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Healthy life. I will start with all three

Thank you! 🙏Every word u spoke n lead us was so well researched n stands out so true! "Love n respect oneself"!💞

What to do my husband doing the same now a days he didn't pick my call for one month and not replying msg everyday around 50 calls but no use😢it really hurts i cant come out of his thinking

Reduce the music volume, and increase your voice volume to better hear your message.

thank you! I love how you emphasize the importance of focusing on yourself.

It is one approach. But we need to take a comprehensive look at it which is the most difficult aspect of reality as any person cannot have third party view of himself or herself. The key to understand is to take a look at how we connected with them in the past. What mental images or model exists. The key factor lies in keeping our mind to accept the fact that we may be less relevant keep the interactions more meaningful and less demanding. Nowadays most people have less capacity to handle complexity in relationship. Do more exercise and keep active keeping your dopamine, serotonin and endorphin levels optimal. As the mind dwells upon thought that could trigger negative trip, notice the trigger and write it down and then think about the alternative thoughts as if you would advice someone who perhaps would have been the other side of the table with you having the emotions you were having. Let see an example. My son never called me in the past several days. I harbor irritation for long and when he calls I would try to somehow knowingly or unknowing convey full list of feeling at one time or other if I have been hoarding such emotions in my mind. On the other side, having exposed to this behavior he would have hesitated to call me for several times. It is not my son who is the reason for my pain, it is the thought about my son that I have continually constructed in my heart that is the problem. Even if my son is the person that I thought in my mind, it is the time to help him and treat him well with the most positive mindset rather than reducing the level. The culprit is the mental model that we have. I have right to be happy and no one can deny me that unless I let myself. This will transform the person from inside and soon you will find yourself wanted even in the same toxic environment. Bit long narration. Thanks for reading.

Yes self respect is to value yourself.Think less about others love yourself.❤🎉

I told my ex I'll pack and move onen down to Georgia. That's exactly what I did...... ha!

Why that person is indispensable?leave him behind and stop chasing?

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Well this is what just happened to me and indeed it is hurtful

Beautiful message 🙏

I am not sure that others will miss you and therefore become good towards you. But, l am certain that it will make you stronger and less bothered about others opinions if you distance yourself from a hostile relationship.

Dont waste your precious time. Start helping needy people. Join philanthropic club. You can meet lots of people with interesting interests and stories. Dont get trapped in toxic relationships.

My God..🎯 Absolutely true! Every word deeply researched n applied... "Women like empathy strength n respect in a man! ...even if dey are oceans apart! thank u💕

I don't want to trick anybody

This is good and true. But be prepared to spend some effort understanding and retooling the your own self value. You will

Why would you use a picture of Joanne Rowling as any sort of inclination that she values anyone but herself? SHE HAS PROVEN THAT SHE DOESN'T VALUE PEOPLE WHO DON'T SUBSCRIBE TO HER IDEOLOGY. You lost me at that and would never trust anything this channel says because of that.

Thank you 😊 🙏

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I do these things but he treats me with disdain.

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I totally agree. I had one friend who got involved in a almost cult-like movement and who was then trying to get me to join in. I refused and had to walk away. Interestingly, she did not pursue the friendship. With another friend it took me decades to realize her narcissistic tendencies (I listen well yet realized she was doing the majority of the talking). I actually confronted her and then watched her deny and resort to picking apart me. I walked away and other than an occasional email or a Christmas card, that relationship is over. Yet - eventually - I found others who listened, cared, and valued myself and my opinions. Great vid and thank you1

But whoever we love it's very difficult to forget & move on. Even I think of it scares me 😔

Thank You

How can we feel them ignoring when they not even hear anything about us they want we just stay away from them they don't even feel sad by losing us

Background music soo irritating

Thank you, this video has been very helpful and has boosted my confidence

DITTO as a retired professional and mother of a grown daughter, I have done exactly this. I no longer have expectations only preferences. I value my time and enjoy my own company. Giving and receiving in equal measure. I am my own BFF. Peace.

Thank you for this clarity. So true ❤

Correct! But keep in mind that many won't ever value you. Stepping back also allows space for someone who values you to step in.

I like your video. It's short and straight to the point.

Time to walk away from a woman when she starts doing any of these behaviors. Otherwise a man is disrespecting himself to tolerate it.

Women are like car salesmen. Once the sale of marriage is made, her interest in her husband’s wants and needs drops, especially when her lifestyle agenda checklist of house, children, status are ticked off. Husband is then relegated to being the annoying room mate who takes out the trash, runs her crummy errands, and gets the taxes filed each year.

Excellent videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don't know why I'm sharing this, but I really miss him)

they never valued you, they just pretended to it wasn't an advantage to them to pretend!

It's fun to meet people 😅

Oh yes certainly right thanks for sharing your video

Hi, I am in the process of distance myself from my 45 yr son here in Calagary NW Alberta . We have been astranged 1 year now. He keeps my 11yr & 9 yr grandchildren from me. He lives 5 min drive froom me. I am 75 1/2 yrs. Tooold for these head games. No I noticed his older brother 48 yrs is now shunning me too. I love as flesh & blood but I do not like their behavior. I want the rest of my golden yrs to be peaceful, respectful. So yes, I was very much alone thisChristmas. I was born in Montréal in 1949. Ian convinced me to come to Calgary to have a build in baby sitter. My grandaughter was 3 years old and grandson was in his mommy's tummy. I have been under council for help I need thru CARYA, Montgomery. I think mid Jan is our last session.😢

"This video is amazing! The way you explained the psychology of swiping culture is so easy to understand. Definitely subscribing for more insightful content like this!"

I did this with my boyfriend 40 years ago, I cooked, cleaned, even ironed for him. He kept pulling away. I wasn’t ready to break up, but instead I began to put myself first. Stopped doing everything for him, I began taking art and music classes. Hung out with friends, spent time at the gym getting stronger. When I began to value myself more, he sought me out and we’ve been happily married for 40 years

I CANNOT HEAR YOU BECAUSE OF THE BACKGROUND EXCUSE FOR MUSIC. HARD OF HEARING,MSWITCHING OFF,MAS LOUDER THAN YOUR VOICE. 6:03

People only want fro others but don't want to give or appreciate. Ungrateful people.

All facts best advice ever 💯🎯👍🔥

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Very informative Thank you

Good information but the music is too loud.

What is the simple trick?