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Well summarized, dear Shane...has been a most painful process here (and not finished)...and you are so right - the bottom line is fear of abandonment and eventually death....because there is no replacement (cannot sustain friendships either with this going on...)

Look at repressed anger and grief also (see Dr. John Sarno). I have healed from Fibromyalgia from getting out of the pain-fear cycle, working on self compassion and mindfulness, lots of somatic exercises (Feldenkrais) and TONS of work on emotional repression, parts work, somatic experiencing etc. Discharging the sympathetic energy (repressed survival energy from fight and flight) through sympathetic discharge--somatic anger exercises and other ways to discharge this energy.

Stopped trying to repair family relationships vid. I went no contact with my family cause of the same reasons. My mother died in '09 and my narcissistic Dad in '21. My sisters are toxic and have done zero emotional work. They are still on the hamster wheel. I really wanted to be a close family and have close relationships but they just didn't want it. I used to feel sad about it but I have no control over these adult women. If they don't want to be a sister or close, so be it. I accept what is and don't force it. I am happy, I know who I am, and try to be loving, caring, and supporting to my teenage son. As always, Shane, you validate me and it is much appreciated. Thank you SF. : D

Ultimately surrendering to Gods will for us is the real healing to all our fears and anxieties etc.. Much Love ❤️

Thank you, Shane 🕊🌅

Mad Respect for You! Thank you for the videos ❤️

That's the story of J.C. and Nicodemus. That's what it is meant.

Let There Be Light ⛈️

all of this is spot on. man its like life is asking me to take a leap forward with this stuff, and to trust the process. total pendulum swing

Thats how they do it, enslave you to them and make sure you dont trust anybody else

That was hard to hear

Help, I'm drowning in other people's horse shit

How risky it is said to be, to be true to ourselves. How we are taught to not do that. Or lose ourselves and collapse into neediness. When all there truly is is this heart in each moment, human, humble, mortal, passionate and true. Ouch and Namaste 😂 Big up from the UK ❤

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Recently came across you and i subscribed, thank you for sharing your thoughts and perspectives. just curious, what is the ring finger pinching thing you do and what does it mean? I've seen you do that in another video also. Please be honest, just want to know why you do that.

Insecure people are stuck vid ... Thank you Shane for validating what I've gone through and how I've been living. Since shedding the insecure child or integrating it into my adult self, it released all my shame and unworthiness I was carrying. It's hard work going inward but the payoff is huge. For empaths, I think it's called the "dark night of the soul." Where your ego slowly dissolves. You're basically re-navigating the world with your new and awakened consciousness. The experience opened a secure world for me where I feel connected, safe, and loved. I no longer seek my happiness from others, I fill my cup daily with love and goodness and bring that into the world. It felt natural to just let things be and to not worry about things I had no control over, to not mentally attach to anything negative, to not compare or judge others; it's a totally freeing life style that is drama free. Accepting what is and living in the present moment is so crucial for happiness.

Thank you!

😂😂 bs man that's a lie fam. If that was the case why is doing everything opposite of what im trying to do. Fam how will heal when everything I try fail? Stop the lying bro.

That was great,thank you very much,really🙏

This was a great video, very clear and to the point. Thank you!

This resonates so much with my experience. Have also had the pleasure of experiencing Mother Ayahuasca. I've sought out so much within romantic and intimate relationships that feel unmet in my own life. Whew. That hits. Deep feeler and seeker. It's refreshing to hear it come out of your mouth. Thanks for sharing!!

Thank you Shane

Thank you, Shane ❤️

Legit. What you refer to as wanting to prove something ends up showing up on both left and right arms, which translates to the work we do to earn a living. Hence why in the holy book it is written that if the left arm would stop you from making heaven cut it off. Also written hide your actions from each arm because they are competing to prove a point. As the left arm is the feminine whilst the right arm is the masculine (father)

I list for booze, cheeseburgers and whores over the age of 70. I’m a slave.

I'm trying to wrap my head round this info. So it's to be aware of ourselves? I feel I have low self esteem from childhood, wrong enviroments etc

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Its not deliberate. The energy gets stuck in the brain and body ❤

there is no guilt and shame it all fake emotions that have no base STOP POLLUTING PEOPLE MIND

thank you for sharing. this helps me rn 🙏👽🫶

I cannot comprehend how is it possible that your channel is so underrated, whilst there are pseudo gurus like Hamza Ahmed who has over 2 million subscribers who is just waffling and repeating constantly same things. I noticed that usually most valueable channels are not popular on TH-cam and Hamza for example who is less competent and smart than you is famous in this niche because he has great editing and oratory skills, but there is not expertise in his videos, only repeating red pill advice from gurus. Of course I am not going to deny fact that this guy helped a lot of young men, but there are better channels for example yours.

Thank You Shane !

Gracias por el esfuerzo que realiza.

Sí, así es. Gracias.

You are the real deal my guy. I'm heading in this direction more. I can feel your integrity. I'm shifting through a process of individuation and becoming more embodied and grounded. Spent years with chronic pain stemming self abandonment, neglect and enmeshement was at the root.

One of the hugest animal sacrifice industries that is alive and well in the United States is the Jews participating in Kaporos 😭

When Ray Comfort, (who I do love some of his street outreach even though he is a huge carnist and pushes for eating animal & even makes up things about the Bible saying Jesus ate butter which is ridiculous) when he does his outreach, he gives out “in and out burger” gift cards to the people he films because as you said lots of Christian organizations are in literal bed with animal Murd3r industries 😢

Ok, empathic elevator. My experience was that "these practices," were never consensual from an early age before I had adult agency. And also that the entities mentioned were present before even then. I've been around a lot of holier than thou and it's just as present in the new age as it is in standard monotheism. My guess is that consciousness healing itself of these wounds is the medicine for the wider culture. In answer to your question with love ❤

Synchronicity in seeing this. Gratitude to you, Sir.

Well done encapsulating the pluroma paradox into a practical dose of truth. Gratitude Sir

God this video was so needed and it also randomly showed up on my suggested main page when I didn't even look up anything related. Crazy how it happened but I saw the title and it jumped at me and wow did I need this. Thank you ❤ you got yourself a new sub.

I loved this title! I'm sure it will make many laugh as I, like many, have always been regarded the lunatic of the family who would consider themselves to be normal! thank you x

11:35 hold your life up on your own, is the where I have been stuck at. This feeling in my heart that it doesnt make sense to keep going this. I can sense there is something else available that I haven't experienced yet. Something more connected, truly secure, supported by something bigger than me.

Uncharted territory is right. I’ve been grieving my parent’s passings for 5 years. Im just now starting to donate the material items of theirs that I’ve been so attached to. It’s incredibly hard to let go and move on.

Incredible timing 👏 👏👏 as recently I've been confronted with the topic of " faith", and basically feeling like I Don't Know How to "Have Faith" and asked for help, and Here you are, Again, for me. I'm learning that it's one thing to say " i have faith" because I'm willing, but it seems like lip service, so I am actively consciously Having/ Practicing Faith/ Belief, by Thoughts, Affirmations & Attitudes and adjusting from habitual fear based thoughts like a broken record to identifying the fearful energy & Flipping it around and choosing faith, which is Much More Expansive, not so limiting or condensed/ contacting... SUPER THANK YOU ❤🙏🏻🏆🎖🏅🥇🤜🎆🤛👏👏👏🦋🙏🏻

Man- kind has assaulted the very nature of the feminine and destroyed her worth, value. In doing this we have rapped the Earth, and women have become victim to their own trauma, creating mother wounds in their children (some).

Maybe some mothers could not attune to themselves. Felt they had to be perfect, felt they were less than. Why because she is a women, and could not rise out of her oppression.

This is very specific and relevant teaching that I haven't found anywhere else. It's helping me stay on track in a very tricky, confusing situation. These videos are like signposts on the road marked "Mission Critical!" ❤👍

Thanks, this explains a lot and validates my experiences

Much appreciated ❤❤❤