- 23
- 55 753
Dr. Johann D'Souza
United States
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 14 เม.ย. 2014
Ep.24 - Erica Komisar: The Science of Why Babysitting Breaks Your Baby
Erica Komisar, who spoke at Jordan Peterson's ARC organization, joins Dr. Johann D'Souza again to discuss the scientific research behind her viewpoints on attachment parenting and the importance of mothers being present for their babies in the first few years of life.
Key Takeaways:
*Research shows that nurturing behaviors like licking/grooming in mammals leads to offspring that are more resilient to stress. This translates to sensitive, empathic nurturing in humans.
*Attachment security, developed through a close emotional connection with a primary caregiver, allows babies to feel safe to explore the world.
*Mothers tend to produce more oxytocin which promotes vigilant, soothing behaviors. Fathers produce more vasopressin which promotes protective, stimulating play.
*Letting babies "cry it out" teaches them their distress will be ignored and can lead to attachment disorders. Babies should be soothed when they cry.
*Babies are meant to sleep close to their mothers, as they would in nature. Nighttime security is even more important than daytime.
*Modern societal pressures have damaged many parents' natural instincts to do what is best for their babies' emotional well-being.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction and background on Erica Komisar's expertise
1:05 - Delving into the research that demonstrates the significant benefits of a mother's presence for her baby's emotional regulation and resilience
3:20 - Exploring attachment theory and the crucial role of the primary attachment figure in providing a secure base for the child
5:45 - Examining the distinct differences between mothers and fathers in terms of nurturing behaviors and hormonal influences, such as oxytocin and vasopressin
9:35 - Addressing the controversial topic of responding to a baby's cries and the potential long-term consequences of "cry it out" methods on attachment security
13:05 - Discussing the evolutionary and biological basis for babies sleeping in close proximity to their mothers and the paramount importance of nighttime security for emotional development
16:20 - Analyzing the societal pressures and cultural shifts that have contributed to a disconnect from parents' natural instincts to prioritize their babies' emotional well-being
18:15 - Conclusion and final thoughts on the importance of recognizing and honoring the unique role of mothers in their children's lives
Don't miss this eye-opening discussion that will leave you rethinking the importance of a mother's presence in her baby's life and the long-lasting impact it has on emotional well-being!
🔔 Subscribe to our channel for more insightful conversations on parenting, child development, and the science behind nurturing strong, resilient children.
#AttachmentParenting #MaternalPresence #NurturingBehaviors #EmotionalRegulation #SecureAttachment
Dr. Johann D'Souza is the founder of Values First Collective and the Virtuous Leaders Podcast. Our host is a licensed clinical psychologist based in Houston, Texas, specializing in helping teens overcome anxiety and OCD. With years of experience, he provides high-quality behavioral therapy that aligns with traditional values, utilizing science-based strategies to help navigate thoughts and emotions. Dr. D'Souza aims to revolutionize the field of psychology by building a network of practices across the US that offer evidence-based treatment in harmony with traditional values.
Resources and Links:
Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-24-erica-komisar-the-science-of-why/id1679058137?i=1000678669144
Listen to this episode on Spotify Podcast: open.spotify.com/episode/1IT428YX7sUiwoZ6yeAzji
Explore all other episodes on the Virtuous Leaders Podcast: open.spotify.com/show/6nuYwVQXFncPBm6g5C3SJI
Discover Erica Komisar's book "Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters": amzn.to/49gKSGI
***
Dr. Johann D'Souza Clinical Psychologist at Values First Therapy www.valuesfirsttherapy.com/
Erica Komisar, LCSW Psychoanalyst, Parent Guidance Expert, and Author
www.ericakomisar.com/
Key Takeaways:
*Research shows that nurturing behaviors like licking/grooming in mammals leads to offspring that are more resilient to stress. This translates to sensitive, empathic nurturing in humans.
*Attachment security, developed through a close emotional connection with a primary caregiver, allows babies to feel safe to explore the world.
*Mothers tend to produce more oxytocin which promotes vigilant, soothing behaviors. Fathers produce more vasopressin which promotes protective, stimulating play.
*Letting babies "cry it out" teaches them their distress will be ignored and can lead to attachment disorders. Babies should be soothed when they cry.
*Babies are meant to sleep close to their mothers, as they would in nature. Nighttime security is even more important than daytime.
*Modern societal pressures have damaged many parents' natural instincts to do what is best for their babies' emotional well-being.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction and background on Erica Komisar's expertise
1:05 - Delving into the research that demonstrates the significant benefits of a mother's presence for her baby's emotional regulation and resilience
3:20 - Exploring attachment theory and the crucial role of the primary attachment figure in providing a secure base for the child
5:45 - Examining the distinct differences between mothers and fathers in terms of nurturing behaviors and hormonal influences, such as oxytocin and vasopressin
9:35 - Addressing the controversial topic of responding to a baby's cries and the potential long-term consequences of "cry it out" methods on attachment security
13:05 - Discussing the evolutionary and biological basis for babies sleeping in close proximity to their mothers and the paramount importance of nighttime security for emotional development
16:20 - Analyzing the societal pressures and cultural shifts that have contributed to a disconnect from parents' natural instincts to prioritize their babies' emotional well-being
18:15 - Conclusion and final thoughts on the importance of recognizing and honoring the unique role of mothers in their children's lives
Don't miss this eye-opening discussion that will leave you rethinking the importance of a mother's presence in her baby's life and the long-lasting impact it has on emotional well-being!
🔔 Subscribe to our channel for more insightful conversations on parenting, child development, and the science behind nurturing strong, resilient children.
#AttachmentParenting #MaternalPresence #NurturingBehaviors #EmotionalRegulation #SecureAttachment
Dr. Johann D'Souza is the founder of Values First Collective and the Virtuous Leaders Podcast. Our host is a licensed clinical psychologist based in Houston, Texas, specializing in helping teens overcome anxiety and OCD. With years of experience, he provides high-quality behavioral therapy that aligns with traditional values, utilizing science-based strategies to help navigate thoughts and emotions. Dr. D'Souza aims to revolutionize the field of psychology by building a network of practices across the US that offer evidence-based treatment in harmony with traditional values.
Resources and Links:
Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-24-erica-komisar-the-science-of-why/id1679058137?i=1000678669144
Listen to this episode on Spotify Podcast: open.spotify.com/episode/1IT428YX7sUiwoZ6yeAzji
Explore all other episodes on the Virtuous Leaders Podcast: open.spotify.com/show/6nuYwVQXFncPBm6g5C3SJI
Discover Erica Komisar's book "Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters": amzn.to/49gKSGI
***
Dr. Johann D'Souza Clinical Psychologist at Values First Therapy www.valuesfirsttherapy.com/
Erica Komisar, LCSW Psychoanalyst, Parent Guidance Expert, and Author
www.ericakomisar.com/
มุมมอง: 1 518
วีดีโอ
College Friend Reveals the Surprising Truth About Pete Hegseth
มุมมอง 62K18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
Explore all other episodes on the Virtuous Leaders Podcast: open.spotify.com/episode/07585SfOEFRRWRIrUAQEph Discover the New York Times Bestselling Book: “Joker One” by Donovan Campbell” here: amzn.to/3ZhnxkY Dr. Johann D’Souza Clinical Psychologist at Values First Therapy www.valuesfirsttherapy.com/ www.linkedin.com/in/johanndsouza/ x.com/drjohanndsouza In this video, Donovan Campbell, a frien...
Ep.23 - Dr. Andrew Hartz Exposes the Silent War on Conservative Mental Health
มุมมอง 20วันที่ผ่านมา
In this insightful episode, Dr. Johann D'Souza sits down with Dr. Andrew Hartz, the visionary founder of the Open Therapy Institute. Dr. Hartz sheds light on the pressing sociopolitical biases that pervade the mental healthcare landscape, addressing how these biases lead to the neglect of significant patient issues. With a mission to reform mental health services, the Open Therapy Institute is ...
Ep. 22 - War Is Hell: Leadership Lessons from Donovan Campbell of Joker One
มุมมอง 20วันที่ผ่านมา
In this episode of Virtuous Leaders Podcast, Dr. Johann D'Souza welcomes Donovan Campbell, a distinguished leader whose life experiences have profoundly shaped his understanding of leadership. A magna cum laude graduate from Princeton, Donovan served as an officer in Ramadi, Iraq, one of the most perilous deployments for U.S. forces, before authoring the bestselling book Joker One, which reflec...
Ep.21 - Academic Freedom vs. Catholic Values: Insights from CUA's President
มุมมอง 1614 วันที่ผ่านมา
In this thought-provoking episode of our podcast, Dr. Johann D'Souza engages in an insightful conversation with Dr. Peter Kilpatrick, the President of the Catholic University of America (CUA). Dr. Kilpatrick shares his remarkable journey as a convert to Catholicism and reflects on his extensive academic career spanning over four decades. Key Takeaways: • Dr. Kilpatrick highlights CUA's unique p...
Ep.20 - Promoting Virtue in Business & Culture with Rob Hays
มุมมอง 27หลายเดือนก่อน
In this new episode of our podcast, Dr. Johann D'Souza engages with Rob Hays, a distinguished business executive and community leader from Dallas. With over two decades in the hotel industry, Rob shares his journey from CEO to focusing on family business transitions and new entrepreneurial pursuits. Key Takeaways: • Rob emphasizes the significance of ethical leadership and good governance in sh...
Ep.19 - How Charlotte Mason's Philosophy is Changing Education for Families with Amy Snell
มุมมอง 125หลายเดือนก่อน
In this episode, Dr. Johann D'Souza interviews Amy Snell, co-founder of the Charlotte Mason Educational Center (CMEC). Amy shares her journey from being a public school teacher to embracing homeschooling for her five children, inspired by the vibrant learning environment she observed in a Charlotte Mason family. CMEC provides a unique curriculum for families worldwide, focusing on treating chil...
Ep. 18 - Parenting with Purpose and Principles with John Papola
มุมมอง 342 หลายเดือนก่อน
In this episode, Dr. Johann D'Souza interviews John Papola , the founder of Emergent Order Foundation and creator of the "Dad Saves America" initiative. John shares his journey as a classical liberal, TV producer, and passionate advocate for inspiring virtue and truth in media. He discusses the importance of early parenthood, free-range parenting, and instilling values of individual agency and ...
Ep.17 - Save Your Child from Screen Addiction: Insights from Melanie Hempe
มุมมอง 832 หลายเดือนก่อน
*Melanie Hempe, the founder of ScreenStrong, joins Dr. Johann D'Souza* to discuss the growing issue of *screen addiction* among children and practical steps parents can take to prevent and address it. Melanie shares her personal experience of navigating her family through this challenge and the insights she gained from the *medical science behind screen addiction*. She emphasizes the importance...
Ep.16 - The Digital Dilemma: Protecting Young Eyes with Chris McKenna
มุมมอง 172 หลายเดือนก่อน
Chris McKenna, founder of Protect Young Eyes, shares his journey into the world of digital safety for children. He discusses the importance of guiding young people in their use of technology, addressing the unique developmental challenges they face. Chris talks about the work Protect Young Eyes does through live talks and online curriculums for parents and children. He emphasizes the need for i...
Ep.15 - Is Daycare Hurting Your Baby? Dr. Johann D'Souza Interviews Erica Komisar
มุมมอง 4983 หลายเดือนก่อน
In this episode, Dr. Johann D'Souza sits down with renowned social worker, psychoanalyst, and author Erica Komisar. Erica discusses the crucial importance of attachment security and maternal care in a child's first 3 years. She emphasizes that the cultural shift deprioritizing motherhood has contributed to a mental health crisis in children and advocates for policies supporting mothers staying ...
Ep.14 - Soad Tabrizi Leads Underground Conservative Therapists and Social Workers
มุมมอง 853 หลายเดือนก่อน
In this video, Dr. Johann D'Souza sits down with Soad Tabrizi, a licensed marriage and family therapist who is openly conservative. Soad shares her journey of moving from the liberal-leaning Silicon Valley to conservative Orange County, and how she founded a private Facebook group for fellow conservative mental health professionals. Soad discusses the challenges she has faced from her liberal-l...
Ep.13 - Katy Faust Defends Children From Selfish Adults
มุมมอง 10410 หลายเดือนก่อน
Bio: Formerly the picture of a peacemaking pastor’s wife, Katy Faust is founder and president of Them Before Us, a global children’s rights non-profit. Between soccer carpool and church duties, she’s a mom on a mission against the progressive overreach -a globe-trotting speaker, hand-shaking policy influencer, and regular contributor to a variety of conservative outlets. Katy testifies and publ...
Ep.12 - Dr. Nick Wignall Discusses Side Hustles for Clinical Psychologists
มุมมอง 3510 หลายเดือนก่อน
Dr. Nick Wignall (nickwignall.com/) talks about building a side hustle as a clinical psychologist through his blog, podcast, email newsletter, and online courses.
Ep.11 - Virtuous Leaders: Dr. Brandon Van Dyck of Princeton Discusses Getting Cancelled
มุมมอง 109ปีที่แล้ว
Brandon Van Dyck is Associate Director of the Princeton Initiative in Catholic Thought at Princeton’s Aquinas Institute. He is also a staff member at the Witherspoon Institute. Independently, he writes and podcasts about culture, civilization, religion, secular ideology. From 2013 to 2021, he was an assistant professor of Government and Law at Lafayette College, specializing in the study of pol...
Ep.10 - Stephanie Winn, Protecting Children from Trans Activists
มุมมอง 57ปีที่แล้ว
Ep.10 - Stephanie Winn, Protecting Children from Trans Activists
#9 - Dr. Robert Mather, The Conservative Social Psychologist
มุมมอง 41ปีที่แล้ว
#9 - Dr. Robert Mather, The Conservative Social Psychologist
Tom McDonough - The American Family Project
มุมมอง 30ปีที่แล้ว
Tom McDonough - The American Family Project
#5 - Ashley Mielke, Group Practice Founder & Consultant
มุมมอง 19ปีที่แล้ว
#5 - Ashley Mielke, Group Practice Founder & Consultant
Dr. Michael Redivo of Values Grounded Parenting
มุมมอง 31ปีที่แล้ว
Dr. Michael Redivo of Values Grounded Parenting
What is a Princeps? Dr. Matt Mehan on the Virtuous Leader
มุมมอง 61ปีที่แล้ว
What is a Princeps? Dr. Matt Mehan on the Virtuous Leader
Awesome subject thank you 👍‼️🆘🇺🇲
What a treasonous traitorous piece of rancid crap you’re military you’re going against the oath you took you’re an officer. What a piece of shot.
Sso
Sso
2000 mules what . . . ?
This man would be a great help to Pete. Hire him as assistant se retry of defense.
Good luck Pete!
Hmmm. I wonder why there's an issue with professional psychological counseling and the hokey idea of faith? I think people of faith should seek counseling if they are experiencing psychological issues. But don't put it on the professionals to have to dumb down their knowledge. Psychologists and psychiatrists are educated and trained And the vast majority are worthwhile empathetic people.
Every one needs to let your Senator know that you support Pete and Trump’s other nominees.
Seriously? You boys are unbelievable.
Well... "he loves God" ... I know most people will claim as such, since when is that one of the prerequisites of any job, your life and loving others attests to that. So you must mean, that he believes in the same "form" of religion as you. A free country is free, we don't and have never wanted a dictator.
I'm having a difficult time trying to determine if this is a joke. I guess this guy being interviewed doesn't give a thought to Hegseth's own problems with women and general drunken and malicious public behavior? It's all out there. He must not know.
Most Fox women wont miss him. He’s a sexual predator who used his Army experience to chase women down and attack them. Awarded two battlefield medals…lets see the citations. Wouldn’t be the first time a National Guard captain forged meritorious battlefield medals. That particular NG captain coward forged an Admiral’s signature for one of his Stolen Valor Purple Hearts…the actions of a coward and a traitor.
This is BS. Just about all Generals and Colonels in combat arms have been front-line combat leaders. I’m also not buying the implied BS about the defense industrial complex.
Taking a job for the right reason that’s what you in a nomination….
you can not sell this guy to me.he is to deep into trump.
Speaking of personal misbehavior should not be part of the judgment policies. Our current President stole a married woman, blatantly, while a U.S. Senator, and there is a very long list of bad behavior by many of our country’s leaders. I call it the nature of the beasts. Need I say more ?
It would be like making a McDonalds store manager to CEO. If Hegseth doesn't understand the Pentagon's unique accounting maybe he should stick to chasing women.
He reminds me of roger stone, looks and mannerisms
Give me a break dude! Glad you think he is an upstanding individual but all the facts say he is NOT! Stop your misogyny!
❤ Pete
Is this host dude related to Dinesh D’Souza of “2000 mules” infamy?
Hegseth is a turd 💩 just ask his mom
This guy has no receipts. I personally don’t find him credible.
Trump c_______ers
General Milley read it and weep…..
We’ve been “letting it go” for far too long. Toilet seats and hammers are overrated for our defense. When I saw this I thought oh great, they’ll trash him. Thank you for this.
So serving on the front lines and not needing a job afterwards is qualification to run one of the largest organizations in the world?
so being an idiot and senile old lying po💩 qualifies to run America? gtfooh
You left out a few of his other qualifications but putting that aside what was your point?
@ those were as qualifications. He’s obviously not qualified on any level to run that size of an organization.
@@macimages4215 Opinion only not proof as far as I can see. Where has he failed in life to make you think this way?
@ you might want to take his mother’s word for it. Just look up her email to him
I would love to hear this guys opinion on the Jesse Ventura gubernatorial administration. Pete Hegseth is today's JV.
I pray my college buddies have such nice things to say about me.
So just ignore his mother's email about how her son is a serial abuser of women? (what happened to the bible class study?) Ignore the fact that he was removed from two veterans groups for money management and character issues? Ignore the rape issues?
What is about to happen , happened before in Jan'1941. That's when the American Army was completely purged during maneuvers in Louisiana. They even made a feature movie about it whose name I can't remember. They fired or forcibly retired approx 90% of the field grade officers. Trump will be doing the same in Jan 2025 to include eliminating DEI/CRT, TRANSGENDERS AND ALL WOMEN FROM COMBAT ROLES
He’s an abusive and publicly drunk bully. Serial adulterer. Totally unfit. Vomiting and urinating in public, passing out on the company bus. White Christian Nationalist.
This man very honest.I saw this 1976-80 in canada I was commando they start put women near my unit so they got fired yup.The us gov't put peoples harm way very sad.I thanks him expose honesty.Thanks video.😮
This is definitely a puff piece totally discounted by a friend!!! BULLSHIT!
So, he's been married before. DJT will be great in his second term. Oh, and has Pete Hegseth been married before, too? What has that got to do with the price of tea in Lisbon?
If they haven't served they are not qualified for the job. Pete has paid his dues. He should be approved.
Wearing 2 hats. First as a Veteran and Combat Veteran everything said here is spot on plus Pete loves the Troops and will be seen by and with them something the current secretary will avoid at all costs. Now My 2nd Hat as a career law enforcement officer and investigator/crime scene investigator and Crime Scene Unit Commander. Having read the police report on the alleged sexual assault my first thought was WTF? Let’s look at the Facts laid out in the report. The (alleged) victim was married and she was accompanied by her husband and children (they were in hotel room) witnesses came forward and stated she was ‘overly flirtatious’ with Pete in a public setting. She claims to have been drugged however she is recorded on multiple security cameras and appears normal and not under the influence of alcohol or drugs. She went to her room and sometime later left her family and proceeded to Pete’s room (between 2AM and 4AM when she returned to her room her husband texted her and called her multiple times trying to find her whereabouts-he is recorded on security cameras having left the room and gone throughout the hotel common areas looking for her). Everything in the police report indicates that any encounter between her and Pete were Consensual and that is why the police report is closed as Unfounded
Sexual indiscretions with an adult who did not press charges or file a civil suit within a few weeks of an incident is a non-starter for me. There are critical things that need to be accomplished for the USA and the world. Clinton, JFK, and Trump are prime examples, who knows how many competent officers have had affairs during deployments. Object to Hegseth on reasonable basis of competency but his sexual past, unless it involves pedophilia, is grasping at straws
I wish that our workplaces would support this…
Clean it out and clean it up, Pete!
He has a big flaw. It is his character, obviously.......
America has become Babylon and Iran is pissed. Meaning women are sadly untrustworthy. They mislead and then accuse. I see so many worthy males for Husbandry, but the female offerings are worthless. How many selfies?
What about Him getting kicked off boards of two veterans groups for mismanaging funds and sexual harassment of female staff?
'he has a love of god"WTF does that mean?Whar a fraud!Sickening.
Agreed why in the hell is god fearing even relevant? And that dear friends, is what Christian nationalism is doing to this country. That said , I think hegSeth can make his own case before the senate.
Rape is alright with you? Maybe check with his mom.
Can’t do any worse than what we have now
You have no idea. His character? Combat Leader mindset? You need to go back to school.
These creepy religious men protecting other creepy men. Where are you, good men? I know you exist. But where are you?
Exactly
This guy is a joke. Great Christian man who impregnated a woman while married to another woman? Immaculate conception2?
Exactly
I believe the quote, "It is good that war is so terrible otherwise we would grow too fond of it..." was said by Robert E. Lee when he watched the futile attack on Marye's Heights by opposing Union troops, who were decimated by defending Confederates at the Battle of Fredericksburg.