform to go on instead of asking random questions which is one sided.

Sometimes they hit rock bottom and realized you were the best thing they had.

I think this is the case with him. All of a sudden he's insecure about his role in the relationship, putting himself down, but I've told him I love him, and I won't stop loving him

They miss their mommy

About the last one... just your bs. Being playful it's a quality and you guys can't stand a women "toooo serious " ( i know because deep inside I'm toooo serious 😉)

True, it's not love. It's just and comfort. He cones back bcoz u r not able to discipline him.

Come on Lo. All out his shell👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

How do you tell the difference after 5 years then he claims he’s an avoidant?

I don't make no sense of going back because you're going to run into the same problem that needs y'all break up

what if they start stexting after the first date? uggghh

BS😊

Never chase a guy and ask him out!!! 😵😵You lose. 😖😖

Don't opne the door

2 words: Ego Validation

So true, he gets jealious.

Watching this made me realize that I was never the problem. Everything that you’ve explained is exactly how I feel about men. 😅I’m single because I’m meeting the wrong guys who are traumatized from their past. I end up getting caught in the cross fire.

Its complicated I can't explain

Disagree. If a man really likes a woman, it’s not that difficult. Just stay present, be authentic and send a text. No need to overthink this and if ur in ur head that much it’s probably not the person for u.

I think it's fine to ask a question in some contexts. If someone asks how I'm doing or a specific Q, I give an answer & then inquire about them as well. It's important to show interest in other people that way.

Is this advice for men, too? Bec too many grown adult men I know prefer texts over talking yet still don't offer much in terms of conversation. I mean, after a certain age shouldn't they have better communication skills (even when in a brief format)?

Why do men always complicate things? Relationship of convenience right? Always getting the best deal 😂 not fair

Mathew is amazing ❤❤❤❤

I’m not a one hour timeslot kind of girl I effing love that!!🙌😂

How about their lack of communication gets blown off with you knew I was queit coming into this? Am i wrong on this on being a type of gaslighting?

Texting enables bad communication styles, picking up the phone and speaking shows value if its appropriate.

That's the devil trying to see if he can mess with you again. Don't fall for it

Had a fight with current looking for se# trying to use you both my exes did yrs later left notes on my door I could care less didn't answer day late dollar short 😅

I await the pour! I recd! I recd! I recd! Thank you, Bro Stephan! ❤

Keep showing me, Matthew your projections. 😅

Alhamdulilah

I like a lot of your advice! But I gotta say, I HATE when someone asks, “Can I tell you something?” It’s soooo annoying. Comes across as very unsure and insecure. Makes me immediately roll my eyes and wanna snap back, “Just what you want to say.” I appreciate respectful, direct communication. I’m sure a lot of guys do as well. Esp if they are mature. Blessings!

#3 is great, but 👎 on 1 & 2. Questions are GREAT in text and in general. Very often questions are better than statements alone. BUT! Pls DO NOT ever text “wyd”. That one doesn’t count! That’s just lazy communication. 😊 God bless!!

Everything is twisted… you say you love him… but he says you don’t… and his actions show you that he doesn’t believe you… anyway… ships are hard..

Let’s talk about the 3 things guys say to women that kill the attraction for them: 1. Send a picture of now 2. I don’t know, you decide 3. *ghosts you*

EXACTLY, I LEARNED YEARS AGO 💯 😊