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Shiny Object Syndrome is ruining your life: What, why and how | The Higher Life Vibes
In this video, we dive deep into Shiny Object Syndrome-the constant urge to chase after new trends, products, and goals. Learn how consumerism, dopamine hits, and mimetic desires influence decision-making and derail focus. Whether it's luxury items, new tech, or impulsive decisions, this video covers actionable steps to recognize and overcome this distraction, helping you stay aligned with your true values and long-term goals.
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⏱️Time Stamps⏱️
0:00 Intro
0:30 What is Shiny Object Syndrome
01:44 How it creeps into every part of life
03:11 The Link to social media, influencer culture and consumerism
06:23 My experience with shiny object syndrome
07:20 Breaking free from the shiny object trap
08:54 End Notes
Article quoted in the video: www.proquest.com/openview/c0e70a8459d909e51068964fc93b6ae7/1?pq-origsite=gscholar&cbl=32264
Hi, I'm Sanjana and I'm on the mission make self-help and growth a little more relatable with a whole lot of learnings. Join me in this pursuit of getting to the higher life vibes as I learn, apply and share it with you :)
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Inside View: Toxic Memes and Trollers Communities | The Higher Life Vibes
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In this video, I share my journey from being part of toxic meme culture to how building a healthier mindset led me to outgrow it. Why I left the meme community, the impact of dank memes on mental health, and how outgrowing negative meme influences changed my life. This video is specially hard for me to share as I'm still getting used to TH-cam and putting this vulnerable part of my journey is s...
Fiction can be the Best Self-Help Genre | The Higher Life Vibes
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In this video, we’re exploring on how fiction books can be the best self-help genre! Shedding light on ever so hidden benefits of reading fiction over traditional self-help books. Discussing about how fiction puts you in an active position. Learn how fiction can transform your life, enhance empathy, boost problem-solving skills, and provide unmatched personal development. Find out why fiction m...
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  • @hiteshiaglawe6918
    @hiteshiaglawe6918 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You go girllll 🎉

  • @varunnagur5252
    @varunnagur5252 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very enriching!! thanks for sharing !

  • @AnjaliGautam-vz2sf
    @AnjaliGautam-vz2sf หลายเดือนก่อน

    What an interesting topic to talk about, had no idea that something like this exists. You are doing great, keep going ✅👍

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you liked it 🥰 More on the way!

  • @Thehigherlifevibes
    @Thehigherlifevibes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You cannot shame your way to the life you want. You've choice of what to do with your self awareness: 🤍 Weaponize your self awarness against yourself with hate, shame and criticism ❤ Take responsibility for growing your life from a place of warmth

  • @artaimed
    @artaimed 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Negative thinking is an addiction, you need to bring yourself back everytime you catch yourself indulging in it

  • @madhurima7174
    @madhurima7174 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    haww you arent close to me 😂😂

  • @madhurima7174
    @madhurima7174 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    here for the tough love stuff

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'll limit these to just few videos though 👁👄👁

  • @varunnagur5252
    @varunnagur5252 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing !

  • @helllllo_world
    @helllllo_world 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good content ❤, keep it up 👍

  • @Thehigherlifevibes
    @Thehigherlifevibes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Need to stop using AI for enhancing audio quality. If you reach the part where words aren't wording, now you know why 😗

  • @Kanishkaverma-j4r
    @Kanishkaverma-j4r 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All the best ❤

  • @pratigyatiwary5402
    @pratigyatiwary5402 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl you're doing great ❤ I don't even have a second pose for the Camera 🙏 Waiting for the upcoming videos ❤❤

  • @karnataneja
    @karnataneja 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Truly wholesome and lovely vibes, can’t wait for you to make a similar video after your 50th, 100th, 200th and 500th video as well. Keep creating youuuu ❤

  • @karnataneja
    @karnataneja 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the watch, where is it from? ❤

  • @anirudhsuresh3369
    @anirudhsuresh3369 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All the best! 🎉 Hope you and the channel achieve great things! ⭐

  • @annabelledsouza01
    @annabelledsouza01 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG THE VIDEO LENGTH IS 11:11 DID YOU PLAN THATTTT

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Broooo I did not!! 😭 It was such a pleasant surprise for me, I'm taking it as a sign 🥰😂✨️

  • @devashish6704
    @devashish6704 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep up the good work❤

  • @Thehigherlifevibes
    @Thehigherlifevibes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dropped my phone in water last week :')

  • @bhuvananaidu5146
    @bhuvananaidu5146 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Which camera are you using to record?

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Phone Camera, Samsung Galaxy F62

  • @brownlabrat
    @brownlabrat 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you make so much sense 💗

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aaae thanks, I hope you found something to takeaway 🧐

  • @varunnagur5252
    @varunnagur5252 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Woah ! Insightful ! 💡📝

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you found something to takeaway from this one! 🤗

  • @sankhaneelmitra6954
    @sankhaneelmitra6954 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Even a decent piece of literature straight out or implicitly, makes messing things up or making mistakes or showing emotions a very common thing. Where self-help plays out like a elaborate prescription, literature or even great movies, sit beside us like a friend. Literature sees us, humbly acknowledges that every single one of us messing things up more often than not, and that's fine. It makes us hate ourselves a little less, and appreciate life a little more.

  • @annabelledsouza01
    @annabelledsouza01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have an overactive imagination and fiction helps me experience worlds and learn things in a way no self help book can ever match up to 🥺🥺✨✨✨

  • @whiteboard4963
    @whiteboard4963 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hahahahahhahahahhahahahahhahahahhahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah Lol.

  • @devashish6704
    @devashish6704 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great points but I feel using this logic, video games are even better. You literally control the protagonist like you’re living his/her life. What do you think?

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As long as you connect it back to your own life positively it should help 🤔 However, I do think it'll be limited in it's value addition as the games are designed to target reward points in your brain and real life is a slow burner. Hence, I'll be careful in drawing parallels in this.

    • @devashish6704
      @devashish6704 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Thehigherlifevibes not all the games. It depends on the genre. Same goes for the books.

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Video games also holds similar arguments when it comes to it's positive effects. Cognitive effects, problem solving, memory, etc. Empathy is dicey 😂 Hence I mentioned video games plotlines in the video

  • @sarthaktyagi1034
    @sarthaktyagi1034 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hmm there were few bits which felt off but assuming this is your first vid you did a great job, keen to check more videos out in future

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I understand, do let me know the bits that felt off in particular! I'll love to revisit it 🤔 Thanks for the feedback ❤️

    • @sarthaktyagi1034
      @sarthaktyagi1034 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Thehigherlifevibes not low in particular it's just Lil things like sticking one editing style/theme and fonts throught the vid like the transitions were bit different from the intro but again these changes won't help you to convey your thought process better but your vid'll look for well produced you can also try colour grading it'll make a huge difference and if the vid was really unscripted then your oration game is on point. Subscribing to keep a track of your growth xD

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thankyou for the inputs! I'll keep these in mind (noting📝) 🙌

  • @fajarp6277
    @fajarp6277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍🩵

  • @Himanshu_il_fotografo
    @Himanshu_il_fotografo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I also feel like samebecause after reading a bunch of self help books I feel didn't help me at all except a few book which were really insightful on another side story books are more engaging while reading them I dont try to concentrate it just happens automatically.

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Reading fiction definitely feels like watching a movie ✨️ Quite relaxing and you get to learn a thing or two along the way 🤭❤️

  • @madhurima7174
    @madhurima7174 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to hear more about escapism. I personally use fiction books as a crutch to get out of the monotony of daily life.

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'll definitely study more on it and make a video!! Your wish is my command 🌟

  • @madhurima7174
    @madhurima7174 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Sanjana great video as always. Where is your top from, looks amazing

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hehe from one and only - YOU ❤️😌

  • @ashishd272
    @ashishd272 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The directness of insights in self-help books is what drew me to self-help but post 3-4 readings it tends to wear out

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ohh yes!! I agree. It tends to wear off, I remember whenever I read 2-3 self help books consecutively it just seemed same thing in different pages. Also most self help books can be covered in few bullet point 🤷‍♀️ Another point I forgot to mention in the video was how narration is the basis used by almost everyone for memorizing things. Shows the lasting impact fiction can create.

  • @brownlabrat
    @brownlabrat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    pappi to you

  • @pratigyatiwary5402
    @pratigyatiwary5402 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gyaan chakshu khol diye aapne ❤

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And with that my work here is done 😋🫴

  • @harshgillz7946
    @harshgillz7946 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wahh 😅❤

  • @madhurima7174
    @madhurima7174 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wow. this one realllyyyy hit. ive tears in my eyes. time isnt waiting for anyone. shit.

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I mean the pic high key slaps so why not!! 😂💃

  • @madhurima7174
    @madhurima7174 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow I love how you used THAT pic. In their faces 👊

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I mean the pic high key slaps so why not! 😂💃

  • @madhurima7174
    @madhurima7174 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do legally blond next!

    • @Thehigherlifevibes
      @Thehigherlifevibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's where feminism peaked in such a fun way! I love it ❤😂 However, I'm sure the lessons are crystal clear though. Do you think I should still attempt? 🤔

  • @seti7181
    @seti7181 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You chose that song in irony, right? xD

  • @Thehigherlifevibes
    @Thehigherlifevibes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What you're around, you become! And the content we feed our brains, the emotions we feel, people we feel connected to or inspired by are the tools you can use to change or tweak your lifestyle for the better. So what your friends don't like to discuss things about life you want to live? You don't have to always let go of your support system in order to move forward, sometimes all you need is just finding different outlets to the same end goal so you can grow alongside the same people 💖 Follow along @thehigherlifevibes for realistically getting to the life we desire ✨️❤️ . . . . ___________(for algorithm purposes 🙈)_______________ #personalgrowth #challengingmyself #levelupchallenge

  • @Thehigherlifevibes
    @Thehigherlifevibes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes with these, you gotta kick out the 🗑. Even if that's your own mindset 😏Baki people who'll benefit from your lack of boundaries and self respect will leeche themselves to you anyways till you decide to shed that aspect. Janam samjha Karo 😘Follow along @thehigherlifevibes for realistically getting to the life we desire ✨️❤️

  • @Thehigherlifevibes
    @Thehigherlifevibes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pick yourself up when you see yourself falling into old pattern. 👇 👏 Can't 👏 emphasize 👏 this 👏 enough 👏 I've been this person for years and some of the most miserable years might I add. At the end of the day, you need to take the ownership - so what you fucked up a few times!? Didn't wake up early, didn't workout and what not. Mostly it's out of existing HABITS or maybe life happened. Which is normal to happen. So why not be patient with yourself when trying to change the lifelong LEARNED behaviors and habits? Habits aren't build and broken in a day. It's a continuous thing we do day in and day out. So how is it so normal for you to beat yourself up!? Start with mellowed inner dialogue and try AGAIN. Not wait around for calendar or clock to change. If you still need it, make your own and mark it as NOW. It's all a domino effect Follow along @thehigherlifevibes for realistically getting to the life we desire ✨️❤️ #growthquotes #personalgrowth #challengingmyself #newyearnewme #astrologicalnewyear

  • @Thehigherlifevibes
    @Thehigherlifevibes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As they say live by the sun 🌞 , love by the moon 🌙 Day 2 has been around for almost a year now! And I'm proud of the progress I've made with healing this part of the narrative growing up. It all starts with having the awareness of these concepts that are not taught in schools ✨️ Special mention to @jillzguerin for coming into my life! Her soft, put together and SMART approach to this has been a real teacher to me personally that being in feminine doesn't mean dumb as it was perceived growing up by me (but hey, children learn from environment; so I'd say society). TH-camrs really do be parenting us? And if you're a guy or however you identify as reading this, just run a quick youtube search, I'm sure you'll find someone to help you along the journey of this balancing act 😉 Tapping into healthy masculine and embracing feminine side can be good for you. Source: Trust me bro 🤠 Follow along @thehigherlifevibes for realistically getting to the life we desire ✨️❤️ #levelupchallenge #levelupyourlife #higherliving #highlifestyle #healthyfemininity #spiritualityawakening #masculineenergy #feminineenergy #healthymasculinefeminine

  • @Thehigherlifevibes
    @Thehigherlifevibes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are you lost? 🦧 I know I was for last few weeks. After being done with the job and going full time freelance, I was pretty clear about what to do. However, as I had more time to myself and actually had to sit and contemplate decisions- I FELT LOST. Multiple interests and multiple skills over the years contributed to the fog for what really is my THE thing. How I went about it to find it, will be in Day 4. But today, just the awareness and acceptance of this emotion is the priority. It is OK to feel lost sometimes. Humans are curious creatures and the world has changed sooo much in every aspect. For us to go on such a linear, well marked path is not always the right path and that's OK too! This one is to being lost. Fucking around and finding out (I know I did) 🥂 Follow along @thehigherlifevibes for realistically getting to the life we desire ✨️❤️ #20something #20somethings #adultinstagram #lostin20 #passion #findingyourself #findingpassion #purpose #moneymindset

  • @prishahairiya6886
    @prishahairiya6886 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Song name?