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Love Languages are a Cheat Code!
Welcome back to Becomng! In today’s episode, Zoë and I dive deep into love languages-the secret cheat code to building intimacy and strengthening your relationship, emotionally and physically. 💕
We’re covering:
👉 What love languages are and why they matter
👉 Practical ways to apply them to improve connection with your partner
👉 How understanding love languages can reignite the spark 🔥
We’re also answering your amazing Instagram poll questions, like:
💬 How can I use love languages in foreplay?
🛠️ What if my partner doesn’t understand their own love language?
❤️ Can love languages change over time?
Whether you’re feeling disconnected or want to level up your relationship, this episode is packed with actionable tips, personal stories, and real talk to help you express love in ways that truly resonate.
🎙 Plus, Zoë joins me as the new co-host! Expect more deep-dive episodes every week, focusing on relationships, self-improvement, and navigating modern love.
Key Topics:
1️⃣ What are love languages?
2️⃣ Why they’re a game-changer for intimacy
3️⃣ Real-life examples for each love language
4️⃣ How love languages can evolve in different stages of life
Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes and let us know in the comments which love language resonates with you the most!
👉 Follow us on Instagram @nick.slater @Zoemarkell for Q&A polls and updates!
#LoveLanguages #Relationships #BecomingPodcast
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We spill the tea in our juiciest Q&A yet
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Inspired by Nobody Wants This, in this episode, we deep dive into the eye of The Ick-that sudden, often irrational feeling of repulsion in dating. In the show, Noah helps Joanne through her “ick” moment and we explore why we get the ick and how it may have more to do with fear of intimacy than actual flaws. 0:00 Intro 1:12 1: Avoiding Deeper Connections 2:23 2: Self-Sabotage 3:13 3: Fading Idea...
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Rawdog catch-up volume 4. This update is all about dealing with post-travel blues or the dopamine comedown that we experience after a trip / holiday / vacation. I suggest some ways to rebalance your brains natural rhythm and also ways to integrate "holiday mode" back home. If you enjoy, please like and subscribe and I always love reading your comments. 0:00 Intro 0:55 Travel Recap 3:45 Lesson 1...
Lessons From a Recovered P0rn Addict
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Join my journey in an unfiltered, unedited update on personal life, business and a lesson of the week. This is Raw Dog Volume 3. 0:00 Intro 0:20 Holiday Update 1:28 The magic of flying 2:35 Porn Addiction 4:10 Impact on your relationship 5:20 Objectification 6:10 Manifesting Technique Drop a note in the comments! I love hearing from you.
The Hidden Impact of P0rn (Lessons From a Recovered Addict)
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Jeremy Lipkowitz overcame porn addiction and now helps thousands of men, all around the world, escape the grip of porn addiction. This is a fascinating conversation and we cover a lot of ground, including: - The normalisation of porn in society - How it has conditioned our beliefs around intimacy - How it can create an emotional divide between partners - How it affects men and women's performan...
New Season Energy (avoid burnout)
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Chloe Mascord is an Intimacy Coach and host of the Honey Ed podcast, where she shares short episodes PACKED with value on sex and intimacy. Today we receive a free session with Chloe as she kindly coaches us through some of the most common issues she works through with her clients: 0:00 Intro 1:13 How Chloe’s low libido helped her become an intimacy coach 2:05 What causes low libido? 6:20 How t...
A little life update from me.
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  • @jmurphy95
    @jmurphy95 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cheers for another great vid. Happy birthday Nick and also to Zoë coming up, congrats as well on that PR, sounds well earned!

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you!!

  • @dollyG1968
    @dollyG1968 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really worry for young people-the world is getting sick- great chat and this content is needed

  • @RobertWilcox-y5l
    @RobertWilcox-y5l 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video. Thanks.

  • @RobertWilcox-y5l
    @RobertWilcox-y5l 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So they are luring victims into OnlyFans and LoyalFans through TikTok and other platforms. They are luring vulnerable people in and then attempting to ruin them financially. OnlyFans and LoyalFans should be banned.

  • @RobertWilcox-y5l
    @RobertWilcox-y5l 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Women are taking advantage of men in this industry. Not the reverse.

  • @RobertWilcox-y5l
    @RobertWilcox-y5l 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    OnlyFans girls are predators.

  • @cooper425
    @cooper425 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Has her an account and makes her boyfriend pay

  • @nikitadavies4426
    @nikitadavies4426 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bro is dead 😂😂😂😂😂❤

  • @adambuss654
    @adambuss654 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's rude to the bar tenders to not finish the drinks, what have they done?

  • @alexchargerclips
    @alexchargerclips หลายเดือนก่อน

    Maybe dont shame onlyfans creators?

  • @jordyngilyard2319
    @jordyngilyard2319 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'd feel so uncomfortable doing this with my boyfriend. I'd be blushing and laughing weirdly. Does doing this draw couples together?

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha! I would say it's drawn us together but Zo might have other ideas 😂

  • @annholt1087
    @annholt1087 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's says unfiltered so I'm not risking it!!!!!

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unfiltered is good in this case (unlike Sydney's water)

  • @augustbutterfly
    @augustbutterfly หลายเดือนก่อน

    Harsh reality about how a 9-5 FUGGING SUCKS and totally absolutely DESTROYED ME.

  • @NickSlater
    @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'd love to hear if anything came up for you watching this! - N

  • @jmurphy95
    @jmurphy95 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What about cases where an ick is a first step towards a genuine red flag? That intuitive reflex based on dating experience isn't discussed much.

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great point! The challenge is distinguishing between self-sabotage and genuine warning signs. Trust your gut, but take time to reflect before reacting.

  • @davecharlie0
    @davecharlie0 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "It's easy to get in - It's hard to get out." -Gordon Gekko 24:57

    • @davecharlie0
      @davecharlie0 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Socratic method? 32:49

  • @paulinebarth8
    @paulinebarth8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! So much to like about that episode, Nick & Zo. Well done! Love the transparency & honesty. I am also at the stage where I have worked a lot on myself, and hope to attract someone with the same energy at some point who is also super mature and open with their emotional journey & feelings. Good to see people like you exist out there! I am moving to Sydney soon from London so I can only hope to find my own Ausie out there too & join the club 😅 (if you read this comment, it might be you haha)

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for the kind words! Love hearing that you’re on a similar journey-it really makes the hard work worth it. Sydney has a really active and social lifestyle, so I’m sure you’ll find your match out here! Best of luck with the move from London, and maybe we’ll cross paths! - Nick and Zoe

    • @paulinebarth8
      @paulinebarth8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you both ❤ See you out there in Bondi 😅

  • @sibongiletoni641
    @sibongiletoni641 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Big love to you both. So refreshing to watch this episode. And Zo definitely needs to come back.

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching us be idiots, so glad you enjoyed the ep! Much love x

  • @tictactoedias1908
    @tictactoedias1908 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can relate to this 100% , so much trauma for this poor guy 😢

  • @petraszebedy5219
    @petraszebedy5219 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching your video was truly wonderful. Seeing the happiness, love, humor, and harmony between you two was incredible. It reminded me that genuine, healthy relationships do still exist. I recently left a two-year abusive relationship, and it’s been a challenging time for me. Your video, however, reassured me that I shouldn’t give up on finding love. It gave me hope that I, too, can find a wonderful partner like you, Nick, and be in a healthy, harmonious and happy relationship someday. Your love story has inspired me to keep believing and to remain hopeful for my own future. Thank you for giving me that hope and reminding me that true happiness is possible.🙏🏼🤍 If it matters I would also love to see Zoë in the show more often. She’s amazing too.🥰

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much for your kind words! I’m really touched that the video gave you hope, especially after what you've been through. You deserve a healthy, loving relationship, and I’m sure you’ll find it when the time is right. I’ll also let Zoë know you’d love to see more of her too! Sending you lots of positivity on your journey 🫶🏼

    • @petraszebedy5219
      @petraszebedy5219 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, you actually replied! Your kind words really meant a lot to me. Thank you so much! By the way, it’s not true that no one watches the video. I did🤪, and over 600 people have already watched it in less than 20 hours.☺️You are truly a special person, and Zoë is sooo wonderful too. I’m sure you will achieve great success on this platform very soon. I won’t keep you any longer. Love you both, and thank you for your time!🫶🏼

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@petraszebedy5219 You're lovely, thank you!

  • @MoMo-vo6xw
    @MoMo-vo6xw หลายเดือนก่อน

    Randomly stumbled upon your chanel. What a delight it was to watch you guys discuss in such a calm and mature way. Can`t wait to see Zo back on the show hahahahah

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome! And thank you for watching!

  • @anastasiaialova2082
    @anastasiaialova2082 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Enjoyed it a lot! Thank you, guys! You’re an inspiring couple.

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love it. Thanks for watching 🫶

  • @annholt1087
    @annholt1087 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this NIck.......found a good one xxxx (needed an English chick)

  • @NickSlater
    @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who wants Zo back on the sho?

  • @sophiehotchin8378
    @sophiehotchin8378 หลายเดือนก่อน

    BIG LOVE FOR MY FAVES!! We need more couples content please ❤

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'll try and get her back! (She's demanding lots of money)

  • @DonnaBlissVLOGS
    @DonnaBlissVLOGS 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ thumbnail!

  • @NickSlater
    @NickSlater 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Daydreaming about Aperol's. Please lemme if you have any tips on dealing with a travel comedown x

  • @ali.iswell
    @ali.iswell 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As an Onlyfans creator and Mother of Daughters, I both understand and am puzzled by this. Onlyfans is not a gateway drug. There are many other mainstream apps that target younger audiences directly. Porn and the internet have always been around, and blaming the platform itself overlooks the individual choices involved.

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater หลายเดือนก่อน

      First off, internet porn has only been easily accessible for the past 15-20 years, and we’re already seeing the harm it’s causing to intimacy, relationships, and especially teenage boys. I believe Victoria’s point about gateway activities is that OnlyFans offers a simple entry for young women into sex work, which often leads to other forms of sex work down the line.

  • @sourandbitter3062
    @sourandbitter3062 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wouldn't trust you.

  • @adamm.6595
    @adamm.6595 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why is there the belief that women want the best for other women? Multiple girlfriends and an ex marriage, women hate other happy women, or older women hate younger women. And they will do whatever they can to destroy them.

  • @Blondiee777
    @Blondiee777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi there! I'm a UK based Independent Escort! I've never ventured into only fans as it is Porn in my head and just not my forte. However when she says about "selling your body" there are plenty out there who sleep with men for free. Then they end up pregnant and usually as a Single Mother... I may sell sex but I sure don't sleep about and I've never ever had unsafe sex (working or in personal life). So I think she and maybe others could do with reminding Sex Work is simply just work to a lot of us. And many Sex Workers are able to lead normal lives away from work. It's not always the case no. But women choosing Sex Work aren't always the vulnerable traumatized victims we get made out to be.

  • @RomanRadu-ln7xp
    @RomanRadu-ln7xp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It was an interesting conversation! I would like to learn something similar about BongaCams. This platform seems to be trending at the moment

  • @metatron478
    @metatron478 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God this is my hell

  • @kunzklingsor9156
    @kunzklingsor9156 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That whole idea to make a living is a dark place, sunken to the pits of a moribund society. Take a seat and watch your life rot in dying colors.

  • @MakeMoney.PassiveIncome.
    @MakeMoney.PassiveIncome. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @johnkelly1198
    @johnkelly1198 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a hag

  • @susanwilliams7814
    @susanwilliams7814 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I live in South Africa and women who are on OF are making top dollar because our currency is the Rand. The USD is much stronger. Unfortunately I know people on OF and they have OF stickers on their cars etc. One of them is my daughter. She's 25 and like myself she is said to be beautiful. Porn was legalised in South Africa in the early 90's. I have been dealing with porn since I was 22. In the old days boys would bunk school and watch blue movies. I want OF banned. Men and women can be sex addicts. I was married to 2. Men or boys act out their fantasies sometimes and turn to rape. My daughter is a prodigal daughter. However on earth would my daughter, a molested child by her own biological father do such. However it's common for girls to view themselves as sexual objects,they lose faith in God saying that if God existed how could this happen to me. At least my daughter isn't standing on a corner somewhere. However that's not the point. She's a prostitute and a pimp as is the guy she's shacked up with who is 27 years older than her. I'm 51 and he's 52 and we will all be turning another year older in November and December this year.😢😢😢

  • @TrinaGallo
    @TrinaGallo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your experience so eloquently, honestly, and it really resonated with me! I admire your bravery, intelligence, etc. Mr. Slater I REALLY like the way you interviewed her. It was brilliant. I REALLY LIKE your vibe. With ❤from NYC

  • @TrinaGallo
    @TrinaGallo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have sooooo much in common with you, Victoria (albeit I’m into academia 🤓 You're an intelligent woman too! I got so much from you & thanks for sharing it. I really admire your bravery and eloquence.

  • @tammywelsh8299
    @tammywelsh8299 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    since majority subscribers are around 29 and married ,wonder if it has an emotional affect on the husband 's wives and help created #dirty 30's (lawyers refrance terms) where is becoming a more normal age 30yr olds women are having mental breakdowns and , end up leaving their marriages

  • @aalucyaf-zp5ut
    @aalucyaf-zp5ut 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It took her a moment of realization by thinking of her niece to "humanize them"? Jeez, she probably saw illegal things which made her leave before getting in trouble. She has absolutely no morals. Sorry, cry me a river.

  • @adamh5466
    @adamh5466 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Victoria and Nick. What a great interview with such valuable insights. you are absolutely right Victoria and my hat is off to you. You are very courageous and thank you for protecting our young girls.

  • @maksbaumgart8681
    @maksbaumgart8681 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I definitely would love to hear more about Your point of view on manifestation. Using it myself for 5 years now and still I think I have more to develop in that matter. Also really like this 10 minutes brief videos, keep it that way! 💪

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sweet! I’ll consider doing some more content on it. Glad you like this format!! I enjoy doing thek

  • @jmurphy95
    @jmurphy95 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have a great flight and an awesome trip!

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @DonnaBlissVLOGS
    @DonnaBlissVLOGS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is like a question of “which religion is THE RELIGION”..😂 or is emotional cheating CHEATING??? Love your podcasts..mc donalds hamburgers are deadlier in my opinion.😂

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha yeah a complicated question for sure. Thank you!

  • @andrewmeiklem5098
    @andrewmeiklem5098 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    everybody watches it. if you ban your partner from watching, then it will be done behind ones back. its natural and normal and healthy. emotional maturity is key.

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for your comment 👍🏼

  • @amy_d0408
    @amy_d0408 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing all of this with us, Nick. Very happy that you unlocked your sleeping issues. You should come to Paris also !!!!!! Hahaha. Paris is amazing ❤ Amy

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hanks Amy! I'm actually heading to Paris in a couple of weeks 🙊

  • @AG-sd9lt
    @AG-sd9lt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this conversation! We need these topics to get in front of those young kids - but the algo isn't going to feed it to them. How can we get people outside of those bubbles to hear the other perspectives?

  • @jmurphy95
    @jmurphy95 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congrats on that partnership, you've put in a lot of hard work and it's great to see it paying off for you, well deserved! Enjoy that break!

    • @NickSlater
      @NickSlater 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much, always appreciate you support :)

  • @priyaanand9342
    @priyaanand9342 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such an important conversation! Thanks, Nick and Victoria, for raising awareness around this subject. Eye-opening. I had no idea it was a women runned organization, and to be honest I did not really know what only fans was although I had an intutive sense about it. Disturbing, scary, and eye-opening at the same time. Especially enjoyed your take on building self work and self-esteem.