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Children are not blessings, they are responsibilities, I’m seeing an uptick in mothers being offed by their demon seeds. It’s a thankless job, especially for black women, you get NO support, not even a happy meal from hoodlums who helped to create it.

Hi there Thank you for the message. We are all told that, that what you won't do someone else will.... I also felt that pressure in my marriage to never say no to sex so i always gave in even when i didn't want to and yet i was still cheated on .. purely because humans seem to never be enough with one person... It seems like there's always that burning desire to taste something new and different even when people are in fulfilling relationships.

Any thoughts on how to break a soul tie?

I am 59 woman love being childfree. I don't need kids to be happy at all. I love my freedom and my choice. I am not into kids. One of the best things about being childfree is that I won't make rapists, murderers, thieves, and other such people into the world. Parents never think that their little angel could grow up to be a baby killer, criminal.. cognitive dissidence

I am 24 and I honestly agreee with you!!! A part of me tells me that I don't want kids for similar reasons.😊 What are some good methods that work for you to prevent pregnancy? If you don't mind telling me.

Im just seeing your video i know the feeling im 36 single nokids live alone and i have nokids and have people ask me all the time why u dont want kids? Would if u find yourself a good women and she wants kids? I tell them listen i love kids but i dont want none i cant see myself bringing a child into this crazy world plus kids are expensive having a women is expensive as well i love that i can travel the world i love my peace i dont even wanna date i love my time to myself i just gotta worry about me i dont wanna get married i feel its no benefit in that for a man i tell my friends which they have kids and some are married and they respect and understand my decision

Bars the whole time

I honestly don’t want kids because I enjoy living in my own world, I refuse to live in this reality. Having a child would disrupt that completely.

Oliver is such a good name. Childfree is such a good choice for you. ❤

Yeah you need to come to Jamaica! So I can hug you! My 3 year relationship and engagement ended back in December and I'm still struggling! I feel lost sigh. I really wanna start my "Cel Journey" I'm tired of people sucking me dry.

I’m 43 and I’m just now learning this and to getting to myself! I feel sooo bad I didn’t know this stuff at your age!!

I feel you so much sis , I’m at this point I love this video raw facts and wisdom ❤️🙌

I appreciate your videos ✨

thanks for this video 🤍

I'm the soul of freedom.. I wanna travel and be free to do things that i love.. I'm also free to be me! childfree for life

I’m 39 and childfree. It’s the best decision I could have ever made for my life.

I agree WHOLE-HEARTDELY. Thank you <33

Yes ma'am speak that truth! And yessss 30 and looking in your teens glowing and growing. I also turned 30 this year✨️

Literally going through and watching all your videos❤ So peaceful ✨️

Right on time❤ Speak it beautiful we can all relate to the things you are saying✨️

I thought I was asexual but it turns out I’m just a lesbian… Definitely still agree on romantic relationships being seen as the be all end all of life. You are enough on your own! ❤

This was comforting to watch 🖤.

It like you read my mind coz dzaamn i just dont want no man....everytime i am in a relationship is like they be sucking my energy and i am miserable....naaaah men are energy takers and i cant no more...I wanna be celibate to honour my body and not bcoz i'm saving myself for some husband.period

Preach 🙌 You are speaking my language. My reasons are spiritual. I am enough, I didn't come here for other people's wishes. 32, partner who I love and hopefully adventures on the way. Peace ✌️

In that order ❤ this video 🥰🥰🥰

My mom told me, you will always be alone, even in a relationship

This is me. I just can’t find a benefit to being romantically linked to a man. I’d rather gain sisterhood with like mindedness. I’ve been 6 months celibate, healing sexual trauma, not dating, working out, don’t entertain men, joined female groups and I’m so happy. I’ve accepted not getting married, or having kids and I feel okay about that. Love this video. It spoke to me. Good luck with your journey

The amount of men I know to be cheating is astonishing!

Your life is for you, I think you should live life for yourself and the right person will compliment it. But I kinda do be believing those old wives tales , marry the man that loves you more than you love him.

Men want a legacy, but the burden of the raising is on the mother 9/10. I ain’t getting trapped by anyone or anything.

We are child free by choice, being a parent means sacrificing your wants and putting your passions last. We love our independence. When people who have kids ask me why I don’t want kids they get so defensive and angry … often it is because it’s obvious you are holding up a mirror

If someone claims its my duty to have kids to continue the human race i will just say hey i think the millions of other women having kids already have that covered!

Good talk, appreciate you

I've had many men try to baby trap me and I feel as if I have so much to do for myself and a lot to achieve. I don't want the extra responsibility of having a child or a partner that I need to compromise my life goals for. I've been pouring so much into myself and I want to enjoy that alone.

New subscriber. Great message 🥰

In my opinion, it’s not biology it’s nurturing. A.k.a. the way people are socialized. Under toxic masculinity white supremacy, patriarchy and misogyny cis gendered boys and men are literally socialized to be selfish and inconsiderate of other people. They center themselves in everything. They’re socialized to act like they don’t have feelings to think that having feelings and emotions are weak. There’s socialize not to communicate. In fact they look at communication and any emotion outside of anger as being weak and feminine. So how is anybody going to be able to have a relationship with a demographic that’s emotionally unavailable and also extremely manipulative? And then you look at how how sister women and girls are socialized they’re literally socialized to basically be a doormat, for everybody not just men including other women in Depot. They’re socialized to be selfless to the extreme to the point that you never consider your own feelings your own emotions your own needs and wants. You’re constantly putting somebody else above you. And that is going to become extremely draining and lead you into very toxic. Manipulative relationships. Again, in my opinion, it’s how people are socialized. I really wish in the coming times we get away from gender, and just start raising quality people that way, regardless of their gender, they know how to show up and be in a healthy relationship with others including themselves. Because the way things have been an hour currently it’s not looking good to even deal with cisgendered Man. Because you’re basically signing up to be abused or neglected or a combination.

Thank you for making this video. I will say this isn’t just for women. I feel like anybody that’s dealing with cis gendered men are starting to realize they’re better off being single. Because constantly trying to deal with cisgendered men who have been socialized to be emotionally unavailable, emotionally, immature, selfish and self-centered, basically extremely narcissistic and abusive. It seems to not be worth it at the end of the day. You’re better off investing in yourself building yourself making yourself happy instead of wondering why some cis male refuses to treat you with dignity and respect. I recently basically three weeks ago it got out of a toxic situation ship that I didn’t sign up for and nearly a month later it’s far less drama, inconsistencies, I’m saving more money because I’m not constantly paying for every damn thing. And yes, celibacy is definitely key in my opinion. Because in my opinion, sex clouds judgment. Sex will literally have you sticking around a loser just because the sex is somewhat decent and that’s really the only emotional connection you have with that person because they refused to show up for you. Outside of sex what else are they bringing to the table? And the sad part about the sexes again dealing with cisgendered Man, the vast majority of the time it’s not even good because they don’t care about pleasing their partners. There’s selfish in the damn bedroom too! So again, I keep coming to the conclusion that many of us who deal with cis males would be better off being single and practicing celibacy. And building are platonic in professional relationships, as well as our relationship that we have with ourselves and our families.

Omg I wann sit in bed and do this

Girl nice abs. nice room and the Mic is cute. Thank you for the video

I think A LOT of people aren’t made for a relationship but instead of realizing it and accepting it they just blame the other person on why the relationship didn’t work out and go find another

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What if yuo meet the right man and he wants kids? If he does he's not the right man.

Girl, I love your mind. You speak deep and you speak the truth. 💯

Lord, what a smart Lady! Preach girl!💯👏🏻 It’s a beautiful thing to see women wake up from the dream , man, religion, politics sold us, our mothers, grandmothers etc. There is something seriously wrong about XY- that’a an elephant in a room. They just don’t like us, porn shows that they like to degenerate us( anal etc.)- they don’t care about women’s pain as long as they are satisfied. Not talking about the fact that for a lot of males they dream girl is 14 or around that age( ,, barely legal” is extremely popular category for a reason ). And it goes for all males- globally( every age, race, religion- don’t let church guys/ good boys fool you, every social, economic background). A lot of them if they could they would have sex with underage girl if nobody would knew. The question with them is not if they gonna cheat- is when. Not for every man though, just like ~ 90% and I’m generous here. And yes, they do not get empathy like we do- naturally. They have emotional intelligence of a cucumber. If you would take sex out of relationship, let’s say you can’t have sex for some reason( let it be medical) they would not hesitate to cheat. Even if they say differently, the thing that they want from you the most is your p. Character? Personality? The way you think, feel, create stuff, how interesting / good human you are does not matter as much. The thing they really want( and a lot of times only) is sex- it can be hookup type of thing but maybe later they will make you your new age slave. I mean their wife. The best thing you can do is take care of yourself. Nobody is gonna save you so you better start loving yourself 4 real! Trust no man and do your thing- be passionate about life and make sure you are making it worth living. Btw. You look stunning, your hair are looking amazing!

You can love yourself dummy

Who care get a life

You waste of life

Who care

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