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How To Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy
Are you tired of battling that inner critic, feeling stuck in self-doubt, and holding yourself back from the life you deserve? It's time to rewrite your narrative.
This isn’t about chasing perfection or becoming someone else-it’s about learning how to silence self-sabotage and become your biggest supporter. 🦋
✨ What You’ll Learn in This Video:
- How to recognize and challenge that critical voice in your head.
- The power of embracing imperfection and progress over perfection.
- Why comparing yourself to others steals your joy-and how to stop.
- Practical steps to build self-kindness and boost confidence.
- Simple ways to create positive systems that support your growth.
- A mindset shift that turns failure into feedback for success.
Every step is designed to help you reclaim your self-worth, build resilience, and take charge of your happiness. This is your journey to becoming the confident, capable person you’ve always been meant to be. 🌟
📌 TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 Intro
0:30 Step 1: Identify the Voice in Your Head
0:58 Step 2: Challenge Your Negative Thoughts
1:26 Step 3: Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
1:53 Step 4: Embrace Imperfection
2:16 Step 5: Build a System of Self-Kindness
2:43 Step 6: Surround Yourself with Positivity
3:06 Step 7: Take Small, Consistent Action
3:26 Step 8: Remember, You’re a Work in Progress
3:43 Step 9: Practice Gratitude Daily
4:13 Step 10: Visualize Your Best Self
4:44 Step 11: Build a 'Success Bank'
5:08 Bonus: Turn Failure into Feedback
5:32 Outro
If this video inspires you, hit LIKE and SUBSCRIBE for more tips on building confidence and living intentionally. Let’s grow together and create a life we’re proud of. 💖
🎶 Background Music:
@dani_hz
@itsjihoony
📢 DISCLAIMER:
I do not own any music used in this video. No copyright infringement is intended.
© All credits go to the rightful owners.
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how to stop self-doubt
building confidence tips
embrace imperfection
overcoming fear of failure
growth mindset tips
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intentional living 2025
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  • @paryfaraj3561
    @paryfaraj3561 58 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    I found ur Chanel a few days I go. I wish I did sooner they’re so inspiring and giving guidelines to follow like giving examples.thank u so much. Can u pls also post shorts?

  • @TikaaniWhite-bc5tf
    @TikaaniWhite-bc5tf วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are a lifesaver. You are percet. Thanks for this video! 🩷❤💙

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Glad it helped!

  • @siddhisharma5115
    @siddhisharma5115 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But what if I'm worried someone will READ my journal ??

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You can keep it in a safe place or use a password-protected digital journal for privacy

  • @Xunayana034
    @Xunayana034 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is so helpful!! Thank you for the motivation❤

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @YashviPatel-j4w
    @YashviPatel-j4w 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Rice mask actually makes my skin glow☆

  • @gurwindersingh1294
    @gurwindersingh1294 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hmm ,hi I am thinking that your video is very good and it need more recognition.

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you!

  • @LatteCreamy
    @LatteCreamy 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why you videos are so different and unique from others ❤❤❤

  • @Tbvvhhb
    @Tbvvhhb 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why didn't I found this earlier

  • @JiminJagiya
    @JiminJagiya 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It was really helpful! 💕 Tyy

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @mieannefilm_
    @mieannefilm_ 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love the way you motivate without the need to spend a ton of things just to start, thank you so much for empowering us < 3

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are so welcome!

  • @u.k.8
    @u.k.8 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you ❤

  • @Justt_akshita
    @Justt_akshita 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You're such a pleasure to meet me, I love the timing of universe! You are a pure gem and I love you💗😁 keep growing and your hardwork will pay off for sure, always love you💗😁

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks🤭

    • @Justt_akshita
      @Justt_akshita 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@S3lfL0v3Er4 love ya alwayss<3!!

  • @dreamers24hrs
    @dreamers24hrs 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    bestie can u tell me how did u add voice to this video?

    • @dreamers24hrs
      @dreamers24hrs 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Can u plz tell??

  • @lioo.1
    @lioo.1 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    GIRL THIS IS LIKE SO HELPFUL AND UNDERRATED, WHY WERENT YOU ON MY FYP THIS WHOLE TIME!!!

  • @moewai06
    @moewai06 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When is ur birthday?

  • @NlyaBolden
    @NlyaBolden 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh my God, I’m first❤❤❤

  • @moewai06
    @moewai06 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why is all ur video all i need ❤😍😘💖

  • @selvarani2012
    @selvarani2012 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Its too great i was so confused on how to start 2025 and it helped me so much .! Thanks girly🎀🥂

  • @SaraLimbu-v6k
    @SaraLimbu-v6k 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tysm this video is so helpful ❤ new subscriber 🎉 lots of love 💗💗✨

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Welcome!!

  • @Theberries383
    @Theberries383 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yess!!! This is the reall way!!

  • @skinnyunicorn9977
    @skinnyunicorn9977 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    OMG gurl ur the best why r u so underratedddd?

  • @Misriya551
    @Misriya551 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why she only have 634 subscribers 😢she was so helpful 🎀♥️

  • @Lavender.3713
    @Lavender.3713 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Im subscribing..thats a great video..ill keep in my playlist so that i stay motivated throughout the next year..but im sure next year is also going to be filled with challanges..but ill come through it❤

  • @cheruiyot5018
    @cheruiyot5018 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    𝕃𝕠𝕧𝕖 𝕞𝕖 𝕒𝕘𝕒𝕚𝕟 𝕓𝕪 𝕜𝕚𝕞 𝕥𝕒𝕖𝕙𝕪𝕦𝕟𝕘 💜

  • @TadiwaPhiri-q1q
    @TadiwaPhiri-q1q 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have been trying to be that girl for 2 years i can' t find a way to do it i try to be perfect but i can't and this helps alot

  • @Normal_girlxx
    @Normal_girlxx 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    PLS GET THIS GIRL MORE SUBS

  • @Asthetic_Aaru_
    @Asthetic_Aaru_ 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tyy!

  • @trish5855
    @trish5855 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gosh u r soo underatted U gave the most useful advice ❤ I m really gratefull i watch this video 😳

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @Yura2005Dury
    @Yura2005Dury 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    realistic! i like it, i like u :3

  • @Munachiodum-b9d
    @Munachiodum-b9d 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    All this is impossible if u have siblings....

  • @SaturnSaturn-777
    @SaturnSaturn-777 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    New subscriber 🎉🎉🎉💜 Lots of love for you 💜

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yay! Thank you!

  • @nevilnishantha2486
    @nevilnishantha2486 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It is really called love yourself 🫀💖🤍

  • @Quranlover123
    @Quranlover123 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How u edit

  • @BROWN.PEPPER
    @BROWN.PEPPER 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    here before you go viral

  • @star.aesthetic
    @star.aesthetic 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is one of the most beautiful, well-made and most useful videos I've ever seen, and let's take into account that I've seen a lot of them and that I make videos like this too. I'm serious, I write few comments but this comes from the heart, really good work

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @STRAYKIDS4LIFE-j2q
    @STRAYKIDS4LIFE-j2q 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love how realistic she is!!!

  • @Queen_kitten_roses
    @Queen_kitten_roses 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Awwww tysm for this video it's really helpful 💗

  • @jungkook.ot97
    @jungkook.ot97 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Am i the only one who can hear "Love me again" in the background..??

  • @NlyaBolden
    @NlyaBolden 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yayyy🎉

  • @LatteCreamy
    @LatteCreamy 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ohh this is so helpful video.i also liked the video editing ❤❤

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much 💖

  • @Meeriam_.0
    @Meeriam_.0 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi girlyy just one question i have a channel about beaty like you but didn't succeed what can you advice me to do i followed you this last period i don't know what should i do now.Can you help me? ❤

    • @Iamfarhat01
      @Iamfarhat01 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Am also like you

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for reaching out💗For now, I’d recommend focusing on: 📌 Adding eye-catching thumbnails to attract more viewers-use bright colors, clear fonts, and images that represent your content well. 📌 Aiming to post one video a week to stay consistent. 📌 Using a voice-over if you’re comfortable-it can make your videos more engaging. If you need any help or info, feel free to DM me on Instagram and Keep going-you’ve got this💕

    • @Asthetic_Aaru_
      @Asthetic_Aaru_ 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@S3lfL0v3Er4 ❤❤

  • @lilprincess.
    @lilprincess. 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am so glad I saw this because honestly I actually needed an understanding of “that girl” so thanks so much ☺️✌🏻🌷

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @Jyothika_0
    @Jyothika_0 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    omgg tysm... I was trying to glow up, but the problem was that I set really big goals for me. I start off strong. I do it for a week or 2 and then I make "small exceptions" when I'm following it and then slowly, I just forget about it all together. Since it's such a big goal, I feel unmotivated. Although, I knew half of these things I felt the urge to implement it EVEN MORE now that I watched this video. tysm 💕❤❣🥰

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Keep it up

  • @NlyaBolden
    @NlyaBolden 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please post another one. You’re so helpful.❤

    • @S3lfL0v3Er4
      @S3lfL0v3Er4 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Working on it!

    • @NlyaBolden
      @NlyaBolden 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ yay

  • @XIWIK-n6c
    @XIWIK-n6c 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love how ur videos are always soo positive!! :3

  • @gopikrishnakundanapu1724
    @gopikrishnakundanapu1724 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Superr❤😊

  • @ItzKurxmii
    @ItzKurxmii 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tyyy

  • @xGirlyChan
    @xGirlyChan 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this made me cry/teary eye because this speaks to me o(╥﹏╥)o

  • @sezn02
    @sezn02 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As someone has been through a long journey of self improvement, i would 100% recommend this video those people who are just starting or who have been in a same old cycle of improvement. I love how this actually focuses on things that will actually help you and not only glow up but also grow up. You can always define your own version of aesthetic, beauty, self imposed or etc

  • @gemmaewan5062
    @gemmaewan5062 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks