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Felipe
Canada
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 8 ต.ค. 2020
We ball.
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dealing w depression (emotional numbness)
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very much on the serious side. you are loved. give urself advice by asking "how would you help a friend in this situation?" i'm ok w this one being over 20 mins
pick up artistry
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working on being more concise in my vids... i'll eventually get under 20 mins consistently.
breakup advice
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think about all the negatives in the relationship rather than idealizing it with only the positives. anyways... u live u learn
silence with me
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20 more mins until i'm on 🎶 Still manage to make it past 20 mins even without talking :/
keeping in touch w friends
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i was seriously considering trimming the end of this vid.
psychotic man tries telling a simple story (impossible challenge!)
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psychotic man tries telling a simple story (impossible challenge!)
Which country u're from ?
Canada, my good sir
I hope you're doing well 💗
Ty
Hello i the first drop comment here. I hope you're having a good day. I noticed you seem a bit down. If you'd like to talk, I'm here to listen without judgment. No pressure at all, of course. You're going through I'm sure ❤
It's in the past I'd say I'm doing well now. Def much better
1st comment 😂
same gym. you may see her again. relationships take time! you got this solider.
Thank you HunterKettle-yo5el
lol browse
Who is this Will character you mention? He seems very interesting...
keep it up man i love your videos. These 32 subscribers you got are your supporters❤.
Ty man this means a lot to me
I have been emotionally numb for almost 7 years straight, with no end in sight, the last 2 months I’ve spent crying most every day due to a recent break up, being sad but yet feeling nothing at the same time is all I know anymore
Woah that's tough to hear. I can relate... I had another period where I was completely numb but def not anything close to 7 yrs 😢! I'm reflecting on it rn and personally I think the things that could've helped me would be: - Socializing (esp w friends) - Praying in silence / meditating on thoughts - just reaching a really relaxed state after being still for a while - Doing things that you were afraid of (taking advantage that you're numb) - approaching girls, talking to strangers, going to bars - Do new things - Smelling fragrances lol (highly specific to me) I think a big part of being numb was not having friends close that I could hangout w at that time. Breaking up is tough too. It happens for a reason tho. Make that reason be for you to grow to even better person. Gl man I wish the best for you!
Watched your video... it had a calm vibe almost too calm Never thought you'd have a channel though interesting surprise
Lol ty. Glad I have that calm vibe I really appreciate it
Just want to say Jesus loves you guys and he’s coming back very soon. Get right with him before it’s too late
I have no idea how I found this
lol
Great start to the interview. Talking about another subject first made him more comfortable talking about the serious stuff.
I would assume that the boyfriend/girlfriend have already talked about her taking photos that she doesn't want him to be in. They're just not likely to have that conversation in public. A lot of people in relationships have them consensually open to some extent or another. If she has a social media presence it's not uncommon for women (and men) to pretend to be single to help with their popularity, donations, etc. (There's also the opposite route of having a couples channel, but you don't want that unless your really sure about it being a long term thing). It's really best not to think too much about what the other people in the gym are doing ;p
If your trying to have a conversation with a socially awkward person to get to know each other, I'd recommend some kind of social board/card game to provide conversational guard rails. Some of those games are designed to bring up unusual thought topics.
That's actually a fantastic idea... idk y I didn't think of that
Find comfort in the fact that you’re not the only one feeling the way you do. Depression tends to make you feel like you’re misunderstood and alone in things, if seeking validation of being heard and unique by posting these vlogs helps go for it, but I’d recommend trying to talk to Jesus my guy, he has a way of validating your emotions and insecurities that’s only unique to you, comforting you in things no one knows about. He’s the answer to many of your questions. Always speak up but choose wisely who to speak it with, not everyone will understand , no one knows you like Jesus does. 🙏🏽
Thank you I really needed to hear that. I feel like I can always improve my relationship with God. Good advice.
Oh learning rocket league songs is great for you. I basically only learned to play classical music on the piano, which is definitely not what I think of as the fun piano music. I'd personally place consciousness as something that both the brain and soul have. I think therefore I am, you can't really prove others exist and aren't some kind of thought creation. You need to come to terms with what you find to be the acceptable level of accepting shared reality. You might want to read some René Descartes at some point. Whiplash topic change ;p I think we're immortal souls having a human experience. I don't think a lot of the genetic differences we experience matter much on a grand time scale.
Oh I didn't know you played piano! I'll check out Rene Descartes. "I think we're immortal souls having a human experience"... woah. Seriously I've never considered that. Wow. That's a really cool perspective.
Depression making you not care about things in a way that lets you be more outgoing seems like philosophical stoicism. You seem generally positive to me. I don't really watch a lot of vlogs nowadays but a lot of people I've watched for years started off as vloggers (especially comedy people). Vlogging wouldn't be a word if other people weren't already doing it ;p If you really wanted to go point to point in an organized way with segues without getting into something like editing graphics you could do something like make an off camera bulleted list of intended topics before you start and prewrite a segue sentence between the two topics. ("Why do vloggers get burnout?" - relates the two topics, "What's the difference between a vlogger and someone with burnout? There isn't one." - hopefully your jokes are better than mine) lol at the predestination bit at the end for how that just dropped in. I honestly don't think segues are something to worry about too much. Your video seems to cut off a bit at the end, but hey leave them wanting more.
That's interesting I wasn't familiar with stoicism. It's true, I would say that is the main philosophy I adhere to. "Vlogging wouldn't be a word if other people weren't already doing it" -Greypelt7. Wise words. I honestly really like that quote though... I might have to start using it. The joke method to segue into another idea is very creative and I might have to incorporate that too. My flair/uniqueness is going to be ending the video abruptly, until I think of something new - if I even decide to change it. Thanks for all the input I really do appreciate it!
Good advice
Grats on doing well in the tournament. There's almost always more hardcore people out there. Esports gets a lot rougher as you get older (reactions slow down and whatnot) so I think it's probably a good idea to know not to lean into that more. If your enjoying the piano, consider putting playing it some onto youtube. A few people enjoy seeing even people who are pretty new to music, and if you got to where you could do covers that'd help with your discoverability. You seem to be into techy stuff as well and that's a good direction as well. It was nice listening.
You're a real one. Uploading piano playing on yt has crossed my mind but now that you encouraged me, I think I'll do it in the near future. The tech direction would be cool too, it'll see if I can upload something with that. I really appreciate the feedback 😌
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W man’s
I'd recommend a personal birthday ritual that doesn't depend on others. Plan to rewatch your favorite movie, cook your favorite meal, I tend to buy myself a once a year scratch ticket, etc. Just don't be too attached to a personal birthday plan to be willing to abandon it if some kind of group hangout comes along.
I like that idea. Recently, I tended to have more fun with friends doing anything but sometimes people are unavailable. Having a ritual as a backup sounds healthy.
Talk about Rocket league if your comfortable talking about it. There's no rush to perfect the podcast in a first episode. You can iterate improvements. I'd say just be natural and you'll do fine. Outside of a podcast, I'd recommend learning to be comfortable with silence / gaps in conversation. Good Luck!
the bars at 1:12 are dope
This is poggers