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Micromanagers Have Issues With Consent || Dating Tips for Black Women
Dating Tips || Micromanagers Have Issues With Consent || Dating Tips for Black Women
//Summary:
Janelle, a Relationship Coach, observes a pattern between micromanagement in the workplace and issues with consent in dating. She notes that men who are overly aggressive in dating often exhibit micromanagement tendencies in their professional lives, leading to high turnover and strained relationships.
Conversely, individuals who micromanage at work often have personal relationship issues. Janelle advises that understanding these tendencies can help people navigate dating more safely and effectively, as micromanagers may struggle with others' autonomy and consent.
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//About me:
Here we’re sharing videos, making tools, useful resources, tips & tricks, and helpful articles that you need to effectively date after 35.
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Men Are Golddiggers || Dating Advice for Black Women
มุมมอง 54หลายเดือนก่อน
I Saw On TikTok || Men Are Golddiggers || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that the conversation explores the concept of "gold digging" in relationships, highlighting that both men and women engage in it. Men often pursue women for their status and financial stability, while women may date for similar reasons. The discussion emphas...
The Truth About Passport Bros (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
มุมมอง 47หลายเดือนก่อน
Ish I Saw On TikTok || The Truth About Passport Bros (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that offer critiques the phenomenon of "passport bros" - Black men seeking foreign women, often in economically disadvantaged regions, for perceived submissiveness and financial exploitation. Speakers highlight the irony of these ...
The Truth About Passport Bros (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
มุมมอง 31หลายเดือนก่อน
#passportbros I Saw On TikTok || The Truth About Passport Bros (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that offer critiques men who seek foreign women, termed "passport bros," and highlights the cultural and social issues surrounding their behavior. Speakers argue that these men often leave the U.S. due to dissatisfaction...
Avoid Men Who Can't Receive Instruction, Correction, or Feedback || Dating Tips for Black Women
มุมมอง 70หลายเดือนก่อน
Dating Tips || Avoid Men Who Can't Receive Instruction, Correction, or Feedback || Dating Tips for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle emphasizes the importance of receiving instruction, correction, and feedback in maintaining healthy relationships. She observes that men who struggle with these elements are often unhealthy partners or have a history of poor relationships. Instruct...
Men Addressing Men’s Attitudes in Dating (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
มุมมอง 10หลายเดือนก่อน
Ish I Saw On TikTok || Men Addressing Men’s Attitudes in Dating (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that offer conversation centers on the idea that women should seek out provider men who can offer a better life, emphasizing that women bring value by civilizing men and encouraging them to realize their potential. The ...
Men Addressing Men’s Attitudes in Dating (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
มุมมอง 522 หลายเดือนก่อน
Ish I Saw On TikTok || Men Addressing Men’s Attitudes in Dating (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that offer critiques around various negative personality types, emphasizing the importance of avoiding cheap, angry, lonely, skeptical, and scorekeeping individuals. It highlights that women respect resources and that m...
Avoid Men Who Lack Intrinisic Motivation || Dating Tips for Black Women
มุมมอง 92 หลายเดือนก่อน
#intrinsicmotivation Dating Tips || Avoid Men Who Lack Intrinisic Motivation || Dating Tips for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle emphasizes the importance of dating individuals who demonstrate intrinsic motivation. Intrinsic motivation is the drive to engage in activities for personal enjoyment or interest, rather than for external rewards. Janelle's clientele, typically 35 and...
Men with Provider Mindsets (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
มุมมอง 192 หลายเดือนก่อน
#menwithprovidermmindset #providermen #datingtipsforwomen Ish I Saw On TikTok || Men with Provider Mindsets (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that discuss men with provider mindsets from a woman's perspective. The discussion emphasized the importance of identifying a provider mindset in men, particularly for women s...
Men with Provider Mindsets (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
มุมมอง 1.4K2 หลายเดือนก่อน
Ish I Saw On TikTok || Men with Provider Mindsets (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that discuss men with provider mindsets. The discussions emphasized the traditional masculine role of being a provider, protector, and leader in relationships. Speakers criticized modern men for not fulfilling these responsibilities,...
Challenges in Dating (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
มุมมอง 203 หลายเดือนก่อน
#challengesindating #datingtipsforwomen Ish I Saw On TikTok || Challenges in Dating (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that discuss challenges in dating. The conversation revolves around the challenges of dating over 40, particularly for those who are child-free. Key points include the limited pool of suitable partne...
Backburner Blues: Understanding and Overcoming Paperclipping
มุมมอง 113 หลายเดือนก่อน
#datingtrends #paperclipping Blogs & Articles || Backburner Blues: Understanding and Overcoming Paperclipping || Dating Tips For Single Black Women //Original Article: www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/a-funny-bone-to-pick/202405/how-to-deal-with-paperclipping-a-toxic-dating-trend //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle discusses the dating trend of "paperclipping" • Paper clipping is a toxic datin...
Challenges in Dating (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
มุมมอง 203 หลายเดือนก่อน
#challengesindating #datingtipsforwomen Ish I Saw On TikTok || Challenges in Dating (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that discuss challenges in dating, such as: • Dating someone with children can lead to unexpected responsibilities and role changes. • Anxious attachment styles can negatively impact dating experienc...
Meet/Date A Man At His Finish Line || Dating Tips for Black Women
มุมมอง 103 หลายเดือนก่อน
#menatthefinishline Dating Tips || Meet/Date A Man At His Finish Line || Dating Tips for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle advises women to meet men at their "finish line" rather than their "starting line." She emphasizes that this does not mean perfection or meeting men at the end of their lives. Instead, she targets professional women aged 35 and above, urging them to seek par...
Are You Dating a Man Who Thinks Legality is Morality? WATCH OUT for These Red Flags? || Dating Tips
มุมมอง 193 หลายเดือนก่อน
Are You Dating a Man Who Thinks Legality is Morality? WATCH OUT for These Red Flags? || Dating Tips
Signs He's Jealous of You (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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Signs He's Jealous of You (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
From Online Hate to Policy Change: UK's Crackdown on Misogyny as Extremist Threat || Dating Tips
มุมมอง 473 หลายเดือนก่อน
From Online Hate to Policy Change: UK's Crackdown on Misogyny as Extremist Threat || Dating Tips
Signs He's Jealous of You (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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Signs He's Jealous of You (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
Why You Should Be CAUTIOUS of Men Who Want to 'Build with You' || Dating Tips for Single Black Women
มุมมอง 233 หลายเดือนก่อน
Why You Should Be CAUTIOUS of Men Who Want to 'Build with You' || Dating Tips for Single Black Women
He Doesn't Find You Attrative (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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He Doesn't Find You Attrative (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
Debating Kink in Love: Is It Worth Sacrificing for Relationship Harmony? || Relationships on Reddit
มุมมอง 83 หลายเดือนก่อน
Debating Kink in Love: Is It Worth Sacrificing for Relationship Harmony? || Relationships on Reddit
He Doesn't Find You Attrative (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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He Doesn't Find You Attrative (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
Never Give A Man Access To Your Money || Dating Tips for Single Black Women 35+
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Never Give A Man Access To Your Money || Dating Tips for Single Black Women 35
Low Functioning Men (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women || Ish I Saw on TikTok
มุมมอง 464 หลายเดือนก่อน
Low Functioning Men (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women || Ish I Saw on TikTok
5 Ways BOYSOBER is Revolutionizing Modern Dating for Women || Dating Tips For Single Black Women
มุมมอง 114 หลายเดือนก่อน
5 Ways BOYSOBER is Revolutionizing Modern Dating for Women || Dating Tips For Single Black Women
Low Functioning Men (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women || Ish I Saw on TikTok
มุมมอง 1024 หลายเดือนก่อน
Low Functioning Men (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women || Ish I Saw on TikTok
Never Settle: You'll Get Less Than You Settled For! || Dating Tips for Single Black Women 35+
มุมมอง 114 หลายเดือนก่อน
Never Settle: You'll Get Less Than You Settled For! || Dating Tips for Single Black Women 35
Early/1st Date Red Flags (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women || Ish I Saw on TikTok
มุมมอง 184 หลายเดือนก่อน
Early/1st Date Red Flags (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women || Ish I Saw on TikTok
Did I RUIN Our Big Day by Saying NO to Vows? || Relationships on Reddit
มุมมอง 204 หลายเดือนก่อน
Did I RUIN Our Big Day by Saying NO to Vows? || Relationships on Reddit

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  • @Surlavie
    @Surlavie 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think that makes sense. As I read the title, it automatically clicked for me about someone I know. It’s the same urge to control showing up in another way.

  • @DloJones
    @DloJones หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another black feminist channel. Yeah just scissor each other since you can't keep a man.

  • @kameshab3398
    @kameshab3398 หลายเดือนก่อน

    90% of them are DL🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @AmyianaRamira
      @AmyianaRamira วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm starting to believe this. Especially the abusive ones who court you just to tell you they never wanted to be in a relationship, or get married. He said he wanted kids though. Weird

  • @angelgreen9945
    @angelgreen9945 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤

  • @angelgreen9945
    @angelgreen9945 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 17:46 Just My Thoughts • 22:18 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 19:53 Just My Thoughts • 24:49 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 25:50 Just My Thoughts • 29:26 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 20:15 Just My Thoughts • 23:30 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 16:35 Just My Thoughts • 22:34 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Time Stamps: • 0:00 - Intro • 0:49 - Main Article • 6:48 - Question for Reflection/Coaching Questions • 11:14 - Just My Thoughts • 15:40 - Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 18:39 Just My Thoughts • 23:26 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:09 TikToks • 23:58 Just My Thoughts • 31:18 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Time Stamps: • 0:00 - Intro • 0:49 - Main Article • 4:07 - Question for Reflection/Coaching Questions • 7:27 - Just My Thoughts • 14:17 - Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 11:56 Just My Thoughts • 19:59 Outro

  • @GreekYogurtGranola
    @GreekYogurtGranola 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Men always tell on their self

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 9:34 Just My Thoughts • 13:35 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:01 Reddit Post & Responses • 6:08 Green Flags & Red Flags • 11:32 Coaching Questions • 16:13 Just My Thoughts • 24:05 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 16:44 Just My Thoughts • 21:08 Outro

  • @SheilaGibson-s9h
    @SheilaGibson-s9h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He keeps in touch with the family and the step kids

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:09 TikToks • 37:20 Just My Thoughts • 43:54 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Time Stamps: • 0:00 - Intro • 0:49 - Main Article • 7:57 - Question for Reflection/Coaching Questions • 9:28 - Just My Thoughts • 15:19 - Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 34:23 Just My Thoughts • 39:39 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 22:26 Just My Thoughts • 25:19 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:01 Reddit Post & Responses • 8:15 Green Flags & Red Flags • 13:19 Coaching Questions • 19:43 Just My Thoughts • 23: 54 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 31:32 Just My Thoughts • 34:41 Outro

  • @carolynshank8961
    @carolynshank8961 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Go and look at opl podcast The man that cheated on his wife with other men and all of the men that he slept with were married and he never had sex with the same man twice so that go's to show you all men are closed Bisexual

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 18:58 Just My Thoughts • 23:36 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Time Stamps: • 0:00 - Intro • 0:49 - Main Article • 8:55 - Question for Reflection/Coaching Questions • 18:07 - Just My Thoughts • 23:44 - Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 17:20 Just My Thoughts • 21:48 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 40:21 Just My Thoughts • 45:43 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:08 TikToks • 25:54 Just My Thoughts • 30:37 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:09 TikToks • 14:13 Just My Thoughts • 16:54 Outro

  • @Reality-SoldierInstagram
    @Reality-SoldierInstagram 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ineed more examples

  • @denish1
    @denish1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this upload! What if we primarily go 50/50 but I make more (I haven't disclosed my salary to him but he's mentioned his. I'm also sure I have more expenses since my mom and nephew lives with me and I'm the head of my household), and sometimes he pays for the whole bill. What are your thoughts on this?

    • @thesuccessfulinvisible
      @thesuccessfulinvisible 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You shouldn't be dating a man who isn't paying for dates. It's not about money per se, it's about courtship. Not having a requirement for a man to court you and invest in you in the form of dates, etc. -- especially at the early stages, is very unwise. You are going to get a partner who treats you like a "bro". Grown men don't play games and grown women don't tolerate them. Level up the places you socialize and you will attract a man with a different tax bracket and mindset.

  • @Shaquiah
    @Shaquiah 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Since you got em on bro, Arch ya back" 😭😭😭

  • @nasheofficial
    @nasheofficial 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like only women can stop this problem. Especially if it’s safety we are talking about. I feel like people like diddy wouldn’t exist if women start letting men be bisexual without it taking from their masculinity. Coz these men are chasing the status that comes with being a straight man. When lesbians kiss it never takes away from their femininity but two guys kissing immediately emasculates them. These double standards are the problem. At least in my little opinion

  • @nasheofficial
    @nasheofficial 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like the guy who gave advice to gay people who have to deal with these homophobic DLs. Coz the DLs always want to single out gay guys, always saying no homo when it’s unnecessary. Makes it hard for social mobility when you are gay. Which is what also leads to this gay loneliness epidemic, coz a lot of these gays are doing risky shit just to fill a hole that can only be filled with human connection not a hook up

  • @kaygeeRandomness
    @kaygeeRandomness 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It scary out here in the dating world

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:09 TikToks • 18:49 Just My Thoughts • 23:45 Outro

  • @notimportant7495
    @notimportant7495 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    most women are not likeable.... and i mean that as people

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Time Stamps: • 0:00 - Intro • 0:49 - Main Article • 5:39 - Question for Reflection/Coaching Questions • 14:38 - Just My Thoughts • 21:18 - Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Time Stamps: • 0:00 - Intro • 0:49 - Main Article • 7:35 - Question for Reflection/Coaching Questions • 15:08 - Just My Thoughts • 23:19 - Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Time Stamps: • 0:00 - Intro • 0:49 - Main Article • 6:40 - Question for Reflection/Coaching Questions • 18:36 - Just My Thoughts • 22:36 - Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
    @thesuccessfulinvisible 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 0:48 Reddit Post & Responses • 9:46 Green Flags • 13:09 Reg Flags • 16:02 Coaching Questions • 23:10 Just My Thoughts • 30:43 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
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    //Time Stamps: • 0:00 - Intro • 0:49 - Main Article • 13:48 - Question for Reflection/Coaching Questions • 29:03 - Just My Thoughts • 38:24 - Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
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    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 0:48 Reddit Post & Responses • 11:27 Green Flags • 13:42 Reg Flags • 17:32 Coaching Questions • 29:57 Just My Thoughts • 40:03 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
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    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:09 TikToks • 2:35 Just My Thoughts • 8:21 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
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    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:09 TikToks • 19:46 Just My Thoughts • 23:29 Outro

  • @thesuccessfulinvisible
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    //Timestamps: • 0:00 Intro • 1:09 TikToks • 11:28 Just My Thoughts • 17:19 Outro